Recurring Series

Three Things Thursday (v. 5)

Hi, friends! Happy Thursday. Today, I thought I’d do another Three Things Thursday post, which is becoming one of my favorite series to do. It’s fun to come up with the categories and fill them in! Feel free to steal and do it on your own blog (I certainly did not come up with this idea, haha).

Three confessions

I’ve become very lazy with my skincare routine lately. I was doing so well for so many months! But in the last few weeks, I’ve just stopped being so diligent. The good news is, I’m running out of products less frequently!
Whenever I see Eloise and Lila doing something together (sleeping together, playing together, or even when they just give each other that “hey girl” nose bump) it gets me all sappy inside. I did that! I gave them this relationship. I love that they love each other—it makes my heart grow ten sizes.
I am the worst at responding to Instagram comments. Maybe it’s because I don’t spend a ton of time on Instagram? I have a 30-minute time limit that I try my best to adhere to and I turned off push notifications for likes/comments on posts. So I have to manually check for likes/comments, which I forget to do, which means I sometimes don’t see comments until days afterward. Maybe I need to turn on push notifications for comments at least!

Three things I’m doing this weekend

Getting a massage – I haven’t had a massage in over two months and my body needs this.
Attending Olive’s “no more chemo” party – Yayyyy! I can’t wait to celebrate Olive being done with cancer treatment.
Flying to Chicago! – My mom and I leave on Sunday afternoon to spend four days in Chicago. Hopefully, Tropical Storm Fred doesn’t cause any chaos for us!

Three books I recently bought

Three work-related Google searches I made today

I tried to select some of the more, shall we say, interesting Google searches I made today, which is easy to do when I spent the whole day writing about rare medical conditions.

“What do you call the uterus and prostate together?” (I was looking for an overarching term for these organs, but wasn’t sure if the prostate was considered part of the reproductive system. Answer: It is!)
“How does the pelvic floor work” (I wrote a page about pelvic floor disorders and learned a lot about the pelvic floor. I had no idea it did so many things!)
“Are congestion and stuffy nose the same thing” (The answer is yes. Why these two symptoms are often written separately is beyond me!)

Three movies I want to watch soon

Get Out – I’ve wanted to see this movie for so long, but I just never have because scary movies aren’t my thing. Hopefully soon!
The Martian – After I mentioned how much I loved the book The Martian, a bunch of you implored me to watch the movie since it’s a fantastic adaptation. I promise I will!
The Count of Monte Cristo – Since I just finished the book, I want to give the movie a try someday. I don’t know if it’s any good, but it would be fun to see it all come to life on screen.

Three of my most-used apps yesterday

Happy Color (46 minutes)
Overcast (42 minutes)
Marco Polo (35 minutes)

Three things that made me happy this week

Finishing The Count of Monte Cristo – It was so satisfying to finish this book. It was excellent and I can fully understand why so many people cite it as their favorite book of all time.
A brunch and bookstore date – I love it when dating can be fun! We enjoyed brunch (I’ve been obsessed with breakfast burritos lately and I thoroughly enjoyed the one I got on Sunday) and then perused a bookstore. We opted to sit outside for brunch and it was H O T, but we were able to finagle one of the nearby fans to blow right on us, haha. And I was delighted to see how busy my favorite bookstore was on Sunday! Yay!
A red velvet bundt cake – Is there anything better than a mini bundt cake in the middle of the week? I think not!

Three items on my Amazon wish list

Weighted blanket – If you’re someone with anxiety, you’ve likely heard all about the benefits of weighted blankets. I’m probably going to put this on my Christmas list, as it’s something I don’t think I’d ever buy for myself but will be oh-so-happy if someone else did.
Cycling shoes – I’d love to treat myself to cycling shoes for my Peloton rides. My non-Peloton bike can clip in, but right now, I just use the toe cages with regular sneakers. It works for now, but I want to upgrade soon.
Pregnancy pillow – No, I am not pregnant nor do I intend to become pregnant anytime soon (or ever?). However, as a fat person who carries most of her weight in her belly, a pregnancy pillow just seems like something that would make sleeping 1000x better and ensure I’m not placing too much pressure on my lower back.

Three of my favorite TV shows growing up

Growing Pains – Oh man, if there was a way for me to stream this show in all of its late 80s glory, I would. My family loved this show and I was 100% in love with Mike Seaver (weren’t we all?) I think we caught it in reruns and then maybe we used the Netflix DVD program to watch the series start to finish? I can’t be sure.
Home Improvement – Okay, I see now that I have an affinity for shows with a main character who is now a problematic conservative (see: Kirk Cameron, Tim Allen). But man did I love Home Improvement. My brother and I still quote the “I didn’t say hell and damn” line to each other all the time.
Everybody Loves Raymond – God, I loved this show. Was there anything better than the tension between Ray’s wife and his mother? THE BEST.

Three things I’m looking forward to next week

Meeting Kim for the first time – Immediately after my mom and I decided to visit Chicago, I messaged Kim who is my resident catpert (cat expert) and someone whose blog I’ve followed for many years to see if we could have a meet-up (since she lives near Chicagoland). We’re hopefully going to meet for dinner and I’m so excited to finally see her in person!
Traveling with my mom again – My mom is my favorite travel companion and we haven’t taken a vacation together in almost two years. I’m looking forward to spending lots of one-on-one time with her while we explore a new-to-us city.
Taking the architecture boat tour – I’ve heard nothing but rave reviews from people about Chicago’s famous architecture boat tour and I can’t wait to experience it myself!

What was one of your favorite TV shows growing up? Tell me something that made you happy this week!

Just a quick programming note: This blog will be dormant for the next week as I enjoy my Chicago trip! I’ll be back on Monday, August 23rd for a trip recap! 🙂

Categories: Books, Recurring Series

Five for Friday: The Bookish Edition

Happy Friday, friends! I have a really excellent weekend ahead of me and I’m excited to kick it off with a low-key Friday at home.

For today’s Five for Friday post, I thought I’d make it a themed one: all about some bookish topics that have been floating around in my brain. Let’s dive in:

1) About once a year, I get the itch to trim down my TBR list on Goodreads. Earlier this week, my TBR list had over 375 books on it and it was stressing me out. Honestly, a part of me just wanted to delete every book on that list and start fresh, but I worry that I would regret taking such drastic action. My other thought is to trim down the list to just 100 books, and I’m actively trying to get there (I’m currently at 221 books—not sure how I’m going to remove another 120 books!) I don’t know how everyone uses their Goodreads to-be-read list. For me, it’s an important part of my book selection process, but I feel like all the books I really want to read are getting lost in the 300-odd other books that were cluttering up my TBR. I want to be more intentional about the books I add to my TBR. We’ll see if that’s possible, though. There are so many shiny new releases that I want to read and older books that other people rave about that I want to be sure I get around to someday. The plight of a bookworm!

2) I’ve long identified as someone who reads a lot. I read at least triple of what people in my book club read, and they are very much bookworms like me. When I lamented to them last month that I might only read 8 books in July, they looked at me like I was crazy. (“Is that bad? I don’t think I’ve ever read 8 books in a month! I’m happy if I can get to four.”) I’ve felt a shift happening in my reading life, where I don’t feel as if I have to read at such a frenetic pace anymore. And it’s causing me to have a bit of an identity crisis, to be honest. If I’m not the girl who reads 2-3 books per week, then who am I as a person? Am I really a bookworm if I’m not checking off books left and right? (The answers: I’m still the me I’ve always been and YES OF COURSE DON’T BE RIDICULOUS.)

It’s almost as if I’m at a fork in the road of my readerly life. On one side is allowing myself the space to do what feels good and if reading less is what feels good, then I should do that. On the other side is finding creative ways to add reading time back into my life. And because I’m still very much married to my readerly identity, I’m choosing the latter. Which brings me to my next point.

3) Here’s the thing: Everyone can make time for reading, but not everyone does. And right now, I’m not making time for it as much as I was in the past. So, I got to thinking about how I could make more time for reading and the idea came to me pretty instantaneously: reading days! The idea for reading days is that I’ll pick out 1-2 days per week, based on my schedule, and aim to read for at least 2 hours on that day (any reading I do before bed doesn’t count, since that’s already an ingrained habit). I can split up the reading anyway I want (maybe 30 minutes in the morning, 30 minutes on my lunch break, and an hour when I’m done with work), but I must commit to at least 2 full hours (more if I can fit it in!) I already did a reading day on Wednesday and it was so pleasant. I did a half-hour during a morning work break, 15 minutes during an afternoon work break, and then an hour and fifteen minutes when I finished with work. (And then I got in some extra reading time before bed!) Today will be the second reading day of the week and I am so looking forward to it!

(And that, of course, is the key. If these reading days ever feel like a chore, then I’ll stop doing them. For now, they feel really fun!)

4) On an episode of Book Talk Etc, the hosts had a really interesting discussion about their reading life and the books they’ve read during the first half of 2021. It got me thinking about my own reading journey in 2021! Most especially, looking back at how I’ve rated books this year. This hasn’t felt like a sensational reading year for me for some reason; I feel like I’ve rated a lot of books 3 stars. In looking at the stats, I’ve rated 35% of my books 3 stars or lower, and 65% were given 4- or 5-star ratings. I don’t know if this is normal for me or not (I’d have to look back at previous years and I don’t feel like doing that right now), but one of the hosts had a similar percentage to me and seemed aghast at her percentage (meanwhile, the other host had only given 18% of her books 3 stars or lower). I know I’m a bit more critical of books than other people, and I don’t want to give a book 4 or 5 stars unless I really liked it and would recommend it. So maybe that’s why? I don’t know but I’m hoping that the second half of 2021 brings me a lot more 4- and 5-star reads.

5) Speaking of the first half of 2021, why don’t we play a fun game of my top three reads of the year so far? This was actually supremely hard to narrow down, so I’m going to give a few honorable mentions:

Kindred by Octavia E. Butler is most definitely my favorite read of the year, and I read it in January. Nothing has come close to knocking it from its top spot!
When They Call You a Terrorist: A Black Lives Matter Memoir by Patrisse Khan-Cullors was sensational. It’s hard read but an important one.
Long Way Down by Jason Reynolds is an incredible story-in-verse about a young boy on his way to avenge his brother’s murder. He gets on an elevator and, at every floor, it stops and someone steps on. Listen to this one on audio—it’s only 90 minutes!

Honorable mentions go to Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis, Know My Name by Chanel Miller, and The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab.

How many books are on your Goodreads TBR? What’s one of the top reads of 2021 for you?

Categories: Recurring Series

Five for Friday (v. 70)

1) Today I wanted to publish my monthly goals post, but when I looked over my July goals, I realized I have zero, zip, nada to report. I didn’t get a single thing done! (No, my oven still hasn’t been cleaned.) I did, however, meet my workout goal for the third month in a row so that’s awesome! But everything else was an utter fail. So, instead, I’m rolling all of those goals over into August and hoping I can have a better report for you at the end of next month.

2) I’m starting to get really excited about my trip to Chicago! My mom and I fly out on Sunday, August 15th, and will be there until Thursday afternoon. I have spent some time this week making detailed itineraries of our days, and it’s just so much fun to plan a trip again! I booked tickets for us to do the architecture boat tour and we will also visit Navy Pier, Millenium Park, 360 Chicago, the Shedd Aquarium, and Skydeck Chicago. I also want to have my very first Shake Shack experience! I’m trying not to overwhelm us with doing too much, so I’ve planned rest time at the hotel (from 3pm until dinnertime) every day to make sure we don’t wear ourselves out. I tend to want to go, go, go when I’m on vacation but I’m just not the kind of person who can go all day long without resting. I think building in this rest time will be really beneficial for both of us!

3) I’ve been following the progression of the Delta variant very closely, and right now, my county is in the “high” transmission zone, which is not good at all. I’ve started seeing more and more people with masks on at the grocery store and I’m definitely back to masking up. (Yes, I was one of “those people” who went mask-free when the CDC said we could. I’m fully vaccinated.) While there hasn’t been any official mandate for masks in my county, I’m grateful to see so many people doing so anyway. Florida gets a bad rap for the way we handled COVID, and DeSantis fully deserves every criticism lobbed his way, but at least in my little progressive (ish) county of Florida, we’re doing the right thing.

4) I’ve been enjoying the Olympics a lot! (And can you believe that we’re going to have another Olympics to enjoy in just another 6 months?! The Winter Olympics 2022 kick off in February if all goes according to plan!) Of course, I was hoping for a strong showing from Simone Biles, but I’m incredibly proud of her for prioritizing her mental health and withdrawing from the team and individual events. That couldn’t have been an easy decision, knowing the whole world was watching her. I’ve been enjoying the swimming, too, and I can’t wait for the track-and-field events to kick off today! There have been many a late night to watch Olympics coverage, but it’s been so much fun!

5) This weekend is shaping up to be a good one! I’m going to have a low-key night at home tonight which I’m very much looking forward to. Saturday I have a writing date with Mikaela and game night with the fam. And Sunday, I’m doing a brunch-and-bookstore date! (I highly recommend dating a bookworm, yes yes.) We’ve been planning to do a bookstore tour around our city and we’re going to kick things off with brunch at The Library and visiting my favorite local indie. I can’t wait!

Tell me something good that happened to you this week!

Categories: Recurring Series

A Snapshot of My Day | July 27, 2021

Hey, friends! I’m coming at you today with a fun post idea I got from Torrie at To Love and to Learn—a quick snapshot of my day with a bunch of fun prompts. I switched around a few things from her original prompts, but most of it is the same. 🙂

Time I woke up: 6:00 a.m. (I planned to work out, but it was raining and I woke up with period cramps so I decided to postpone my workout until later in the day.)

First thing I did upon waking: Turned off my alarm and snuggled Eloise who was laying in bed with me. The first thing I did after getting out of bed, though, was head straight to my desktop to start working. (It’s very rare for me to start working first thing, but I was already up and knew I would be taking a longer lunch to get a workout in.)

Today’s weather: It’s been a weird day! Rainy in the morning, sunny and hot in the late morning/early afternoon, and rainy again in the late afternoon.

An out-of-the-ordinary thing that happened today: Hmm… well, not that it happened to me personally, but I was shocked and stunned when I got a news alert that Simone Biles withdrew from the women’s gymnastics team competition at the Olympics due to injury. I was grieving all day! I really hope she’ll be able to compete in the all-around and event finals.

Last thing I read (not on the Internet): An issue of The Count of Monte Cristo

Last thing I read (on the Internet): This really interesting piece on Crooked Media’s blog about caregivers and how necessary they are to infrastructure.

Last website I visited: NBC.com to stream the Olympics!

Last show I watched: The Bachelorette

Last thing I said: “Jordan’s so cute. I just love her so much!” HAHAHA. I just watched Jordan Chiles kill it on the balance beam and I just said that aloud to… my cats?

Last thing I ate: Homemade nachos! (Tuesday is homemade-nachos-and-bachelorette night!)

What I was doing an hour ago: Watching The Bachelorette while the cats pranced around me, begging for more treats. (They didn’t get any. I caved in last night, but held strong tonight!)

What I will be doing an hour from now: Probably cleaning the kitchen while I continue to watch the Olympics.

Current whereabouts of other members of the household: Eloise is curled up on the couch while Lila is sleeping in her hammock. 🙂

One thing I crossed off my to-do list today: My big work task for today was to write 4 short-form pages (300 words) and 2 long-form blogs (600 words), and I got it all done! I’m really pleased with myself for that.

What time did you wake up today and what’s something you want to cross off your to-do list?

Categories: Recurring Series

A Weekend in Pictures: Olympics Edition

My weekend kicked off with a vet appointment for Eloise! She only needed her rabies vaccine, so it was a quick visit for her. She weighed in at a skinny 8.4 lbs, which is about 2 lbs lighter than Lila. (Yet, the girls eat the same amount! Just goes to show you that all bodies find their own perfect happy weight!)

Friday night was super fun, as I invited over the person I’m seeing to watch the Opening Ceremonies with me. We had a great time—we had Publix subs for dinner and delicious mini bundt cakes for dessert. Perfect! The Opening Ceremonies were a little lackluster as to be expected, but I enjoyed seeing the parade of nations. The athletes had waited so long for this opportunity and it was so fun to see their excitement! (And, of course, judge the mask-wearing abilities of some of the athletes, sigh.) We placed a friendly bet on how many athletes the USA had, and we were both a bit off. (I guessed 375 and they guessed 1,128 and it was somewhere around the mid-600s!) Anyway, it was a really fun night filled with lots of laughter and great conversation, as it always is with us! And I’m just so excited for the Olympics to kick off!

Friday night ended up being a late night since the Opening Ceremonies went on until 11 (or maybe later? We turned it off after the parade of nations). But I was up and at ’em early for my Saturday morning workout. I did a 30-minute spin workout with Cody Rigsby and it was the perfect way to start my day!

After my workout, I took a shower and quickly got ready because I was meeting up with Mikaela for our first writing date since December! She’s my friend whose daughter had cancer. Now that they are done with chemo and blood transfusions and other appointments, we can bring back our weekly writing dates. I am so thrilled about that! We met at Panera and I worked on a blog post that has been brewing in my head for a while—hopefully, I can post it on Wednesday but if not, it’ll be coming your way soon!

I stopped at Target after our writing date to pick up a birthday present for a friend’s baby. I also couldn’t help stopping by the book aisle to check out the books. I somehow abstained from buying anything, but please don’t give me any kudos as I have gone crazy with book-buying this month. (I think I’ve bought 8 books? It’s a problem.)

Saturday afternoon was spent at a friend’s baby’s birthday party! Her baby turned one yesterday and it was an Olympics-themed celebration that was super fun! This friend is a former coworker who I sat next to for many, many years and we grew very close. It’s been fun to follow her journey as she got engaged and then married while we were coworkers, and now she’s a mom! Celebrating her baby boy was so much fun.

I was sooooo looking forward to Saturday night, as I planned to decompress. My introvert battery was completely drained. I came home, took a hot bubble bath, and then laid on the couch and watched Olympics coverage and read for the rest of the night (whenever NBC covered a sport that didn’t interest me, I just muted the TV and opened my book!)

Sunday started off slow and lazy, just like I needed it! I spent most of the morning sleeping and reading, which is the best way to spend a Sunday morning, in my opinion. 🙂

I spent the afternoon at my mom’s. We were desperately in need of some one-on-one time! I visited with Lucy, who got spayed on Friday so she was feeling a bit crummy. And I also got to enjoy the pool (my mom and I pretended to be Olympic swimmers and quickly realized we were not in shape for that—the butterfly stroke is ridic, you guys) and play a few rounds of Qwixx, which is our new favorite game.

I ran a few errands after leaving my mom’s. First to TJ Maxx to pick up a birthday gift for a friend and later to Publix to do this week’s grocery shopping. Then it was home to veg!

Remember the days of TV scheduling conflicts where you had to choose which show to watch live in the days before DVR and streaming? That was me last night! Big Brother was on at 8 but I wanted to watch the Olympics since they were showing the women’s gymnastics all-around qualifying round. So I busted out the ol’ Chromebook so I could do both! (Originally I was going to watch Big Brother on my laptop and the Olympics on TV, but my Firestick decided to stop working last night. So that’s great timing!)

And that’s my Olympics-heavy weekend! It was a busy one, but a fun and fulfilling one, too.

How was your weekend? Are you watching the Olympics?