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Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Wednesday, October 25

12:15 AM // I wake up to hear Dutch whining, which is super unusual for him now that he’s on anxiety meds. I give him a few minutes to settle down, and when he doesn’t, I get up and we go for a midnight walk. Fun. We come inside and I bring him right back to bed. Unfortunately, he’s still whining and restless, so I set him down on the floor, thinking he either needs some water or needs to pace, but he just sits there and whines. Senior dogs, man! I set him by his water bowl and push his face close to the water (not trying to drown my dog, but sometimes he doesn’t see his water bowl, especially at night), but he doesn’t drink – just sits there and stares at the bowl. Eventually, I just bring him back to bed and rub his back.

1:45 AM // I’ve been drifting in and out of sleep for the past hour or so, and this time when I wake up, I realize Dutch is quiet and has finally fallen asleep. Hallelujah! I get up to turn off my bathroom light. (I leave my bathroom light on when Dutch is restless at night because I think being in total darkness is super disorienting for him.) I fall right to sleep.

6:00 AM // My alarm wakes me up. I reach over to shut it off and fall back to sleep. (I don’t snooze my alarm. I just turn it off and trust myself to wake up within 10-15 minutes. This method has only failed me a few times. What can I say, I like living on the edge!)

6:15 AM // I finally get up and jump right into the shower. Another crazy night with Dutch means I am sleepy this morning. Once out of the shower, I get ready for the day while listening to an episode of the Another Round podcast.

7:10 AM // I wake up Dutch, who is snoozing away on my bed, and we go on a very slow morning walk. But here’s the great news: it’s 66 degrees this morning! It feels like fall! What is this madness? I love it so much. We come back inside after a slow and meandering walk and I give him a treat and fresh food and water.

7:30 AM // Commute to work while listening to an episode of Stuff Mom Never Told You.

8:05 AM // I get to work, turn on my computer, and respond to a few time-sensitive emails that came in early this morning. Then, I put my lunch away and take a trip to the bathroom to fix my right contact. I put in a brand-new pair of contacts today and whenever I do that, the right one always takes a few tries to settle in for some reason. Today is not any different. I take out my contact and put it back in twice, and my vision is still blurry. Sigh.

8:30 AM // I start my writing task for the day, but I’m working very slowly because of my right contact issues. It’s a little difficult when I can only see clearly out of one eye, who knew?!

9:00 AM // I’m suddenly hungry, so I eat the yogurt I brought for breakfast and read some blogs. I also go back to the bathroom to fix my contact, but my vision is still blurry. Three cheers for astigmatism?

9:15 AM // Back to my desk and I get back to my writing task.

9:40 AM // I start prepping for my meeting this morning. It’s highly unusual to have two new client meetings in one week, but I begged my team leader to give me these accounts on Monday. Since my workload is so minimal this week, I’m glad about it! I grab a laptop, look over the notes the client sent over beforehand, and peruse their website.

10:00 AM // I head to a conference room for the meeting. Just like yesterday, the client is calling in over a conference line. This meeting is very quick (he works in an industry we’re very familiar with, and the client is also very succinct and to the point). We’re done in 45 minutes.

10:45 AM // I transfer my notes to my computer, return the laptop, and then take a much-needed bathroom break (iced coffee goes right through me!) I see a text message from my mom that she’s emailed me. She dropped Dutch off for his vet appointment this morning and just gave me a run-down of what drop-off was like. We’re hoping to get answers later this afternoon!

11:00 AM // I start working on a summary of the notes I took at the meeting, which is fairly straightforward. This client isn’t going to be too difficult, thankfully!

11:30 AM // I have a minor freak-out when my password for Overdrive stops working. I don’t even know why! I eventually had to do a password reset. The good news is that this minor snafu caused me to download the Libby app, so I’m finally using that now. (Supposedly, it’s a much more user-friendly alternative to Overdrive. We shall see!)

11:45 AM // It’s lunchtime. My stomach is growling. I have leftovers from last night: baked chicken, peas, and rice. Yum, yum, yum. I love leftovers for lunch! I spend the first half of my lunch break at my desk, perusing a Reddit forum while I eat, and the second half outside in the crisp air, reading my book.

12:45 PM // I freshen up my makeup in the bathroom and then start my first task of the afternoon: publishing content to one of my clients’ websites.

1:30 PM // Once that task is complete, I take a short brain break and read some blogs. Unless I’m super busy, I can’t transition from one task to the other without a brain break. Anyone else?

1:45 PM // I start editing a coworker’s pages.

3:00 PM // Editing finished, so I take another brain break to eat a granola bar and read some blogs. Then I realize I haven’t heard back from Dutch’s vet, so I go downstairs and call them. They tell me that the vet wants to discuss the test results and will call me back soon. Okay. Sure. Fine. THAT DOESN’T WORRY ME AT ALL.

3:30 PM // I’m back at my desk and trying to focus on work. I talk to my cube buddy about the call to the vet because I needed to talk to someone about it. It’s not something I can keep inside! I try to do some writing, but my focus isn’t really here. Still, I manage to write a page.

4:20 PM // My mom texts me and says that the vet called her (not sure why!), and that I should give her a call when I have a moment. The news from the vet is a lot to process and I’m not sure I’m ready to discuss all of it yet (I’m sorry to be so vague – I hate when people do that!), but the good news is, he doesn’t have any major, life-threatening health issues and he’s as healthy as he can be for a geriatric dog.

4:40 PM // I go back to my desk and try to get back to writing, but it’s hard to focus. I just want to go and pick up Dutch and give him all of the snuggles!

5:30 PM // I leave work and drive to PetSmart while listening to a Stuff You Should Know podcast episode.

6:00 PM // Get to PetSmart and my mom is waiting for me. We decided to pick him up together and it’s a good thing we do because when we get into PetSmart, there is a seven-month-old Frenchie waiting at the Banfield counter. (My mom is obsessed with Frenchies and has been obsessively searching for one.) We love on the little Frenchie while we wait for the vet to bring Dutch to us.

6:15 PM // Reunited with my love and we drive home. He’s a monster in the car. I really need to get him one of those dog car seats.

6:22 PM // We’re home! Dutch immediately walks over to his food bowl and starts chowing down. I unpack my bags, take out my contacts (the right one never settled in all damn day, so annoying), and pick up around the apartment. I also put my freshly laundered sheets on my bed.

7:00 PM // Off to the grocery store to pick up a Pub sub for dinner, detergent pods, and a dessert because today has been an emotional day and I need some cookies.

7:28 PM // Back home and I pick up my mail. Oh, happy day! I got two deliveries of stuff I ordered over the weekend (I need some cold-weather clothes for my trip to Asheville next month).

7:30 PM // I start a bubble bath and open my packages: a coat and two long-sleeved t-shirts. I love them!

7:35 PM // Time for a very relaxing bubble bath. So nice! I read some more of my book (I’m not loving this book, but powering through anyway).

8:00 PM // I throw my comforter in the washer, give Dutch his meds, and then sit down with a few episodes of The Carmichael Show and my dinner.

8:40 PM // I start working on this post and eat cookies. Yessss.

9:20 PM // I hand feed Dutch the rest of his dinner and then take him out. Then, I clean up the kitchen and do my nightly routine.

10:00 PM // Finally in bed, reading my book and scrolling through Instagram Stories.

10:30 PM // Lights out!

Tell me something awesome about your Wednesday!

Wednesday a year ago, two years ago, three years ago

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Tuesday, October 24

12:00 AM // It’s midnight when I wake up to discover Dutch has barfed all over my bed. It is very unpleasant, but I set him down on the floor and strip the bed. He just sits there patiently waiting for me, poor little dude. I put down a sheet on my bed and then grab all of Dutch’s blankets and the blanket from my couch to keep us warm tonight. (My comforter needs to be washed.) I pick up Dutch and snuggle him in my arms. He’s a little restless, but eventually calms down.

12:30 AM // Dutch is finally asleep and I eventually drift off, too.

4:45 AM // My alarm goes off and I have no idea what day it is and why my alarm is going off. Then I remember: it’s Tuesday and I’m supposed to go for a long walk this morning. Since this means I get to listen to a podcast, I’m not too annoyed at my alarm! In the dark, quiet apartment, I put on some workout clothes and slip out the door without waking Dutch up.

5:00 AM // I go on a morning walk – it’s dark and in the low 70s and feels perfect outside. I finish the episode of Pod Save America that I started last night and start an episode of Stuff You Should Know.

5:50 AM // It starts to sprinkle near the end of my walk and doesn’t seem to be letting up, so I decide turn around and go home. And good thing I do because right as I get under the overhang by my apartment, the rain starts coming down harder.

6:00 AM // Once inside my apartment, I check on Dutch – he’s still sleeping! I take a shower and then get ready for the day while finishing up the Stuff You Should Know podcast episode.

7:10 AM // Dutch is still snoozing away on my bed, so I rub his back to wake him up (just like my mom did when I was a kid, haha). He slowly opens his eyes and lets me put his harness on. When I pick him up, he slumps over on me, so I get some extra snuggles and kisses in this morning. I don’t mind this at all! We go on a short morning walk.

7:25 AM // I commute to work while listening to an episode of the Real Talk Radio podcast. Traffic is a little backed up when I get onto the bridge, but nothing like yesterday!

8:00 AM // Once at work, I turn on my computer and then go into the break room to put away my lunch and grab a spoon for my yogurt. But when I check the drawer, there are no spoons! Uh-oh. I lament this fact to the coworkers who are standing in the break room, and one of them tells me to go downstairs to the deli to get a spoon, but I tell him I’d feel weird doing that and not buying anything! Instead, I take a fork from the drawer and figure I’ll just try to make it work!

8:15 AM // I come back to my desk and start going through my emails when my coworker stops by… with a spoon from the deli! Hooray! Soon after, my cubicle buddy arrives and we chit-chat for a little while about her new dog. (Who looks exactly like Paul Anka from Gilmore Girls. Exactly.) I also eat my yogurt.

8:45 AM // I guess it’s time to finally get started on work? Oops. Good thing I’m super ahead of schedule with my workload this month! I start my main task of the day, which is publishing my monthly content on two of my clients’ websites. It’s a mindless task, so I finish up the episode of Real Talk Radio I was listening to and then start an episode of Good Christian Fun (…and try not to giggle in my quiet office!)

10:45 AM // I’m finished with this task, so I go downstairs to stretch my legs and decide to text my mom about whether or not I should schedule a vet appointment for Dutch. He just hasn’t seemed himself lately and two barfs in a matter of days is concerning. She thinks I should, so I call Banfield and schedule a time to drop him off tomorrow morning so the vet can do some tests and monitor him.

11:00 AM // I take the first half of my lunch break and eat PB&J and pretzels at my desk while catching up on a Reddit forum I follow.

11:30 AM // I prep for the meeting that’s taking place at noon: secure a laptop, download the meeting notes and read through them, and peruse the client’s website to familiarize myself with their services.

12:00 PM // I head to the conference room where the meeting will be. Two members of the writing team and the account manager for this client are there already. Since most of our clients are out of state, these meetings often take place over a conference call. Unfortunately, the client is a no-show. Womp!

12:20 PM // After waiting for 20 minutes, the account manager calls it and we all head back to our desks. I check my email and then I’m about to head outside for the second half of my lunch break when the account manager finds me and says the client called back. Meeting is back on! It’s a flurry of finding the other members of the writing team and getting us back into the conference room to get the meeting started. Whew.

2:30 PM // The meeting finishes and it’s a good one. The client was super personable and engaging and very informative about the services his company offers. Always a good thing! I go back to my desk, email myself the notes I took, and return the laptop.

2:40 PM // I go outside to take the second half of my lunch break.

3:10 PM // I’m back at my desk and I start going through the edits I received on the content I wrote yesterday. All pretty basic stuff and I finish this task fairly quickly.

3:30 PM // I send my team leader an email letting her know that I have room in my schedule for some extra editing work or projects she needs help on. It’s weird: some months, I’m buried in work and other months, I finish super early! And then I decide I’ll just get started on the monthly content that will be due in November. November is going to be a short month for me (I’m taking some time off and then there’s the Thanksgiving holiday), so it’s good to get ahead.

4:10 PM // My stomach starts growling and I realize it’s been a long time since lunch, so I snack on some pineapple. (One of my favorite fruits!)

4:30 PM // Back to writing.

5:30 PM // I commute home while listening to Good Christian Fun. The commute home is easy breezy!

5:45 PM // I set my stuff down and greet Dutch, who is just sitting in my bedroom with his gaze on the door. We go on a walk and it’s soooo nice outside. A gorgeous 76 degrees and I am loving it.

6:00 PM // Back inside, I give Dutch a treat and then take a bubble bath. Ahh. So needed.

6:30 PM // I throw the bedsheet and pillowcase that Dutch barfed on earlier into the wash… and then realize I don’t have enough laundry pods to wash my comforter. Lovely. Guess we’ll be using Dutch’s blankets again tonight! Then, I start working on this post.

6:55 PM // I throw the chicken that I started marinating last night into the oven. While that’s cooking, I pick up around the house, respond to blog comments, and read some blogs.

7:25 PM // Once the chicken is done, I heat up some peas and rice to round out my dinner. I watch a couple episodes of The Carmichael Show while I eat dinner.

8:10 PM // I take Dutch on a walk. (Side note: Tonight, Dutch ate dinner all on his own! Hooray!)

8:20 PM // I clean up the kitchen, pack my lunch, and do my nightly routine of washing my face and brushing my teeth. Of course, I listen to a podcast! (Death, Sex & Money this time) I also put my bedsheet in the dryer.

8:45 PM // I get into bed with Dutch and my book.

9:30 PM // Lights out!

Tell me something good about your Tuesday!

Tuesday a year ago, two years ago, and three years ago

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Monday, October 23

It’s time for Week in the Life! This is the fourth year I’ve done this series, and it’s one of my favorites on the blog. Usually, I do Week in the Life in mid-November, but due to scheduling, this week worked out much better for me. I’m excited to take you all along in my life this upcoming week. (Let’s just hope I don’t get knocked down by another head cold like I did last year!)

Here’s what Monday looked like in my world.

6:00 AM // My alarm goes off and I stumble out of bed to silence it. I bring my phone back to bed with me and fall back asleep.

6:15 AM // I force myself out of bed and straight into the shower. Dutch had a rough night of sleep last night (he was up for over an hour in the middle of the night and then he was restless for the rest of the night, which is unusual for him since he’s been on his anti-anxiety meds), so I am one tired woman this morning. Hoping a shower will wake me up!

6:25 AM // Out of the shower and I start getting ready for work while listening to a Book Riot podcast. I opt for a braid today, since I just don’t have the energy to blow dry and straighten my hair. Since I saved time by not doing my hair, I’m ready for work a little early, so I do the dishes that I left in the sink last night, prepare my iced coffee, and read a few blogs.

7:15 AM // I wake Dutch up (he used to get up when I did, but now he just sleeps until I wake him up, like a proper teenager) and we go on a morning walk. He’s got some energy today, so our walk is a little longer than normal.

7:35 AM // I leave for work and traffic is a nightmare. There isn’t an accident on the bridge; traffic is just heavier than normal. Thankfully, I don’t mind too much because I get to listen to an episode of the What Should I Read Next? podcast.

8:30 AM // I finally arrive at work (30 minutes late!) and put my lunch away, turn on my computer, and sip my iced coffee while going through the emails that came in over the weekend (as a writer, I’m not expected to respond to emails at night or on the weekend) and establishing my to-do list for the day.

8:45 AM // My first task of the day is to email my monthly content to one of my clients, so I start working through the edits I received. Halfway through this task I realize I’m hungry so I eat some yogurt. Once the content has been emailed to my client, I update some files based on client feedback that was received last week.

10:00 AM // The usual Monday morning meeting with the account managers and those of us from the writing team who work with launching clients. We discuss all of the clients who are getting new website designs/content and their current status. I learn about two new clients that need a writing team assigned, so I beg my boss to give those clients to me after the meeting. I’m itching for some new clients! She agrees and seems very happy that I asked.

11:00 AM // After the meeting is over, I’m back at my desk and getting started on my writing task for the day.

11:30 AM // My stomach is growling, so I take a break to eat my lunch. A few weeks ago, I got a craving for PB&J and that’s a craving I can get behind because it’s suuuuch a cheap lunch. Haha. Unfortunately, I can feel myself getting sick of the PB&J, so this is probably the last week I’ll have it. (I have to constantly switch up what I eat for lunch because I get sick of things so easily.) While I’m eating my lunch, I read some blogs and use the second half of my lunch break to dive into my current read.

12:30 PM // Back to work and back to writing. I just need to finish up the content I started earlier and my big task of the day will be complete.

3:00 PM // Writing is done! I send the pages to a coworker for edits and then take a break to stretch out my legs. Once I’m back in the office, I grab my baggie of grapes and chow down while reading some blogs.

3:25 PM // I start sourcing the images I’ll need once I begin publishing the content I’ve written this month on my clients’ websites.

3:50 PM // My coworkers group chat explodes with the news that Hulk Hogan is in the lobby of our office building. Random?! A couple of the girls go downstairs to see if they can get a picture, but he disappears down a hallway and into an office before they can do so. Darn!

4:05 PM // Back to work after that fun diversion! I’m just sourcing images and chatting with a friend on gchat as the day winds down for me. I don’t want to get started on any major tasks right now, so once I’m done sourcing images, I read some blogs.

5:30 PM // Commute home while listening to a fantasy football podcast. For some reason, traffic is backed up getting onto the bridge (which never happens), but once I’m on the bridge, it’s smooth sailing.

6:00 PM // I’m home and it’s pouring down rain. The kind of rain where an umbrella doesn’t even do you a lick of good. I rush inside my apartment, set down my stuff, and greet Dutch who is sitting just inside the bedroom. At this point in his life, I have to let him sniff me every time I come home so he knows it’s me. (Aging dogs break my heart, man.) Once he realizes it’s his girl, he gets super excited and we go outside for his walk. He decides that a little rain didn’t hurt anybody, so he prances around outside like it’s 80 degrees and sunny. Meanwhile, I get soaked even though I have an umbrella.

6:10 PM // Back inside, Dutch gets rubbed down with a towel, and I get into comfy clothes and take off my makeup. Ahhh. Favorite part of the day!

6:15 PM // I start making dinner, which is healthy baked chicken nuggets (my favorite Skinnytaste recipe that I’ve been using for years) and roasted potatoes. While my food is cooking, I make the marinade for tomorrow night’s dinner (this recipe!) and then my mom Facetimes with me and we chat for a bit before her connection cuts out (womp).

7:00 PM // Time for dinner! I eat while watching an episode of Grace and Frankie.

7:30 PM // I start working on this post and then take a break to give Dutch his nightly meds and feed him dinner. Every now and then, he requires hand feeding and I think it’s because staying upright is more difficult at night. He’s constantly slipping around on my wood floors and doing the splits with his front legs. Sometimes, he whines at his food bowl. Seriously, it’s so damn hard to watch dogs get old.

8:00 PM // I put on today’s Pod Save America episode as background noise as I clean up the kitchen and make my lunch for tomorrow. I also do my nightly routine of brushing my teeth and washing my face.

8:30 PM // I finish writing this post, insert pictures, yadda yadda yadda.

9:00 PM // In bed with my book and my dog. Yay!

9:30 PM // Lights out!

Tell me something good about your Monday!

Monday a year ago, two years ago, three years ago

Categories: Recurring Series

TGIF (v. 23)

The high of my week was the beautiful weather we’ve been having. You guys, we’re seeing temperatures in the mid-70s during the day. That is unheard of for this time of year! We’re usually still in the 90s. Every time I walk outside and I’m not immediately hit by a wall of humidity, I can’t help but smile. I love this time of year, and I’m so happy that we’re experiencing a small dose of fall here in Florida.

The low of my week was feeling unmotivated to work out. My last workout was on Saturday and I have no good excuse for why I haven’t worked out since then. My week has been busier than normal, but that’s really not a good excuse for why I haven’t exercised. I’ve had the time; I’ve just chosen to let laziness take over. I just feel like I can’t get back into my workout groove (it feels like the hurricane shook things up and it’s been hard to settle back down), but the only way to do something is to do it, right? I need to just get my butt over to the gym, even when I don’t feel like it.

I’m currently reading Never Judge a Lady By Her Cover by Sarah MacLean. I’m so glad I found this romance author last year. Her historical romances are my favorite and it doesn’t hurt that her titles are so clever!

A blog post I loved was Why Is It So Hard To Talk To White Folks About Racism? on Scary Mommy. San posted the link to this article on her most recent Link Love post and I can’t get over how incredible it is. Every white person needs to read this. Like, right now. Even if you think you are a “good white person” (whatever that means). This paragraph, in particular, stood out to me and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it:

Most whites live, grow, play, learn, love, work and die primarily in social and geographic racial segregation. Yet, our society does not teach us to see this as a loss. Pause for a moment and consider the magnitude of this message: We lose nothing of value by having no cross-racial relationships. In fact, the whiter our schools and neighborhoods are, the more likely they are to be seen as “good.” The implicit message is that there is no inherent value in the presence or perspectives of people of color. This is an example of the relentless messages of white superiority that circulate all around us, shaping our identities and worldviews.

The best money I spent was $5 to participate in a pumpkin bake-off at work. I’ll admit that I’m not the biggest pumpkin lover. I don’t like pumpkin spice lattes or pumpkin pie but give me a hunk of pumpkin bread or a pumpkin cookie and you’re my best friend. Thankfully, most of our “chefs” made sweet treats for the bake-off (there was only one pumpkin chili, which I couldn’t eat due to my weird texture issues) and they put me in a food coma. Between the pumpkin cheesecake, the pumpkin fudge, the pumpkin baklava, the pumpkin-nutella bread… y’all, my coworkers are some incredible bakers. It was so hard to vote for my favorite!

My plans this weekend include a writing date on Saturday morning and football with the family on Sunday. I also just made a decision on my Halloween costume (my goal is to never spend more than $10 on any Halloween costume, so I always opt for something “punny”), so I might see if I can get the pieces I need at Target this weekend. But other than that, it’ll be super low-key! Lots of napping, reading, and coloring while watching Grace and Frankie is on the agenda. 🙂

What was the best thing you spent money on this week?

Categories: Recurring Series

Friday Questions (v.3)

Happy Friday, friends! I don’t have too much going on this weekend, and I’m glad for it. A writing date with a friend and football with the fam is all I have on my agenda, but I think I’ll still find a way to fill my weekend with good things. Even if those good things are naps and episodes of Grace and Frankie. 🙂

Today, I’m continuing the Friday Questions series I started a few months ago, using questions posed at the end of the episodes of the Real Talk Radio podcast. Enjoy!

1) What’s your favorite way to start your day?

I love starting my day with a good workout, mostly because I want to get it out of the way as soon as possible and it feels so good to sweat first thing in the morning! I love my weekends because I go to the 9:15 AM spin class and that’s so perfect – I can sleep in and eat a filling breakfast before going to class, and I’m not half-asleep when I begin like I am for my 5:45 AM spin classes. Or if I’m not going to spin class, starting my day with a long walk while listening to a podcast is perfection for me.

2) What’s something that’s recently sparked your curiosity that you’d love to learn more about?

Gosh, something that has sparked my curiosity feels a little TMI to talk about, but deep breaths, here goes: sexual journeys and how different they are for everyone. I grew up thinking that sex outside of marriage was wrong on every level, and a lot of the teachings in the church center around women keeping themselves pure and virginal for their future husbands. And I think that really messed with my head, and it took me a long, long time to understand that having a sexual journey is healthy and normal and fine. No matter what that journey looks like, whether that’s a lot of partners, one or two partners, or just yourself.

My curiosity was sparked when I listened to a Call Your Girlfriend episode about this, where they answered a listener question for someone who is 22 and hasn’t even begun her “sexual journey,” as she called it and was wondering if she was weird. And, gosh, the podcast hosts were so kind and compassionate to this listener and it got me really thinking about what sexuality means and how different it is from person to person.

(I’m really scared to publish my thoughts on this topic, but I’m just going to do it because we have to have these conversations. I want to have these conversations.)

3) Which common piece of advice do you happily ignore?

Probably, “live every day as if it’s your last.” Or, YOLO. I think about this a lot when I choose a nap over spending time out by the pool. Or a Friday night watching Netflix instead of going out on a date. Life is fleeting, you should be DOING MORE, I sometimes think to myself. But really, I just need to do what feels right to me at the moment. I don’t think I’ll reach the end of my life and regret all the naps I took because, hell, naps make me ridiculously happy. I don’t think I’ll regret not going out on more dates because dating isn’t fun for me and usually just leaves me feeling empty and sad. (Netflix, on the other hand, gives me great joy.) To be clear, there is a balance and I do try to put myself out there and go outside and explore my surroundings, but it’s also okay to not live every day as if it’s your last and think you’re going to regret not getting out there more. I just don’t think that’s true. At least not for me.

4) What is your favorite guilty pleasure?

Trashy romance novels, hot bubble baths, Frappuccinos, long afternoon naps, the Target Dollar Spot, snuggling with Dutch, frozen Hershey Kisses, raw cookie dough. It’s hard to pick a favorite guilty pleasure. I have so many!

5) What do you want to be known for?

I want to be known as someone who was never afraid to be vulnerable and let people inside. I want to be known for being a great listener, the person that my friends know they can come to when they need to vent or talk about what’s going on in their lives. I want to be known as someone who gives good advice, but also knows when to just listen and offer support. I guess it all boils down to my relationships and being the best friend that I can be to my people.

Tell me some of your favorite guilty pleasures!

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