Loving… having a fuller bank account due to my no-buy challenge! So far, the challenge hasn’t been all that difficult and actually kinda fun. And, let’s be honest, looking at my bank account and seeing I have enough money now to pay the bills I was going to pay with my next paycheck? That’s pretty amazing. (Full review to come next week!)
Loathing… the fact that my nighttime congestion is back. I had a few weeks of reprieve in April, but for reasons I can’t explain, I’m back to waking up in the middle of the night with a completely clogged nose. Is anyone else as sick of hearing about my congestion as I am with dealing with it? Ugh.
Reading… Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban and, of course, loving it so, so much. I can’t believe I waited five whole years to reread this series. And there is soooo much I forgot. Reading the book and then watching the corresponding movie ties it all together so nicely, too.
Watching… Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt! I’m only five episodes into the second season (because I’m terrible at binge-watching), but I totally love it. It’s ridiculous and over the top, and I typically don’t like shows that have that kind of comedy, but there’s something about Ellie Kemper. She has my heart.
Anticipating… our belated Mother’s Day celebration this week. My mom was out of town last weekend, so we couldn’t celebrate together, so we’re all getting together on Sunday and I can’t wait!
Frustrated… with dating. I’m taking a break from the apps for now because as much as I desire love and want to be in a relationship, I’m not sure if I want to find it because I swiped right on a face. Dating feels so impersonal now, you know? It makes me long for the days of simpler, less technologically-based dating.
Feeling… anxious about the future. I feel less present in my life because I’m spending so much time worrying about the future and all I want from it. And sometimes, my thoughts turn super dark when I start worrying about the people I love dying – Dutch, my mom, my brother, my stepdad, my grandpa, friends, etc. My mind has not been a super fun place to be lately, is what I’m saying.
Planning… on having book club at my pool this month! I am so excited for some brunch faves, free-flowing mimosas, girl talk, sunshine, and pool time. Sign me up!
What are you currently reading, anticipating, and frustrated with?
I don’t know about you, but I’m an all-or-nothing person in general, so when I do a challenge like a spending freeze, I find it very freeing. No decisions to be made!
Love that the no-spend challenge is going well for you so far. That’s my favorite part- seeing our back account grow 🙂
Reading: Why Not Me? By Mindy Kaling; listening to Yes, Please! by Amy Poehler; also reading Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter. In other words, I have Reading ADD.
Frustrated by the fact that I am the glue that holds my office together and it’s at once rewarding, exhausting, frustrating, a roller coaster ride, and fun.
Anticipating: my brother is visiting at the end of this month and it really can’t come soon enough. We may have our differences but he makes everything better. And he gives the best hugs. Really and truly.
Sounds like May is going well for you so far. Great achievements on the no-spend challenge!
Reading: The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker. Cute historically-themed fantasy tale. It pulls you right in.
Frustrated: With the fact that I was unexpectedly, without warning, without any reason at all, fired from my new job. I was doing well according to everyone (including management), got along with my coworkers, enjoyed the location I was working at…and then management comes in the other day and tells me my contract has been terminated. They would not provide a reason, not even after I asked, twice! Coldly and distantly, they walked me out. Needless to say, my coworkers were shocked and surprised; they had no prior knowledge I was going to be let go either. There is nothing I can do to fight management’s decision or understand what turned sour. I wish I knew where things went wrong…. Now it’s back to job searching all over again :(.
Anticipating: a nice May weekend ahead, time with friends, and time for relaxation and rejuvination.
That’s great that the no spending challenge has gone so well for you. I’ve actually spent very little this month mostly because I’ve been so busy between work travel, moving and surgery! Although it hasn’t been a no spend kind of month since I had to order some things related to my move.
I’m reading Plainsong which is a book I’ve owned for quite awhile. I’m only 80 pages into it but so far it’s good. I’m frustrated with recovering from surgery. It’s just so frustrating to be in pain and to be so immobile and dependent upon others. The simplest things like showering/getting dressed or making something to eat is just exhausting. It makes me nervous about going back to work next week. :/ And I’m anticipating being able to ditch my crutches in a little over 2 weeks. I’m non-weight bearing until the 23rd and then I can walk with the help of crutches after that but I can’t wait to just be done with them completely!
I was really excited about the new season of “Kimmy Schmidt” but just couldn’t get into it, for some reason. I haven’t been watching nearly as much TV as usual, & I miss it… but I’ve been reading more, so I guess it all evens out!
I’ve totally been there with the dark thoughts. Try to focus on the good & the bright… lots of love…
i’m sure you already thought of this but did you put feelers for potential dates with your current social network? to side step away from dating apps?
i had a couple of sweet set ups!
Hurray for book clubs and reading and no spending! Woo!
Do you by chance sleep with a fan on at night? I used to until recently because apparently sleeping with a fan on (especially if it’s pointed right at you) can cause congestion. Sleeping with a humidifier is supposed to be better because it prevents the air from becoming dry which also helps with congestion! I bought a humidifier recently and I’ve definitely noticed a difference. Hope this helps. Good luck!
Glad your no buy challenge went so well! I have been spending a ridiculous amount of money lately with our move so I really should do something similar. Maybe in July!