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Categories: Recurring Series

Seven Quick Takes Friday (Vol. 8)

One. My post on Monday didn’t mean I was disappearing from the blogosphere until May! I’ll still be around, maybe just a little more silent on weeks where I have a lot due. I won’t be posting five-times-a-week, although today marks the first full day of my Spring Break so I’ll probably have a normal blogging week next week. I’ll still be commenting on blogs and trying to get a post or two up. I just felt that my readers deserved to know why I wouldn’t be as HERE for the next 2 months.

Two. Speaking of Spring Break, I’m FREE for the next 10 days! No classes, no internships, no waking up at 4:30am to get ready. I can just wake up, shower, throw my hair in a pony, grab my stuff, and go! I’m so looking forward to the break, even if I’ll be spending most of it just catching up with everything. I have a magazine to start designing, law journals to write, textbooks to read, assignments to complete. But I think I’ll be ready to tackle this last half of the semester and not have too many meltdowns.

Three. I received my book for Chelsea’s book swap Wednesday night. I was super excited about what it was when she e-mailed me, telling me how good it was and that she wanted to read it. And it looks awesome! I can’t wait to start reading it. I think I’m really going to enjoy it.

Four. Thanks for all the suggestions in my last post! The ones involving my faith were especially hard to hear but I totally understand. God does need to have the first-place spot in my life. I know when I’m following after Him and leaning on Him, things are a lot smoother. They’re not perfect. Things are still hard and I still feel stress. But I feel calmer, more in control. So I’m definitely going to work on our relationship, connecting more with God, and having a daily Bible study.

Five. Next Monday, I’m meeting with an adviser to schedule classes for Summer and Fall. Hopefully, my last two semesters of my undergrad career! I can’t believe I’m almost there. After everything I went through with being THISCLOSE to graduating with my Bachelor’s in Elementary Education and then everything falling apart, I felt as if I would never receive my degree. Two classes I’m extremely excited about taking are Social Media, News, and Society and Media Convergence. I really have no idea what I want to do when I leave school but something along public relations or social media does appeal to me a lot.

Six. I’m trying out replying to all my comments by e-mail. Whenever I get a e-mail from Erin after commenting on her blog, it fills me with warm fuzzies and I like the connection, even if I never do reply back. So we’ll see how this goes and how long I can keep up!

Seven. My plans for Friday-Sunday include sleeping, reading, and catching up on my Reader and DVR-ed shows. Notice there is nothing involving school? I’m not even thinking about school this weekend! It’s going to be absolutely divine. I plan on staying cuddled up in my bed on Saturday until noon at the earliest. Ughhh…I can’t wait!

Categories: Recurring Series

Ten on Tuesday (Vol. 12)

Check out Chelsea’s blog for her Mr. Linky and a list of other blogs who have completed this!

1. Fill in the blank. Sometimes I wish my life was more ______.

Exciting. I don’t really lead an exciting life, or even the life of an average 22-year-old. It’s a comfortable life and it’s nice for right now, but sometimes I feel as if I’m missing out on opportunities. I don’t really have girlfriends my age I can rely on, trust, and hang with. I really want to remedy that.

2. How do you cure the hiccups?

Peanut butter! Oh, my gosh, this works wonders! It’s never failed me before. Plus, peanut butter is so yummy to eat!

3. What are three of your favorite indulgences?

  • Sleeping. I love taking quick cat naps and sleeping in on weekends. I’m not one who feels awful and guilty after sneaking in a nap; I always feel refreshed and well-rested. I love, love, love to sleep!
  • Going out to eat. I love to eat. And I probably love going out to a restaurant more than cooking something at home. I would probably eat out every night (or most nights) if I could and if it was cost-effective. Which it isn’t. Unless you get bad service, then it is but you leave feeling let-down.
  • Chocolate. It may not be considered a total indulgence, since I have it just about every day but I just love me some chocolate! It’s definitely not good for my waistline, but hey, dark chocolate has some pretty good health benefits!

4. Where is the most exotic place you would like to travel to? The most mundane?

The most exotic place would definitely be Russia. Well, exotic in a culture frame of mind, not in a beach-y frame of mind. I have this strong connection to Russia that I think started when some type of Russian traveling museum came to our city when I was in first grade. We visited the place and I think I even bought one of those matryoshka dolls. So I would definitely love to travel there someday.

And the most mundane would probably be Orlando, since I’ve been there so many times. But I love taking a weekend getaway to Orlando, shopping at their amazing outlet mall, going to the Hard Rock for dinner, and going to all the amusement parks. Sea World is by far my absolute most favorite amusement park and my mom and I may be planning a trip there for my Spring Break. Disney is having an awesome deal right now where you can hit 4 of their amusement parks in 4 days for just $99. Fingers are crossed!

5. Does having your time planned out stress you or relax you?

It definitely relaxes me. On Saturdays, I usually have to have a list of things I was to accomplish so I just don’t sit around and get lazy. Having a list ensures that I’ll get everything I need done that day. When I don’t have a plan, it doesn’t exactly stress me out but I just don’t get much done. Which will, in turn, stress me out the next day.

6. What are your favourite fabrics to wear?

Hm…I’ve never really thought about it. I guess I’m a cotton type of girl. I like to be comfy and cotton is comfy to me. I also like denim. I love wearing jeans.

7. Do you sleep through the night?

Yes. I am a heavy, heavy, heavy sleeper. Once, I slept through a fire (including fire engines!) happening in the house next door to me. I love to sleep and have never had trouble staying asleep. It’s waking up that I have trouble with.

8. When you were younger, what did you think you would be doing at this age? How close is that to what you are doing?

Honestly, I never thought I’d make it past high school. I don’t know what it is with me, but my thought processes can’t go farther than a few years. When I entered high school, I never really thought about what I would be like in college, because I didn’t think I’d make it past high school! I don’t know if I’m just scared of the Second Coming of Christ or something else.

So, really, I just thought I’d be much more of a grown-up than I am. I thought I might have actually moved out of my mom’s house, had a real, grown-up job, and been this social butterfly. But I’m so not. I’m still like a 12-year-old in a lot of ways. Except not as awkward.

9. What has surprised you most about growing up?

Probably how much I enjoy my family. I never realized I was such a family girl until I moved away for a year and got so incredibly homesick that I had to come home. I only lived 30 minutes away but I missed my mom and my family so much during that year. And I know one day I am going to have to leave this town, find a job, and truly grow up. But, right now, I’m enjoying my life. I’m enjoying having my family so close by and no real responsibilities. I am lucky that I can depend on my mom to take care of my bills so I can solely focus on school. I’m definitely not taking that for granted!

10. Are you good at keeping secrets?

It depends. If you tell me a secret, I can keep it from everyone but my mom. I tell her everything and I’ll definitely tell her your secret. (Sorry! But she won’t tell anyone! I promise!) I’m usually good at keeping it from other people, especially people you don’t want me to know. For example, if I’m at work, and my co-teacher tells me someone and says, “YOU CAN’T TELL ANYONE!” I’m pretty good at that. But my mom will know the secret.

Bottom line is, just don’t tell me any secrets you wouldn’t want my mom to know. ‘Kay?

Categories: Recurring Series

Seven Quick Takes Friday (Vol. 7)


One. Last week, I started setting my alarm at 4:30am. FOUR. THIRTY. AY. EM. Doesn’t that just sound so wrong? But it’s actually helped! I have to leave the house before 6:30am and by setting my alarm at 4:30, I can get up by 5am, shower, get dressed, get ready, get breakfast, get my lunch ready, get my bag(s) ready, etc. Yes, it’s a process in the morning. But I get it done! Somewhat.

Two. I filed my taxes on Sunday night. I was hoping for a LOT more than I got. Wishful thinking? Perhaps. I was hoping to give a large chunk of it to my credit card that has a large balance but that won’t be happening. So it’s disappointing but after I lamented my misery on Twitter, I realized things could be a lot worse: I could owe money! Perspective.

Three. On Saturday night, my mom and I went out to Chili’s for dinner. And since we spend about 90% of our time together, we usually don’t have a lot to talk about at dinner. We were both trying to think about topics to talk about when she told me the FUNNIEST story of her first date with my dad. Basically, they went out to a nice restaurant and this was the conversation:

(Silence for many, many, MANY minutes.)
Dad: So, those are some nice pictures on the wall.
Mom: Yeah!
(Silence.)

I can’t believe they actually got married after this date! Basically, these were the only words spoken during the entire date. I really couldn’t stop laughing after hearing this. And I hope I never have a date like that.

Four. I went to Arby’s on Sunday afternoon and sat near a mother, father, and their three children. Two of the children happened to be twins, about 9-10 months old. And the mom proceeded to give her babies Dr. Pepper and curly fries doused in ketchup. DR. PEPPER AND CURLY FRIES. And then she was trying to get her children to say the word soda. I don’t know about you, but when I have some babies, soda is not a word I’m going to be teaching them at an early age. I couldn’t believe this mother! Don’t come crying to me when your twins are 50 pounds overweight at five-years-old. Idiot.

Five. I hate my phone. It’s actually my mom’s old phone that she generously gave to me when I lost mine. (She bought herself a new phone.) And it sucks. It’s a BlackBerry that we bought in May 2009. It doesn’t have a camera and cannot play music. It has enough memory to allow for UberTwitter and the BlackBerry App Store. But that’s it. And it’s slow. At least 5 times a day, it will stop working and show that stupid, little hourglass turning upside down over and over again. And I can’t access anything during that time. I can’t make calls, I can’t see texts, nothing. So then I have to take my battery out, wait 10 seconds, put it back in, and then wait 5 minutes for it to start working again. I hate my phone. I’m due for an upgrade in May and I’m so getting a new one! (Did I mention my BLACKBERRY DOESN’T HAVE A CAMERA?!)

Six. On Monday night, I had a fantastic phone call three-way with two of my favorite bloggers, Nanny and Kaitlyn. We had our first phone chat in September, where I was half-dead and super boring from moving all day. And we had a really deep and heavy chat about faith. This time, I tried to be much more interesting, except I was working on an awful project and trying to get all my stuff ready for tomorrow. Anyway, I love these girls and they are awesome. Especially when I sent my project to Nanny and she helped me with a part I was having trouble with. And the fact that they didn’t laugh at me when I told them I’ve never heard a Lady GaGa song.

Seven. Who are you rooting for in the Superbowl? If you know anything about me, you should know that I have an unnatural crush on Peyton Manning. He may not have the charm of Tony Romo, the looks of Tom Brady, or the ruggedness of Brett Favre. But he holds a special place in my heart with his country-boy twang, lanky frame, and insane football knowledge. So, yes, I’m rooting for the Colts!

Categories: Recurring Series

Seven Quick Takes Friday (vol. 6)

One. When I wrote my list on Friday, Chelsea mentioned “Seven Quick Takes Friday,” which is something I’ve done before but haven’t in the past few weeks. Honestly, I forgot about this little weekly feature! So it’s back! For good!

Two. I went, reluctantly, to my newspaper meeting on Monday. I was still bummed about my freelance status and could not, for the life of me, think about topics to write about. (Well, I could…until I realized those topics were more blog-related, than newspaper-related.) But I went to the meeting because I knew I had to. And grabbed a weekly feature! One of the staffers suggested doing a Professor Profile and when the editor asked who wanted to do it, I raised my hand. Yes, little ole me. I’ve been super-duper quiet in the meetings but this was my chance and I took it. Sure, it’s not much but it’s much more than I expected, and something I’m excited about doing!

Three. Can I just say how much the red team on The Biggest Loser annoys me? I can’t tell you how many times I wanted to slap Melissa across the face during Tuesdays episode. And her comment to Alison was so petty and unneeded. I mean, the green team annoys me, too, with their emotional disconnectedness but Melissa is someone I can’t wait to see go home.

Four. My grandma had her surgery to remove the tumor in her lung on Wednesday. I didn’t find out until 2pm that the surgery went well. I was so nerve-wracked all day! Luckily, the doctor only had to remove a wedge from her lung (instead of a whole lobe). So we are blessed! Mom and I went to visit her that night and she was looking great. I took a picture but she might murder me in my sleep if I showed it on this blog. Seriously. Yesterday was a rough day for her and she was super, super, super nauseous all day, which is always worse than throwing up. I’m not a big fan of throwing up, but at least you get the tummy ache over with! But she’s still doing good and I’m happy with how well the surgery went.

Five. I feel like my phone phobia might be cured soon, due to my internship. On Thursday, I had to call over 20 businesses for a promotional item. It was nerve-wracking, especially since I’m in a cubicle and the entire office seemed so quiet when I was calling so I felt like everyone was listening in on the new intern, making phone calls. Which they weren’t because they were busy enough with their own work! But I did it and it was actually kind of fun! I liked interacting with some of the people and I lost a lot of my nervousness as I got more into the phone calls.

Six. There is only one good thing about my Communications Law class is that almost everyone else in the class is as lost as me. We have to write a term paper on a First Amendment media issue/case/personality. Coming up with a topic was so flippin’ hard but I have no idea how to write it. We had to give him an outline of what we want to write and include 10 sources. (TEN!) I struggled with it a lot…but so did everyone else! I’m just hoping to get lots and lots of good pointers to figure out how to even begin this paper.

Seven. As many of you have noticed (and liked!), I changed my blog layout. I was getting sick of the old one and I now have pages! I’m working on a blogroll but it’s a lot of work! I do have a question for all you web-savvy people. I want to put up some social media buttons (i.e., Twitter, Facebook, RSS Feed, GMail, etc.) but I’m not sure how I can do it and make them line up nicely in one row. (I’m anal like that.) Anyone willing to help a blogger out? I will love you forever and ever and ever and ever.

Categories: Recurring Series

Ten on Tuesday (vol. 11)

1. What accomplishment are you most proud of?

Graduating with my high school diploma and two-year college degree, all in the same month! I went to a progressive charter high school where I took college classes that counted as high school credit so had my two-year degree at the age of 18! Of course, I should have graduated with my four-year degree in 2008 but let’s just not talk about that, shall we?

2. How much did you weigh when you were born?

Five pounds, even! I was a tiny, little thing!

3. What is your favorite perfume?

I don’t really have one. I don’t wear much perfume. What I like to do is buy my mom perfume for Mother’s Day, her birthday, and Christmas and then use her old perfume when she starts using her new perfume. Yep. That’s how I roll. I’m currently using some sort of Victoria’s Secret PINK perfume and it smells yummy.

4. How many siblings do you have?

Just my brother, who is one of my heroes. He’s 14 months older than me and we fought like cats and dogs growing up. Basically, we were each others best friends and worst enemies. But now we’re pretty close and I look up to him. A lot.

5. How many children would you like to have? (Or how many do you have?)

My golden number right now is four. And I know I’m kidding myself with this because, hello, I enjoy sleep and freedom! And birthing four children? Holy crap. I can barely handle period cramps. How am I going to get through labor? (Although I like to fool myself into thinking doctors will have devised a magical, natural pill that takes any labor pain away!) But I do want to have a few kids. Maybe.

6. What’s the best class you took in college?

Funny as it sounds, Introduction to Education. Although I ended up failing out of teaching, it was such a fun class that taught me so much. I felt that I had finally found my purpose and passion with this class. And, a requirement of the course, was to volunteer for 20 hours in a school so I was able to go back to my old elementary school and volunteer with my most favorite teacher EVAH, which was such a fun experience.

7. What was your favorite game to play when you were a child?

As an outside game, kickball. I loved the team aspect and the easiness of the sport. It was a fun game to play. As a board game, I was most definitely a Clue girl. I still love that game to this day. And now they have so many different types and I want to buy them all!

8. What character on Friends are you most like?

I’m definitely a Chandler. I know, I know. I should be a girl. But I’m not as flighty as Phoebe, as crazy as Monica, or as pretty as Rachel. I’m a Chandler. I’m funny and goofy like he is.

9. Are you a phone person? (ie: Do you like talking on the phone?)

NO! I hate it, hate it, hate it. I’ve never liked talking on the phone. I always get nervous when the phone rings and have an allergic reaction to calling people. (Sweaty palms, beating heart, body heating up.) I just want to text or e-mail everyone.

10. What was the best vacation you ever took?

My trip to Virginia/West Virginia when I was 12. It was my first time seeing snow and going skiing. The trip up there wasn’t too much fun with seven of us crammed in a van with ALL of our luggage. But when we arrived in Virginia, it was snowing. It was my first time ever seeing that in real life so 12-year-old Stephany was amazed. I sucked at skiing but it was still a lot of fun. (I ended up dropping a pole once and then a SKI once on the ride up the mountain.) And after four days in Virginia, we traveled to West Virginia where we went to another ski resort to ski at night. This is also the state where I learned of the circle of life when my grandfather killed a deer.