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Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo Per Day: June 13 – 19

June 13, 2026 – In case you thought I lived an exciting, glamorous life, I spent Saturday night sitting on the floor of my office while I tried to troubleshoot my printer, which decided it didn’t want to print anymore. Thankfully, I had a cute assistant sitting nearby!

June 14, 2026 – A lazy Sunday means hammock naps in the sunshine.

June 15, 2026 – The last page of my mystery coloring book! Don’t you worry, though. Once I discovered I was getting near the end, I bought another one so I could start it with no interruptions. Muahaha!

June 16, 2026 – It’s been nice to start my day with a walk. The heat isn’t as oppressive (although the humidity surely is), and it’s calm and peaceful.

June 17, 2026 – Trivia night! Thank heavens for smart friends because we came in FOURTH! Since we’re usually in last place, this was very exciting for us.

June 18, 2026 – Around 10pm on Thursday, I exclaimed to Lila, “I need to take your picture, so I have a picture for today!” And she posed purrfectly.

June 19, 2026 – I had a lovely nap on Friday after a very interesting day that I will explain in detail on Monday. The nap was very much needed and very much restorative.

Categories: Recurring Series

Currently in June

I wasn’t sure what photos to sprinkle throughout this post and decided it had been too long since my boy Dutch got any space on the blog. He was the bestest boy and died in 2018, a month before his 16th birthday. I love and miss him every day.

anticipating therapy tomorrow, where we will most likely start EMDR

researching everything I can to build the perfect New England itinerary for our fall road trip

buying another bookshelf because I can do what I want and what I want is MORE SPACE FOR BOOKS

thinking about my upcoming cardiology appointment (Friday!) and hoping it won’t be too overwhelming

reading a book about laundry (Laundry Love by Patric Richardson) and making a lot of notes

happy that work is picking up after a slow few weeks

excited every time I get to work on the novel I’m writing

using two different Zevo filters to deal with a very annoying fruit fly infestation, along with some bowls filled with apple cider vinegar + dish soap to catch even more

committed to making sure I tell my girls that I love them multiple times a day (they’re probably like “alright already!” after the 10th time)

hoping to spend some time at one of my THREE apartment pools this weekend

loving my new twice-weekly grocery shopping routine – it’s working out so well!

needing to get to bed earlier, especially since my body thinks 6:30am is an appropriate time to wake up, no matter what time I went to bed

proud of myself for setting boundaries, even when they feel uncomfortable

relieved that lowering my medrol dose hasn’t impacted my pain levels

loathing the freaking weather. It’s so hot and we’re still in a severe drought.

obsessing over all of the metrics I’m getting from my Oura ring (in a good way, I think?)

watching The Traitors Canada (sooo happy they finally released all three seasons on Peacock!)

wondering when my tooth sensitivity will go away (I miss ice cream)

listening to Noah Kahan’s latest album, albeit very slowly

savoring sweet moments with my cats, like when Lila curls up next to me when I’m in bed or when Eloise jumps up on the table and sits right in front of me because she wants attention from her favorite person

What is something you’re obsessing over?

Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo Per Day: June 6 – 12

June 6, 2026 – It was dance recital day! This is Olive’s second year in dance (she’s six, just finished kindergarten), and she was in seven dances in the morning session, including their big performance number with all of the big kids. At the spring performance, they do a parent/child dance routine, and it was adorable to see Nick (Mikaela’s husband) dancing with Olive and Eleni. So cute!

June 7, 2026 – A new lamp for the shelf in my dining area. I love it!

June 8, 2026 – Started my week off with a morning workout. This is my apartment gym – pretty snazzy! I’m excited to start using the weights soon. Today, I did a 25-minute workout on the elliptical, although I had to keep slowing myself down when my heart rate went bonkers. Blergh.

June 9, 2026 – Sweet Eloise. This is currently her favorite spot in the morning while she waits for me to sit down and start my workday. I think it’s because of the way the sun hits this spot because she gradually moves to the other side of the window as the morning progresses.

June 10, 2026 – Lila positioned herself like this, as if the corner of my monitor stand was the fluffiest pillow to lay her head. I love this girl!

June 11, 2026 – A lovely afternoon walk! I really need to move these walks to the morning before it’s a billion degrees outside, but there’s something invigorating about taking a walk in 95-degree weather!

June 12, 2026 – A lovely night out with friends! We saw Beetlejuice the Musical, and it was so good. I went in completely blind because I had never seen any of the Beetlejuice movies. (It was definitely not the type of movie allowed when you grew up evangelical!) While I wish I had gotten the disclaimer that it was about a dead mom, I still very much enjoyed myself. The actors were incredible!

Categories: Recurring Series

Five for Friday (v. 133)

1) Psoriatic arthritis update

There have been some exciting developments in my psoriatic arthritis treatment! I am on week four of injections, and honestly, I think I might prefer giving myself a shot once a week rather than taking a handful of pills! It’s not painful, and I feel a little like a scientist as I draw up the solution in the syringe. Heh. The other exciting development is that this week, I dropped my steroid dose! I’ve been taking 12mg Medrol (a slightly more potent steroid, compared to prednisone) for months now, and I am now taking 8mg. We’re going to stay at this dose for a few weeks to see how my body adapts. So far, so good! I’ll go for bloodwork in a few weeks to test my inflammation markers.

2) Sleep woes

Sleeping is one of my superpowers. I used to be someone who could take a three-hour nap in the afternoon and sleep like a baby at night (one of those magical babies that sleeps soundly for 8 hours, no wake-ups). I could drink caffeine late in the evening, and it would not affect my bedtime. I fell asleep quickly, stayed asleep, and mostly just had a bear of a time getting out of bed in the morning. These days, though, sleep has become a burden.

First, the naps. I can’t take a nap that’s longer than an hour these days! Which, I mean, is great for my productivity and not sleeping the day away, but it still feels weird to me. And I get SO HOT during my naps. It doesn’t happen in the evening, only when I’m taking a midday nap. It could be due to having more windows in my bedroom than in my previous apartment, so maybe it just gets warmer in there during the day? Or maybe it’s the steroids. If I’m going to take a nap, I have to prepare. I keep my blinds closed, make sure the air is turned down low (I sleep at 70 degrees, but push it up to 73 degrees during the day), and even got a special blanket that’s lightweight and breathable. It seems to be working, but I’m just a little annoyed that I have to put so much effort into my nap routine now.

Second, I’ve become an early riser. I do not like this about me! I cannot seem to sleep past 7am anymore! Even if I go to bed late, I will be up before 7am and unable to fall back to sleep. Sometimes, I can trick myself by getting up, having breakfast, and doing a few productive things before crawling back into bed around 9-9:30 for a short snooze, but that’s only a viable option on the weekends. It’s very frustrating because I like sleeping in, and I am very bad about going to bed early.

We’ll see if any of this improves once I’m weaned off steroids… or perhaps it’s just a function of getting older and it’s time to do things like not drink caffeine at 8pm.

3) Raccoon roommate

Well, friends, my rodent-repellant trash bags are no match for Rocky the raccoon. I put my trash can outside yesterday, and about an hour later, I heard a noise, and opened my door to see my trash can on the ground and a sheepish-looking Rocky standing nearby. I berated him, took my can inside, rebagged everything, put it back outside. Not five minutes later, I hear a noise outside my apartment and there he is again! This time, instead of looking sheepish, he looked mischevious and started walking towards me as if he was just going to waltz inside my apartment and take up residence! I hurriedly brought the can inside and slammed my front door. Sigh.

I think my next step is to start bungee cording my trash can closed and hoping that a) it deters Rocky and b) the valet company will still pick up my trash even though it’s raccoon-trapped.

4) Kim & Steph’s Purr-sonal Tampa Bay Tour 2026

I am building the perfect tour of my favorite spots in Tampa Bay for Kim who is visiting soon. This is basically an excuse for me to visit all of the bookstores and cat cafes in my town. Muahaha! So far, our itinerary includes three bookstores, two cat cafes, one coffee shop, one food hall, and one gorgeous neighborhood. Also, hopefully, she will get to meet my cats! Well, meet Eloise. Lila hides from everyone. I will, of course, detail our adventures on the blog!

4) Weekend plans

My weekend will be busy on the front end, relaxing on the back end. Tonight, I’m going to my third musical this year alone with Bri, her husband, and our friend Amber. We have dinner reservations beforehand and Sean will be doing all of the driving again, so I am stoked! Tomorrow, I have a writing date, a waxing appointment, errands to run, and then my mom and I are going to go into our gym to officially cancel our memberships. (I’m sad about it but I know it’s the right call.) The rest of the weekend is free! I love that I have a whole Sunday to myself. Whatever will I do with all that free time?!

How is your sleep these days? What are your weekend plans?

Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo Per Day: May 23 – 29

May 23, 2026 – Family game night! My younger nephew (11) loves What Do You Meme?, but we play the family edition, so it’s quite different! Lots of bathroom jokes.

May 24, 2026 – I was only going to read for a few minutes, but then Eloise settled right in between my legs, and she looked so sweet that I couldn’t disturb her. More reading time? Yes, please!

May 25, 2026 – Memorial Day! You get two pictures because I couldn’t resist either of them. In one, Lucy looks like she’s posing for Dachshund Daily, and in the other, Chip and Lucy floating in the pool on a raft makes me smile so much. I love these little monsters!

May 26, 2026 – Just Lila being the meowdel that she is. We took a short nap on the couch this afternoon, and it was delightful!

May 27, 2026 – Trivia night! Our team name is Last Place Legends, and yep, we came in last place like always. Booyah!

May 28, 2026 – It’s time for their cat “medication”! See how cute they are? How can I resist them?!

May 29, 2026 – Book club night! We started with Greek food, then moved on to an escape room, where we succeeded! Well, my friends succeeded. I was good at shining flashlights when people needed them and being the comedic relief.

Have you ever done an escape room?

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Hi, I'm Stephany! (She/her) I'm a 30-something single lady, living in Florida. I am a bookworm, cat mom, podcaster, and reality TV junkie. I identify as an Enneagram 9, an introvert, and a Highly Sensitive Person. On this blog, you will find stories about my life, book reviews, travel experiences, and more. Welcome!

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