41. If you knew that everyone you know was going to die tomorrow, who would you visit today?
This is a tough question to even think about but not a tough one to answer. I would spend the day with my mom, my brother, and my nephew. Those three people mean the most to me in the entire world and I would want to spend it recreating memories and soaking in all the time left I had with them. (What a morbid question, though! Geesh!)
42. Would you be willing to reduce your life expectancy by 10 years to become extremely attractive or famous?
Absolutely not. I have no inclinations for fame and while I don’t think I would mind being extremely attractive, I’m fairly happy with my mediocre looks now. Sure, I’m not a beauty and YES, I want to lose weight but I want to do it the hard way. I want to put time and effort, sweat and tears into becoming skinnier, because that’s part of the process of healing from the inside out. And honestly? The face that stares back at me every day is mine. She is me. We are one. I wouldn’t want a stranger looking back at me, because I’m pretty good friends with the girl I see now.
43. What is the difference between being alive and truly living?
It’s very simple: being alive is just about breathing and moving through each day. You go through the motions of everyday life, but never fully reach out and grasp all life can be. You don’t even have to be depressed or sad, you could be content with your life. But you’re not really living. You’re not taking risks and challenging yourself and loving every moment you breathe.
Truly living? That’s what we aspire to. It’s when you finish each day, exhausted but happy because you didn’t sit down and let life pass you by. You have taken life by the horns and are throwing yourself out into the Universe. Each day isn’t sunshine and rainbows, but you finish each day knowing you did the best job you could to build the best life you can imagine. It’s going to bed every night and not dreading what awaits you in the morning. It’s waking up and being excited for the “to do” list, even if it’s filled with mundane things. You have a pep in your step because you’ve realized what life is all about and you have captured those moments the rest of us are still wishing on.
44. When is it time to stop calculating risk and rewards, and just go ahead and do what you know is right?
There is a deeply personal answer to each challenge we face, where we have to weigh the risks and rewards. Sometimes, we have to stop thinking so damn much and just start doing. I am a thinker and I weigh the pros and cons on just about every decision I make and it can be as simple as what I want to eat for lunch. When it feels right for you, that’s when you stop thinking. When you know you will be happier you went to that book club or went sky-diving or traveled alone for the first time in your life, you will know it in your heart. And you’ll stop believing in all those cons and risks.
45. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?
I am terrified of making mistakes. Terrified. Even though we learn from mistakes, I always feel that making them makes me inferior. As if there is something wrong with me because I tripped up. I’m slowly beginning to realize that making mistakes is part of the growth progress. We have to make mistakes, we have to fall down. It’s the only way we can grow, it’s the only way we can learn. But there’s something scary about making a mistake. I think that’s why I haven’t tried harder to get published, even small articles or short stories. I am terrified of not being good enough.
The truth is? I’m not experienced enough to be “good enough”. I will get rejected and I will have lots of areas in my writing to improve on. Learning the mistakes I’m making in my writing will only make me a better writer, but it’s scary to lay your heart and soul on the line – your passion – and find out just how many mistakes you’re making.
Are you afraid of making mistakes? Tell me, would you reduce your life expectancy by 10 years to become attractive and/or famous? Why or why not?
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