Good Stuff
- Learning knife skills with Amber – I had such a fun time at Sur La Table’s knife skills class. I’m glad Amber came with me, as it was fun to experience this class with her! I really loved the chef who ran this class; she was so personable and helpful.
- Launching season 4 of the podcast – Season 4 of the podcast is in progress! I really love these episodes and it was fun to talk through different work stuff with Bri (who I first met at work, so that was extra special).
- Taking the dogs on shopping sprees for their birthdays – Chip and Lucy are March babies. Chip turned 5 and Lucy turned 2 this year! I decided I wanted to do something fun for them and take them to PetSmart for their own shopping spree. It didn’t quite work out as I had envisioned in my head as Chip just wanted to bark at people and Lucy was so timid that I had to hold her throughout the shopping trip, but ah well. I had fun at least?! Ha!
- Brunch, boards, and book club – Our book club meeting this month was so much fun! We came up with the idea to all do different types of charcuterie-style boards with brunch items. We had a bread board, a dessert board, a cheese board, a fruit board, a parfait board, and maybe one or two other boards that I’m forgetting. We were all so impressed by everyone’s creativity!
- Finishing my entryway redo – This was a very simple project, but it’s brought me an immense amount of satisfaction. I love looking at this little area of my home!
- Fun dates – I love when dating feels fun and romantic and exciting. And that’s what it feels like right now. I’ve been going on lots of great dates with a wonderful woman, and I am hopeful for the future. That’s all I’ll say about it for now. 🙂
Hard Stuff
- Ellie getting sick – I was really worried I was going to have to schedule an emergency vet appointment last month for Ellie as she had a few days where she vomited twice a day. She’s a frequent vomiter (usually it’s due to eating too fast), so I never get too worried about it, but the amount she was doing it last month was a bit concerning. If she had thrown up once more, I would have scheduled an appointment, but she didn’t and has seemed okay since then. She has her annual wellness check-up soon, so I’ll bring it up then.
- Sleeping poorly – I slept terribly in March. I’m not sure what was going on here – even taking melatonin wasn’t helping much. But things have seemed to get a little better lately, so hopefully it was just a weird fluke.
- Feeling blah – When I flipped through my One Line a Day journal to see what sorts of things I wrote about this month, I noticed a lot of entries about just feeling blah. It’s not anxiety or depression… it’s just this feeling of blah. Feeling unmotivated and uninspired. I was able to create some strategies for helping with this blahness: not being on my phone as much, prioritizing walks in the sunshine, etc. It has helped a little.
- A family member’s diagnosis – One of my family members was diagnosed with cancer this month, and it was devastating news. They have an aggressive treatment plan and we’ll find out soon if it’s working. Please send any prayers, good vibes, and crossed fingers for good news!
Stuff I Recommend
- Sold a Story – Lisa recommended this podcast to me, and I loved it! It’s about reading instruction in schools and how a lot of reading programs are not helping students learn how to read. The podcast delves into a few different reading programs, discusses the science behind how kids learn how to read, and speaks with parents and educators who have noticed that their kids/students are not learning how to read correctly. It’s super compelling, and you don’t need to be a parent to enjoy the podcast. For me, it made me so grateful that I learned to read “the right way” and that I developed strong reading skills as a result. Reading is such an important part of my identity and part of the reason I love to read is that it’s something that is second nature for me. When kids don’t learn to read correctly, they won’t want to read because it’s too hard and confusing. Anyway, it’s an excellent podcast and I encourage everyone to give it a listen!
- Old Navy summer clothes – I bought some great summer clothes from Old Navy! I returned most of what I bought but got a few pieces that fit so well, I want to get them in more colors! Here’s what I bought: leopard-print, high-waisted shorts ($27), mid-rise, 5-inch inseam jean shorts ($30), slub-knit tank top ($13 – this hits right at my waist and feels as close to a crop top as I’m willing to get), luxe slub-knit t-shirt ($14), and everywhere slub-knit tanktop ($13).
- AirPods – Does anyone remember the terrible story about my first set of AirPods? If not, I bought AirPods at the beginning of the pandemic, didn’t get insurance on them, and then right after the one-year warranty expired, one of the buds started getting staticky. To get that bud replaced would be almost the cost of a new set of AirPods. Instead, I bought myself a cheap pair of wireless earbuds and they’ve worked well for me for a few years. Well, now they will barely hold a charge and since my beloved AirPod Pros were on sale for $200, I bought a new pair. I am so happy to have them back in my life! (With insurance this time.)
- The Fetch app – My mom and I learned about this app while on our Niagara Falls vacation last year, when someone mentioned the app to the server at the restaurant we were at. It’s a simple app: you just take a photo of any receipt you receive and it gives you 25 points. Sometimes, depending on what you bought, you’ll get more points. (For example, my grocery store receipts are often more than 25 points, as certain food items tend to have a “special offer” and get you an extra 75-100 points sometimes.) You can also link your email and Amazon account and you’ll get points for online purchases, too. You can cash in your points for gift cards. In March, I finally had enough points to get a $25 gift card to Barnes & Noble, which you can rest assured I will be putting to good use.
Bookish Stuff
- # of books/pages read: 10 books (3,488 pages)
- Favorite book of the month: The Last Train to Key West by Chanel Cleeton
- Least favorite book of the month: Our Missing Hearts by Celest Ng
- Books I abandoned
- The Forever Girl by Jill Shalvis
- The Gown by Jennifer Robson
- Notes on a Nervous Planet by Matt Haig
- Format breakdown: print books (5), e-books (2), and audiobooks (3)
- Genre breakdown: Romance (3), fiction (3), thriller (2), nonfiction (1), historical fiction (1)
- Most recent book acquired: Love & Saffron by Kim Fay, True Biz by Sara Novic, Mr. Penumbra’s 24-Hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan, and The Dearly Beloved by Cara Wall (I had a bookstore gift card and went a bit crazy!)
Goal Stuff
- Go for a walk every day (15/31) – Oof. It was a bad month for this goal. I think the blahness meant I just didn’t have the energy to go for my walks, even though I am sure they would have made me feel better. Argh.
- Drink a bottle of water every day (13/31) – Better than last month, and on par with what I managed in January. Can I get to 15 days in April? Let’s find out!
- Complete 100 Peloton workouts (23/100) – I had a harder time fitting in my Peloton workouts last month since I was trying to complete an insane fitness challenge, too. I’m only 2 workouts behind my goal, though, so hopefully April is the month I catch up!
- Take a knife skills class – Completed this goal in March!
- Redo my entryway – Completed this goal in March, too. Look at me go!
What were some of the highlights of March for you?
Elisabeth
Aww. All those kitty pictures.
And your curled hair looks gorgeous – is that the bubble wand curler you mentioned?! Sigh, I hate, hate doing anything with my hair. Seriously – if I could wave a magic wand and never have to wash or style my hair again that would be…MAGIC.
Stephany
Yes, that’s what my hair looks like with the bubble wand! It makes such fun little curls. 🙂
Kim
There were so many good things this month for you that make ME feel so happy! I love reading about all these connections with your friends and family and new romantic friend!!!
I hope everything was fine with Ellie and it was just a phase! 🙁
I am so sorry about your family member and am sending so much love and good thoughts your way. I be that definitely had an effect on the blah feelings. And being so socially busy, maybe?
My biggest March highlight was our LA trip! Then parts of the month were really hard so I am glad it’s over. Ha!
Stephany
It was a good month and yes, I think the news of my family member definitely had an impact on my blah-ness! It’s also been a little hard to be so busy all the time! I just don’t function well when I’m SO busy all the time!
Suzanne
I am so sorry to hear that your family member is dealing with cancer. Hopefully the treatment will be swift, effective, and have minimal side effects with the result of a full recovery.
Yay for fun friend outings and for a great date!
March (and now April) have been tough in terms of sleep and mood for me, too, even though there were some real highlights last month. I hope you (and I!) sleep better in April.
Stephany
My sleep has gotten better in April, and I hope yours has, too! It’s awful not to sleep well. I’m not a fan!
We should find out soon how my family member’s cancer treatment is going. Fingers crossed for good news! Thanks for your kind words. <3
NGS
Love & Saffron! Such a delightful little book. I just love to read about female friendship, so of course I gobbled it right up!
What are they doing with your data with Fetch? I really only buy things from the grocery store, Costco, and Walgreen’s, so I imagine the Fetch people would just die of boredom from my receipts?
Stephany
I’m excited to finally dive into Love & Saffron. I’ve heard nothing but great things.
Eh… who knows what they are doing with my receipts? Stuff like that doesn’t really bother me because I have an iPhone and I’m on social media so my data is already everywhere, lol. It’s nice to get a gift card for no reason other than shopping!
Nicole MacPherson
I’m so sorry about your family member with cancer. Sending lots of love and good thoughts.
I really enjoyed your latest podcast episode! That was a fun one.
Hooray for good dates! Also, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, you can really rock that bold lip! The curls are fab too.
I love my Air Pods so much! Worth the money in my opinion.
Stephany
Thanks for the kind words about the podcast! It’s been fun to talk about work this season.
And thank you, friend! It’s fun to rock a bold lip every now and then.
Tobia | craftaliciousme
So sorry to hear about your family member and the diagnosis. Hoping all will look better soon.
How fun that you have some enjoyable dates.
I know how a day can just feel blah. Nothing. really is wrong and yet everything doesn’t feel right. Blah.
Have a wonderful April with lots of fun coming your way.
Stephany
Yes – sometimes a day can just be blah for no reason! I think it’s better for us to lean into those feelings and allow ourselves to feel those feels without trying to interrogate why we’re feeling blah. Sometimes, there is no reason!
Anne
Dude, you totally buried the lede: Fun dates (!!!!). Such good news, and enjoying for now is a wonderful approach.
But I am so sorry to hear that Ellie was sick, that your family member was diagnosed with cancer, and that you were also dealing with the blahs. To be honest, I think a lot of us were blah in March. I’m still dragging the blah with me, now that we’re in mid-April. It’s just… I don’t know. A persistent draggy feeling – physically and mentally. So I get it, and I hope you get past it soon.
I also am sending positive thoughts for your family member and hope that you get some good news to balance the not-as-good. (And the positive thoughts come your way, as well, my friend… <3)
Stephany
Yes, there’s just something about March that brings out the blahs, I think! I imagine it’s much harder in the Midwest as the weather is just awful and you’re ready for warmth and springtime!