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Categories: Recurring Series

TGIF (v. 83)

The high of my week was the Yesteryear book event! I truly did not expect Caro Claire Burke to come to my little town during her book tour, but I’m so glad she did! Her book talk was hosted by my favorite local indie bookstore (Tombolo Books), and I’m pretty sure it was one of their biggest events yet! The place was packed. I loved hearing Caro talk about her process of writing the book and the path to getting it published (she’s been writing fiction for TWELVE YEARS, you guys, and this is her debut!). I tried not to fangirl too hard when I got my book signed, but I just adore her so much!

The low of my week was dealing with some back-and-forth issues between my pharmacy and my rheumatologist’s office. The not-so-fun news about my psoriatic arthritis treatment is that my rheumatologist wants me to start injections. Basically, while my current medication (methotrexate) has improved my symptoms, I’m still on a moderate steroid dose. If I miss even one day of the steroid, my symptoms return. So that’s a clue that my lower inflammation numbers are closely tied to the steroid.

This means it’s time for the next phase of figuring out my PsA treatment! I’ll still be on methotrexate, but at 25mg, and they recommend injections over pills at that dose because some people’s bodies don’t absorb the medication well (it would be TEN pills!). I am very nervous about giving myself an injection once a week, but I’d rather go with the option that’ll help me know sooner whether the dose is working.

Anyway, getting these damn syringes has been such a cluster. I was supposed to start the injections last week, but the syringe order was sitting in pharmacy purgatory for days and days. The actual medication was filled pretty quickly, so when I went to the pharmacy to pick that up, I asked about the syringes, and they said they were waiting on my rheum to confirm that a different size syringe was ok to use. So then I called my rheum, and they said they didn’t have any record of the pharmacy calling them! Argh. The rheum’s office said they would call the pharmacy, but I never heard back from them. Then, the next day, I looked at my pharmacy app, and my syringe order was gone. What the what?! So, I called the pharmacy, and the pharmacist told me that she had gone ahead and ordered a different type of syringe that didn’t need to be approved by insurance and would be the same price. (She made this change right before she left for the day, and was planning on updating the script in the portal in the morning, but I got the jump on her.) I’ll finally have the syringes today so I can give myself my first injection. Yay?

Phew. I guess I need to get ready for all of this pharmacy runaround to happen as I try different treatment methods for PsA.

I’m currently reading two books! I am thoroughly enjoying We Could Be So Good by Cat Sebastian, a queer historical romance that is so damn cute it hurts. And I just started James by Percival Everett. Only 40 pages in, but I’m enjoying it so far!

A Reel that made me smile was this cat video that I could watch over and over again. (Yes, I’m back on Instagram. But only for the cat and dachshund videos.)

A show I watched this week was Friends! I am zooming through my rewatch of season 6, and it’s filling me with a lot of nostalgia and happiness.

The best money I spent this week was on an Oura ring! It was on my May goals list to buy an Oura ring, and it happened yesterday. I can’t wait for it to arrive! It’s a little scary to spend so much money on a tiny piece of technology, but I’m really hoping it will provide some great insight into my health.

My plans this weekend include many fun things! Tonight, I am meeting up with some friends to see the musical, Six. (And I just listened to Noble Blood’s episodes about Henry VIII’s wives, so I am prepared). We’re also trying a new restaurant for dinner, so it should be a fun night! Tomorrow, I am podcasting with Bri and have no other plans on the docket. And Sunday, I will run some errands and also have a writing date with Mikaela. At our writing date last weekend, I wrote the first chapter of my novel, which was such a blast! I hope I can keep the momentum going!

What was the high of your week? Have you ever been to a book signing?

Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo Per Day: May 2 – 8

May 2, 2026 – Boat day for book club! At one point, my hat flew off my head, and I was certain it was gone for good, but we were able to rescue it, thanks to my friend’s handheld fishing net and Mikaela’s very deft catching skills. (I tried rescuing it myself, but I failed miserably.)

May 3, 2026 – Sunday would have been Grandma’s 84th birthday. She’s been gone for 10 years, and I still miss her every day. My mom and I went to her grave to bring her flowers and give her some updates about our lives.

May 4, 2026 – My Old Navy shorts order didn’t exactly work out as I’d hoped. One pair was too big, one pair was too small, and one pair was just right. Very Goldilocks of them, eh?! Anyway, I put the two pairs that need to be returned on my dresser and guess who decided it would be a lovely place to take a nap?!

May 5, 2026 – I like my yogurt bowls with 75% granola, what of it?!

May 6, 2026 – Parallel play! I was reading on the couch, and Lila came up for a few pets and then fell asleep near me.

May 7, 2026 – My mom and I spent the day volunteering with Feeding Tampa Bay, which was really rewarding and also incredibly exhausting! We’re not used to moving so much on a weekday, ha. I’m just grateful I was able to handle all of the movement and lifting boxes without any pain! (I was also fine the next day, although my sausage finger was a bit stiffer/swollen than it had been, womp.)

May 8, 2026 – Birthday girl! I tried to get a selfie, but she acted like I was trying to murder her with my bare hands when I attempted to pick her up. Oh, Lila.

When was the last time you were on a boat?!

Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo Per Day: April 25 – May 1

April 25, 2026 – A little brother/sister love session! Lucy adores her big brother, and I very much agree with her!

April 26, 2026 – I’m loving my Sundays right now. It’ll be good to be back in football season in a few months, but it’s also so wonderful to have these lazy Sundays at home with my girls.

April 27, 2026 – I went for a nice walk on Monday after my meetings were done for the day, and it felt so great to be out in the sunshine and getting some movement!

April 28, 2026 – I showed you some photos already from Tuesday, but here’s a photo that didn’t make it in. These scratchers are such a hit with my cats! I probably buy a new one every other month because they use them so much!

April 29, 2026 – Not the most beautiful photo ever, but I need new shorts for the summer and Old Navy is usually a safe bet for me. I’m happy with my purchases!

April 30, 2026 – Fresh hair day, fresh hair day! My hair had lightened up a lot and I was starting to see more gray hairs than I liked, so it felt good to get the color freshened up and a trim.

May 1, 2026 – I sat down in the middle of my day to read a few chapters of my book, and Eloise decided to perch her tiny behind on my leg and stare me down. Eventually, she let me get up but not after a lot of pets and purring! (Also, you can barely see it, but she has a new collar! The sunflower on her old collar became very raggedy and I started finding “petals” everywhere in my apartment, so it was time for something new.)

Where do you buy your shorts (if you wear them; I know shorts can be a divisive topic!)?

Categories: Recurring Series

Snapshot of My Day: Tuesday, April 28, 2026

Time I woke up: 5:15 a.m.

First thing I did upon waking: I got dressed, brushed my teeth, and then scurried out the door for an early morning workout at the gym.

First app I opened this morning: I believe it was my CPAP app to find out how many apneas I had overnight (2.1!)

Today’s weather: The high was 87, and it was sunny and hot and humid. Blergh.

Today’s mood: It started well, but things at work made the day devolve very quickly.

Something I spent money on today: Not a damn thing! No spend Tuesday!

An out-of-the-ordinary thing that happened today: I forgot to make coffee! I was wondering why I felt so tired and off this morning, and then I realized it was because I completely forgot to make my usual morning cup of coffee. I don’t know how this happened!

Something weird I said to my cats today: “Oh, is it time for the post-work treat because you worked so hard today?” The girls seem to think that when I shut down for the day in my office, it means they get a handful of treats for getting through another long day of “work.”

One minor annoyance from my day: Just a work-related thing that happened early in the day and completely upended my entire schedule

Last thing I read (not on the Internet): In Your Dreams by Sarah Adams

Last thing I read (on the Internet): A political newsletter (What a Day from Crooked Media)

Last text I sent: “I just need to know that Princess Donut is okay.” <– referencing the cat in the Dungeon Crawler Carl series

Last text I received: “She is THRIVING.” Phew!

Last website I visited: Gmail

Last show I watched: New Girl

Last podcast I listened to: Behind the Bastards

Last thing I said: “Are you my sweet baby girl?” Lila answered with a squeaky, “Ah!”

Last thing I ate: Green beans during dinner. No dessert tonight because I wanted ice cream, but I’m having pretty severe tooth sensitivity whenever I eat cold things right now, so ice cream is a no-go. (Dentist appointment on Friday!)

What I was doing an hour ago: I was chatting on FaceTime with my mom

What I will be doing an hour from now: Hopefully, I’ll be winding down with some ASMR videos in bed.

What I need to do before bed: I need to finish my evening skincare routine, update my planner, make tomorrow’s daily schedule, scoop the litter boxes, and finish cleaning the kitchen. Too many things!

Current whereabouts of other members of my household: The girls have the zoomies right now, so they’re running around the apartment and then hiding from each other, waiting to pounce at the perfect time. I love their evening silliness!

What was the last show you watched?

Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo Per Day: April 18 – 24

April 18, 2026 – My second full day of my reading retreat was a great one! It was while I was sitting on the porch reading this book that I saw a bird chase a garden snake in the backyard! Needless to say, I was not leaving the safety of the screen room after that.

April 19, 2026 – Whenever I come home after being away, the cats are so clingy and snuggly with me! There’s not an aloof bone in their bodies when it comes to me. They love me almost as much as I love them.

April 20, 2026 – I bought this basket so I could have a place for blankets, knowing full well that at least one cat would consider it a prime napping spot. Lila loves this basket so much, I told her I was going to start calling her Moses.

April 21, 2026 – My Keurig broke the day before my trip! The audacity! I immediately bought a new one, and it arrived just in time. My inaugural cup of coffee from my new machine was delicious!

April 22, 2026 – In this photo, I can immediately spot my gray hairs and my puffy face from being on steroids for three months. But also, it’s my face! And it’s a good face.

April 23, 2026 – Getting bloodwork is just part of my regular routine these days. It was time for follow-up bloodwork to check on my inflammation markers, and the phlebotomist had a rough time with me. He tried twice, in both arms, and finally called in his boss, who is a wizard at finding my veins. (She’s done my blood draw every time I’ve been in this year!)

April 24, 2026 – My birthday girl! She did not want to be held for this photo, but submitted herself to the process.

Are you a tough poke when it comes to bloodwork, like me?

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Hi, I'm Stephany! (She/her) I'm a 30-something single lady, living in Florida. I am a bookworm, cat mom, podcaster, and reality TV junkie. I identify as an Enneagram 9, an introvert, and a Highly Sensitive Person. On this blog, you will find stories about my life, book reviews, travel experiences, and more. Welcome!

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