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What I’m Reading (6.4.18)

Happy Monday, friends! I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. I’m in a season of change right now, and my anxiety does not fare well during these types of seasons. It’s made me overly emotional and insomnia has been a not-welcome companion to my nights. So, I tried to make sure this weekend was all about me (one of the great benefits of being single): I got lots of sleep, did a ton of reading, and took a long walk in a nature preserve. I also saw Chip! He was outside with my mom when I stopped by and once he saw me, he came running and got super excited! It made my heart so happy that he knows me and loves me deeply already. I feel the same way, buddy. 🙂 Anyway, this weekend truly rejuvenated me and I’m feeling ready to take on this week and handle the changes happening personally and professionally with new vigor.

Last week, I finished three books, and here are my reviews:

Books Finished

Title: I Wish You Were Mine
Author: Lauren Layne
Format: Library e-book
Published: 2016
Rating: ★★★★☆

Plot Summary: It’s been a year since Jackson’s life fell apart: a car accident ended his football career and since he was found in the car with another woman, also his marriage. Now he’s living in NYC and working as a health and fitness writer for a men’s magazine. When he reconnects with his ex-wife’s sister, Mollie, sparks fly but both are wary. For Jackson, it’s hard for him to trust another woman after the way his marriage imploded. For Mollie, who has had a crush on Jackson for years, it’s hard to reconcile the idea of moving in on her sister’s ex-husband.

My Thoughts: When I first read the synopsis for this romance, I was a little taken aback. It seemed a little irreverent, the idea of a man and his ex-wife’s sister falling in love. But, you know what, it worked. And it worked because Mollie was such a delightful character and so was Jackson. They were these two vulnerable souls who needed each other, both because they’d been unlucky in love and because they’d both been broken down by their one common denominator: Mollie’s sister, Madison. And, oh man, was Madison an extremely unlikable character. There were exactly zero redeeming things about her – to the point that it was hard to understand why Mollie loved her so much. I understand that it’s more complicated when it’s family, but take it from me, you don’t have to love your family. And just because they’re family doesn’t mean they get a pass on treating you like shit. I think if there was a weak point of this novel, it was Mollie and Madison’s relationship because it felt a little forced and unnatural. I think the author could have tried a little harder to make Madison redeemable instead of such a villain. But, all in all, the novel still gave me all of the happy, mushy feelings and I’m so glad that Mollie and Jackson got their happy ending.

Title: The Engagements
Author: J. Courtney Sullivan
Format: Hardcover
Published: 2014
Rating: ★★☆☆☆

Plot Summary: This novel follows the life of Frances Gerety, a pioneering woman in the advertising world who came up with the slogan, A Diamond Is Forever, as well as four unique marriages as they test whether that saying is actually true.

My Thoughts: Oy, this book was a slog for me. It’s one of those books where I can understand why it’s so well-loved by others, but it just did not land for me and my reading tastes. I’m typically not drawn to character-driven novels and this is exactly what this novel was. Plus, I had a hard time liking many of the characters in this novel, and a lot of the storylines just downright depressed me. These marriages are very true-to-life, very real, very raw, but it also made them hard to read about. They just made me sad! Perhaps I just wasn’t in the right head space for this novel because it seems like I’m definitely in the minority with my opinion. I think it’s the perfect novel for people who love character-driven stories with real, flawed characters, but that just isn’t my jam right now.

Title: I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter
Author: Erika L. Sanchez
Format: Library hardcover
Published: 2017
Rating: ★★★★☆

Plot Summary: When Julia’s perfect older sister, Olga, dies in a tragic accident, she is left to pick up the pieces. She has to contend with the dreams she’s always had – moving to New York for college, becoming a famous writer – with the knowledge that she’s essentially abandoning her family to do so, something her perfect sister Olga would never even think about doing. But then Julia discovers that Olga might not have been as perfect after all and goes on a quest to find out exactly what secrets her big sister was hiding.

My Thoughts: I flew through this book over the weekend, finishing it on Sunday night. It’s a quick read, even though it does have some heavy subject matters, as it deals with the aftermath of a young person dying as well as the immigrant experience. I found the voice in this novel to be so refreshing and unique, and I really felt like I could understand Julia as a sixteen-year-old. She was brash and opinionated and frustrating and vulnerable and overwhelmed. She was difficult to read at times because she was just so sixteen (you know what I’m talking about). I wanted to shake her as much as I wanted to give her a big ole hug. It’s a YA novel, so it’s not going to appeal to everyone, but this is definitely a book that lived up to my expectations and I’d encourage anyone to give a read, especially if you want to understand the immigrant experience in a deeper, more meaningful way.

What I’m Reading This Week

  • Dance With Me by Alexis Daria – I loved Alexis Daria’s debut novel, Take the Lead, and when Dance With Me showed up in one of my BookBub emails a few weeks ago, I snatched it up!
  • Too Fat, Too Slutty, Too Loud: The Rise and Reign of the Unruly Woman by Anne Helen Petersen – This book sounds like it’s right up my alley and it’s been recommended by a lot of people, so it went on my “immediate TBR” list (I keep a long list of books that I want to read ASAP, books I don’t want to get lost in my long Goodreads TBR list, and I try to read two books off this list every month). I’ve been looking forward to reading this one for a long time,!
  • Boy Erased by Garrard Conley – I’m listening to this memoir on audio, and it is fantastic so far. It follows Garrard’s story of being in a conversion therapy program when he was just nineteen after he was outed to his conservative Christian family.

What are you reading?

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What I’m Reading (5.28.18)

Well, it was another pretty solid week of reading for me and both books I finished earned a four-star rating from me. How do you rate books? I’ve been thinking about my rating system lately, and I think I’ve come up with a good system:

  • 5 stars: I loved this book and will recommend it to everyone. It changed me.
  • 4 stars: I loved this book and would recommend it.
  • 3 stars: I liked this book, but there were some problems with it.
  • 2 stars: I didn’t like this book, but I can see why others might.
  • 1 star: I hated this book and only read it to finish it.

So, with this rating system in mind, the two books I finished last week are ones that I would recommend – they’re not for everyone and not life-changing enough for me to recommend to everyone I meet, but great reads nonetheless.

Books Finished

Title: How to Walk Away
Author: Katherine Center
Format: Hardcover
Published: 2018
Rating: ★★★★☆

Plot Summary: On what should be the happiest day of Margaret’s life, the day she not only scored her dream job but also got engaged to her longtime boyfriend, tragedy strikes. In the hospital and trying to cope with the idea that her life will never be the same again, she has to find a way to find beauty in the mess.

My Thoughts: I actually finished this book right around midnight on Sunday evening, but it was too late to add it to my post last week. I flew through this book in just two days and thoroughly enjoyed it! It was well-written and didn’t feel too heavy, even though the subject matter was. I also just really enjoyed Margaret’s character and how she wasn’t a pushover, even though she was in the hospital and so reliant on other people. I found some of the characters in the novel to be a little over-the-top unlikable, like her mom and her fiance’s mom. They said some things that felt a little unrealistic, stuff you just wouldn’t say to someone in the hospital. Then again, I’m coming to this novel knowing if I was in Margaret’s place, my mom would be there every step of the way and always offer encouragement and support, so maybe I just can’t understand a mom being more focused on appearances than her own daughter’s healing. I also really didn’t love the ending scene nor the epilogue and I wish the author had chosen a different way to wrap it up (and, really, let’s stop with unnecessary epilogues! Ah.) But, all in all, it was a really enjoyable reading experience and it’s a book I’d definitely recommend.

Title: Moonlight Over Manhattan
Author: Sarah Morgan
Format: Library e-book
Published: 2017
Rating: ★★★★☆

Plot Summary: Professional dog walker, Harriet, takes on an unusual assignment: providing around-the-clock dog-sitting services for a busy ER doctor, who is watching his sister’s dog for a short period of time. It’s a romance, so you can imagine what happens here: sparks fly and both of them have to find a way to be brave enough to take a chance on love.

My Thoughts: Oh, how I loved this novel! Harriet was so relatable as a character, a shy woman who struggles with stammering when she is stressed out or upset and is trying to put herself out there more in the form of daily challenges. When the novel begins, she’s challenging herself by online dating, but it’s not going well. As the novel progresses, however, and she takes on more challenges, she discovers an adventurous side of herself that she never knew existed. I also really, really loved the male hero in this novel, Ethan. He’s an ER doc and there’s just something so damn sexy about that, isn’t there? He’s funny and charming and everything I want in a male hero. I loved watching how the two of them together learned to come out of their shells as they explored the chemistry between them. A really fun and lighthearted romance novel!

What I’m Reading This Week

  • The Engagements by J. Courtney Sullivan – I’m a little less than 200 pages into this novel and it’s… okay so far. There are five different storylines, each taking place during a different decade, and some storylines are much more interesting to me than others. It’s also more of a character-driven novel than a plot-driven one, and I usually struggle with these types of books. It’s hard to really get invested in a novel when I’m not sure why I need to be invested, you know? I don’t think I’ll abandon it, though. It’s engaging (ha) enough for me to keep reading.
  • I Wish You Were Mine by Lauren Layne – I just downloaded this fun contemporary romance and I am going to start it soon, in between breaks from The Engagements. Lauren Layne’s novels have become my favorite lately. She never lets me down!
  • I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika Sanchez – Once I finish The Engagements, I’m starting my book club’s June read. I have been wanting to read this book for a long time and it’s gotten rave reviews from friends, so I’m looking forward to diving in.

What are you reading?

Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (5.21.18)

After a short hiatus, I’m back with my weekly reading recap. I’m definitely not going to talk about all the books I finished over the past few weeks (ain’t nobody got time for that!), so I’m starting fresh and just talking about the books I finished over the past week. I thoroughly enjoyed one novel and thoroughly hated the other. Fun! Let’s dive in:

Books Finished

Title: Sleeping Giants
Author: Sylvain Neuvel
Format: Library hardcover
Published: 2016
Rating: ★★★★☆

Plot Summary: A girl named Rose is riding her bike near her home in South Dakota and falls down a hole. When she’s found by rescuers, they peer down to see her laying in a giant metal hand. Seventeen years later, Rose is an enigmatic physicist who is determined to find out the origins of this giant metal hand and what it means for humanity as we know it.

My thoughts: My work book club chose this book as our May pick, and I wasn’t quite sure about it at first. I like science fiction books, but I’m a little wary of books that have a kooky and bizarre synopsis. But that’s what book clubs are all about, right? Getting you to read books you’d never pick up on your own. And I am so glad I gave this one a chance because it was a pretty amazing thrill ride. I think what I appreciated most about this book was how it tried to explore the idea of there being life on other planets and what that could mean for life on Earth. The book is told in transcripts and journal entries, and in some cases, I think this method worked really well and helped the novel move along at a great pace. In other cases, usually the action scenes, it fell apart. I wavered between 3 and 4 stars, but since I read the last 100 pages in one sitting and stayed up late to finish it, I couldn’t give it less than 4. It’s probably not a book I’d recommend to everyone, but good if you’re looking to read something a little bizarre and not too heavy.

Title: The Final Score
Author: Jaci Burton
Format: Library e-book
Published: 2017
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

Plot Summary: Longtime friends Nathan and Mia, both newly graduated from college and embarking on new careers, make a friends-with-benefits pact because they just cannot deny the chemistry that sizzles between them.

My Thoughts: Well, it’s not very often that I give a 1-star rating, but this one kinda deserves it. I had a lot of issues with this book, so let’s get right into it, shall we?

  • Issue #1: It’s not realistic to write a novel about a girl who is fresh out of college and starts her own sports management company out of the blue where she has no setbacks whatsoever. First of all, you need to earn the role of CEO by working your way through the ranks, starting at the bottom. She did nothing of the sort and yet, she has a large office in San Francisco with dozens of employees, none of whom resent her for being CEO when she’s 10+ years younger than them? Not relatable, not realistic. It’s also not realistic to have zero setbacks when it comes to starting a business, other than her own insecurity.
  • Issue #2: After being a backup QB during his rookie season, Nathan is now the starting quarterback for an NFL team and yet again, the author has this kid encounter zero setbacks during his first handful of games on the field. His only setback is his own insecurity about taking over for the team his stepfather played for (which in and of itself is a really weird plot twist). I watch football religiously and one thing I know for certain is that anyone’s first time at starting QB doesn’t always go smoothly. There are kinks to figure out and that’s fairly expected. For him to come on the field and immediately be a Tom Brady-level quarterback is so unrealistic that I skimmed my way past the football parts because I just didn’t care.
  • Issue #3: There was no conflict whatsoever in this novel! Romances need to have conflict. They need to have a push/pull dynamic. And there needs to be something happening beyond the romance. There could have been such an interesting side plot involving Mia and her business, but the author just chose to keep the whole novel at surface level.
  • Issue #4: Please. Stop. With. The. Sassy. Black. Best. Friends. That is not okay.

So I mean, yeah. If you hung around for that rant, thanks! I just had to get it off my chest. I’ve read probably 15 or so romances by Jaci Burton, but I think this is the last one I’ll be reading. I just cannot get over how utterly unrealistic and boring this novel was, not to mention the gloriously awful writing. (Usually, I can look past her writing when the romance is sizzlin’, but it just wasn’t there in this one.)

What I’m Reading This Week

  • How to Walk Away by Katherine Center – This was my pick from Book of the Month’s May selections (<– affiliate link; sign up with my code to get a free book!) It tackles a very difficult topic, but in a way that doesn’t make it feel too heavy. I started reading it on Saturday morning and I’m nearly finished, so that can give you an indication of just how much I’m loving it.
  • Moonlight Over Manhattan by Sarah Morgan – Once I finish How to Walk Away, I’ll start this fun contemporary romance from one of my faves.
  • The Engagements by J. Courtney Sullivan – I was originally going to read this book back in April, but the timing didn’t work out. (I didn’t think I’d be able to finish it before my cruise and didn’t want to bring such a hefty book with me.) So I’m going to start it this week and I hope it’s as great as I expect!

What are you reading this week?

Categories: Books

Reading Wrap-Up | April 2018

April was a great month of reading for me, and I’m reading at an insane pace once again. I finished my 50th book within the first few days of May, which means I could maybe hit 150 books read this year. However, before you get too excited about that number, please remember that I read a lot of romance novels. Probably 60% of what I read is romance, so that’s important to bear in mind. Thanks to the Bookly app, I’ll be able to deduce how long it takes me to read a romance versus a non-romance, and I’m interested in how the numbers compare! As one friend put it, even if I am reading a lot of romance, reading time is reading time and it all counts.

Anywho, here’s my reading wrap-up for the month of April:

April Reading List

In April, I read 10 books and abandoned one. Here were my favorites from this month:

  • Overall favorite: Dreamland Burning by Jennifer Latham (review)
  • Favorite romance: An Extraordinary Union by Alyssa Cole
  • Other 4 and 5-star reads:
    • Take the Lead by Alexis Daria (review)
    • Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah (review)
    • The Way Home by Cindy Gerard (review)
    • Make Me Want by Katee Robert (review)
    • Men We Reaped by Jesmyn Ward (review)
    • Remedial Rocket Science by Susannah Nix
  • Book I was lukewarm about: The Wife by Alafair Burke
  • Book I didn’t like: Everybody’s Son by Thrity Umrigar (review)
  • Book I abandoned: Astrophysics for People in a Hurry by Neil deGrasse Tyson

Other Book Stats

  • Number of pages read: 2,992
  • Breakdown of formats: e-books (6), physical copies (2), audiobooks (2)
  • Book that took me the longest time to read: Everybody’s Son (12 days)
  • Book that took me the shortest time to read: Remedial Rocket Science (1 day)
  • Breakdown of genres: romance (5), nonfiction (2), fiction (1), YA (1), thriller (1)
  • Number of diverse reads: 6 (60%)
  • Where I sourced my books: library/Overdrive (7), Audible (1), Thriftbooks (1), Amazon (1)
  • How much I spent this month: $3.86

Favorite Book Quotes

“We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most. Failure is an answer. Rejection is an answer. Regret is an eternal question you will never have the answer to.” – Born a Crime

“What I did not understand then was that the same pressures were weighing on us all. My entire community suffered from a lack of trust: we didn’t trust society to provide the basics of a good education, safety, access to good jobs, fairness in the justice system. And even as we distrusted the society around us, the culture that cornered us and told us were perpetually less, we distrusted each other. We did not trust our fathers to raise us, to provide for us. Because we trusted nothing, we endeavored to protect ourselves, boys becoming misogynistic and violent, girls turning duplicitous, all of us hopeless.” – Men We Reaped

“I understand now that history only moves forward in a straight line when we learn from it. Otherwise it loops past the same mistakes over and over again.” – Dreamland Burning

What was the best book you read in April?

Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (4.23.18)

Happy Monday, friends! It’s a great week for me because I only have to get through the next five days before I’m on my cruise! YAY! My mom and I booked this cruise such a long time ago, and I can’t believe we’re almost there.

This will likely be the last “What I’m Reading” post for a while. I’m not posting next week and when I come back, I want to do some monthly recaps and then trip recaps, so it’s looking like May 21st will be the grand return of “What I’m Reading.”

I finished three books last week (nearly finished four – I’ll finish the romance I’m reading today!) and they were all fantastic 4- or 5-star reads. Love weeks like that! Let’s dive in:

Books Finished

Title: Make Me Want
Author: Katee Robert
Format: e-book
Published: 2018
Rating: ★★★★☆

I breezed through this fun, light-hearted romance novel. The novel begins when high-powered lawyer Lucy asks her friend, headhunter Gideon, for a favor. She has learned that she has the potential to become a partner at her law firm, but that she’ll only be considered if she’s married. So, she wants Gideon to find her a husband. Oh, and she also wants Gideon to give her lessons on how to be better at sex. Yeah. It’s a fun premise and I think Robert does a great job at capturing both Lucy and Gideon’s internal motivations to bring about a compelling narrative. This novel is the first in her new series and I cannot wait to see where she takes it from here. (Add to Goodreads.)

Title: Dreamland Burning
Author: Jennifer Latham
Format: Library audiobook
Published: 2017
Rating: ★★★★★

Did you know that the Tulsa race riot, which happened in 1921, is considered one of the worst acts of racial violence in the US? It’s not surprising if you haven’t because it wasn’t until 1996 that a commission was formed to study this race riot, and not until 2001 that the commission published its final report. Meaning, this race riot was omitted from so much of our history, the victims silenced. It’s horrific, and I am so grateful for Jennifer Latham bringing this story to life. The story skips back and forth in time, between the present day and 1921. Present day finds us with 17-year-old Rowan, the summer before her senior year of college. On one of her first days of summer break, she discovers a skeleton on her property and decides she’ll play amateur sleuth along with her best friend to find out who this skeleton was and what happened to him or her. Meanwhile, in the past, 17-year-old Will is living in segregated Tulsa where he’s forced to work at his dad’s fancy Victrola shop and deal with a supremely racist neighbor. The storylines are woven together so intricately, and in a way that allows readers to see just how little race relations have changed in a near century. Sure, we’re not segregating people anymore, but we’re not living in some post-racial utopia. Not even a little bit. As the story progresses, it’s easy to recognize that it’s all going to culminate in a scary, horrifying way. I listened to this book on audio and it was fantastic. Almost movie-like in the production, so I highly recommend it on audio. (Add to Goodreads.)

Title: Men We Reaped
Author: Jesmyn Ward
Format: Library e-book
Published: 2013
Rating: ★★★★☆

After Jesmyn Ward lost five young men in her life in close succession, starting with her brother, she decided she needed to get to the bottom of why. So she wrote this memoir that explores the lives of these young men, as well as her own life, as a way to come to terms with what happened and why it happened. It’s a powerful story about the history of racism, the effects of economic struggle, and the impact that these deaths had on her and her entire community. It’s not a fun or easy read, but an incredibly important one. As much as I’d love to only read what makes me happy, I read to expand my own personal worldview and to hear stories that are so different from my own. This book is a great companion to Evicted by Matthew Desmond, and I highly encourage everyone to give it a try. (Add to Goodreads.)

Books Abandoned

Well, I was worried this would happen! I abandoned Astrophysics for People in a Hurry by Neil deGrasse Tyson because the content was a bit too deep for me. Since I am super interested in astronomy (I even took an astronomy class for “fun” in college, just to expand my knowledge), I thought I would be able to hold my own with this book, but it just wasn’t for me. I feel like Tyson does his best to break down the science and make it easy to digest for people like me, but even so, I found myself having to read sentences over and over and over again so I could understand what he was saying. And most of it still went over my head. And, you know, that’s totally okay. A part of me feels dumb for not being able to “get it,” but another part of me just accepts that concepts like these work better for me in a different format. I thought about trying the book on audio, but I think that would go even worse because my mind wanders a lot when listening to audiobooks (which is why most of the nonfiction I listen to is memoirs). Instead, I think I may take the “easy” way out and just start watching Cosmos, Tyson’s docuseries about space. I watched the first four episodes on Netflix but then stopped for reasons I don’t know. So, I think I’m going to restart and get my astronomy “fix” that way. Live and learn. 🙂

What I’m Reading This Week

  • An Extraordinary Union by Alyssa Cole – I am nearly finished with this historical romance, and it’s one I am having such a hard time putting down! It’s so well-written and the premise is so unique! It’s also the kind of romance I feel like I could recommend to readers who want to read something light-hearted, but that also has a lot of substance.
  • The Engagements by J. Courtney Sullivan – I’ve heard great things about this book and I really, really enjoy Sullivan’s writing style, so I’m excited to give this one a try. I’ve had a copy of the book sitting on my bookshelf for over two years, so it’s time to sit down and read it.
  • The Wife by Alafair Burke – This is my book club’s May pick that I’m going to read while I’m on my cruise. It’s a domestic thriller, which should make it perfect reading at a time when I don’t have to put down a page-turner if I don’t want to!

What are you reading this week?