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Weekend Love List

Happy Monday, everyone! I feel more refreshed and recharged than ever for the week ahead and I’m ready to make it a fantastic one! This weekend was really one of the best weekends I’ve had in a while, which is funny because I spent most of it by myself. (My mom’s boyfriend took her to Ft. Lauderdale for the weekend so I had the place to myself!) And why was this weekend so great? Well, how about a list of what I loved this weekend? Yes? Yes.

>> Driving to Sarasota after work on Friday to meet up with a friend and listening to my first-ever audiobook on the way. (Jennifer Weiner’s The Next Best Thing.)

>> Playing Apples to Apples with a group of 13 people at a coffee shop and having the best time, being more social and lively than I usually am.

>> Leaving the coffee shop with the aforementioned friend to see a late showing of The Internship – good movie, but not as funny as I had hoped.

>> Getting home at 1AM on Friday night – so late for me! – and falling into a deep sleep until 9:30AM.

>> Waking up and immediately doing a fabulous, hard workout that left me super sweaty with fatigued muscles.

>> A visit to the library to pick up a requested book and find some smutty novels to read.

>> Having lots of time to myself to read quietly, get lots of writing done, and do a ton of cleaning.

>> Long walks with Dutch, one where he rolled around in the grass to his heart’s content.

>> A quiet, rainy Saturday night to myself where I picked up my favorite dinner, ordered Knocked Up from On Demand, and further developed my crush on Seth Rogan.

>> A lazy Sunday morning spent at the pool. I had the place to myself and it was so divine!

>> Reading a cheesy romance novel and finishing Mockingjay.

>> Barely turning on the TV and taking a break from social media for the weekend. Ahh, the peace!

>> Cancelled Sunday evening plans meant another quiet night in. I watched a favorite rom-com (He’s Just Not That Into You) and snuggled on the couch with Dutch. (Three movies in one weekend! That’s a record for me.)

>> Being alone with myself and just thoroughly enjoying the quiet and calm.

The theme for the weekend was peace and quiet, for sure. (And movies!) It was just so nice to be alone and take time for myself. I was hoping to have more social plans, but I ended up being really happy they fell through and I could really rest and recharge. It’s nice to have full, busy weekends but also nice when weekends are calm and I can get a lot of other things done.

Tell me, how was your weekend? What was your “theme”?

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Currently…

Feeling: Very proud. Yesterday, I watched my cousin graduate from high school and I was just filled up with so much pride in her. I don’t talk about family much on here, but this cousin had a baby in October and before then, she was behind in her classes. She managed to catch back up and graduate right on time while being pregnant and then caring for a baby. She put in so much hard work and it all paid off! I’m really proud of her and how she’s turned her life around since having baby Mia.

Reading: Mockingjay, the last book in The Hunger Games trilogy. I have enjoyed this series immensely and I love being back in the world of Katniss Everdeen. I can’t believe it took me so long to finally read these novels – they are so fantastic. I’m a bit nervous about how it all wraps up, based on reviews I’ve seen, but I’m trying to form my own opinion of the series.

Watching: Currently obsessed with The Voice and MasterChef. I feel like I’m the only person in the world who’s happy with who America is sending home each week. I’m torn between Michelle Chamuel and The Swon Brothers as my favorite. I would really just like to be Michelle’s BFF, but then Zach Swon is, like, my perfect man. That’s a toughie.

Anticipating: This weekend! I actually have a pretty full weekend of social plans, which I’m excited about! I lead such a boring life usually so I’m always psyched when I have things to do. I’m also learning that being around people and being social can recharge me. Not in the same way being alone does, but when I’m surrounded by supportive people who get me, it feels right and exactly what I need.

Planning: On starting a new virtual Bible study with some blog girlfriends. It was Kathleen who first sparked the idea and there’s been a lot of interest. I’m really excited about it because I haven’t been involved in a Bible study for over a year and I really, really miss the fellowship. It’ll be a different experience doing it online, but I think it’ll be really fun! Our first study will be on 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker and we start the study next week. (So if you’re interested in joining our group, let me know and I’ll pass it along to Kathleen.)

Enjoying: The worksheets I’m doing for Nicole’s 30-Day Sugar Detox. I’ve had so many eye-opening revelations while going through the questions and it’s really showing me how I got to where I am now. I’m really interested to see what other revelations will come to me as the weeks go by.

Wishing: That making healthy choices was easier for me. I want to make the healthier decision because I know it makes me feel better about myself in the long run, but when the moment comes down to it, I always seem to choose the option that will taste good now, but leave me feeling like crap later. Sigh.

Learning: That I am in charge of my future. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what I want out of my life and how to get that. I think I’ve been holding myself back from new experiences and paths because the change is scary and I’m worried about what other people will think of me. But there are very specific goals I want to accomplish in the next year and in order to do that, it’s going to take standing on my own two feet, asking for what I want, and not being afraid to go after it.

Thinking: About my dad, since today is his 50th birthday. On a day like today, I can’t help but wonder if he’s missing my brother and me, or if he’s still angry with us. I really, really wish he could be an active part of my life and it’s just sad that he’s not willing to make the effort for that to happen.

Loving: Fig Newtons. Strawberries. Sunny days. Sleeping better. Sore muscles. Kisses from Dutch. Being back at church. A lighter closet. Being social. Opening myself to new opportunities, even when they scare the pants off me.

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Monthly Check-In: May/June

Tomorrow is June 1st! SAY WHAT?!

I’m quite excited that it’s summer, though, and all the fun that awaits me this upcoming month. Things like not spending any money, quitting sugar, and doing the 30-Day Shred! Oh. Wait. It will be a challenging month, that’s for sure, but I’m more than ready to handle it.

For my new style of recapping the month and looking forward to the next one, I’m following Jessica’s style of reflecting on three great things that happened in May and setting three intentions for June. Let’s get right to it, shall we?

In May, I…

1. Came back from another fabulous cruise. It feels weird that I just came back from my cruise at the beginning of May. Between settling back into normal life and a spontaneous mini-vacation in Orlando, my cruise feels like a lifetime ago! As expressed in my multiple blog posts on the subject, my cruise was nothing but wonderful and I’m so happy I had the opportunity to go. I’m not planning on cruising again for a while (I have two major life goals I want to cross off before I even think about booking another cruise!) so I tried to enjoy every moment and soak up all the incredible experiences.

2. Vacationed in Orlando! I just came back from a fabulous, whirlwind trip in Orlando on Monday and it was such a fun little getaway. We visited Hollywood Studios and Disney World and while it was hot and crowded on both days, I still had a fabulous time. I love Orlando!

3. Won a spot in Nicole’s 30-Day Sugar Detox program. When I found out about the 30-Day Sugar Detox program, run by the fabulous Nicole of Life Less Bullshit, I knew I wanted to join in. But when enrollment rolled around, I was at a crossroads with my finances and I couldn’t fit all the pieces together to make it work. So when Amy hosted a giveaway for it, I immediately put my name in the ring and I won! I am super, super excited because I desperately need this and I just know it is going to be life-changing for me.

In June, I will…

1. Shut down all electronics by 9pm. I had been doing good with getting to bed at a decent time, which made waking up early to exercise before work almost easy. (Almost. A 5:30am alarm is never actually easy to wake up to.) Lately, though, I’m getting to bed later and later, leading me to press snooze and tell myself I’ll work out after work. (Which is not my favorite.) I think I need to get back into the habit of powering down the laptop, turning off the TV, and preparing for bed by 9pm to get back to my early bedtimes. My mornings are feeling rushed and frantic, which leads to me feeling very panicky and stressed on a daily basis. Early bedtime = more sleep = happier me. It’s a win-win!

2. Do the 30-Day Shred. I need a boost in my fitness routine and I thought completing another 30-Day Shred challenge would be just the ticket! The last time I completed this challenge, I lost 4 inches around my body so I’m hoping coupling the workouts with better eating habits will bring me even greater results.

3. Drink water with all of my meals. I go through highs and lows with my water consumption. Some weeks, I’m a water drinkin’ machine and other weeks? It’s all I can do to down even 20 ounces! I know I feel better when I’m drinking a lot of water, so I want to get back into the habit of it. Plus, it’s June in Florida which means hot temps and crazy humidity. Water is a must!

What is one great thing that happened in your life in May? Have you set any intentions for June?

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Five For Friday

1 – I’ve been dealing with a pulled muscle in my right shoulder blade for over a week now. I’ve taken a complete rest from all exercise (I did exercise on Tuesday but then my shoulder ached all day long), been applying IcyHot patches for an hour a day, and popping Advil like it’s candy. It’s slowly starting to feel better, but it feels like it’s taking forever. It’s funny, though, how much perspective injuries give you. I miss being able to lift weights and do push-ups and work out on the elliptical! And I may even miss doing burpees.

(Not really.)

2 – With nothing incredibly exciting looming on the horizon for me, I’ve decided to take on two 3-month challenges for the summer months: a budget challenge and Project 333. I’ll be talking more about them in the coming months but for now, suffice it to say, I am really excited about what these three months will bring and how they will change me. The budget challenge is so necessary right now because my finances are a bit of a mess. I need to tighten the reins! And Project 333 is something I’ve wanted to do ever since Ashley posted about it a year ago and I’m excited to minimalize my wardrobe and learn more about my personal style. Stay tuned!

3 – I saw The Great Gatsby last weekend and thought it was such a great movie! I reread the book last month in preparation for the movie coming out and it’s actually a bit of a downer book. I don’t remember the ending being so sad when I read it in high school. (I think I was too busy fawning over Gatsby…) Anyway, I really enjoyed the movie and the glitz and glamour of it all. I thought it was really well done and stayed very true to the book.

4 – NASHVILLE. OMG. How am I going to wait until September to find out what happens next?! I can’t even deal.

5 – Tomorrow, my mom and I are off to Orlando for a fun mini-vacation for the long weekend. I still have two days left on my four-day Disney pass which expires in two weeks. So we decided to make it a weekend! We’re going to Hollywood Studios tomorrow and Disney World on Sunday, and then we check out of the hotel on Monday. I’m excited about a little getaway and I always love being in Orlando. I can’t wait!

What do you have planned for the summer? Any fun adventures or challenges or travels?

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5 Things I’m Looking Forward to Next Week

Well, it is officially my last day of work before vacation starts! On Monday, my mom and I will board the Carnival Paradise for our fourth cruise together. It’s a five-day cruise, sailing to Grand Cayman and Cozumel. We have fun excursions planned at both stops and I’m just excited to spend an entire week completely disconnected from reality, reading trashy romance novels while sunbathing, drinking fruity cocktails, and having completely new experiences.

On that note, I wanted to take time today to list five things I am looking forward to next week:

1. Fancy dinners. I was talking about cruising with a friend after I had come back from my cruise last May and she mentioned how she doesn’t like cruising because everything is decided for her, like entertainment and eating. I mean, I get it. You don’t get a whole lot of options when it comes to what you want to eat. But for me? That’s one of my favorite things about cruising: I don’t have to make any decisions! I don’t have to think about where I want to eat and then what I want to eat… I just go to the dining room at my appointed time and pick off the menu. They have a variety of options that changes nightly so I never feel bored with my choices. There are no “I don’t know, where do you want to eat?” conversations. It’s nice. Plus, the food is pretty good and the desserts are amazing. I think the only thing I don’t like about the dinners is that they seat you with other people on the ship. While you can request to have your own table, we never have. I just get very panicky about having to make small talk with strangers, but in a way, it’s very good for me to do so and be more friendly than I’m apt to be.

2. Serenity deck. Oh, my favorite part of the ship. The Serenity Deck is an adults-only deck that offers a peaceful retreat, away from the hustle and bustle of the lido deck. The deck chairs are more luxurious, the space is calm, and it feels like a true getaway. I love the Serenity deck so much, though it’s a small area of the ship so the deck chairs fill up quickly, especially on days at sea. It’s just a wonderful experience.

3. Our excursions in Grand Cayman and Cozumel. This will be our third time in each port of call, so we wanted to be more adventurous with our excursion picking. We’ve done Stingray City twice, we’ve swum with dolphins, we’ve toured ancient ruins, we’ve zip-lined, we’ve snorkeled… we’ve done it all, it seems! But we did a lot of searching, even looking at discount excursion websites to see if we could find different options somewhere else, but eventually wound up back on the Carnival website and found two fabulous excursions. In Grand Cayman, we are going parasailing (!) and then spending a few hours on the famous Seven-Mile Beach. We typically stay away from “beach escape” types of experiences, but once I got it in my head to go parasailing, I couldn’t think of anything I’d rather do! (The beach is just an extra perk!) I am really, really excited about this excursion and hopefully, the wind is calm and cooperates!

In Cozumel, we are participating in the Amazing Cozumel Race. My mom and I are huge fans of the reality show The Amazing Race and I’ve bypassed this excursion a few times. On the Carnival website, it has over 60 reviews and a 4.9 out of 5 rating. And I read through every single review and got this overwhelming feeling of, we have to do this! So we booked it and I’m equal parts nervous and excited. It involves running around San Miguel, the largest town in Cozumel. The locals get involved and it is a fun few hours of deciphering clues. At the end of the race, all the teams converge at a cantina for a post-race ceremony. Our excursions in Cozumel haven’t been the best, so I’m really hoping this one will be fabulous! It sounds like such a fun way to explore the city.

4. Disconnecting for five days. I am so looking forward to disconnecting from reality and getting away from it all. I need a break from spreadsheets and number crunching and analysis. I need time away from computers and Twitter and Instagram. I need five days where I can be completely present and in the moment, not worried about to-do lists or posts to write or workouts to complete. Just here. Present. Available.

5. That vacation feeling. Oh, you know the feeling. That feeling of release, of being free from problems that happen in the real world. That feeling of waking up leisurely and eating whatever you want. That feeling of having a drink at midday, with the sun beating hot on your face and the ocean in front of you. That feeling of experience, of getting outside and doing things that are slightly scary but bring the life back to your eyes. That feeling of not having a “to-do” list to work from or duties to adhere to. That vacation feeling… it rejuvenates me. It brings a pep back into my step. I’m so ready to experience that feeling once again.

Three more sleeps!