Recurring Series

Virtual Coffee Date (v.4)

I haven’t done one of these posts in a long time, so I thought today is the perfect day to sit down with a cup of coffee and discuss some goings-on!

If we were having coffee today… I would most likely want to talk about my upcoming vacation. Since I’m just 5 days away from leaving, it’s the only thing on my mind! I’d probably mention that I’m having tons of vacation anticipation, but also a fair amount of vacation anxiety. (This has to do more with worry that something terrible is going to happen to make the trip not happen than actual travel anxiety.)

If we were having coffee today… I might ask you how your Mother’s Day was. I would hope it was a good day, though I know how difficult this day is for those who have lost their mothers, don’t have a relationship with them, or are aching to become a mother themselves. I would tell you that I had a good Mother’s Day, celebrating the most important woman in my life, my mom. I would tell you that we went for a long walk, took pictures in a park for her wedding invitations, and then went out for a late lunch with my brother and his family. I might mention that I was bummed that my grandma couldn’t partake in the festivities, being too sick from her last round of chemotherapy. (Which would probably lead to a discussion of how awful cancer is!)

If we were having coffee today… I’d probably tell you that I’m feeling a bit lackluster with my workouts lately. I’d mention that I’ve been thinking seriously about a gym membership because I miss having access to classes and more workout equipment. I might even grumble about the fact that two of the five pieces of cardio equipment at my tiny apartment gym have been out of order for a while now, which limits my choices!

If we were having coffee today… I might mention how I spectated at a race this weekend and how darn happy I was not to be running it. I’d tell you that my mom and my soon-to-be stepdad both ran the 8k and did very well… and that my reward for not running was to get 7 ant bites (including 3 on my bum!)

If we were having coffee today… I’d definitely ask about what you’re currently reading, and I would talk about the book I just started last night, Hush by Kate White. I’d tell you how this was the first book I suggested for book club since my abysmal pick in August of 2014 (Code Name Verity), so I am hopeful to redeem myself with this novel.

If we were having coffee today… I would tell you that the plans are all coming together for my mom’s wedding in July! I’d laugh a little as I told you how crazy this wedding planning process has been – mainly because very little planning has happened! But then I’d tell you how a date has been set (July 11), a honeymoon has been secured (a 7-day cruise; yes, I’m jealous!), and my mom has asked her best friend to officiate (yay!). I’d tell you that, this upcoming week, my mom and stepdad will be purchasing wedding bands, getting their marriage license, and sending out invitations! Next up: finding a wedding dress!

If we were having coffee today, what would you want to talk about?

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Five for Friday (v. 43)

1) On Tuesday, I got together with a bunch of girlfriends to do a fun craft project at a DIY studio in town, called MakeMe Studio. Originally, I wasn’t too excited because crafting just isn’t my thing, but I went into it with a good attitude. I knew my final product wouldn’t be the best (it most likely would be the worst!) but I wanted to let go of perfectionist tendencies, let go of being self-deprecating to save face, and just have a good time. And that’s what happened! We painted our canvases in a color of our choice and then decoupaged leaf-shaped scrapbook pages onto the canvas to form a flower. I don’t really think my final product resembles a flower (especially compared to what my friends made!), but I had a really fun time and I would do it again in a heartbeat. It felt really good to be creative just to be creative.

2) I am so close to cruise time I can feel it! A week from tomorrow, we leave! My mom and I are actually beginning our vacation on Friday afternoon, leaving St. Pete around 12:30-1:00 and driving down to Ft. Lauderdale for the night. Miami is only about a four-hour drive from where we live, but I’d rather drive down the day before to be on the safe side! Plus, it means we get to start our vacation earlier! Whee! We have all of our excursions booked (more on that next week!), so all that is left is getting past this next week.

3) On that same note, I am in panic mode about not getting sick. In this last week alone, five coworkers have called in sick. Obviously, you can’t be on a cruise ship while sick, so I’m going to do everything I can to remain healthy and away from all the germs. I have a pretty solid immune system (ahem, knock on wood), so I am hopeful that continuing to take my vitamins, chugging water, and washing my hands constantly will keep any germs away! I’m also considering wearing a surgical mask and sealing off my cubicle, but that seems a bit drastic.

4) I spent a fun afternoon with my two nephews on Sunday afternoon! I wanted to have some serious baby snuggles (my baby nephew is sooo sweet and snuggly!), but I knew my mom wanted some one-on-one Dominic time and I noticed that my older nephew was getting jealous of the attention we were giving the baby. So, I let my mom have Dominic and I spent some one-on-one time with Jovy in his bedroom, which was really nice! I say this all the time, but he is at such a great age! All the ages are the best ages, I guess!

5) Happy Friday! I am really looking forward to this weekend. There will be some last-minute cruise shopping, a trip to the bank to discuss my auto loan (fingers crossed they want to refinance!), spectating at a race that my mom, my future stepdad, and some coworkers will be running, and having a fun Mother’s Day lunch out. And then the countdown to my cruise and ten days off work begins!

How was your week? Any fun weekend plans?

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A Weekend in Pictures – April

I began my weekend with a quick trip to my hair salon for a hair appointment. I only needed to freshen the color and I had my stylist add more red tones than violet. It’s hard to really see that in the above picture, but I’m very happy with the result. And my hair is finally long enough to donate! (It’s about 9 inches in a ponytail right now.) So I miiiight be going back to a bob this summer – we shall see!

After my hair appointment, I came home and took a wonderful nap. Then, Dutch and I went to the park to go for a walk! Unfortunately, it was super hot outside (89 degrees with 51% humidity!), so we only made it a little more than a mile before he was tired. I feel bad for taking him out on such a hot day. From now on, I think our long walks will either need to take place on weekend mornings (and probably before 8am!) or not at all. As a small, older dog, he doesn’t need a ton of exercise (and he gets in three walks per day of about 5-10 minutes each), but I know he enjoys these long walks. But I also don’t want him to get heat stroke. Oh, Florida and your crazy weather.

Saturday afternoon, I made the drive up to Orlando to spend the day with Emilie! She was in Orlando for just a day before embarking on a cruise (so jealous!), and the timing worked out perfectly when we could meet up. I’ve been reading her blog for about a year and a half now, maybe a little longer, so it was really fun to turn our URL friendship into an IRL one!

I arrived around 12:30, we had lunch at the Cookes of Dublin and strolled around Downtown Disney (escaping into every air-conditioned store we could find – it was hot, hot, hot on Saturday. Florida skipped spring this year, apparently, and we’re already experiencing summer-like temperatures and humidity.). We refreshed ourselves with ice cream at Ghirardelli’s and enjoyed some prime people-watching. It was a fun afternoon, and I am so glad I was able to meet up with her! I adore meeting blog friends!

On Saturday evening, my mom and I enjoyed a few rounds of Scattergories, one of our favorite games, while eating dinner. We laughed until we cried, formed even more inside jokes, and it was just a really good ending to a wonderful day.

Sunday morning was a fun one – brunch book club at the pool! We do this every couple of months once the weather warms up, so this was the first one of 2015. It was overcast and windy, though, so not a super nice day – but it was a bit cool (well, cooler), which was a nice reprieve from the intense heat and humidity. We all brought brunch dishes (mine being a “parfait bar”) and one kind soul brought mimosa ingredients (mmm!) Since only one person of the seven of us there actually finished this month’s book (I eventually abandoned it – could not get into it!), we didn’t have our usual discussion about the book. But we did have plenty of other things to talk about and it was a really fun morning/afternoon with my favorite girls!

The rest of my weekend was spent in the best way possible. I was able to get some stuff done (ran an errand and grocery shopped), while also relaxing and being lazy. I took a long bubble bath, started a new book, and caught up on some blog reading.

All in all, I had a fantastic weekend. I feel very satisfied this Monday morning, and I can’t wait to see what this week has in store for me.

How was your weekend? What’s the weather like where you are?

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Five for Friday (v. 42)

1) On Saturday night, my brother and older nephew came over for game night. We let my nephew pick the games he wanted to play, so we started with Sorry Sliders, which is a really silly game, but my nephew loves it because you get to slide and crash the pawns. After two rounds, he was finished and selected Chutes & Ladders next, but got rather annoyed when my brother ended up winning. Gradually, we convinced him to play Monopoly with us, and he handled that game pretty well! But halfway through, he got bored and started spending the time when it wasn’t his turn coloring at our coffee table. Oh, well! That’s a lot of games for a six-year-old! I’m hoping there are more game nights in our future, though, because it was so much fun!

2) I’m trying to get back into the dating world, and I’m trying to do so in a completely different way than I did before. What I’ve started to realize is that I’m not interested in settling down. While I would like to find that forever guy, I also don’t feel that pressure for marriage or commitment. I just want to have fun! Date around, meet new people, gain experience. I want to take dating a lot less seriously than I have in the past, and just have fun with it. When it comes to relationships, I can be a very intense person, overanalyzing and overthinking every aspect of it, and I want to be less intense. We’ll see how this works.

3) My mom and I are 22 sleeps away from our cruise! We are getting so excited about it. We’ve booked two excursions so far, and we’ll be booking the third one very soon. We’re really going all out for this one, something we haven’t done since our cruise in 2012. I just need these next three weeks to pass by as quickly as possible.

4) Recent podcast episodes I’ve enjoyed: Book Riot’s celebratory 100th episode, Stuff You Should Know about blood types and the history behind them, The Lively Show interviewing Hal Elrod (this one made me teary at certain parts!), and Stuff Mom Never Told You on the OCD phenomenon. (And yes, I am super behind on my podcast feed.)

5) Happy weekend! I have such a fun weekend planned. Today, I have a hair appointment (just freshening up the color!) and later on, I’m taking Dutch on a long walk. Tomorrow, I am spending the day in Orlando with Emilie (our first time meeting – I can’t wait to hug her!) And then on Sunday, it’s Brunch Book Club at the Pool! We’ll have mimosas, eat some delicious brunch food, hang out in the pool, and chit-chat the morning/afternoon away! Yay!

How was your week? What do you have planned for this weekend?

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Currently in April

feeling happy and so darn satisfied with my life right now

anticipating my upcoming cruise (33 days!)

obsessively researching the stops on our cruise and what we’ll do while we’re in port

reading A Constellation of Vital Phenomena by Anthony Marra

thinking about my spring/summer capsule wardrobe and what pieces I need to make it complete

finished with apartment hunting – we looked at 13 apartment communities, so I think we were plenty thorough

happy with my workouts lately – lots of cardio intervals on the stationary bike & elliptical at the gym and strength training; I am sore and sweaty following each workout, which feels so good

writing for one hour each morning on the weekends

planning to take a social media/blogging break sometime this summer

using a cash budget system effectively this month

hoping to take two more vacations this year (North Carolina and a short weekend cruise)

cleaning off my makeup each night using makeup removal wipes + cleanser and moisturizer, in the hopes this clears up my skin (it seems to be doing the trick)

wanting to dive back into the online dating world (I needed a break from it all, but I think it’s time to get back out there)

working on my blog a ton, so I can launch my new blog theme sooner rather than later

watching Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt

preparing my workload so being gone for a week next month doesn’t put me too far behind (and very thankful that April is 4.5 weeks long, so I can finish up my April deadlines early, and get started on my May deadlines in April!)

wondering if I should get a waterproof case for my point-and-shoot camera for taking pictures underwater during my snorkeling excursion

What are you currently reading, anticipating, and planning?