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A Day in the Life of Eloise and Lila

I told you guys I was going to steal knit read cats hockey’s post idea and take you through a day in Eloise and Lila’s life, and here it is! I recorded their goings-on on Monday. They were probably a little disturbed at the amount of pictures I took of them, but they did it for the good of the blog. Let’s get into it!

7:00 a.m.: My alarm wakes me up and I’m happy to find Eloise sitting on me, so I give her lots of pets before making her move so I can get up. I’m not sure where Lila is – she jumps on and off the bed throughout the night. As I start moving around, Eloise meows at me over and over again. I like to think she’s telling me good morning but she’s probably asking when breakfast will be served. Sigh.

7:30 a.m.: The girls are fed but only eat for a few minutes before they want to take a break. Eloise perches herself on the corner of my desk so she can see what’s going on outside. Lila stretches herself on the couch and takes a nap. I make oatmeal and coffee for breakfast and eat it while reading blogs.

8:05 a.m.: I start my morning routine (skincare, emptying dishwasher, getting dressed, etc.). Lila has relocated to the cat tower for another morning nap. Eloise follows me around while I move around the apartment, meowing at me when I’m not giving her enough attention.

8:45 a.m.: I sit down to start my workday. Lila snoozes in the cat tower while Eloise jumps up on my desk and spends about 15 minutes staring out the window. And then she curls up on the blanket I keep on my desk for a morning nap.

10:00 a.m.: I take a quick break to switch out my laundry and then comment on a few blogs. Eloise is, of course, right next to me. I went into my bedroom to hang up a few shirts I didn’t want to put in the dryer and came out to her sitting on the dining room table, as if to say, “What are we doing now, Mom?” Lila has not left her snoozing post on the cat tower; she’s very much in her own world.

10:30 a.m.: Back to work for me! Lila is still in the cat tower while Ellie is all over the place: staring out the window, sitting on the floor and staring off into space, running around the apartment, etc. She also tries to steal my snack wrapper once I’m finished with it. Eventually, she settles down on the desk blanket for a nap.

11:15 a.m.: I am getting really sleepy and decide to take a nap (normally, I’d feel guilty about doing this but now that I know my daytime exhaustion has a reason behind it, I have come to accept it’s something my body needs right now). Eloise jumps up on the bed with me and proceeds to poke me with one of her claws over and over again, which is not my favorite! Lila also comes up on the bed and she spends the first 30 minutes of the nap with me. At some point, Eloise jumps off the bed and I snooze until I feel her poking me again, ugh. That’s when Lila jumps off the bed.

12:30 p.m.: I finally emerge from my slumber and the girls have taken up different spots in the living room: Eloise on the desk and Lila on a bed. When I go into the kitchen for lunch, I turn around to find both of them on the dining room table, staring at me. It’s treat o’clock, they think! I give them some yum-yums (as we call them in our house) and they gobble them up.

12:45 p.m.: I sit down at my desk with lunch and start working through some tasks. The girls settle down for the start of their afternoon naps! Lila falls asleep on the floor of the living room, nestled on the new cat pad I got her at the Tampa CATstravaganza. Eloise is in her usual place on my desk.

2:00 p.m.: I got up to throw away some trash and use the bathroom, so of course, Eloise had to follow me around while I did that. Lila used the time to relocate to the cat tower again for more afternoon snoozes. Eloise played for a bit in the room (I could hear her meowing, which she does when she’s batting around her favorite catnip toys) and then came back out to her desk blanket for a nap by the window. I get lots of tasks done, like working on June content assignments for our writers and answering emails that come in, while the girls snooze and snooze and snooze. Such a hard life!

I love when her little feetsies poke out like this. 

4:00 p.m.: I log off work a little early since I have my dietician appointment at 4 p.m. The girls continue to snooze the late afternoon away but about halfway through my appointment (which I do virtually), Eloise wakes up and trots over to my dining room table where I’m talking to my dietician. My dietician loves seeing Eloise on camera so we spend some time fawning over her before going back to our convo. Eloise paces back and forth on the camera while rubbing herself against me for a bit, and then she jumps off the table and cleans herself while sitting on the floor in the living room. (Lila, as you may have guessed, has not moved from the cat tower.)

We call this the Eloise Death Glare.

5:10 p.m.: Dietician appointment complete! Eloise joined me for the last 10 minutes and then spent some time on my desk, staring outside. And then the scariest thing happened! Thankfully, Lila had enough foresight to burrow under the couch but Eloise was sitting by the door when someone knocked on the door. Eloise scurried into my bedroom so quickly! Whew, crisis averted.

It was my mom, btw. She needed to take a shower (she’s been shower-less at her house for three weeks now, but the shower should be up and running tomorrow!), so she stopped by before a nail appointment. Eloise doesn’t usually hide from my mom, but she was feeling shy today, I guess. She only came out when my mom was taking a shower.

5:40 p.m.: I feed the girls (although they’re still hiding) and start working on dinner. (I made this and it was delicious!) My mom left a little before 6 p.m. and a few minutes after that, I saw Eloise sitting on the window ledge, grooming herself. I popped dinner in the oven and then sat down at my computer to work on this post. Eloise jumped on the table to rub herself against me a few times, and then jumped off to sit on the desk and stare outside. And then I caught her staring me down from across the room so I told her I loved her, and she meowed and then jumped off the desk and ran over to me for extra love. Gosh, that girl is so sweet!

6:30 p.m.: Apparently, I wasn’t paying enough attention to Eloise. I had been cleaning up the kitchen while I waited for my dinner to finish up and she started meowing loudly at me and then ran into the bedroom. So, I followed her and sat down on the floor so she could rub herself all over me and do front flips over my legs. Our typical routine! Lila is still in hiding. 🙁

6:45 p.m.: Right as I took my dinner out of the oven, Lila appeared! I told her how much I missed her and she said, “Time for more yum-yums?” So I gave them each a small portion of Greenies and then got my dinner ready. I sat on the couch and watched a few episodes of New Girl while I ate dinner. Lila sat beside me, sometimes sticking out her paw to ask for pets and sometimes just sleeping soundly. (Eloise was perched on the desk blanket, snoozing.)

8:00 p.m.: I get up from the couch and start a bubble bath. So relaxing! Eloise comes into the bathroom to ask for pets and then she sits on the ledge of the bathtub for a period of time before leaving to eat dinner. Lila stayed on the couch while I was taking my bath.

8:30 p.m.: I spend a little time working on this post and while I do, Lila jumps up on the dining room table where she proceeds to stick out her paw for pets, bump the top of her head against my hand, rub herself against my laptop screen, lick the screen, and eventually plop herself down on the table for a quick snooze.

8:45 p.m.: I start my nighttime routine (scoop litter boxes, nighttime skincare, tidy apartment, start dishwasher, etc.). Eloise keeps a close eye on me from the desk while Lila stays splayed out on the dining room table without a care in the world.

9:15 p.m.: My mom Facetimes me so I take a break to chat with her. I sit on the couch and eventually, Lila plops down next to me where she shows me her belly and requests lots of pets. I’m not sure where Eloise was at this time.

9:45 p.m.: Back to my nighttime routine! Lila plops down on her cat mat in the living room while Eloise is all over the place. When I was cleaning up the kitchen, she was sitting on the dining room table and staring at me. When I was doing my skincare routine, she was in my room, playing with her favorite catnip toy and meowing like crazy. She ate some dinner, climbed up on the kitchen counters to inspect things, ran around the apartment meowing. She also spent some time in the litter box, which I know because she emerged from my room at one point with litter dust coating her black fur. Oh, girl. She was having a good time by herself, I’ll tell you that.

Cat existential crisis. What’s she thinking here? Wrong answers only. 😉

10:20 p.m.: It’s finally time for me to turn off all the lights and head to bed! The girls join me on the bed here and there. They like to jump on and off throughout the night. Lila jumps up and requests pets by showing me her belly, so I oblige. Eloise finds her way between my legs but is mostly keeping an eye on where Lila is. At one point, they both jump off the bed and chase each other into the living room and then I hear some hissing. Sisterly love!

11:15 p.m.: Lights out for me! I tell the girls good night and that I love them. 🙂

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Comments

  1. Elisabeth

    May 22, 2024 at 9:08 am

    Ummm…I WANT TO BE A CAT.

    Also, that baked spaghetti sounds delish and like a real “crowd pleaser” for my kids. I’ll have to make a note to try that some time.

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 24, 2024 at 7:19 am

      Right? After I read through this post the first time, I was like, “This is SUCH a life of luxury.”

      As someone with the palate of a child, I can tell you the baked spaghetti dish will definitely be a crowd pleaser for your kids!

      Reply
  2. Ally Bean

    May 22, 2024 at 9:24 am

    This is fun. Oh to be a cat in your world! I, too, love to see little feetsies poking out of a cat tower. I like New Girl and you & Lila watching it reminds me to do that too.

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 24, 2024 at 7:20 am

      The little feetsies get me every time!

      I just started rewatching New Girl. I don’t think I ever watched it all the way through!

      Reply
  3. Kyria @ Travel Spot

    May 22, 2024 at 9:28 am

    It sounds like the girls had a wonderful day! From this post, it seems like Eloise is the more needy of the two and Lila is a little more independent; is that true? I love how they ran at the knock at the door; my cat used to do that when the mail carrier came; his ears would go back, he would cower and if they got “too close” he would run to the back of the house. Funny thing is, I once caught him with my Ring getting pets from the mail carrier! So I don’t know what his issue was.

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 24, 2024 at 8:27 am

      What’s funny about your comment is that the girls were having the OPPOSITE days when you commented on this post. On Wednesday, it was Lila who was being needy and needing constant attention while Eloise spent most of the day in my bedroom, curled up on my reading chair. So at least the switch off who gets to be the needy cat, depending on the day! Haha.

      Reply
  4. Birchie

    May 22, 2024 at 1:50 pm

    I can’t get enough of DITL: Pet Edition! Your girls are very busy keeping up with their nap and cuddle schedules.

    I did not know that Greenies made cat treats! Our old dog lived for her nightly Greenie. Note to self, I need to ask our vet when the puppy can start having Greenies.

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 24, 2024 at 8:28 am

      It’s the best kind of DITL, honestly. These pets have it good!

      My mom loves the Whimzees for dog dental treats! I wish they had a cat version, but I’ve yet to find it.

      Reply
  5. Jenny

    May 22, 2024 at 4:43 pm

    I love cats so much!!!!!! They all have such hilarious little personalities. Lila and Eloise have a nice life! i’m sure they love it that you work from home. I love how the “scary moment” was when your mom knocked on the door, ha ha. Yes, that’s very scary in a cat’s world!
    This DITL had everything I expected- naps, treats, staring off into space… all the feline specialties.

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 24, 2024 at 8:29 am

      Cat personalities are the BEST. I never realized how varied they were until I had some of my own.

      The knock on the door – so terrifying! Such trauma for these girls. 😉

      Reply
  6. ccr in MA

    May 22, 2024 at 6:51 pm

    Oh, I love this! I am so glad to have inspired it, because your cats are so cute and they are totally living their best life right now. The feet, sticking out of the cave! Adorable.

    She is clearly thinking, “Does this rainbow go with my fur colors?”

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 24, 2024 at 9:58 am

      Our cats do live their best lives with us, don’t they? It was fun to explore their world for a day. 😉

      Reply
  7. Nicole MacPherson

    May 23, 2024 at 7:59 am

    They have such different personalities! Thanks for walking us through your day!

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 24, 2024 at 9:59 am

      They really do have their own unique personalities and it’s fun to enjoy how different they are!

      Reply
  8. NGS

    May 23, 2024 at 11:45 am

    The next time I’m home all day, I’m going to do this for Zelda. It will mostly be her sleeping in various spots, but that’s what’s great about a cat’s life. You did a nice job of showcasing your cats’ beautiful green eyes – they’re awake much more of the day than my cat is!!

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 27, 2024 at 2:50 pm

      I can’t wait for a day in Zelda’s life!

      Reply
  9. Lisa's Yarns

    May 23, 2024 at 12:51 pm

    Awww they are so cute and I love Eloise’s death glare. That needs to be a gif because that conveys my energy towards some of the people I work with…. A picture is worth a thousand words!

    This post makes me miss having a cat! Oscar is such a “velcro baby” so she would follow us around the house, especially Phil. She will wait outside the bathroom for him!

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 27, 2024 at 2:52 pm

      Sometimes Eloise shoots that death glare on my work meetings and it makes other people laugh a lot! I like to say she’s giving off the energy I wish was professional to give myself. HA.

      Aww, Oscar. Does Oscar still follow Phil around when he’s at his mom’s house?

      Reply
  10. San

    May 25, 2024 at 2:48 pm

    That was a fun recap of a DITL of your cats! I kept thinking… will Lila ever get up and interact? LOL Your cats definitely are both very different.

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 27, 2024 at 9:07 pm

      Lila had a very lazy day on Monday! She’s not always like that – I guess she was feeling the Monday blues!

      Reply
  11. Tobia | craftaliciousme

    May 26, 2024 at 12:18 pm

    Isn’t it amazing how different their personalities are. You should do a podcast episode on pet personalities. I bet there are also tests and studies.

    Reply
    • Stephany

      May 27, 2024 at 9:07 pm

      That is an EXCELLENT idea, Tobia! I added it to our podcast ideas sheet. 🙂

      Reply
  12. kim

    May 29, 2024 at 4:20 pm

    OMG, this was great! Your girls just love you so much!!! So scary when your mom came! LOL.

    That photo with Lila’s feet sticking out of the tower omg I died of cuteness.

    Lila is probably thinking about how social she was going to be the next day 😉

    Reply
  13. Anne

    June 11, 2024 at 7:04 pm

    I think it’s hilarious how much their energy levels differed from each other! Eloise sounds like she was up in your face all day (literally) while Lila couldn’t have cared less. I would love to have a cat, I really would. Sigh. Alas, the allergies would make me not fit for human company, so there’s that. 🙂

    Reply

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