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Categories: Holidays

My Christmas Wish List

In my family, we’re wish list people. I love shopping from a wish list. It takes away so much of the stress of holiday shopping because I know exactly what my people want and I can get it for them. I don’t have a wish list to buy from for everyone on my Christmas gift list (friends, my stepdad, my sister-in-law to name a few), but knowing I only need to think about presents for a handful of people makes things a lot easier. I also don’t have to worry about buying teacher gifts or gifts for postal workers/trash collectors/etc, so that makes things easier, too. And even though we’re a wish list family, I try to find a few items for my mom that she didn’t put on her wish list. That’s one of my favorite things to do!

For a while, my family was just sharing our gift ideas in a group chat but it quickly got messy. So I found an app called Giftster where you can set up wish lists, add links to the exact items you want, and keep everything neat and organized. Other people can mark items as “reserved” or “purchased” (the gift receiver will not see anything!) so you don’t accidentally end up buying multiples of something. You can even set up lists for your pets (if you’re the kind of family that buys gifts for the pets; we definitely are). It makes things so easy! (This is not any sort of paid ad – I genuinely love and use the app!)

Okay enough about all of that. Let’s get into my Christmas wish list. Here are some of the items I added to my list this year:

1) Cycling shoes ($76) – I’m attending spin class once a week now and enjoying it a lot. I have never had cycling shoes for spin (not even when I was doing Peloton) but for some reason, I find the cage pedals on the spin bikes at my gym to be really awkward. They’re hard to fit into and then I never feel totally comfortable with my foot placement when I’m cycling out of the saddle. I didn’t do a ton of research on the best cycling shoes, but chose the Tommaso Pista cycling shoes since they have over 4,000 ratings and 4.4 stars.

2) Book Lover’s Reading Challenge ($30) – I saw this reading challenge at a bookstore and loved the idea, but I didn’t feel like paying $30 for it. Onto the Christmas list it goes! There are 25 different challenges (examples: reread a favorite book, read in a place you’ve never read before, etc.) and you get a fun prize when you complete each one.

3. Stanley Quencher H2.0 Tumbler ($45) – I want to be a basic bitch (<– is that still the term?!) and have a Stanley like all of the other hydrated girlies, so I put one on my wish list. Plus, this water bottle is bigger than what I’ve been using so hopefully it’ll help me drink more water!

4. Water bottle holder ($26) – Speaking of hydration, how awkward is it to carry a water bottle around when you’re at an event or walking around a city? Very awkward. This water bottle holder makes things a lot more convenient. There’s even a zippered pouch and phone holder so I could use it as a makeshift purse if I needed to.

5) Reading tracker ($26) – Do I need yet another way to track my reading? (I use Goodreads, my blog, and a very detailed spreadsheet.) Probably not. But this one looks like something I very much need in my reading life. (This isn’t the one I put on my Christmas list—it’s sold out on the Etsy shop I linked to on Giftster—but it’s similar.) There’s a place to write reviews, list out the books I’m reading, fill in some reading challenges, etc.

6) Egyptian cotton pillowcases ($15-18) – This is the most boring thing on my wish list, but sometimes you need boring things. I want to upgrade my bedding with really luxurious sheets and pillowcases because having a decadent place to sleep feels like the dreamiest thing ever. These pillowcases have a 500 thread count and look so cozy! I asked for a set of king and queen pillowcases.

7) Reading pillow ($50) – I’m not sure why I added this pillow to my Amazon wish list, but it would be a lovely present to receive. I love how versatile it is – I can use it to prop up my legs when I’m reading or use it for extra back and neck support when I’m sleeping. It’s pretty expensive, but maybe I’m on Santa’s nice list this year.

8) Coffee mug warmer ($20) – Is there anything worse than taking a sip of coffee and realizing it’s cold? Yuck! This mug warmer would come in handy since I sometimes get distracted in the mornings and forget to drink my coffee in a timely manner!

9) Makeup organizer ($42) – I would use this fancy organizer for more than makeup, but also elastics, clips, claws, etc. I put this on my wish list because I want a way to showcase my makeup in an organized way. Right now, I keep it all hidden away in a bag in my closet. It’s not very well-organized, and I find myself a lot less apt to pull it out. This is quite the stack of drawers, but it is probably exactly what I need.

10) iPad ($300) – Do I think my family is going to spend $300 on me this holiday season? Absolutely not. But one day, my mom was telling me I needed to add more things to my wish list so I added an iPad just to be funny. My mom thinks I’m a real riot.

What’s on your Christmas wish list?

Categories: Holidays

Birthsgiving Snapshots

My annual birthday selfie! Plus, I had curled my hair and put on actual makeup (we’re talking foundation and eye makeup, people!) so I had to take a cute selfie for the occasion.

Snuggles with Lucy before Thanksgiving dinner. She’s the best little snuggler.

Thanksgiving dinner! My stepdad made this whole meal (aside from the pumpkin bread, which my mom made), and it was all so delicious. He did an amazing job!

I requested cupcakes for my birthday. Mmm!

We had the cutest little puppy at Thanksgiving! Cici was the best little girl (she doesn’t bother us when we’re sitting at the table eating, which is WILD) and I am just so in love with this sweetie.

I had a very relaxing evening. I took a short nap when I came home from my mom’s house, spent a lot of time reading, watched a disappointing football game (stupid Dolphins), and snuggled some cute girls.

Categories: Holidays

24 Things I’m Grateful For This Year

1. My cats – The way Lila hardcore snuggles with me every morning in bed and the way Eloise curls up into my lap when I’m lying on the couch and the way they jump on the table to greet me when I come home. I am so obsessed with my cats.

2. Dr. Pepper – Nothing tastes as delicious to me as an ice-cold can of Dr. Pepper. I will never quit you!

3. A job I love – I’m grateful every day that I have a job that doesn’t make me miserable. I don’t get the Sunday Scaries and I genuinely like what I do and the people I work with.

4. People who take the time to film and produce funny Reels/TikToks – It may feel like something silly, but I really appreciate the creativity of people who make online content (bonus points if it’s dog or cat focused). It’s something that lifts my spirits every day.

5. Chip and Lucy – I call them “my babies” because they are. I love them obsessively.

6. Pizza – My diet is made up of 40% pizza. A conservative estimate. Where would I be without ooey, gooey, delicious pizza?

7. My CPAP machine – While I wish I didn’t have to use it, I am so grateful to live in a time where we have the technology to help those of us with sleep apnea disorders. I have so much more energy!

8. Online ordering – The convenience of being able to tap away at my phone and get whatever I need is astounding to me.

9. Book club – My friendships are some of the most important things in my life and having developed deep, loving friendships with the members of my book club is something I don’t take for granted. They mean the world to me.

10. Silly phone games – Oh, how I love thee! They are such a great way to dissociate and distract me when I need a brain break.

11. My brother – Of course! We are only 14 months apart in age so we were very close growing up (while also squabbling a LOT—my poor mother). We are still close now and I consider him one of my best friends.

12. Dishwashers – What an amazing invention. I never used my dishwasher until this year when my apartment complex announced they were doing a flat rate for water usage. That rate was double what I was paying for my water bill, which prompted me to start using my dishwasher more. (As a single gal, it’s hard for me to fill up an entire dishwasher, which is why I was handwashing more often than not.) Now I don’t know why I wasted so much of my time handwashing! Dishwashers are amazing.

13. The blog community – Where would I be without this sweet blog community we’ve built? I love sharing my life with all of you and getting your advice and commiseration and support. I’m so thankful for each and every one of you!

14. Fluffy pillows – I sleep with a lot of pillows and it’s so decadent. I love my bed so much and especially all of my fluffy pillows!

15. Being a reader – I love being a reader. I love reading books and talking about books and learning about new books and book podcasts and bookish t-shirts and bookstores and libraries and organizing my reading life. Everything about reading and being a reader lights me up.

16. Podcasts – Living alone can get a little lonely at times, but not when you have your parasocial relationships chit-chatting with you in the background! I listen to podcasts throughout my days and have developed quite the parasocial friendships with so many podcasters.

17. Lexapro – Generalized anxiety sucks and Lexapro balances my brain just enough so that I’m not living as if I’m balancing on the edge of a cliff every day.

18. Working from home – I love working from home and I would never want to work somewhere that has in-the-office mandates. I get to snuggle my cats during meetings, take a siesta in the middle of the day if I’m tired, and work bra-less if I want. It’s the best!

19. My apartment – This little space of mine makes me so happy. I love that I get to decorate it whatever way I want and that I don’t have to put up with anyone else. Living alone is my favorite thing!

20. Reality TV – I am a whore for reality TV shows (typically, I like when they’re strategy or competition based, not stuff like Real Housewives). I have watched so much reality TV this year and it makes me happy.

21. Football – Yes, there are a lot of things wrong with the sport but I love football all the same. It’s a bonding activity for my brother and me.

22. Financial security – I grew up poor and spent a lot of my twenties barely scraping by. It feels so good to be financially secure and in a place where I can pay my bills, save money, and buy whatever I need.

23. My gym – I never thought I’d be a gym person but here I am: someone who looks forward to dying during HIIT classes and spin classes, and enjoys the atmosphere of being in the gym.

24. My relationship with my mom – There is so much I could say here. My mom is my soulmate and I am so grateful for the relationship we have. It’s a healthy, happy, strong relationship. I’m always excited when she calls me or I get to spend time with her. We travel together, shop together, and talk on the phone multiple times a day. I love our relationship and I don’t take a single day with her for granted.

Categories: Holidays

Thanksgiving Day

It is Thanksgiving Day in the U.S., and I have a lovely day ahead of me.

Right after finishing this post, I will start making the cookies I’m bringing to our Thanksgiving Day dinner. I made the batter last night (and also “tested” the batter by baking a few cookies for myself). And then I’ll take a shower and make myself presentable for our family gathering.

My cousin is hosting Thanksgiving this year. And it’s going to be a bittersweet holiday this year, as it could be the last one with my uncle. I wrote previously that his cancer returned a few months ago and it’s now terminal. He’s doing as well as expected—good days and bad days. He gets IV fluids and medication regularly, which seems to be helping a bit. But it’s hard to know what the future holds, and we’re preparing for this to be our last Thanksgiving with him.

Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday. It helps that my birthday is either on Thanksgiving or very close to it, so it’s always had a special meaning for me. (Although it also meant my birthday parties when I was younger had to be earlier in the month or postponed because everyone was usually traveling/busy during my actual birthday weekend.) But what’s not to love about a holiday that’s about food, football, and family? Okay, football may not enter the equation for many people, but it does for me and my family. We always have the games on in the background, which is fun. And I love having a Thursday night game, too, which I can watch while slumped on my couch and eating Thanksgiving leftovers.

Holidays can be hard for so many people for so many reasons. And if it’s a hard day for you, please know you are in my heart and I wish I could bring you to my family Thanksgiving. I feel grateful that I am able to enjoy this holiday to the fullest with family I actually like and love. That’s a gift in and of itself.

What’s something you’re thankful for today?

Categories: Holidays

Picking Out a 2023 Advent Calendar

Fun fact: I have never bought an advent calendar for myself. Why? I don’t really know. I guess I didn’t realize there were so many niche and cool advent calendars to choose from, not just calendars that give you a mediocre piece of chocolate every day. For the last two years, I’ve gotten the cats an advent calendar, which has been fun. But two years and 20+ toys later… it’s time for something different. It’s time for an advent calendar for me.

But which one should I get? A few nights ago, I spent way too long scrolling through Amazon and advent calendar listicles to find the perfect calendar and I’ve narrowed them down to a few options.

The Book Lover’s Advent Calendar

How can I resist this? It’s 25 fun little trinkets, like stickers and bookmarks and ornaments, to delight in. This is the first advent calendar I came across and I haven’t been able to think about anything else since.

Peppermint Bark Advent Calendar

Peppermint bark is one of my favorite Christmastime treats, so this would be the perfect calendar for me to enjoy throughout the season.

Beauty Advent Calendar (Sephora, Ulta)

These advent calendars are a bit pricey, but I think I would use everything I got from them. And how fun would it be to open up a new beauty product to try every day of December? There’s the Ulta advent calendar that is $45 for 15 goodies and the Sephora Collection advent calendar that’s $85 for 24 goodies.

The 12 Coffees of Christmas

I love coffee and drink a few cups of it every day. So maybe a coffee advent calendar would be fun! I’d get to try out a ton of new flavors throughout December, which could be an exciting way to enjoy the season. But I’m also kinda picky about my coffee flavors and I’m worried I’ll get a bunch of flavors I don’t like. Hmm.

Puzzle Advent Calendar

This one looks fun! Every day you get 42 pieces of a puzzle and by Christmas, you’ll have a 1,000+ piece puzzle completed. I would love to buy this calendar, but the cats would not cooperate, I don’t think. I would need to buy some sort of puzzle board to keep the pieces away from the girls when not in use.

Choosing one of these advent calendars is going to be quite the adventure, but I think we all know which one I’m most leaning toward. Nothing would be more on-brand for me than getting a bookish advent calendar! I’ll keep everyone posted on what I end up choosing!

Which of these advent calendars would YOU choose? Do you have any advent calendar recommendations for me?

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