August was a pretty interesting month on the spending front. I don’t feel as though I spent a lot of money, but I did put a significant amount toward our London vacation. My mom put the bulk of our purchases (flight, hotel, excursions, travel insurance, etc.) on her credit card and let me pay my portion (we always split the cost 50/50 on vacations) over time. Thankfully, in August, I was able to fully pay off my portion, so I am back in the green! This month, I also had to pay my yearly fee for my renters’ insurance, so it was just a lot of these bigger expenses that easily added up.

Here were my goals for August:

• Pay off London – Complete!
• Spend below my means – Not complete. Womp, womp. I was actually very surprised to learn that I was $1,000 over budget this month. I have no idea how that happened because I don’t feel as if I used my credit card all that much (although I did run up my balance more than expected, and I was able to pay it off at the beginning of September).
• Try to stay under $150 in Ubereats orders – I spent $157 this month, so I’m going to consider this a win. I almost broke even with my goal.

Here’s how things shook out this month. As a reminder, this is a spending report, which means I am only talking about the money I spent after it hits my bank account. You will not see anything related to my 401k, health insurance premiums, HSA contributions, etc.

Spending Breakdown

Categories That Increased

TRAVEL ($1,447 | ↑ $702)

Hoo boy! This was quite the total. I have fully paid off my mom for all of our London expenses and also paid for TSA Pre-Check, my UK travel visa, and British pounds that we bought at a currency exchange kiosk. We’re under 30 days away from our trip!

BILLS ($2,488 | ↑ $470)

Slight increase this month since I didn’t have my car payment included in July’s spending report. But my electric bill was slightly lower than July, so that’s exciting! It’s been steadily increasing every month.

MISCELLANEOUS ($313 | ↑ $313)

I had to pay my yearly fee for renters’ insurance. I bumped up some of my coverages this time around (personal property and loss of use) because last hurricane season was a scary one. Let’s hope I don’t have to worry about submitting any claims this year.

SPA ($271 | ↑ $162)

Lots of fun things in August! I got my hair cut and colored, got a facial, and got my underarms and brows waxed. I’ve been using my wellness reimbursement (we get $300 every year) to pay for my massage/facial treatments, so now that I’ve blown through that stipend, I’ll probably cancel my massage membership. It’s pricey at $80 a month, and that’s money I can put to use elsewhere.

FOOD ($913 | ↑ $80)

While my Ubereats spending came down by $110, my grocery spending went up by $168. And I spent a little more on meals out that weren’t online orders, accounting for the overage. I have a new plan for getting my online orders to a reasonable number (more below!), so we’ll see if that helps lower my food spending at all.

MEDICAL ($32 | ↑ $13)

I bought a big bottle of vitamin D supplements. Exciting stuff!

CAR ($231 | ↑ $4)

A very small increase for the car this month because I had to pay a toll invoice. Otherwise, everything was pretty similar to July!

CATEGORIES THAT DECREASED

SHOPPING ($161 | ↓ $285)

I wrote last month that “hopefully this category decreases a lot in August,” and it did! Hooray! I was paying so much money for travel expenses that I had to limit my shopping budget. Here’s what I bought last month:

• Clothing: $60 (a new pair of shoes)
• Home: $33 (a fall-scented candle and six hand sanitizers from Bath & Body Works)
• Miscellaneous: $19 (toothbrush cover, a set of two small jars, and my desktop vacuum)
• Beauty: $18 (tweezers (!!!) and nail polish top coat)
• Books: $16
• Hobbies: $15 (a box of markers)

GIFTS ($153 | ↓ $215)

July was a super expensive month for gift-giving, and things calmed down a bit in August. I bought toys for my fur-neice and -nephew for their birthdays, had my monthly ASPCA donation, and paid for afternoon tea for Mom and me.

SUPPLIES ($78 | ↓ $46)

This month, I didn’t bulk-buy a bunch of body wash to use in my bubble baths! That helped bring down the price, although I did have to replenish some household supplies that I only need to buy a few times a year, like laundry detergent, dishwasher pods, etc. (I always wait until Target is doing their “buy $50 of laundry detergent and get a $15 gift card!” deal, so I stock up.)

CATS ($181 | ↓ $29)

A pretty easy month for the cats. I bought them a boatload of different wet cat food (they’re like their mama – they like variety!), a new Halloween scratching pad, and treats. I also paid for Eloise’s vet wellness plan.

ENTERTAINMENT ($198 | ↓ $20)

The majority of this category comprises restaurant dates with friends and my mom. I also paid $15 for extra tokens for one of my iPhone games.

SUBSCRIPTIONS ($75 | ↓ $9)

A slight decrease. I didn’t use a Book of the Month credit (the past two months of book selections haven’t been great, wah), but I did join a new Patreon community so that was an extra $10.

CATEGORIES THAT STAYED THE SAME

SAVINGS ($175) 

I’m still putting $75 a month away in a Christmas fund and $25 a week away in emergency savings. Things are going well in this department, although I could probably bump up the amount I’m putting into my emergency savings on a weekly basis.

Overall Thoughts

Overall, I’m pretty happy with my August spending. There weren’t a lot of frivolous purchases (for me, at least, lol, since I’m not the most frugal person!) and a majority of my money went toward travel and food, which is normal for me. One thing I have been thinking a lot about is how to lower my Ubereats budget. Originally, my goal was to spend less than $100 per month, but as the past few months have shown, that’s very hard for me to hit! I wish it weren’t, but that’s just the reality of my life right now. Instead, I think I’m going to challenge myself to only order Ubereats twice a week. I can order it once for dinner and once for lunch. And I’m going to gamify it (because gamifying things really works for me!). If I can go a week without either a dinner or lunch Ubereats order, then I can put $10 into a special savings fund. I don’t know how I’ll use this fund yet, but I want to use it for a fun, frivolous purchase. If I don’t have Ubereats at all one week, that’s $20 to my savings fund. We’ll see if that gets me excited to spend less money on online orders.

Anyway, here are my goals for September: get Eloise registered as an emotional support animal (which means I can waive any pet fees/pet rent on my future apartment; these fees can sometimes be $400-$500!), Ubereats twice a week, and spend below my means.

What was your last frivolous purchase?

Oh, July. What a month! There were some unexpected delights this month (see my third bullet point below), but it was also a very spend-y month. Between a few birthdays, a few weekends away, and a depressive episode that had me reaching for comfort wherever I could, it was quite the month. There are way more categories that increased than decreased this month, but that’s life. Let’s hope August is a little better on the spending front.

Let’s first review my goals for July:

• Send at least $1,000 to my mom for London expenses – Half-complete. I gave her $500 but I am planning on clearing out my “debt” to her this week, which means London will be fully paid for!
• Meet my online order goal – LOL no. Depression made this goal fly completely out the window.
• Continue to spend below my means ($250 or higher) – Complete! Get this: I came over $1,000 under-budget in July! This is mainly due to getting an unexpected check in the mail from Bank of America. Apparently, they didn’t pay me enough when insurance totaled my beloved Gladys (my 2022 Kia Soul, which was flooded during Hurricane Helene in September), and sent me a $1,755 check! That was pretty exciting!

Here’s how things shook out this month. As a reminder, this is a spending report, which means I am only talking about the money I spent after it hits my bank account. You will not see anything related to my 401k, health insurance premiums, HSA contributions, etc.

Spending Breakdown

Categories That Increased

TRAVEL ($745 | ↑ $645)

Hoo boy, good thing I value travel and experiences because I spent a lot of money on travel in July! First, there was my mom’s birthday vacation (we split the cost of the hotel + cabanas) and various expenses associated with that. And then I bought travel insurance and paid my mom for a portion of our London trip.

GIFTS ($368 | ↑ $343)

A very expensive month for gift-giving, but all for good reasons. I celebrated my mom’s 60th birthday with an aquarium visit and a fancy steakhouse dinner, and then I purchased tickets to a book event with a friend who had a July birthday.

SHOPPING ($446 | ↑ $258)

Oof. It was a busy shopping month, but this is mostly because of Stitch Fix + an Old Navy order. Hopefully, this category decreases a lot in August! Here’s what I bought:

• Clothing: $267
• Books: $120
• Miscelleneous (a new phone case + a doorknob): $59

CATS ($210 | ↑ $210)

Well, it was inevitable that my cats would cost me money in July since I didn’t spend any money on them in June (wild!). In July, I spent a lot of money on food (finally found a wet food that they go crazy for!) and treats. I also paid for Eloise’s vet plan this month (Lila will be on the same plan soon, but waiting until she needs to see the vet to add her on it.)

SUPPLIES ($124 | ↑ $67)

The majority of this increase is due to replenishing my supply of body wash for my bubble baths. I take a lot of bubble baths and use a lot of body wash, so it’s a necessary self-care expense.

CAR ($227 | ↑ $40)

I needed to fill up my gas tank three times in July – a new record! This is mainly due to driving to Orlando and home. Otherwise, everything stayed pretty much the same from June.

SAVINGS ($175 | ↑ $25)

This is a good increase! I put $100 away in my emergency savings and $75 away in my Christmas fund. Right now, putting away $25 a week in my emergency savings doesn’t feel too difficult.

SUBSCRIPTIONS ($84 | ↑ $19)

All of my subscriptions remained the same, except in July, I paid for Book of the Month (I didn’t use any credits in May, so I didn’t have to pay for my subscription in June).

CATEGORIES THAT DECREASED

BILLS ($2,018 | ↓ $816)

I really need to get my car payment on autopay. The only reason this category decreased is because a) in June, I paid two car payments since the May payment was a little late (but within the grace period), and b) my July payment was a little late (also within the grace period, but will be on August’s spending report). Why am I so bad at adulting sometimes?!

FOOD ($833 | ↓ $145)

I am quite surprised that my food budget decreased in July because I felt like I spent so much money on food! My Ubereats orders were astronomical, and that’s mostly because I went through a very tough depressive episode toward the end of July, and I had no desire or energy to cook. So I relied on UberEats, and I am not going to berate myself for that. It’s what I needed and I’m glad it was there for me.

SPA ($109 | ↓ $106)

I got a very bougie pedicure and also got my underarms waxed.

MEDICAL ($19 | ↓ $35)

I paid $15 for a fluoride treatment at the dentist and also bought Band-Aids.

ENTERTAINMENT ($218 | ↓ $17)

I’m a little surprised that my entertainment budget only decreased incrementally in July because I don’t feel as if I did all that much with my friends! But there were two movie dates, an alpaca painting event while I was in Orlando on a girls’ weekend, and ice cream before an improv show. I guess I did more than I thought!

OVERALL THOUGHTS

It was an up-and-down month. There were high highs and very low lows, but I expected July to be a spend-y month. There was just a lot going on. August/September should be a lot calmer. But it’s also time to get cracking on apartment hunting and figuring out where I’m going to live once my lease is up on November 1st. I am so ready to be out of this apartment and excited about the process of moving (I love packing and unpacking, sue me). October will be a busy month between a week-long trip to London and a big move! Whew.

My goals for August are to pay off London, spend below my means, and try to stay under $150 in Ubereats orders (maybe that $100 threshold was a bit too aggressive for me right now…).

What was the last “fun” thing you bought for yourself?

I wasn’t sure what to expect when I put this spending report together because I have been really bad about checking in on my spending. In fact, before I put this report together, I hadn’t even opened my bank account in nearly three weeks. Oops. So what a surprise it was to learn that I did a pretty good job with my spending this month! There are definitely some problem areas (*cough*food*cough*), but so many categories came down by a large margin and I’m really proud of myself for that. I think a lot of this had to do with how busy I was with medical appointments and work on top of that. Is the secret to spending less money being physically ill?! Hmm…

Let’s review my goals for June:

• Cancel Amazon Prime – Complete! I think I was responding to a comment on my last spending report when I was like, “Girl, just cancel the damn thing.” So I did.
• Spend below my means by at least $100 – Complete! Not only did I meet this goal, but I surpassed it big time. I spent $600 below my means in June! Holy shit!
• Meet my online ordering goal – Not complete. SIGH.

Here’s how things shook out this month. As a reminder, this is a spending report, which means I am only talking about the money I spent after it hits my bank account. You will not see anything related to my 401k, health insurance premiums, HSA contributions, etc.

Spending Breakdown

Categories That Increased

BILLS ($2,897 | ↑ $840)

Oof. This one hurts! But I expected it. I had two car payments go through in June (one was delayed from May). That accounts for the majority of the overage. My electric bill was also higher in June (by $52), and it’s going to be even higher in July, sigh.

SPA ($215 | ↑ $149)

I got an underarm wax as well as a hair color and trim. I also bought a dry shampoo powder that my stylist sold me on. I don’t know if I love it, but it’s better than a lot of the aerosol dry shampoo I’ve used.

ENTERTAINMENT ($235 | ↑ $78)

A lot of my entertainment expenses were fun outings with friends! There was book club, a night out at the Melting Pot (definitely the most expensive night on this list!), Clueless and dinner afterward, and lunch with friends. All good experiences that I wouldn’t trade!

FOOD ($978 | ↑ $63)

Another high month of food spending (reminder: this is for one person!) The overage mainly comes from groceries. Are groceries becoming more expensive or am I just bad at grocery shopping effectively? Hrmph. I need to do more analysis on my grocery spending, but that doesn’t feel like a very fun project. My online ordering was also out of control, but I spent around the same as I did in May. I just did not come anywhere close to my goal of spending $100 or less on online orders.

MEDICAL ($54 | ↑ $21)

A slight increase from May. Mostly bought some period supplies and more wipes for my CPAP. I could have used my HSA card for these, but I paid for them out of pocket.

Categories That Decreased

CATS ($0 | ↓ $574)

Somehow, I didn’t spend any money on my cats in June? WILD.

TRAVEL ($100 | ↓ $351)

A quiet month for travel, although this category is definitely going to start getting a workout as I start to pay my mom back for all of the London expenses she’s paid for. I bought some travel supplies and tickets to the Orlando aquarium (this falls under travel and not entertainment since my mom and I are going to the aquarium during our Orlando vacation next week).

GIFTS ($25 | ↓ $241)

The only expense in this category is my monthly donation to the ASPCA.

SHOPPING ($188 | ↓ $113)

I continue to decrease my shopping category. I think the main reason this category decreased so much in June is because I didn’t buy any books! (From March-May, I spent nearly $400 total on books and bookish items, so it was time for a break.) My highest totals in June were:

• Home (throw pillows, couch cover, mug): $72
• Clothes (summer dress, bathing suit): $57
• Beauty (eyebrow pencil, cleanser): $23

CAR ($187 | ↓ $57)

I put money away for car insurance and got gas once. A very easy month for car expenses!

SAVINGS ($150 | ↓ $37)

While my savings decreased a bit from May, this is actually not as bad as it looks! I stopped my monthly contribution to my “cats” fund since I’m now paying $60 a month for Eloise’s vet care plan. And I added a $25/week contribution to my emergency savings. I funneled $75 to that savings account in June, which is the first time I’ve put money in that account in… far too long.

SUBSCRIPTIONS ($65 | ↓ $34)

Two big things: I canceled my Amazon Prime membership and I rolled over my Book of the Month credit, so I didn’t have that expense in June.

SUPPLIES ($57 | ↑ $34)

The typical supplies: mouthwash, deodorant, a new toothbrush, toothpaste, hand soap, conditioner, and batteries.

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Overall Thoughts

This was a great spending month for me, and I hope the trend continues. I do need to start sending money to my mom to pay for my portion of our London expenses (she was gracious enough to put it all on her credit card and allow me to pay her back in increments) and I’d like to be fully caught up by the end of August at the latest. What this month gives me is hope that I can make the move to a two-bedroom apartment and handle my expenses without feeling like I’m living paycheck to paycheck. Money won’t be as free-flowing as it is now (which is why I keep staying in this one-bedroom apartment… it’s nice to have a lot of disposable income!), but I can make it work. And it’s worth it to me to make it happen.

My goals for July are to send at least $1,000 to my mom for London expenses, meet my online ordering goal (LOL), and continue to spend below my means ($250 or higher!).

What’s one of your “must-have” subscriptions? For me, it’s my Patreon subscriptions! I couldn’t live without them!

This was a fun spending report to put together! Even though I did not spend within my means (sigh), part of that was due to taking care of some very annoying medical bills (that I will slowly be able to submit to my HSA for reimbursement). I was around $219 over my means, which is not great but I’m chalking it up to getting those medical bills off my plate. If I didn’t have to deal with those, I would be in a much better spot!

Let’s review my goals for April:

• Reduce my shopping budget by half – Complete! I mean, almost. I needed to spend $316 or less to meet this goal and I spent $333. Close enough?!
• Meet my online ordering goal – Not complete. But I got closer to that goal in April than I was in February or March, so I feel good about that.
• Cancel Amazon Prime – Not complete. Ugh! I just keep forgetting to do this!

And here’s how things shook out this month. As a reminder, this is a spending report, which means I am only talking about the money I spent after it hits my bank account. You will not see anything related to my 401k, health insurance premiums, HSA contributions, etc.

Categories That Increased

MEDICAL ($549 | ↑ $422)

Ughhhh. The worst way to spend money! I needed to take care of a large bill for my CPAP equipment ($303) and pay a large bill to my therapist ($210) since my insurance company had been under-billing me for a few months. I also paid for some medication. The good news is that I’ve met my deductible for 2025 so now my therapy appointments are $0! Sweet relief.

CAR ($263 | ↑ 48)

A small increase, mostly needing to get gas twice this month, paying some tolls, and getting a car wash.

TRAVEL ($662 | ↑ $42) 

I bought a round-trip flight to London and I also categorized anything I spent for my staycation at the VRBO with the cats (food, litter, and the disposable litter box I ordered).

SUBSCRIPTIONS ($129  | ↑ $21)

I did not cancel Amazon Prime (ugh) but I did buy a year’s subscription to Emily in Your Phone’s Substack, which accounts for the increase.

FOOD ($780 | ↑ $11) 

My food budget increased just a tiny bit from April, so I’m really happy that things stayed relatively stable. I’m still not meeting my Ubereats goal (>$100 per month), but this month, I was only over by $32 (as opposed to $73 in March and $105 in February), so I’m doing much better than I was. I’m getting there! (I’m trying to give myself a rule that I can only order Ubereats when I’m on my period since that’s when my energy is the lowest. It’s a little silly, but it’s working!) My grocery budget was nearly identical to March, too.

Categories That Decreased

BILLS ($2,352 | ↓ $3,520)

This number is a little misleading because I accounted for paying off my LASIK bill ($3,049) in March. Everything else was pretty normal and even my electric bill was a smidge lower in April than March, so hooray for that! We’re definitely entering the season where my AC is going to be working overtime so I expect some large electric bills soon.

SHOPPING ($333 | ↓ $349)

I am really happy with this number! I’d like to reduce my shopping budget further, but we’re making progress. Here were my highest categories:

• Books: $95.21
• Accessories (reading stand and a belt bag): $57.40
• Clothing (a t-shirt from Etsy and a new pair of sandals): $51.52
• Beauty: $35

MISC ($52 | ↓ $205)

Nothing too crazy for my miscellaneous category in April, just a few blog-related expenses like renewing my spam protection. Last month, I had to pay too much money for my taxes (not really, but felt like it to me!) so that’s why the decrease is so drastic.

SUPPLIES ($32  | ↓ $164)

This was a startlingly low number for my household supplies/toiletries. But I spent a lot of money replenishing my supplies in March so it makes sense that I’d have a lower-than-average month. I needed a few CPAP supplies (distilled water and gentle dish soap for cleaning the parts) as well as the usual suspects: mouthwash, conditioner, paper towels, etc.

GIFTS ($0  | ↓ $143)

I’m so surprised that I didn’t spend any money on gifts in April! Don’t worry, though, May is already turning out to be a spendy month for gifts.

ENTERTAINMENT ($168  | ↓ $115)

There weren’t a ton of things happening in April, it seems! Most of this total comprises dinners with friends/my mom ($116) and the rest covers book club and some miscellaneous items.

SPA ($128 | ↓ $104)

No hair appointment this month, but I did spend $84 to get my underarms waxed and then my brows waxed and dyed, which feels crazy. I don’t think I’ll be doing the dye again—it doesn’t last very long so it really feels like I’m just throwing money away. And my brows don’t really need to be waxed that frequently. I also got a pedicure, which felt so nice.

CATS ($88 | ↓ $97)

A pretty low-key month for the girls! I bought food, Litter Genie refills, and a new scratching pad.

Categories That Held Steady

SAVINGS ($125)

I am actually upset about this one because I really need to put more money in savings than I do. UGH.

Overall Thoughts

This was a good month with a lot of decreased categories. And while I’m proud of nearly halving my shopping spending, I still have some work to do there. I have gotten into the habit of just buying things whenever I think about them, rather than waiting and making sure I really want to buy said thing. Maybe instead, I could make a note of it in my phone, and at the end of every month, I could review this list and decide if any of these items are things I still want. And if they are, and it fits into my budget, then I can buy the thing. I feel a lot more “free” with my money right now because I have a lot of disposable income, but that extra money should really be going to things like a travel fund or a savings account for my upcoming move. Plus, starting in November, my rent will be increasing drastically (by at least $500) if I find a reasonably priced two-bedroom apartment, so I need to start living like I have a lot less money now so it doesn’t feel like such a dramatic change at the end of the year.

It’s also going to be imperative to spend below my means. And that comes with being a lot more mindful of how much money I’m spending on a weekly basis. I’ve gotten better about tracking my spending every Sunday, but I think I also need to make a stronger budget that I actually stick to. That’s hard for me because there’s a scarcity mindset that comes with budgeting (at least for me, because of my upbringing), but I know it will be a beneficial practice for me in the long run. Something for me to think about!

To close out this post, here are my goals for May: spend below my means by $250, cancel Amazon Prime, and meet my online ordering goal (less than $100 spent on Ubereats orders).

What’s the last travel purchase you spent money on?