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Categories: Life

Where Do You Keep That | Part IV

It’s been a while since I did a follow-up post to my Where Do You Keep That? series. I started it in August after listening to an episode of the Girl Next Door podcast and then Elisabeth took the post and ran with it, providing me with a long list of things to talk about! I may be able to squeak out yet another list after this post, so stay tuned for that! For now, let’s dive into some other categories of household items so I can tell you exactly where I keep them in my house.

Light Bulbs

The bottom section of the bookshelves in my dining room are all for organization! I have a bin that’s strictly used for backstock for cleaning supplies, kitchen supplies, etc. This bin also houses backup lightbulbs. Once I run out, I immediately add more lightbulbs to my cart on Target so I’m never without lightbulbs.

Incoming Mail

I am so bad about checking my mailbox regularly. Since I live in an apartment, I have to walk to a community mailbox area to gather my mail and sometimes I forget to do this until a few weeks have passed. Oops! When I do grab my mail, I usually take the time to go through it. If there is mail that I am not quite ready to deal with, I’ll throw it in my little organizer that’s near my door. The goal is to go through that organizer once a month and take care of lingering mail tasks, like paying a bill or making an appointment.

Laundry Baskets

I only have one laundry basket in my apartment because I use my washer as its own “laundry basket” of sorts. (More about that here!) The one laundry basket I have sits in my bathroom closet. I use it for towels, washcloths, reusable cotton rounds, etc.

Garbage Cans

I have three garbage cans in my apartment. There’s my primary garbage can that sits right outside my kitchen. There’s my bathroom trash can next to my toilet. And then there’s the valet trash can that I set outside a few nights a week to get picked up. (I transfer the bag of trash from my primary can to the valet can whenever I need the trash to be picked up.) I keep that trash can right inside my door, next to my TV stand.

Broom and Mop

My broom and my mop sit inside one of my closets. Out of sight, out of mind!

Sunglasses

I keep one pair of sunglasses always tucked into a pocket in my purse. The other pair is usually in my car but if I bring it inside for any reason, I’ll throw it in my purse when I’m tidying up around my apartment.

Items to Donate

I always keep a trash bag in my closet that I fill with items I want to donate. It’s not the prettiest thing, but I like always having that bag on hand because inevitably, I’m throwing things in it on a regular basis. (Bonus: Eloise now thinks it’s the ideal place to nap now. A million comfortable places to sleep and she chooses a trash bag, sigh.)

Batteries

I use an eight-cube bookshelf as my TV stand. The top shelf is for books and the bottom shelf is for organization! In the second bin, I keep small plastic containers for miscellaneous items, and one of those items is batteries. I only keep AAA and AA batteries on hand because I haven’t had a need for any other type at this point. Once I use up the last of the batteries, I will immediately add a new pack to my Target cart.

Paper Storage

I have a portable file folder in my closet for paper storage. Once a year, I shred anything that’s older than seven years, so the file folder keeps getting smaller and smaller because most things are digital these days!

Tupperware

How annoying is Tupperware? And yet… it is also so necessary. I feel like my situation is somewhat under control but things could get dicey at any moment. Right now, the top shelf of one of my kitchen cabinets is reserved for Tupperware, although I had to move one set of Tupperware containers to the second shelf when I got my bento snack boxes. So now the top shelf is for my big containers, bento boxes, and a plastic bin for smaller containers/tops. The second shelf is for the other set of containers (I use these frequently for leftovers!).

How many laundry baskets do you have in your house?

Categories: Life

The F.I.G. Collective – Days 1-7

The Finding Joy in Gratitude (F.I.G.) Collective is Elisabeth’s brainchild. In February, she is challenging us to find at least one thing to be grateful for every day. Times are tough right now, which is why I think engaging in a gratitude practice is even more imperative for us. This administration wants to take a lot of things away from us but one thing they cannot take from us is our joy and our gratitude. Now, let’s get onto my first seven F.I.G.s of February:

1 – I had such a lovely afternoon with my dear friend Mikaela. We had our usual writing date and then afterward, we strolled around Barnes & Noble for a bit before having lunch. It was nice to spend extra time with her!

2 – I went to a Hatha yoga class that was exceptional. I love that it focused mostly on deep stretching and it all felt so good on my lower back and hips. One of the things I love most about yoga is how it focuses on being present in your body, which is something I don’t do too often. I like that I had to spend 45 minutes silently being in my body and giving it the kindness of stretching.

3 – I’m relieved that I was able to snag an appointment with my dermatologist for Wednesday afternoon. Another cyst popped up on my body (two days after I had an appointment, of course!) and it is so, so painful. At this point, I think I need to have a standing weekly appointment with my dermatologist to keep things in check.

4 – My friend Mikaela has been such a support in my journey to reduce my sugar intake. Today, she shared with me her delicious iced coffee recipe and even checked the sugar contents for me!

5 – I went to my mom’s after my dermatology appointment. She’s working from home this week, so I filled her in on what happened at my appointment (nothing much to report, considering the cyst decided to start draining on its own this morning) and then snuggled with the dogs while we chatted for a bit. Here’s a funny story: As I was getting ready to leave, Lucy was in the backyard and Chip was inside. I was giving Chip all of the kisses and love, and then we heard Lucy barking. We turn around to see she’s right at the patio door, so my mom lets her in and she runs over to me with her whole body wriggling! I picked her up and she showered my face with kisses. It was almost like she was saying, “You were going to leave without saying goodbye to me?” Such a sweetheart. I love those babies so much!

6 – Two great things happened today. First, I was able to use GoodRx for the first time to get a prescription nearly half-off. (It rang up as $65 but with my coupon, I got it for $34.) Second, I placed an online order for a half-size Pub sub and when I got to the counter to pick it up, they had made me a whole size for the price of a half! Cha-ching.

7 – I met Birchie today! We went to a local Italian restaurant for dinner where we chatted about all of our blog friends and life off the blog. It was so nice meeting her and we have a very fun day planned tomorrow (which is today, when I publish this post).

Categories: Life

The Last Day of November

It’s the last day of November, which means it’s the last day of NaBloPoMo!

It’s always bittersweet to say goodbye to NaBloPoMo because it’s so fun writing posts every day and connecting with others who are doing the same. But I am also ready for a break from blogging every day! And I really need to catch up on blog reading.

This year, I felt like I wasn’t as structured with my editorial calendar as usual. Typically, I plan out the entire month’s worth of posts and stick to the schedule I’ve created. And I did that but then I kind of… didn’t follow my plan. Sometimes, it was because I had a busy day and didn’t have enough time to write the blog post I had planned. Sometimes, I felt the need to write something else (like, “We’re Supposed to Be Upset.”)

I didn’t keep up with blog reading like I had hoped. I’m still a few days behind on my feed and I know I won’t get to everyone’s posts before I leave for my cruise on Monday. It’s hard to balance it all – the blog reading, the blog writing, the commenting… alongside my other hobbies and work and life happenings. I tried my best, but sometimes I just wanted to veg on the couch after a long day of sitting at my desk working. It’s hard to get myself motivated to sit at my personal laptop at the end of a workday and read blogs.

I was apprehensive about tackling NaBloPoMo again because it’s a lot of work, but I’m really glad I did. I think it’s a good exercise for me that not every blog post I write needs to be long and perfect. Sometimes I can write something short and sweet and that’s fine. It may even get more engagement than my longer posts!

I’ll probably do the same thing next year – hem and haw, and ultimately, do it again. And it’s about more than the challenge of writing 30 blog posts in 30 days. It’s also about community and finding new voices in our personal blogging space, people I’ll continue to follow and who made this experience that much sweeter.

So, that’s a wrap on NaBloPoMo 2024. The blog will be dormant next week while I’m on my birthday cruise, but I’ll be back on December 9th with a trip recap!

 

Categories: Life

Things I Say to My Cats

A few months ago, I watched this Instagram Reel where this man was just fawning over his cat. The cat wasn’t doing anything overly cute. He was just sitting on a counter, but this man couldn’t get enough of him. All of the comments on the post were so charming, and I especially like this one:

After watching that video, I started writing down all of the crazy things I say to my cats throughout the day. Keep in mind: I live alone so I’m saying all of these things out loud to nobody but my cats. This could be the most embarrassing post I write but whatever. I am obsessed with my cats!!

“Look at Lila! She’s so pretty!”

“That was so cute, Lila! The way you were just lying on the ground!!”

Walk by Lila. “Hey, cutie pie!” Walk by Eloise. “Hey, other cutie pie!”

I wake up and see that Eloise has jumped up on the bed next to me. “Are you sleeping with me? You make me so happy!”

“Hi Lila Bear! Are you a baby bear???”

“Look at you guys hanging out with me! You guys looooove me!”

“Look at my babies! They’re just hanging out with me!”

Eloise is sleeping on the couch. “LOOK AT YOU! DAT’S SO CUTE!”

“Hi babes! I love you! You guys are my best friends!”

“Aww look at her. She fell asleeeeeep.”

Anytime I leave the house, I tell them exactly what I’m doing and when I’ll be home, and then I end with “Be good! Don’t get into any trouble! I love you!”

And when I come home, I always enter with, “Hello, my loves! Mommy’s home!”

Eloise jumps on the table next to me after eating. “Was that yum-yum-yum in your tum-tum-tum?”

“Ugh, Lila, it’s illegal to be this cute. I have to call the cute police!”

Anytime the girls are together. “OMG! SISTERS!! Are you guys loving on each other?!”

On the phone with my mom. “Want to see the cutest thing you’ve ever seen in your life?” Inevitably it’s one of the cats sleeping and my mom HAS to tell me how cute they are or else she’s in trouble.

“Hi, muffin. I love you so much! You’re my bestest friend.”

Are you as ridiculous with your pets as I am? If you don’t have pets, what’s something ridiculous you say on a regular basis?

Categories: Life

Where Do You Keep That: The Kitchen Counters Edition

I’m continuing the “Where Do You Keep That?” series with some insight into my kitchen counters. Elisabeth talked about her kitchen counters on one of her WDYKT posts, so I figured I’d just be a copycat and do the same! I have a typical apartment kitchen: it’s a galley-style and space is at a premium. I try to keep my counters as clean as possible because clutter makes me anxious. Here’s what they should look like when everything is in its proper place:

This is the left side of my kitchen when you’re facing the back wall. There’s my oven with the microwave and a small counter area. Beyond this counter space is my pantry and then my stackable washer/dryer. I use this small space to house my knife block; a utensil holder for spatulas, big spoons, an ice cream scoop, a pizza cutter, and some other utensils; and the girls’ wet food. I just received a new shipment of food so I keep it all stacked up on the counter because that’s the best place for it right now. I also have a jug of spring water that normally wouldn’t be there. I bought it in October when we were under a boil water advisory after the hurricane and wasn’t sure how long that would last. Now I’m using it to fill up the girls’ water bowl.

(You may notice some steak knives are missing from my knife block. I do not know where they went and I am the only person in this apartment. It’s one of the great mysteries of the world.)

Now onto the right side of my kitchen! We’ll start with the sink area, since that’s the area closest to me if I’m standing at the front of my kitchen.

(You can tell that I scrubbed down the left side of the sink but not the right side. Sigh. This is real life, I guess? Water lines and all.)

I have a double sink (very common in apartments!) and I use the left side for stacking dishes before they go into the dishwasher and the right side for my dish drainer, which isn’t used as frequently as it used to be. But I keep it around for those non-dishwasher friendly items. The little silver tray with a sponge should be suctioned to the side of my sink, but the suction has stopped working (I have a new organizer coming today, and I’m very excited about it!). I also have some dish soap, hand soap, and odds and ends like a sink stopper, pan scrapers, and a special sponge for my glasstop stove. There’s a random water bottle on the corner that hasn’t moved in years. Should we see how long I can leave it there without moving it?!

And here’s the other side of this counter, which is the most counter space I have in this kitchen so I try to put it to good use. I love the two-shelf organizer that I bought from Amazon a while ago. Here’s what on each shelf:

  • Top shelf: sugar packets for coffee, melatonin, bupropion prescription (that I stopped taking because it makes me sleepy but I have it on hand for emergencies), gabapentin prescription for the girls, and a butter crock (to keep butter fresh and at room temp)
  • Bottom shelf: glass jar with k-cups, vitamin D, Advil, magnesium glycinate, Lexapro, multivitamin, and probiotic. The green item in the front is my day-of-the-week pill organizer

Next to this organizer, I have a Starbucks reusable cup that is too tall to fit on my shelf in the cabinet (even without the straw!), treat jars for the girls (Temptations and Greenies), and then my Keurig. I also have two half-eaten bags of chips, which aren’t always there. You can also see all my fun magnets from vacation destinations, postcards for sweet bloggers, and some fun photo magnets from Kim. The front of my fridge is not magnetic, which is annoying, because it means I have limited space for all the postcards you guys send me! Maybe I need to just add them to the fridge with tape.

I also have this raised counter that is also used as a landing zone for all sorts of things; typically I use it to place things I need to bring with me the next time I’m leaving my apartment (library books, reusable bags, mail, etc). I also have a small organizer that houses a few things: a pair of scissors, a lighter, a pet hair removal brush, my passport (which is usually in another location but I needed it to check in for my cruise and I decided to keep it nearby so I can pack it when it’s time), and sometimes mail I need to deal with. My pet camera is also set up here—it’s the perfect location as I can see all of the living room from this spot.

And that’s my kitchen! Thanks for coming along for the ride today. 🙂

Curious about where I keep anything else in my kitchen (or my home as a whole)?

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