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Categories: Holidays

Stephany’s Christmas Wonderland

There’s nothing I love more than seeing my apartment all decorated for Christmas. While I like a minimalist interior every other month of the year, all bets are off when December rolls around. I want every available space covered in holiday knick-knacks, sparkly garland, twinkling lights, and sweet Christmas signage. Every year, I seem to accumulate more Christmas decorations—right now, I have two big bins to store all of my decorations and I may need to add a third soon!—because I just can’t stop myself when I see all the signs and knick-knacks at TJ Maxx, Homegoods, Target, etc. Christmas decorations make me so happy! Next year, I think I’m going to add some Christmas pillows to my decor because I think that’s the one thing my apartment is missing.

I love transforming my apartment into a Christmas wonderland every year, and I hope you enjoyed this little tour through my apartment.

Categories: Holidays

My 2021 Christmas Wish List

My family still sends Christmas lists. It’s something we love—spoiling each other with gifts once a year. I know, I know. “Christmas is not about the gifts!” That’s true. But, in my family, we enjoy gift-giving, so it’s a big part of our Christmas. Every year, I like to write a post with some of the things I added to my Christmas list. This is just for fun and to sprinkle in a bit of holiday magic to my blog. There are no affiliate links here, nothing like that!

Air fryer ($72)

This is one of those “the Internet made me do it” purchases. Everyone talks about their air fryers and now I want one! I don’t even know how I would use it—do you fry vegetables in it to make them tastier? Hmm. I guess I have some Googling to do if Santa brings me one of these this year!

World Map canvas print ($72)

I’ve always wanted a large canvas print of the world to hang on my wall. I was sitting in a meeting with a client in late October and she had a beautiful world map print on her wall, and it inspired me to go on the hunt for a similar one to add to my Christmas list. I found this canvas print on Wayfair and it’s perfect.

adidas Stan Smith white shoes ($100)

White tennis shoes seem to be all the rage these days, and I really want a pair for myself. I’d much rather wear tennis shoes than sandals, especially if I’m going to be walking around a lot, and these have gorgeous gold embellishments and give me heart eyes.

Stand mixer ($141)

While I would lose my mind to get a Kitchenaid stand mixer, it’s really hard for me to justify spending over $400 on one of those when there are comparable dupes that are much, much cheaper. This stand mixer from Aucma gets great reviews and comes in a gorgeous teal color!

Peloton ($1,500)

I put this on my Christmas list as a joke. Of course, I am not expecting my family to shell out thousands of dollars for a silly spin bike! I don’t know if I even need a “real” Peloton when my knockoff bike works just fine. (It would be nice to track my output and have a better gauge of my resistance, but that’s not something I necessarily need.) And I’m sure my family is getting tired of my jokes, but I’m committed to the bit now, haha. Also, I’m about 95% positive my brother is going to get me a Peloton ornament as a joke, which I will take in stride. (Get it???)

Weighted blanket ($40)

Weighted blankets are supposed to be a useful tool for anxiety, so I’ve had my eye on them for a while now. As someone who sleeps with a quilt every day of the year (yep, even in the summer—I keep my apartment ice cold, haha), I think I will fall in love!

Bluetooth speaker ($30)

A lot of times, I put things on my Christmas list that I can buy myself but sometimes have a hard time pushing that “purchase” button. The Bluetooth speaker is that. It’s not expensive, but it’s been languishing on my Amazon wish list for months. To the Christmas list it goes! I really want a speaker like this so I can listen to my podcasts no matter where I am in my apartment. Often, I have to bring my phone with me from room to room, even though my apartment isn’t that big. And if my phone is out of juice, then I’m SOL completely! I think a Bluetooth speaker would significantly upgrade my life.

Trunk organizer ($40)

I’ve always wanted one of these trunk organizers and now that I have a functioning trunk (in my old car, the trunk was ridiculously hard to open so I rarely used it), I put one of these organizers on my list to keep things neat and tidy. Who else hates listening to your stuff rolling around in the trunk when you make a sharp turn?

Floor lamp ($55)

I’ve been wanting a new floor lamp, but haven’t made the purchase happen just yet. This one is adjustable, dimmable, and in the exact style I’ve been looking for!

10) Cat ornaments ($17)

How cute are these personalized cat ornaments? I definitely need something like this on my tree!

What’s something on your Christmas list this year?

Categories: Holidays

Thanksgiving Day

Happy Thanksgiving, friends! Or happy Thursday, if you’re not in the United States. 🙂

I woke up around a little after 8 a.m. this morning with one cat curled up by my side and another one trilling at me for early morning snuggles. I was more than happy to oblige her.

Our family’s Thanksgiving dinner is scheduled for later this afternoon. On the agenda for this morning is to make deviled eggs, put away all the boxes that held my Christmas decor (my apartment has been transformed into a holiday wonderland and I can’t wait to show you all soon!), and maybe take a cat nap before the festivities. I baked my famous cookies last night and I may have a handful of them throughout the morning. We’ll see!

I know that Covid has made holidays a really weird time for so many of us, and I am really grateful that I have family nearby that I feel safe being around. There will be a big group of us (17 people in total) and my cousin is hosting. She lives just 10 minutes from me, so no crazy traveling required. We’ll miss certain members of our family—it’s always weird to have these big family get-togethers without Grandma and Pops—but I predict that it will be a really good time and I will leave with a full belly and a full heart.

Thanksgiving is truly one of my favorite holidays (it can’t displace Christmas, of course, but I do love a holiday that is just about getting together with those you love and eating really good food) and I’m so excited it’s here and the holiday season can truly kick into high gear after today. This is my favorite time of the year and I just want to enjoy every minute of it. <3

Categories: Holidays

A-Z Thankful List (Round 2)

Last year, I made a list of the things I was thankful for, using every letter of the alphabet. It gets hard when you get down to those more difficult letters (looking at you, Q, X, and Z) but it’s a really fun way to look back on the year and think of all the good things in it. Here’s my A-Z thankful list for 2021!

A – ASMR. These days, I don’t know if I could fall asleep without ASMR. I usually get in bed, read my book until I start feeling sleepy, and then I set my alarm, pop in my earbuds, and open up YouTube to watch ASMR videos for 20-30 minutes. Here are some of my favorite ASMRtists: Bluewhisper, Calliope Whispers ASMR, Madi ASMR, VedaASMR, WhispersRed ASMR, Moonlight Cottage ASMR, and Peony ASMR.

B – Baby Lucy. What a fun addition to our family! Lucy is just the sweetest little lady (but also very feisty; she can hold her own against Chip). I am so obsessed with her and I am so excited for the end of December, as my mom and stepdad are going away on vacation and I’m going to be on dogsitting duty. Yay!

C – Car. My new car is definitely something I’m thankful for this Thanksgiving! It’s been a long time coming and she is the perfect car for me. I love her so much!

D – Dr. Pepper. My obsession. Dr. Pepper is my favorite soda and I drink way too much of it.

E – Eloise. My heart and soul. Eloise is my extroverted cat (she’ll hang out with guests when they come over) and she’s also near my side throughout much of the day. Sometimes, she’ll even lie down right in front of my keyboard, which can be a bit of a hindrance to getting work done but she’s cute and soft and I don’t mind it.

F – Football Sundays. I love our Football Sundays so much. It’s great to spend so much time with my family and, of course, I love watching football!

G – Girls’ dinners with Rachel and Mia. Sometime over the summer, my mom and I started meeting up with my cousin Rachel and her 9-year-old daughter Mia for Monday night dinners every few weeks. It has been so nice to have these dinners with them! I love them both to pieces and it feels good to remain connected with them in this way.

H – Hot baths. I love bubble baths with a passion, as you all know. I take one almost every day and there is nothing better than sinking into that hot water and playing Candy Crush on my phone while I soak.

I – Inauguration. It feels like a lifetime ago, but Biden was inaugurated this year! What an incredible day that was. A day filled with hope and promise. While things haven’t exactly progressed like I’d hoped with Biden’s presidency, we are still in a much better place today than we were this time last year.

J – Job. I celebrated 8 years at my company in August. This year came with a ton of new and exciting changes, including a lot more responsibilities and a pay increase. I’m happy that I love where I work!

K – Kayaking. So I only went kayaking once this year, but I loved it so very much and I would like to try to plan more kayaking trips in 2022!

L – Lila. My sweet introverted girl. She is my little model who really knows how to pose for a picture. She’s more skittish than Ellie, but she’s just as sweet and incredibly snuggly (on her terms). I love her dearly!

M – Mom. My mom is truly my best friend and my favorite person. We have such a special bond and it’s one I don’t take for granted. As I’ve gotten older, our relationship has been less mom/daughter and more friendship, which means we both lean on each other when we’re feeling low. I don’t know what I would do without her!

N – Nephews. My two nephews are such a joy! Jovy is 13 and Dominic is 6 and they are such fun little dudes. Jovy is obsessed with sports and his whole wardrobe is basically jerseys at this point. Dominic is hysterical and I do believe he has a future in stand-up comedy. Get ready, world!

O – Olive beating cancer. What a whirlwind year my friend Mikaela and her family have had with Olive’s cancer diagnosis at the end of 2020 and learning that it was a rare, aggressive form of cancer that only a handful of people ever in the history of our world have had. Olive being so young (13 months when she was diagnosed) meant a lot of surgeons weren’t willing to do surgery to remove the tumor. I am so thankful that Mikaela found a surgeon who was confident he could do the surgery, that Olive made it through surgery with flying colors, and that she got through all her rounds of intense chemo. It’s been four months since her last round of chemo and she’s had clear scans ever since. Her hair is growing back, her energy levels are normal, and she gets to just be a kid after 8 months of doctors and hospitals and imaging scans. This is what I am most thankful for this year.

P – Peloton. I am so glad I hopped on the Peloton train! I don’t have a Peloton bike because, woof, those are pricey. Instead, I bought a $400 bike off Amazon that is lodged into a corner of my bedroom and I prop my laptop on my bed to stream the workouts. It’s working out for me just fine!

Q – Quaint home. This year, I’ve been able to invest some time and money into my home to make it the cozy place I want it to be. From new wall hangings and more bookcases to a comfy sectional and a new TV, it’s been a year of figuring out what I want different areas of my home to look like and then making that happen.

R – Reading dates with Amber. Amber and I love having reading dates! We typically meet in a park and chat for around 20-30 minutes and then we set a timer (45 minutes, usually) and read silently next to each other. It’s a really lovely way to spend time with a friend and get some reading time in!

S – Sectional. I bought my sectional in January of this year and it is one of my most prized possessions! It is so comfortable and cozy, and I have taken many a power nap on that couch during my workdays.

T – Traveling again. I didn’t do a lot of traveling in 2021, just a four-day trip to Chicago in August, but it was so lovely to be able to travel safely again! Mom and I are even considering a cruise for 2022 (as long as they uphold their “vaccinated guests only” policies), which is super exciting to think about. I haven’t been on a cruise since 2019 and I miss them so much.

U – Ubereats. You all know that my biggest budget kryptonite is restaurants. I order takeout at least 3-5 times a week, even though I know I would save so much money if I just a) went to the restaurant and picked up the food myself or b) stopped ordering takeout so often. Alas, I don’t see either of those things happening anytime soon! I love the convenience of Ubereats and I really don’t enjoy cooking (especially for just one person). Ubereats has been a lifesaver for me.

V – Vaccinated. I got vaccinated this year! It was such a thrill to get my COVID vaccine and know I was protected from the virus.

W – Wedding. Celebrating Sara and Natalie’s wedding was such a beautiful thing. I love both of those women oh-so-very much. I cried throughout the ceremony, danced my heart out with my family, and enjoyed every minute of the wedding.

X – eXcellent shows. From Bridgerton, which put me in a TV slump for weeks, to Brooklyn 99, which helped me through some really tough days, to The Crown, which had me going down so many royalty rabbit holes on the Internet, TV has been good to me this year.

Y – YOU GUYS. I am so thankful to the people who read this blog. I am thankful for the people who comment regularly, those who comment every once in a while, and those who prefer to stay anonymous. I am thankful for the blog readers who email me to let me know that they’re there and those who check in on me when more than a few weeks have passed since my last post. This blog truly feels like a community and knowing that my words are making a difference in people’s lives is nothing short of amazing.

Z – Zzz’s. Naps are my happy place and I usually plan my weekends around my nap schedule. 🙂 This year, I’ve gotten into taking shorter naps (it used to be very normal for me to take a 3-4 hour nap) and I think that’s a very good thing. A one-hour power nap on the couch usually gives me more energy than a four-hour nap in my bed!

What’s something you’re thankful for this year that starts with the letter “S”?

Categories: Holidays

Stephany’s Christmas Wonderland

While I still need to do a home tour of my apartment, hopefully, this little sneak peek will satisfy you guys for now. With such a bigger space, I was able to fully lean into my Christmas obsession this year. I bought a bigger tree and more ornaments and more decorations to place around my home. It truly feels like a Christmas wonderland in here!

I put up outside Christmas lights for the first time in yeeeeears. I hung some lights around my windows and wrapped my balcony railing with lights. So festive!

The huge stocking I put up above my TV is a family relic. We’ve had it since I was a kid, and it’s one of my most favorite things to bring out every year. It reminds me of my dad in a happy way, and I cherish memories like those.

I love the little Christmas scene in my bedroom—I love waking up in the middle of the night to the glow of Christmas lights. I bought the monogrammed stockings this year at Target. I needed a new stocking, and had to get tiny stockings for the girls! Perfect. Also, I took that photo before Eloise realized how easy it is to bat down the “merry” banner, sigh. Every time I re-hang it, it’s batted down within half a day. Stinker!

Do you see the rock in the middle of my dining room table? (Here’s a better picture.) My friend Kim painted it for me! Isn’t it amazing? She is so damn talented.

It’s weird—usually, I get to a point in December where I’m ready to take down the decorations and restore my apartment to its normal state (usually the day after Christmas, I’m sad to say!), but this year, I think I’ll leave up the decorations for a while. Maybe it’s because I need the extra cheer. Maybe it’s because I have a bigger apartment and it doesn’t feel as suffocating to have so many extra things around.

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas. If you are the praying type, please keep Mikaela, Nick, and baby Olive in your prayers. While they were hoping a surgeon in Miami would take her case, the surgeon ultimately declined because it was too risky. Her entire liver needs to be removed and there have been no successful cases of a liver transplant for this type of cancer. Instead, she started chemo yesterday and, while Olive’s oncologist doesn’t believe chemo responds to this type of tumor, I am going to believe with my whole heart and soul that it will. I will believe in a miracle. <3

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