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Categories: Goals

How I Keep Track of My Goals

On my 2026 goals recap post, Engie commented, “So many goals! How do you track all of this? Have you talked about that before?”

I was mentally writing out a very long comment to her as I thought about how to respond and figured, why not make it a blog post? So that’s what you get today!

This probably won’t please many people, but I have to admit that I have relied on ChatGPT a fair bit to help me put together the right habit-tracking system for myself. I have a LOT of goals I’m tracking this year, and I would absolutely fall apart if I didn’t have a system for keeping track of everything.

Here’s how it works:

Daily

Most of the goals I’m tracking are daily habits:

  • Drink water
  • Close my Apple Watch rings
  • Take meds
  • Text one friend
  • Do my morning/evening routines
  • Move my body
  • Get outside

For these goals, I bought a habit tracker pad on Amazon. There are a million of these, but this is the one I have, and I like it a lot!

It’s part of my evening routine to go down the list of daily habits I’m tracking and mark off which ones I did that day. I keep this pad on the breakfast bar that’s visible right when you walk into my apartment, so it’s something I see often. I really enjoy making those checkmarks every evening! And it’s quick – just takes a few seconds at the end of the day.

(I draw a line to separate the weeks, so it’s easier for me to visualize!)

Weekly

I have a list of weekly admin tasks that I typically do every Sunday. On that list are things like “set up my budget for the week” and “refill med organizer.” There’s also the task of “review goals.”

And that’s when I sit down at my laptop with my habit tracker pad and fill out a spreadsheet that ChatGPT made for me. It’s the kind of spreadsheet that is easy to use but way too complicated for me to put together myself. (I am not an Excel whiz!)

The first tab of my spreadsheet is called my “Daily Tracker.” It’s broken down by day (starting April 1st, since I didn’t start this process until Q2), and then I have each goal listed as the column heading and a simple “no/yes” dropdown. The goals on this spreadsheet mirror what’s on my habit tracker pad (although I add a few extra habits to track every month, just for funsies), so I just go down the list and fill in the answers for the week.

The second tab is called “Monthly Goals.” This is where I track goals that don’t need daily attention, like:

  • Send three pieces of snail mail
  • Watch one season of a TV show, listen to one album, and watch one movie
  • Visit a new-to-me spot in my town every month

I click over to this tab every week in case there’s something I can fill in, like visiting a new spot or sending postcards. I also have a list at the bottom where I’m tracking my weekly goal of making plans with friends.

Again, this process does not take very long, and there’s a reason why it’s something I love to do every Sunday, which I’ll take about in a moment.

(I’m happy to give people a copy of my spreadsheet so they can make one of their own!)

Quarterly

I only really look at my numbers and figure out percentages every quarter, when I’m putting together my annual goals recap post. Should I maybe look at this tab more often to see where I can make adjustments? Probably, but I tend to do that during my weekly review session, where I can see which goals have been a struggle more than others.

And that’s when I visit the third tab of the spreadsheet, called “Monthly Dashboard.” It pulls in all of the data from the Daily Tracker tab and shows me how many times I’ve done each habit for the corresponding month. (I’m sure there’s a way I could get the spreadsheet to spit out percentages, but it’s not that much work to figure them out myself.)

So, when you break it down:

  • Daily = checking off boxes on my habit tracker pad
  • Weekly = updating my habit tracker spreadsheet
  • Quarterly = actually analyzing how I’m doing on my goals

My Reward System

I find it very easy to sit down every week and input my goals into my spreadsheet because I set up a reward system for myself! Of course I did. Depending on how many times I marked “yes” on a daily goal that week, I get a reward:

  • 7 days = 2 gold stars
  • 6 days = 1 gold star
  • 5 days = 1/2 gold star
  • 4 days = 1/4 gold star and $5 into savings fund
  • 3 days = $5 into savings fund
  • 2 days = $10 into savings fund
  • 1 day = $15 into savings fund
  • 0 days = $25 into savings fund

I have a legit piece of paper that I use to keep track of my gold stars. Whenever I reach 10 gold stars, I can buy something from my Etsy or Amazon wish list. (My next reward is going to be Bluetooth sleep headphones to make falling asleep to my ASMR videos even more magical and a new luxurious bath pillow.) Sure, these are things I can buy without this reward system, but the reward system makes it so much more delightful!

The savings fund is also fun because I put that money into a “special” savings account where I save up for bigger purchases. I used this fund for my bedroom bench, the two new bookshelves I’ve added to my apartment, new running shoes, and soon… a reading chair!

You might think I wouldn’t be determined to mark off goals if I can put more money into savings the less I do something, but that’s not how my brain works. It makes me sad to part with my money, and I find adding gold stars to my chart to be a lot more rewarding. But if I find myself trying to “beat the system” at some point, I’ll rework things.

Final Thoughts

Is this system unnecessarily complicated? For some people, sure. But it scratches a very specific part of my brain. It is so satisfying to me to physically check things off, collect gold stars, and earn fun rewards. It makes goal-tracking and creating habits a lot more fun, too.

Do you have an unnecessarily complicated goal-tracking system like me?!

Categories: Goals

2026 Goals | Q2 Update

We’re already halfway through the first month of Q3 and I have yet to do a progress report on my 2026 goals after Q2. Let’s get into it!

Take better care of myself

  • Create snack kits for my car, purse, and home, and restock them monthly. This is going really well so far! I don’t really need to restock the kits all too often, although it’s probably time to reorganize what I have and replenish anything that’s been in my snack kits for too long.
  • Drink water every day. (43%) While I am still under 50% completion for this goal, the percentage increased by 25% from Q1 to Q2! That’s a level of improvement I can get behind.
  • Close my Apple Watch rings. (43%) This total only accounts for April since I didn’t wear my watch in May and June after getting my Oura ring. But I’m back to wearing my watch so we’ll see how I do in Q3!
  • Average 7.5 hours of sleep per night. After Q1, my average sleep per night was 6 hours, 44 minutes. And now, my average sleep per night is 7 hours, 9 minutes! Another great improvement.
  • Take medications every morning. (85%) This is on par with what I averaged in Q1, so I haven’t necessarily improved here, but I haven’t gotten worse. There are just some mornings when I get busy and forget about my meds. I always take the important meds like my steroid, Prozac, and folic acid (and I never miss an injection!), but I only count this as complete if I’ve taken all meds, including my supplements.

Get a handle on my health conditions

  • Start tracking my macros (prediabetes). I don’t think I want to do this. I do want to lose weight and get out of prediabetes, but I don’t want to track my macros. Still thinking about this one…
  • Work with my dermatologist to develop a flare/maintenance plan for scalp psoriasis. Complete. I never reached out to my derm about this, but my scalp psoriasis is under control thanks to the meds I’m taking for psoriatic arthritis.
  • Be compliant with my CPAP every month (sleep apnea). (4/12) I’ve been compliant in January, March, April, and June! I hope to achieve 100% success in Q3.
  • Schedule an appointment with a rheumatologist to figure out my joint pain. Complete! I now have a diagnosis (psoriatic arthritis), and we’re working on a treatment plan.
  • Lose 20 lbs (heart disease). I haven’t lost any weight, but I have started to see a cardiologist to determine how my heart is doing. Let’s hope there aren’t any underlying conditions to be concerned about!

Be a more involved friend

  • Text one friend every day. (51%) I improved by 6% from Q1 to Q2, so that’s something to celebrate. But I could still be doing so much better.
  • Make plans with friends once a week. I’m doing pretty good with this goal! I’ve only missed two or three weeks in the past six months!
  • Organize a girls’ weekend. Complete. We had the best time!
  • Send three pieces of snail mail every month. I’m still feeling good about this goal. In April, I sent 3 postcards. I didn’t send anything in May (oops). And in June, I sent 5 postcards to try to make up from failing in May. I’m going to send 4 pieces of snail mail in July. Here is my open form for addresses if you’d like to get a silly postcard from me sometime this year!
  • Schedule a standing monthly date with at least one friend. No progress made.

Create better daily routines

  • Develop a regular morning routine before my workday begins. I am still working on this, but I think I’ve done a better job in the last month. I’m still not where I want to be, but I’m figuring it out.
  • Do my hair and makeup and put on real clothes on days when I have meetings. I’m proud of myself for looking like a functioning human being on the days I have meetings! Sometimes that means I have to look presentable every day of the week (the horror!) and other times, I only need to worry about it one or two days, which is great.
  • Create an evening routine that includes reading time. In progress. We’re getting there. What has helped is tracking my time for a week and recognizing that I can’t do every hobby every day. The only hobby I want to carve out time for every day is reading, which means other hobbies have to wait their turn. I try to have one “featured” hobby every day, and I’m learning to feel less guilty about letting blogs pile up or email subscriptions get out of control.
  • Do some form of movement every day (stretching counts!). (40%) My percentage in Q2 was the exact same as Q1, which isn’t a great thing considering I was still in a lot of pain in Q1 as I waited for my first rheumatology appointment. Sigh. It’s a work in progress.
  • Get outside every day. (97%) Look at me go!

10 fun goals

1) Complete my self-created Unread Shelf Challenge – (6/12) This is going well!

  • January (a book that starts with the same letter as your first name): Shark Heart by Emily Habeck ★★★★★
  • February (a book written by an author you’ve never read before): Welcome to the Hyunam-dong Bookshop by Hwang Bo-reum ★★★★☆
  • March (a book with a one-word title): Homeseeking by Karissa Chen ★★★☆☆
  • April (a book with a color in the name): Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson ★★★☆☆
  • May (a book that won a prize): James by Percival Everett ★★★★★
  • June (a book with a queer main character): All the Way to the River by Elizabeth Gilbert ★★★★★

2) Schedule a solo reading retreat weekend. Complete! It was everything I hoped it would be.

3) Try four novels from the Zero to Well Read podcast – (2/4)

  • Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro ★★☆☆☆ 1/2
  • The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan (DNF)

4) Take one picture every day and do weekly roundups on the blog – I haven’t missed a day yet!

5) See a Miami Dolphins game at Hard Rock Stadium – No progress made.

6) Decorate my patio – Complete. It’s so pretty. 🙂

7) Visit somewhere new – This is happening in Q4!

8) Watch one season of a TV show, listen to one album, and watch one movie every month. I am struggling with this goal, but I’m still determined to make it happen. I made some progress in that I have completed everything for Q1, but I am way behind on Q2 media. I’m going to give myself some ideas for the categories that are still listed as TBD because I think part of my problem is just not being sure what I want to watch or listen to!

January

  • TV show: Only Murders in the Building, season 5
  • Album: Sabrina Carpenter, Man’s Best Friend
  • Movie: The Cutting Edge

February

  • TV show: New Girl, season 3
  • Album: Benson Boone, American Heart
  • Movie: The Greatest Showman

March

  • TV show: TBD (Goal: Company Retreat)
  • Album: Noah Kahan, The Great Divide
  • Movie: Project Hail Mary

April

  • TV show: TBD (Goal: Suits, Season 2)
  • Album: The Six soundtrack
  • Movie: TBD (Goal: Sleepless in Seattle)

May

  • TV show: TBD (Goal: Abbott Elementary, Season 4)
  • Album: TBD (Goal: Olivia Rodrigo’s new album)
  • Movie: TBD (Goal: ??)

June

  • TV show: TBD (Goal: All Her Fault)
  • Album: TBD (Goal: ??)
  • Movie: TBD (Goal: ??)

9) Go to the movies alone. No progress made. 

10) Visit a new-to-me spot in my town every month. (6/12) I’m having fun with this goal!

  • January: Corner Kitchen & Coffee House (we went here for book club)
  • February: My local Goodwill store
  • March: West Coast Players, a local community theatre
  • April: Central Diner in Downtown St. Pete (DTSP)
  • May: Mythos Greek Bistro in DTSP
  • June: Forbici in Hyde Park

Do you have your morning and evening routines down pat?

Categories: Goals

Monthly Goals | July 2026

June Goals

1) Schedule an appointment with a cardiologist. Complete! I had my first appointment on June 19th, which did not go as planned, but all is well now. I really like my cardiologist and feel confident in the diagnostic path ahead.

2) Create my organization spreadsheet. Half-complete. I didn’t realize what a big job this would be! I spent a little time in June going through my different organizational systems in my home, but didn’t quite finish the project.

3) Move my body every day. LOL, no. I only managed 13 out of 30 days of intentional movement. This is better than May (9 days) but worse than April (15 days). I miss having a regular workout routine.

4) Go to my apartment pool twice. Nope! However, I did enjoy a lot of pool time during book club weekend. Does that count?

5) Figure out my 401k situation. Somewhat?? Forward progress was made, at least. The next thing I need to do is mail the check my old 401k company sent me to my new 401k company (which feels like a really wild way to do things, but here we are), and pray everything goes to plan.


July Goals

1) Finish my organization spreadsheet. Rollover goal.

2) Figure out a workout routine. What I need is to figure out exactly what I’m going to do (and when I’m going to do it), rather than winging it, which is how I’ve been approaching exercise the past few months. Every day needs to have a specific routine, whether that’s going for a walk, riding the bike at my gym, or stretching, and a specific time I’m going to do it.

3) No caffeine after 3 p.m. I sleep so much better when I limit my caffeine intake, and these days, my sleep has been wretched. I think some of that has to do with long-term steroid use, but I also figure it can’t hurt to cut down on caffeine and see if that improves my sleep.

4) Start wearing my Apple Watch again. I’m planning on doing a full review of my Oura ring after I’ve been wearing it for three months. The short version is that I really love it, but I think I want to pair it with my Apple Watch for activity monitoring. The Oura does a lot of things well (the sleep data is great!), but a part of me is missing the real-time stats that come with the Apple Watch. This is an experiment, as I may end up hating the fact that I have two different devices measuring everything going on in my body.

5) Figure out my 401k situation FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING HOLY. Rollover goal.

Do you have any goals for July?

Categories: Goals

Monthly Goals | June 2026

I did pretty well with my May goals, but there was one goal I didn’t accomplish, and I think we all know which one that is.

May Goals

1) Figure out what to do about the gym. Complete. I have decided to cancel my gym membership for now. It’s just not worth it when I can’t do most of the classes, and I have a free apartment gym to go to.

2) Reorganize my junk drawer. Complete! I very much enjoyed this project.

3) Buy an Oura ring. Complete! This is my third week with my Oura ring, and I am a fan. Right now, it’s in the calibration stages to figure out my baselines, so it’ll be really cool to see trends/changes once that stage is done.

4) Time track for one week. Complete. I wrote two posts about my time tracking journey. It’s truly eye-opening to see how much time I devote to my hobbies!

5) Figure out my 401K situation. LOL WHAT DO YOU THINK


June Goals

1) Schedule an appointment with a cardiologist. I’m having some weird shortness of breath and chest tightness when I do simple tasks. This could be steroid-related and/or simply due to some deconditioning after not working out at the intensity I’m used to for 8 months. My doctor and I agreed that I should get things checked out just in case. (So far, my goal of “fewer doctor’s appointments in 2026” is not going well.)

2) Create my organization spreadsheet. I am so excited about this! I’m going to create a spreadsheet that labels what is in every bin in my apartment. The organization spreadsheet will be organized (lol) by room and shelving unit.

3) Move my body every day. I got very lazy in May when it comes to daily movement, so I need a jump start. I’m going to challenge myself to move my body every single day in June. It can be a 10-minute walk or a simple stretching routine, but I need to get some form of movement in, no matter what!

4) Go to my apartment pool twice. A fun goal! We get Summer Fridays at my job, which means I get to stop working at 3 pm every Friday. This would be the ideal time to go to the pool! It probably won’t be crowded, and it’ll be a great way to kick off my weekend. I’m hoping to go twice in June.

5) Figure out my 401k situation. I am determined to mark this goal complete in June. DETERMINED. (The situation: I need to roll over my old 401k account to a new account. My organization was bought by another company at the end of last year, which is why I have a new 401k account.)

Do you have any monthly goals? Do you think I will actually get this 401k situation figured out in June?

Categories: Goals

Monthly Goals | May 2026

It was a solid month for my goals! I completed three out of five, and one of them is mostly complete. I did much better than March, that’s for sure! Let’s review:

April Goals

1) Schedule an eye appointment. Complete! I had my eye appointment last week, and discovered I no longer have 20/20 vision. Egads! It’s not terrible, as my prescription is -0.75 in both eyes (before I got LASIK, that script was more than -6!). Mostly, I notice the difference when I’m trying to watch something on TV, especially if the TV isn’t close. This could be due to PsA, but my rheumatologist isn’t convinced, so who really knows? The goal is to recheck in 6 months to see if things are getting worse. If so, we can discuss an enhancement. If not, I guess I take a wait-and-see approach (and maybe buy some cheapo glasses for those times when it’s annoying to squint at a TV).

2) Reorganize the cabinet under my sink. Complete! It felt so good to reorganize this cabinet. It probably didn’t look out of control to normal people, but I am not normal when it comes to my organizational requirements.

3) Offload some prescriptions. Half-complete? I went to a pharmacy to hand off these prescriptions, but they didn’t accept them. However, the pharmacist gave me a big envelope already addressed, so I can just drop the bottles in and mail them to a place that takes unused meds. Yay! I just need to… do that.

4) Read at least four books during my solo reading retreat. Complete! And I read five books, which still feels crazy to me.

5) Figure out my 401K situation. Ugh, no. Well, I completed the first step, which is to fill out some paperwork from my current 401k company. The next step is to contact my old 401k company.


May Goals

1) Figure out what to do about the gym. I am really sad about this, but it might be time to break up with the gym. Things just haven’t been the same since they fired my favorite HIIT coach, and I really don’t like any of the other HIIT coaches. Plus, I can’t even do HIIT right now until my psoriatic arthritis symptoms are under control, and who knows when that will happen?! (My rheumatologist has only given clearance for walks, the stationary bike, and swimming.) It feels silly to pay $35 a month to go to a gym where all I can do is bike (even sillier when my apartment has a gym, so I could just go there when needed). I’m still not sure what I want to do, but I’m going to take the month of May to figure it out.

2) Reorganize my junk drawer. The key to keeping an organized home is that you have to keep maintaining your drawers and cabinets and shelves! In May, I want to go through my junk drawer in my kitchen because it’s becoming a little unwieldy.

3) Buy an Oura ring. I think I’m going to join the Oura family! I enjoy my Apple Watch, but I only really like it for things like tracking sleep and other health metrics. I find it rather annoying to get a buzz every time a text or alert comes through. And I keep getting skin irritation from the watch band (I’ve tried multiple styles, and they all irritate my skin). I still have some money left in my HSA from last year that I’m going to put toward the Oura ring, yay!

4) Time track for one week. I’ve been inspired by SHU and Kae to do a week of time tracking. I’ve done it before and find it remarkably tedious, but I’m going to use the Toggl app to keep track, which will hopefully make things a lot less onerous. If you don’t see a time tracking report from me at some time in May, then I’ve completely failed at this goal!

5) Figure out my 401K situation. Rollover goal.

Do you have any goals this month?

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