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No-Spend July | Recap #3

Week three! This was a very hard week for me. I didn’t have any social plans, aside from a few things on the weekend, and that meant I was feeling the urge to order Ubereats a lot more than usual. While I broke some of the rules this week, I am still feeling good about where I am this month and committed to seeing this thing through.

Monday, July 15

No money spent

Nothing much to report here. I am getting very antsy to buy a few things off my “Things I Want to Buy” list but I’m holding strong for now!

Tuesday, July 16

Amazon – $100

Oops. I broke the rules of No-Spend July. It was Prime Day and the vacuum I’ve had my eye on was $50 off, so I decided to break the rules for this one purchase. It is a need, not a want, because my current vacuum is not working well anymore and my carpet is in dire straights.

Wednesday, July 17

No money spent

Same ole, same ole. I have a little guilt about my Prime Day purchase but not too much.

Thursday, July 18

No money spent

I really wanted to put in an Ubereats order for lunch. I just wasn’t feeling the leftovers I had planned. But then when I was looking in my freezer for inspiration, I realized I bought a few snacky items at Trader Joe’s for this very reason, so I threw two mini pizzas in the oven. They were very satisfying!

Friday, July 19

Publix – $100

I did my grocery shopping tonight since I really wanted to have a Pub sub for dinner, but I could only have one if I combined it with grocery shopping. So I did! I felt like I didn’t get too much food and it still equaled over $100. Sigh.

Saturday, July 20

No money spent

I came so close to ordering Ubereats for dinner! Tonight was my sleep study and I needed something quick and easy for dinner. I didn’t want to make anything that involved using my oven or stovetop because, well, anxiety. I didn’t want to spend the entire time I was at the sleep clinic worried I had accidentally left my oven on! I had a few options that I could nuke in the microwave but I wasn’t all that interested in any of them. I figured I could give myself a break this one time because it was a “special” night and even opened the Ubereats app on my phone to figure out what to have for dinner. But then I took a second and that’s when I realized I would feel guilty for the order. I didn’t need it. I had already planned something special for after my sleep study—I didn’t need to do something special before and after. So I put down my phone and pulled out some items from my freezer for dinner. This is remarkable progress for me and I’m very proud of myself.

Sunday, July 21

McDonald’s – $10.59
Target – $33 (cleaning supplies/mouthwash/conditioner)
Target – $18 (gift for a baby shower)

In the above section, I mentioned that I had planned for something special after my sleep study. I planned to pick up a Sausage Egg McMuffin meal from McDonald’s on my way home, and that’s what I did! This breakfast was incredibly delicious and everything I had been dreaming of. It’s not within the parameters of No-Spend July but I also didn’t expect to do my sleep study in July, so I gave myself a pass. I also had to buy some more toiletries/cleaning supplies as well as a gift for my cousin’s baby shower.

What was the last thing you treated yourself to?

Categories: Personal Finance

No-Spend July | Recap #2

It’s week 2 of No-Spend July! I am doing pretty well with this challenge. I think it would be a lot harder if I couldn’t spend money on entertainment because I had book club and a movie/dinner night with friends this week. I’m keeping a list in my phone every time I think of something I want to buy, which I’ll share that at the end of July. Some of the items feel super necessary right now in the moment, but perhaps I’ll feel differently when August rolls around. We’ll see! For now, here’s what I spent this week.

Monday, July 8th

No money spent

I worked from my mom’s house this afternoon to watch the dogs while my mom and stepdad were away in Orlando for the day. Typically, on the days I do this (which aren’t too frequent), I’ll pick up Chick-Fil-A on the way there or maybe order something to pick up on the way home. This time, I ate lunch before I left and made dinner when I got home around 5:30. This challenge is teaching me how many habits I have formed around food and ordering takeout. When I was growing up, it wasn’t something we did all that often and felt like such a big treat. So, as an adult, I leaned into the behavior of ordering takeout more than I should because I could. I’m the adult now! I can decide how often I get takeout! Well, I also need to figure out better boundaries when it comes to how often I opt for takeout because it has been brutal for my budget.

Tuesday, July 9th

$15.48 on six cans of prescription wet cat food

Oh boy. I really wanted to stop by Chick-Fil-A on my way home from the gym tonight. I didn’t have anything exciting planned for dinner (I ended up doing breakfast for dinner, which was fine but not as fine as waffle fries and chicken nuggets) and it took everything in me to go straight home. The only money I spent today was for Eloise’s prescription cat food. She enjoyed the wet food much more than the kibble, so I asked for a prescription card so I can buy the food in bulk at Chewy.

Wednesday, July 10th

$15 for a movie ticket
$21 for dinner at book club

Spending money on entertainment is within the parameters of No-Spend July, so today, I paid a friend who bought me a movie ticket for Friday and also paid for dinner at book club.

Thursday, July 11th

No money spent

Not much to report here! Oh, I do want to say here that I am kind of in this routine that Thursday dinner should be something “fun.” It’s almost the weekend, you know?! Let’s live it up! But tonight, all I had were leftovers to heat up, which always feels kinda “meh” to me. But I heated up the leftovers without complaint and they were delicious and I was satisfied. Let that be a lesson, self.

Friday, July 12th

$39 on gas
$22 on dinner with friends

I don’t have a lot to say about this day. It was nice to spend time with friends and have a meal at a restaurant.

Saturday, July 13th

$39 on birthday essentials

I bought my mom a cake, ice cream, and some candles for game night. She hadn’t had a birthday cake yet, so I had to rectify that.

Sunday, July 14th

$96 for prescription wet cat food (24-pack) and regular wet cat food (24-pack)
$75 on groceries at Trader Joe’s
$65 on groceries at Publix

A spend-y day! I’m really hoping Eloise doesn’t have to stay on this prescription cat food forever because, oof, $96 every 3-ish weeks for cat food is a lot. I’m buying Lila her own wet cat food for now, but she’s usually fine with kibble so I may not keep her on the wet stuff for very long. I also spent almost $150 on food this week because I stopped by Trader Joe’s. I got a lot of snacky options + some freezer meals that will last for a few weeks, so I’m hoping my grocery bill next week will be much lower.

What’s the last thing you spent money on?

Categories: Personal Finance

No-Spend July | Recap #1

It’s No-Spend July! This month, I’m committed to doing a reset on my spending and I cannot spend money on anything but necessities. The parameters of my challenge include:

I can spend money on groceries, but not Ubereats or fast food. If I’m spending time with friends or family, I can spend money at a restaurant.
I can spend money on toiletries and household supplies, but I cannot buy beauty supplies like skincare products (I shouldn’t run out of anything, but if I do, I’m SOL.).
I can spend money on my car, such as if I need maintenance or gas. I cannot buy accessories for my car or take it through the car wash.
I can only buy litter, treats, and food for the cats. No toys this month! (They’ll survive.)
I can buy any gifts necessary for friends and family this month.
I can make plans with friends and spend money on experiences. Experiences > things.
Subscriptions will go through as normal; no changes.
I can spend money on any medical expenses that my FSA card won’t cover.
I cannot buy books or clothing or organizational items or new earrings or Etsy prints or anything that is not a necessity.
I can load up my Starbucks card when needed, but I can only get Starbucks during my writing dates with Mikaela.

Every week, I’ll take you through what I spent each day (I’m not including anything that gets autodrafted by my bank, like rent, bills, savings, etc.) and how I’m feeling about the challenge. This will be helpful for mostly me because I need this kind of accountability, but hopefully someone will also find some solace in these posts and recognize that finances are a difficult topic and we’re all doing the best we can.

Monday, July 1st

No money spent

Today’s the day I decided to go on a spending freeze for July! And that means I have to take out the books I added to my cart on my Book of the Month app (I was so excited to get my hands on a copy of The God of the Woods!) Instead, I sadly push the button to “Skip this month.” Wah.

Tuesday, July 2nd

No money spent

Nothing to report – normal day.

Wednesday, July 3rd

PetSmart ($15) – cat food

Lila’s being picky about the (less expensive) cat food I bought her, so I picked up the (more expensive) cat food that she likes. (This was a small package to tide her over for the time being.)

Thursday, July 4th

No money spent

Today was hard. It was a day off and I am always tempted to put in an Ubereats order because it feels like the weekend and nobody should cook on the weekend, right?! Alas, I had to keep telling myself, “You have food to eat at home,” like I’m a grumpy teenage boy who just wants to grab McDonald’s while he’s out.

Friday, July 5th

No money spent

Another hard day! On Friday mornings, I meet my mom at the gym at 6am and we do an hour-long workout. Afterwards, I typically stop by Einstein’s for a bagel and a large iced coffee. I was very sad I had to just go home and have oatmeal for breakfast. But also – this breakfast costs me $10 and if I have it every week, that’s $40 monthly! It’s not a lot in the grand scheme of things, but it can add up.

Saturday, July 6th

Starbucks ($25) – reloading my card
Publix ($124) – grocery shopping for the week
Publix ($8) – birthday card (it was a special one, but dang, birthday cards are so expensive these days!)
Target ($33.50) – paper towels, hand soap (2), Zevo refill cartridges, conditioner
Amazon ($46) – bulk package of k-cups

This was a spend-y day, but all of it was within the parameters I set for No-Spend July. I was happy that my grocery bill came under $150! I felt like I bought so much stuff (tried to get extra snacky things so I’m not tempted to go out to eat). I picked up some necessary household supplies at Target and also finally decided to stop buying the Keurig packages at Publix (it’s, like, $14 for 12 k-cups!) and instead placed a bulk order at Amazon. It’ll mean spending a lot less money in the long run but oof, $47 is a hit to the pocketbook.

Sunday, July 7th

Ice cream ($21)

My mom, my brother, and I had a fun day out to celebrate her birthday (which is today!). While my mom footed the bill for most of the fun, I paid for the three ice cream cones we got at the end of our evening. It was the very least I could do!

What’s the last thing you spent money on?

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What I Spent | May 2024

Oh, friends. This one is going to be a doozy. May was one of the spendiest months on record and it was not pretty to sit down with these numbers. As a reminder, in these spending reports, I do not include anything that comes out of my paycheck before it lands in my bank account. You won’t see anything related to health insurance, FSA payments, my retirement savings, etc. This is about what I spent from my net income. Here’s what April looked like:

Bills (37.6% | -9.9% from April) – My percentage this month was way lower than previous months because I overpaid on my car loan and didn’t have to make a payment in May. I should have still made a payment but I knew May was going to be a spend-y month so I gave myself the break.

Shopping (13.2% | +7.2% from April) – You guys, I am embarrassed how much money I spent shopping in May. Now, I did spend $300 on new shoes (a new pair of Birkenstocks and two new pairs of Asics), but still. This is mind-boggling.

Food (10.3% | -7.8% from April) – While I’m happy with where I landed with my food budget, I was traveling for the last few days of the month so I don’t know if those numbers would shake out quite as well if I was at home. I adjusted my food budget to accommodate my vacation time ($525 as opposed to $800 as normal), and went over a bit ($596), but I’m okay with that. My Ubereats budget was down $120 from April, and that makes me very, very happy.

Beauty (9.9% | +9.4% from April) – I expected my beauty category to increase a lot from April to May because I had an expensive hair appointment that included balayage, color + toner, and a haircut and style. It was too much money, honestly. I think it’s time to look at at-home hair coloring options. I also bought some make-up (mascara, lipstick, eyebrow pencil) and replaced some skincare products (cleanser, a serum, etc).

Travel (7.0% | -3.7% from April) – My mom and I always split costs 50/50 when we travel. A lot of my travel expenses cleared in early June, so this number is a bit lower than I expected. It included Lyft rides, excursions, food, and drinks.

Cats (4.2% | +1.5% from April) – The cats were a bit expensive this month! I had to buy food and treats and also spent a lot on fun cat toys from the cat event I went to. Eloise also had a vet appointment + two different sets of bloodwork done, but my out-of-pocket cost was only $75 total since I have been funneling money away into a separate savings account for a time such as this. That savings account is now depleted (wah), but at least it was there when I needed it.

Savings (3.9% | -.6% from April) – I put away the same amount in savings that I normally do; it just shook out differently percentage-wise.

Entertainment (3.6% | -1.1% from April) – Book club, dinners with friends, and Cooking Fever tokens.

Gifts (2.1% | +1.9% from April) – Two friends had birthdays at the end of April/early May and I bought presents for them.

Subscriptions (2.1% | no change from April) – This month, my subscriptions included Patreon, Netflix, Spotify, Paramount+, Canva, Prime, a Substack newsletter I support, my bimonthly air filter subscription, and a photo-editing app.

Car (2.0% | +1.2% from April) – Gladys got a bath, I got gas once, and I paid for parking downtown.

Toiletries/Supplies (1.9% | +1.2% from April) – Lots of little supplies needed in May: mouthwash, toothpaste, toothbrushes, shampoo, conditioner, deodorant, toilet paper, trash bags… fun stuff!

Medical (1.2% | +.6% from April) – This category mostly comprises some of the stuff I bought to help with my scalp psoriasis flare. Blegh.

Misc (.9% | -.1% from April) – I have to pay an annual fee (just under $54) at my gym and it comes out every May. So I just put it in a miscellaneous category since it’s not something I’ll need to worry about too often.

Overall Thoughts

I have got to get my shopping under control. As of June, I am limiting myself to $100 a month for shopping. I have been averaging vastly higher than that, so this will be quite the mission even though it doesn’t feel like it should be. I’ve gotten into a mode of buying things just because I want to (and there is also some “being a poor kid” mentality where now that I can buy the things I want, I feel like I deserve it). I need to nip that in the bud!
I need to start living as if my rent is higher than it currently is. I am pretty certain I am going to move when my lease is up at the beginning of November, which means my rent will be increasing in a few months. I don’t want that to be a shock to my budget, so I’d like to start funneling $400 every month into savings. That’s going to be difficult with the way I’m spending money, but crucially important to help with any anxieties I have surrounding higher rent.
I need to build up my emergency savings + pet fund once again, as I had to dip into those savings accounts in May due to Eloise’s extensive bloodwork and the stupid $400 I paid to the locksmith when I came back from vacation.

When’s the last time your car got a bath? Tell me something fun you spent money on recently!

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What I Spent | February 2024

Happy Friday! Who’s ready for another nitty-gritty deep dive into my spending habits? As a reminder, in these spending reports, I do not include anything that comes out of my paycheck before it lands in my bank account. You won’t see anything related to health insurance, FSA payments, my retirement savings, etc. This is about what I spent from my net income. Here’s what February looked like:

Bills (49.7% | +3% from January) – As a reminder, I include all of my non-negotiable bills in this category, which is why it’s about half of my total spending in February. This category was a smidge higher this month because I had to make two student loan payments. (Sometimes I can get away with one if my tuition reimbursement goes through quickly enough.)

Food (18.7% | -1.6% from January) – I was over budget again in this category, but only by $260 (compared to $352 in January). I spent $62 less in groceries and $50 less in Starbucks, but my Ubereats orders were up by $43. I do think I need to bring up my food budget due to rising costs, but I’ll give it one more month to figure out my new normal.

Cats (6.4% | +3.9% from January) – Lila had a vet appointment that came with one shot and a prescription. I also bought wet food (that went up NINE WHOLE DOLLARS from January), litter, two toys, treats, and a new food mat.

Savings (4.9% | +.1% from January) – I have automated savings set up for car insurance ($150 per month), Christmas ($75 per month), and the cats ($50 per month).

Medical (4.7% | +1.6% from January) – Some doctor copays, vitamins, and medication. I’ll start using my FSA in March (there’s a long, boring story about why I haven’t used it until now), so these costs will go down a lot. (Since I’m only tracking what I’m spending after my paychecks hit my bank, I don’t account for FSA spending here.)

Shopping (4.3% | -1.5% from January) – My spendiest shopping categories in February included books ($50), tech ($40 – included my laptop backpack!), and accessories ($29 – included a new purse and wallet).

Entertainment (3% | +.1% from January) – This category included my day out to the strawberry market/strawberry picking and two separate girls’ nights.

Subscriptions (2.5% | -.4% from January) – My subscriptions this month included Patreon (I support three podcasts), Netflix, Paramount+, Spotify, two photo-editing apps, and Prime. A little less this month because my air filter subscription is every other month.

Travel (2.2%) – I’m excited to have something to add to my travel category this month! I bought tickets to see The Popcast live in June. Since I’m going to travel for this event, I categorized it as a travel expense, not entertainment.

Car (1.7% | +1% from January) – I bought gas once, had to pay some tolls, and I put $25 in my Parkmobile app for parking downtown.

Beauty (1.4% | -5.1% from January) – I spent around $60 on new skincare products and bought dry shampoo. Last month, I had an expensive hair appointment, which is why my percentage was way down.

Gifts (1.2% | -.7% from January) – I bought gifts for my nephew’s birthday and donated to my other nephew’s baseball fund.

Toiletries/Supplies (0.2% | -.2% from January) – I bought delicate laundry detergent and freezer bags. Exciting!

Overall Thoughts

It was another month of spending above my means, sigh. And this month was worse: I spent $306 above my means compared to $238 from January. That’s not good! I really have to be so much more careful about how I’m spending money and be more intentional with my purchases, especially considering my food budget is so high right now.
The average money I spent on food between January and February was $906. My food budget (which has remained the same for years) is $600, but I’m going to have to increase that soon. Maybe even to $800, which feels astronomical for one person. My goal is to only use Ubereats once a week for lunch (which is around $20-$25 a meal, compared to dinner which can be double that) and get better about having good meals on hand to eat at home. I know that will decrease my food spending.

What was the last beauty product you bought?