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Categories: Goals

2026 Goals | Q1 Update

We are officially one-quarter of the way into 2026. How is everyone feeling about that? I have had a very weird start to the year, but it hasn’t been a bad kind of weird. Just… a lot of adjustments and getting used to new normals.

This year for my annual goals, I gave myself four categories to strive for and set five goals in each category. And then I rounded things out with 10 fun goals (when I originally made this list, three of the 10 fun goals were TBD, but they have since been decided!) Ready to see how I’ve been doing on my annual goals? Let’s get to it!

Take better care of myself

  • Create snack kits for my car, purse, and home, and restock them weekly monthly. In progress. The snack kits have been created and I restock them on a monthly basis at this point, since I’m not dipping into them as frequently as I expected. But they have come in clutch some days.
  • Drink at least 50 oz of water per day. (18%) I decided to make this goal easier on myself, and I am still struggling. Why is this so hard for me?!
  • Close my Apple Watch rings. (34%) I’m happy with the progress I’m making with this goal, as it’s become easier and easier to close my Apple Watch rings the further along I get in my psoriatic arthritis treatment. January was pretty terrible, which brought my average down, but February and March were a lot better!
  • Average 7.5 hours of sleep per night. Nope! Right now, my average time asleep is 6 hours, 44 minutes. This is slightly better than the beginning of the year, so progress is happening!
  • Take medications every morning. (86%) Would I like this number to be 100%? Of course, and I will work towards increasing the percentage in Q2. But I’m happy with this number. I find it harder to remember to take my meds on the weekends, especially if I don’t eat breakfast at home. (I have to take my meds with food.)

Get a handle on my health conditions

  • Start tracking my macros (prediabetes). No progress made. I’m not worried about this right now. Once my PsA is under control with meds, we’ll tackle the diet.
  • Work with my dermatologist to develop a flare/maintenance plan for scalp psoriasis. Complete? I’m not really dealing with scalp psoriasis flares, likely due to the meds I’m taking for PsA. Win/win?
  • Be compliant with my CPAP every month (sleep apnea). (2/12) I was compliant in January and March, but I failed miserably in February.
  • Schedule an appointment with a rheumatologist to figure out my joint pain. Complete! I now have a diagnosis (psoriatic arthritis), and we’re working on a treatment plan.
  • Lose 20 lbs (heart disease). No progress made. I haven’t weighed myself in months. I was going to weigh myself in February, but when I stepped on the scale, it didn’t turn on, and I’m taking that as a sign that I don’t need to worry about this right now.

Be a more involved friend

  • Text two friends one friend every day. (44%) I am not doing terribly well with this goal, and I even decided to make it easier on myself: I only have to text one person every day. I still feel weird about it sometimes, but I’m trying to remember that I love to hear from other people, so they (probably) do too.
  • Make plans with friends once a week. In progress. So far, I’ve only missed one week!
  • Organize a girls’ weekend. Complete. The Airbnb is booked, and the weekend is blocked off. We’re having a book club girls’ weekend in June!
  • Send three pieces of snail mail every month. In progress. I’m feeling good about this goal! So far, I have sent 6 postcards and 3 cards. Here is my open form for addresses if you’d like to get a silly postcard from me sometime this year!
  • Schedule a standing monthly date with at least one friend. No progress made.

Create better daily routines

  • Develop a regular morning routine before my workday begins. In progress. I haven’t tracked this as closely as I would have liked, but I have developed a great morning routine that makes me oh-so-happy, and I would say I complete it 3 days a week.
  • Do my hair and makeup and put on real clothes on days when I have meetings. In progress. There have been a few meeting-heavy workdays where I don’t do my hair and makeup, but it’s happening the majority of the time.
  • Create an evening routine that includes reading time. In progress. I’m struggling a lot more with my evening routine than my morning routine. I’m struggling with how to fit blog time and reading time into my evenings. And I also want some TV time! Ugh. Why is the evening so short?!
  • Do some form of movement every day (stretching counts!). (40%) My issue is that if I’m not going to work out long enough to close my exercise ring on my Apple Watch (30 minutes of movement), then I’m not inspired to complete this goal. I need to make this more enticing.
  • Get outside every day. (89%) I’m doing pretty well with this goal, although there are some days when I just don’t feel like going outside and dealing with the loudness of other people. But now that I have a great couch on my patio, I think I can get this one done every day! Outside time and no people? Sign me up!

10 fun goals

1) Complete my self-created Unread Shelf Challenge – (3/12) This is going well!

  • January (a book that starts with the same letter as your first name): Shark Heart by Emily Habeck ★★★★★
  • February (a book written by an author you’ve never read before): Welcome to the Hyunam-dong Bookshop by Hwang Bo-reum ★★★★☆
  • March (a book with a one-word title): Homeseeking by Karissa Chen ★★★☆☆

2) Schedule a solo reading retreat weekend. Complete! I leave one week from today!

3) Try four novels from the Zero to Well Read podcast – (1/4)

  • Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro ★★☆☆☆ 1/2

4) Take one picture every day and do weekly roundups on the blog – In progress. I haven’t missed a day yet!

5) See a Miami Dolphins game at Hard Rock Stadium – No progress made.

6) Decorate my patio – In progress. I bought a new rug and an outdoor couch, so this goal is going really well. I’d like to buy some sort of cat tower/bed for a corner of the patio, and maybe some greenery.

7) Visit somewhere new – This is happening in Q4!

8) Watch one season of a TV show, listen to one album, and watch one movie every month. I am not doing great with this goal, but there is still time for me to catch up. So far, I’ve watched one season of a TV show, listened to two albums, and watched one movie. So, 5/9 completed for Q1!

January

  • TV show: Only Murders in the Building, season 5
  • Album: Sabrina Carpenter, Man’s Best Friend
  • Movie: The Cutting Edge

February

  • TV show: New Girl, season 3 (in progress)
  • Album: Benson Boone, American Heart
  • Movie: TBD

March

  • TV show: TBD
  • Album: TBD
  • Movie: TBD

9) Go to the movies alone. No progress made. 

10) Visit a new-to-me spot in my town every month. (3/12) I’m having fun with this goal!

  • January: Corner Kitchen & Coffee House (we went here for book club)
  • February: My local Goodwill store
  • March: West Coast Players, a local community theatre

Any movie recs for me? How are you doing on your annual goals?

Categories: Goals

Monthly Goals | April 2026

As expected, my goal-finishing prowess came to a screeching halt in March. Ah, well. I got 1.5 goals completed, so it wasn’t all bad. Fingers crossed I can do better in April!

March Goals

1) Schedule an eye appointment. Not complete. I kept forgetting about this goal!

2) Make two new recipes. Not complete. Ugh. Getting sick derailed me, and then all of a sudden, it was the end of March, and I hadn’t even looked for new recipes to try.

3) Get Lila set up at the new vet. Complete! She’s now at the same vet as Eloise, and everyone loves her. (I mean, duh.)

4) Complete two character studies for my two main characters and start working on my plot. I finished one character study, and I’m about a 1/4th of the way through the other one. The character study template I’m using is VERY detailed, so it’s taking me a while. But I’m still plugging away!

5) Figure out my 401K situation. LOL, no. I’m still dragging my feet on this. (Short version: My company was sold last year, and the new org has a different 401K provider. I need to move the money from my old 401K to this new one.)


April Goals

1) Schedule an eye appointment. Rollover goal.

2) Reorganize the cabinet under my sink. This cabinet is where I keep household supplies like trash bags and dishwasher pods, as well as cleaning supplies. It’s getting a little disorganized, so it’s time to sit down, pull everything out, and reorganize it. My favorite thing!

3) Offload some prescriptions. I have about 5 or 6 unopened bottles of prescription medication that I need to get rid of. I think I can go to a pharmacy and drop them off (these bottles were delivered by mail from a special pharmacy—they were a new kind of depression medication that I no longer need). I figured I’m much more apt to complete this goal if I have to report on it next month!

4) Read at least four books during my solo reading retreat. My solo reading retreat is this month! I’m so excited. I’m already plucking books off my shelf that I want to bring with me. My goal is to finish four books!

5) Figure out my 401K situation. Rollover goal… again.

What’s something you want to do in April?

Categories: Goals

Monthly Goals | March 2026

I’m very pleased with how I’m knocking out my monthly goals so far in 2026. I didn’t have a 100% success rate in February, but 80% ain’t bad either!

February Goals

1) Book my Airbnb for my reading retreat. Complete! I booked the cutest little house in North Port for mid-April.

2) Visit a thrift shop. Complete! I left with three books and one cat-shaped sign. I’m nothing if not predictable.

3) Buy the girls new collars. Complete! Lila now has the cutest pink book-themed collar, and Eloise has a set of pearls because she’s fancy.

4) Spend five hours working on my novel idea. Complete! It has been such a joy to spend time brainstorming about these characters and the town I’m creating.

5) Figure out my 401K situation. Not complete. I didn’t even start this process.


March Goals

1) Schedule an eye appointment. I had LASIK surgery in 2023, and my last follow-up was sometime in early 2024. I’ve been having some weird blurriness only when I’m looking at the TV or when I’m trying to look at the time on my oven/microwave. I’ve been doing eye drops to see if it’s dry eye related, but not seeing much difference. So, I figure I should do my due diligence and schedule an eye appointment. Hopefully, all is well!

2) Make two new recipes. I’m not exactly in a food rut, but I haven’t made a new recipe in months.

3) Get Lila set up at the new vet. I’ve been waiting to get Lila set up with my new vet since she wasn’t due for an exam/vaccinations until March. I need to schedule an appointment and set up her wellness plan.

4) Complete two character studies for my two main characters and start working on my plot. Last month was all about nurturing this tiny flame of a novel idea, and now that I feel like it has potential, I am all in.

5) Figure out my 401K situation. Rollover goal.

What are your March goals? Any go-to recipe ideas for me?

Categories: Goals

Monthly Goals | February 2026

Spoiler alert: I did amazing on my January goals. That new year, new me energy is coming in strong!

January Goals

1) Develop a list of 25 recipe ideas. Complete! This started easy and got progressively harder, but I now have a list of recipes to draw from when I’m meal planning on the weekends. I used it last weekend, and it was super helpful!

2) Create snack kits for home, my car, and my purse. Complete! I bought the cutest little pouches for my car and my purse.

Here is what I have:

Car snack kit:

  • Glucose tablets
  • Fig Newtons
  • Granola bars
  • Peanut butter crackers
  • Cashews

Purse snack kit:

  • Glucose tablets
  • Peanut butter crackers
  • Fruit snacks
  • Applesauce pouch
  • Granola bars
  • Cashews
  • Protein bars

For home, I keep all of the same snacks on hand, but also have items that don’t need to be shelf-stable, like:

  • Sargento Balanced Breaks snack packs
  • Greek yogurt
  • Apples and peanut butter
  • Carrots and dip
  • Hard-boiled eggs
  • Boost high-protein shakes

A special shout-out to Sarah, who gave me TONS of snack ideas. I’m basically treating myself like a five-year-old. Except I’m also the mom who is keeping the snacks stocked? It’s complicated.

3) Set up my new nightstand and find a place for the old one. Complete! Right now, I have the old nightstand in a corner of my bedroom, and it’s working well as a tech charging station.

4) Keep a symptom log for my rheumatology appointment. Complete! It was super helpful to keep this log in the weeks leading up to my rheumatology appointment. For one, it helped me better understand the most problematic joints (my left ring finger, my left shoulder, and my right elbow) and see the ups and downs of my pain throughout the month.

5) Play around with budgeting spreadsheets to find one I like. Complete! I downloaded a spreadsheet that may work for me, and it has a lot of fancy Excel wizardry to make graphs and dashboards.


February Goals

1) Book my Airbnb for my reading retreat. I’d like to take a reading retreat in either March or April (depending on Airbnb availability). I’ve been favoriting Airbnbs like crazy, but I need to just book the place and make it happen!

2) Visit a thrift shop. I can’t remember the last time I went to a thrift shop, which probably makes Elisabeth clutch her pearls (if she wore them). But there’s a great one near me and I want to visit it sometime in February to see if I can find furniture/decor for my apartment.

3) Buy the girls new collars. My girls have lived a collar-free life until December, when I had to put collars on them for their microchip feeders (the microchip hangs off the collar). And now I am desperate to buy them much cuter collars because the ones they are wearing are a boring beige collar, and they deserve something a lot prettier!

4) Spend five hours working on my novel idea. I have the teeniest, tiniest bud of a novel idea percolating right now. I haven’t had any sort of writing inspiration in half a decade (at least), so this is very exciting for me! In February, I’d like to spend a few hours nurturing this idea and seeing if there’s anything there.

5) Figure out my 401K situation. I truly do not want to deal with this because money stuff makes me very anxious and overwhelmed. Basically, our organization was bought by another company, and they have a different 401K provider. I need to move the money in my old 401K to this new provider, and it seems very complicated. It’s not something that I have to do immediately, but I’d rather just get it all situated now and not have this task hanging over my head.

Do you have any goals for February?

Categories: Goals

My Habit and Goal-Setting Routine for This Year

This year, it’s crucially important for me to get into a great routine when it comes to my daily/weekly habits and my goals. I want to set up my life in such a way that I can make progress on my goals while also keeping tabs on some of the habits I’m tracking this year. I feel better when I have a structured routine for tracking goals and habits, and so I took some time at the end of the year to figure out exactly how this should look for me. I wanted something that would be fun but not too overwhelming. And I wanted to be able to notice trends—which goals were a struggle, and how could I adjust my expectations to better meet my needs?

With that in mind, I have three categories of tracking my goals and habits:

  • My paper planner
  • A goal-tracking spreadsheet
  • My gold star reward system

Let’s get into the nitty-gritty of each, shall we?!

My paper planner

I spent a lot of time scrolling through Amazon, Google, and Instagram to find my ideal planner for 2026. For me, a paper planner is a place to list weekly/daily goals and keep tabs on my habits. I write down appointments and such, but I mainly use my Google Calendar to track things like that, and then I cross-reference when I’m setting up my weekly spread in my planner every Sunday.

Eventually, I landed on the Curation planner from Saint Belford. While it’s not perfect (I truly do not understand why the monthly layouts are bunched at the beginning of the planner and not spread out), I do love that it allows me to do a lot of different kinds of tracking. There are two weekly layouts: an overview page and then a more traditional weekly layout where you can track habits, set daily goals, and list out appointments/plans/etc.

Here’s how I’ve been using the overview page:

I love writing down my gratitude from the week before, and then I paste in a habit tracker that I printed out. I use the other page to list out a few weekly goals, and then there’s my favorite part: the personal tracker. (I could make this a drinking game. “Take a drink every time I say track or tracker!” But you guys would be completely toasted by now.) There are so many ways to use this tracker, and I’m sure I’ll change what I’m putting in this section as the year goes on. Right now, I’m using this section to write down how many apneas I had the night before, my sleep total, and what movement I did. (Movement is very hard for me right now with all my joint pain, hopefully this will improve once I’m in treatment!)

At the end of the week, I tally up my percentage totals on my habit tracker (more on this later) and use a highlighter to tag any days I had 5 or fewer apneas (the ideal number of apneas per night), got more than 7 hours of sleep, and did any movement. That way, when I’m looking over this overview page at the end of every month, I can quickly see my progress (or lack thereof).

On the weekly layout, I write down a few other types of habits (these are more fun habits to track for now, nothing too serious, although I may move them over to my bigger habit tracker if I’m inspired to do so) and then notate what I’m doing that week. Every morning, I sit down and write down 6 goals in the space next to each day. Usually, I give myself a few cleaning chores and set some easy goals, like making a call or doing an admin task. (Obviously, as you can see, these goals roll over from one day to the next quite often. And sometimes I forget to write down daily goals, which happened on Tuesday. Not the perfect layout to show you, ha.)

A goal-tracking spreadsheet

This idea came to me from a link that Sarah shared on one of her posts near the end of the year. It was a goal-tracking spreadsheet, and I was all about it! I customized the spreadsheet to suit my own purposes, and only update it weekly (it’s part of one of my weekly admin tasks). There are two tabs in this spreadsheet: resolution dashboard and weekly review.

Resolution dashboard

This has all of my annual goals, separated by category. I have a notes column for just some of the goals, like keeping tabs on what my current sleep average is and how many pieces of snail mail I’ve sent. And then at the end of each month, I’ll review each goal and notate my progress. The dropdown (currently only showing up in the January column, but I’ll have it in every column by the end of the year) is where I list my progress. I can choose:

  • On track
  • Mostly on track
  • Inconsistent
  • Paused
  • Struggling
  • Completed

The middle three categories are where my focus will be during my monthly review: inconsistent, paused, and struggling. For example, right now, I would say my goal of closing all of my Apple Watch rings is firmly in the “struggling” category. And that’s because I can’t exercise right now (even going for a walk longer than 10-15 minutes is painful, sigh), so I’m definitely not hitting my movement and exercise goals. But I knew I would struggle with this goal in January, as I await that first rheumatology appointment (SIX DAYS!!!!). So nothing really needs to happen there. I’m also struggling with my hydration goal, and that’s an area where I can think about how to make this goal easier for me.

Weekly Review

The weekly review is a pared-down version of my goals, only tracking the goals that are daily habits or new routines that require a bit more attention to ensure I stay consistent. On Sundays, I use my planner to jog my memory and then input the totals into the spreadsheet. I also have the same progress categories, and you can see where I landed with these goals last week!

P.S. It’s because of last week’s review that I decided to be a little kinder to myself this week. My whole body feels like one big inflammatory flare, and I need to prioritize rest and listening to my body. I’ve paused the goal of “tracking my macros” for the time being, and I’m paring down the goal of “close my Apple Watch rings” to “meet my stand goal every day.” That’s much more doable for me right now, and hopefully, in a few weeks, I will be in a place where I can be a little more aggressive with my healthy living goals.

My gold star reward system

Last but certainly not least, it’s my gold star reward system! What is going to motivate me to be consistent with my goals? Prezzies! At the end of the week, I get to dole out rewards and punishments based on my progress. (For this system, I am only tracking the goals that are listed in the printout I’ve pasted into my planner). Here is my system:

  • 7 out of 7 days complete: two gold stars
  • 6 out of 7 days complete: one gold star
  • 5 out of 7 days complete: $10 into a special savings fund (right now, I’m saving to replace my office chair) + a night off from cooking
  • 4 out of 7 days complete: $5 into a special savings fund + a night off from using my CPAP machine
  • 2 or 3 out of 7 days complete: $5 into a special savings fund
  • 1 day complete: nothing

And any time I get 0 out of 7 days complete, I have to give myself a slightly annoying punishment. For each habit I didn’t mark complete at all during the week, I have to choose between (1) no Happy Color for one full day; (2) no social media for one full day (including Reddit!); or (3) no ChatGPT for one full day (I hate that I’m so addicted, but I use it so much to get guidance on my chronic pain!). These “punishments” are annoying enough that they motivate me to try to do better the next week without feeling like I’m punching myself in the face for not meeting my goals.

Whenever I get 10 gold stars, I get a prezzie! I can choose something from a wishlist (either on Etsy or Amazon), one book, or one item of clothing. I may move this up to 20 gold stars if I find collecting gold stars is easier than I expected, ha, especially since I’m tracking so many goals! But it’s the right pace for me right now.

Was this whole post completely overwhelming to you? Or are you also completely neurotic about goal-tracking?

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