Highs & Lows
The high of my week was hard to choose! There were so many great moments from this past week:
- Attending the Florida Strawberry Festival with Briana. We had such a great time!
- The first official game night of 2021 with my mom, my brother, and my older nephew. So many laughs!
- Celebrating Chip’s third birthday on Tuesday. He got soooo very spoiled!
The low of my week was experiencing a really difficult mental health day on Monday. I don’t really know what was up, but I was on the struggle bus all day. I found it hard to focus on work, hard to shut off my depressive thoughts, and hard to summon the energy to do much. And then, of course, that night, I couldn’t sleep at all and was tossing and turning until 2 a.m. Ugh. Thankfully, my moodiness didn’t last all week, but man, those low days are brutal, aren’t they?
What I Read
I only finished one book this week—is this a record for me? Maybe. I’m oh-so-nearly finished with the romance I’m reading and halfway through my audiobook, but those reviews will have to wait until next week.
Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower by Brittney Cooper (★★★☆☆)
This was an interesting read, although the author sometimes talked in circles and it inhibited the point she was trying to make. I really liked the emphasis on Black feminism and there were quite a few times I felt convicted by her words; it made me recognize all the ways white feminism is so limiting and excluding. Also, her chapter on dating gutted me because, as someone who has been single for a very long time (and not always by choice), I could feel the sadness and loneliness in her words. All in all, worth a read but not a standout for me.
What I Spent
Friday, March 12
- Dominos: $28
Saturday, March 13
- Strawberry Festival (parking, admission, lunch, and treats): $47
- Publix (Pub sub and drinks): $15
Sunday, March 14
- Groceries: $55
- Toiletries (3 bottles of body wash): $15
Monday, March 15
- Lunch from Chick-Fil-A: $9
- Dinner from Ubereats: $29
*This was my low mental health day, and you can see how I self-soothe: fast food and takeout.
Tuesday, March 16
- No-spend day!
Wednesday, March 17
- No-spend day!
Thursday, March 18
- Publix (mostly groceries + a Pub sub): $32
Final Tallies:
- Food – $113
- Entertainment – $47
- And $10 added to my no-spend fund (I add $5 every time I have a no-spend day.)
A very low spending week for me! Hooray!
Monthly Goals Progress
- Log 10 Peloton workouts. I’ve logged 5 workouts so far this month. I’m certain I’ll get this goal done, yay!
- Dust off my FitBit and log 3,000 steps every day. I’ve met this goal every day this month! Some days have been very easy and other days have been very hard. So it goes!
- Become Google Analytics certified. I’ve currently finished all of the lessons in the first unit (there are 4 units) and passed the first assessment so hooray! I don’t know if I’ll complete this by the end of the month, but I’m working on it.
- Spend less than $100 on personal purchases. I didn’t buy anything “personal” last week (I nearly spent $30 on handmade candles at a booth at the Strawberry Festival, but held strong!) so I’m still sitting at $25 left for the month.
- Play with the cats every day. Ugh, I’m still not doing this daily! I’ve only done this 4 or 5 times this month. My poor cats.
What I’m Recommending
- This long read from Rebecca Traister about Andrew Cuomo and his toxic workplace. It’s quite horrifying, a train wreck I can’t look away from. (Will this man step down already?!)
- Office Ladies broke down my favorite episode from The Office: Dinner Party! It was so fun to hear the actors talk about their experiences filming this episode, and how hard it was to get through some of the scenes (like when Michael showed Jim and Pam his tiny “plasma” TV). It’s such an iconic episode of The Office, and I loved the thought and planning that Jenna and Angela put into making this podcast episode.
Tell me something good that happened to you this week!
Suzanne
I am so behind on that podcast, but I can’t WAIT for the Dinner Party episode! A good thing that happened to me is that I have scheduled my vaccine for next week!!!
Lisa of Lisa’s Yarns
Sorry to hear you had a bad mental health day. Those are rough. I’ve been having some anxiety this week, too, so have talked to Phil about what I am worrying about so he can help me see it’s not rational. Like I told him I’m worried about how Will isn’t great at rolling from tummy to back. He does it occasionally but not every day. I told him I worry this means he isn’t going to be as smart as Paul since Paul figured out rolling over earlier and was more consistent about doing it. Bananas, right? Phil said – if you are worrying about that, shouldn’t you worry about what it says about Paul that he isn’t potty trained. I said that doesn’t worry me because I know he can do it, he just won’t. He said to apply that to Will and to not equate what they are doing developmentally with their intelligence. Which is sooo true. So yah…. anyways just telling this story so you know there are others struggling with anxiety/mental health out there!
Kim
Oh my gosh, Dinner Party. I might have to download just to listen to that!
It sucks you had such a low Monday but I am totally not surprised since it was the first real day of DST and I bet your body felt super out of whack! I hope this week is better!
What are some of the ways white feminism is so limiting and excluding?
Something good from last week, ha, the things I can think of actually happened on the weekend after you posted this! From the week… oh! I only had a four day work week, yay! LOL.
Kate Kaput
I can’t waiiiiit to go back to festivals & fairs!
Anne
I love these weekly wrap ups, but I’m so sorry you had a low mental health day. I think we do all have them and it’s so hard to get out of the funk. My tendency is to tell myself to suck it up but… sometimes I just don’t have the energy to suck it up. I hope that your next one is far in the future.
You are rocking it with the steps and workouts, though. Do you think having the bike (!) is helping??
San
I love the idea of the no-spend fund…. I would probably do well, because I often have a lot of no-spend days (as I tend to spend – shop groceries, etc. – on one day every two weeks).