Remember: The Science of Memory and the Art of Forgetting by Lisa Genova (★★★★☆)
Audiobook • Libby • Nonfiction • 2021
Short synopsis: A fascinating exploration of the intricacies of how we remember, why we forget, and what we can do to protect our memories, from a Harvard-trained neuroscientist.
I enjoyed this book a lot, although I think it might have been a lot more impactful for me if I had read a print version rather than listening to the audiobook. There was so much practical application here, and I didn’t slow down to take it all in like I should have. I love learning about how our brain works and this book was no exception. Learning the science behind how we store memories and why we can sometimes forget the simplest tasks was fascinating. The author also talks frankly about dementia, how it happens, and what to expect from our loved ones experiencing it. I have not been personally affected by dementia (my great-grandma had it, but I wasn’t involved in her care), but it’s something I’m terrified of. The author did an excellent job of explaining the science behind memory as well as what we can do to help improve our memory. I am someone who is constantly leaving things at my mom’s house or forgetting to do a task unless I’ve written it down or do it right then and there, so I was heartened to learn my faulty memory for things like that is fairly normal. This is a quick read (it was just 6 hours on audio), but an impactful one.
Summer Fridays by Suzanne Rindell (★★★☆☆)
Audiobook • Libby • Contemporary Fiction/Romance • 2024
Short synopsis: In the summer of 1999, aspiring writer Sawyer, newly engaged and increasingly lonely, forms an unexpected bond with Nick, the skeptical boyfriend of her fiancé’s too-close colleague. As their weekly city adventures deepen into something more, Sawyer must confront what—and who—she truly wants before summer ends.
This book was so fun… and yet I have so many complicated feelings about it. I loved the setting of NYC in the summer of 1999. It was a time before cell phones and before 9/11 happened, and things just felt different (or at least I assume they did; I have yet to visit NYC). I loved that Sawyer was able to get out and see the city with Nick by her side, and I just loved their adventures and banter. It all just made me really happy! My complicated feelings about the book have to do with Sawyer and Nick’s blossoming relationship. Sawyer’s fiancé is basically MIA this summer because he’s working 80-hour weeks for a big case for his law firm. They barely see each other, functioning more like roommates than two people getting married in a few months. I just really needed Sawyer to say something. I needed her to stop being such a doormat with her fiancé and have an honest conversation with him. But she never did, and it was so frustrating. I wanted more introspection from Sawyer and more forward momentum. She eventually does start making some decisions about her life, but it all happens off page and I feel like that was a real disservice. So, I’m left with my complicated feelings.
Crow Mary by Kathleen Grissom (★★★★★)
Print • Library • Historical Fiction • 2023
Short synopsis: This is the fictionalized retelling of a real woman. Her name was Goes First, and she was a Crow Native woman who marries a white fur trader and is renamed Mary to assimilate into his culture. She’s fifteen when she marries him (he’s in his thirties) and learns a new language and a new way of life, all while remaining true to her indigenous roots.
I first heard about this book on Sarah’s Book Shelves Live, a book podcast that I love. But I didn’t put it on my TBR list until Birchie raved about it. Previously, I had read and loved The Kitchen House by Grissom and I had a feeling this book would captivate me just as much. And it absolutely did. I love that the book begins with a chapter from the great-granddaughter of Goes First—this helped me feel better about a white woman writing an indigenous woman’s story. (Grissom’s afterword is also not to be missed!) This is the kind of story that you just want to sink into. It’s one to take your time with and let the story unfold for you. There is so much emotion to this book, so much joy and pain, and I found myself continuously impressed by our main character and the way she always stood up for what’s right, no matter the consequences. She was an incredible woman and I’m really glad her story got to be told.
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