Happy May! I’m going to start this post with some really good news. I had follow-up bloodwork done on Wednesday and received the results yesterday. My A1C is no longer in the diabetic range! (It’s still in the prediabetic range, so I still need to work on lowering it, but we’re trending in the right direction now!) I am so relieved, and this gives me the motivation to continue to work on my eating habits so I can get all of my numbers to a normal range. I talk more in-depth about my bloodwork below, but I wanted to share this very good news upfront.
BOOKS
Reading Stats of April
- Books read: 11
- Number of pages read: 3,842
- Average star rating: 3.9
- Average time to finish a book: 6.9 days
- Format breakdown: 55% print books, 37% audiobooks, 8% e-books
- Genre breakdown: 90% fiction, 10% nonfiction
- # of DNFs: 1 (Bright Young Women by Jessica Knoll)
- Audiobook reading: 36 hours, 11 minutes (actual listening time: 20 hours, 40 minutes)
Reading Superlatives of April
- The best book I read in April: I’m That Girl: Living the Power of My Dreams by Jordan Chiles
- The worst book I read in April: Beautiful Ugly by Alice Feeney
- The book I thought I would love more than I did: Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance by Alison Espach
- The book that lived up to the hype: The Grey Wolf by Louise Penny
- The book with the most unique structure: Confessions by Kanae Minato
Reading List (from favorite to least favorite)
- I’m That Girl: Living the Power of My Dreams by Jordan Chiles (audiobook, 2025) ★★★★★
- Only Mostly Devastated by Sophie Gonzalez (audiobook, 2022) ★★★★★
- The Grey Wolf by Louise Penny (audiobook, 2024) ★★★★★
- The Austen Playbook by Lucy Parker (e-book, 2019) ★★★★☆
- Autoboyography by Christina Lauren (print, 2017) ★★★★☆
- Confessions by Kanae Minato (audiobook, 2014) ★★★★☆
- Lavender House by Lev AC Rosen (print, 2022) ★★★★☆
- We All Live Here by Jojo Moyes (print, 2025) ★★★☆☆
- Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance by Alison Espach (print, 2022) ★★★☆☆
- Icebreaker by Hannah Grace (print, 2022) ★★★☆☆
- Beautiful Ugly by Alice Feeney (print, 2025) ★★★☆☆
MEDIA
- Big Brother, season 3 – My mom and I are having a lot of fun watching older seasons of Big Brother. This season has been talked about a lot, and it’s fun to see all of the gameplay in action. Of course, there is still some troubling language (so much fatphobia and some uncomfortable bullying), but that’s the early aughts of reality TV for you!
- The Amazing Race, season 1 – On a whim, I decided to start watching The Amazing Race from the beginning! The first episode of this show aired on September 6, 2001 and the contestants started the race in NYC. It’s wild to see the Twin Towers in the background and to know the episode itself aired a few days before 9/11. What a wild time. The contestants are this season are so mean to each other and it’s kind of hysterical to watch!
- American History Tellers, J. Edgar Hoover’s FBI – I am not yet finished with this miniseries on the American History Tellers feed, but it’s been very eye-opening. It’s also wild to compare this time in history (1920s – 1970s) with what’s happening now. Hoover was spying on ordinary Americans and putting a stop to any negative press, and people back then thought he was a god. History seems to be repeating itself with today’s politics, with our president disappearing people who have different viewpoints, trying to keep certain news organizations out of the White House press briefings, and cutting off funding for schools and news organizations that speak negatively about him or his policies. It’s frightening to see the parallels.
MONEY
Favorite purchase of April:
A flight to London – My mom and I booked our flights to London! We’re leaving September 30 and will arrive in London on October 1. We’ll have six full days to explore to our heart’s content.
Most delightful little indulgence of April:
Meat shredder ($6) – I had seen this kitchen tool on a few TikToks and knew I had to have it. All you do is pop the chicken in the device, push down the lid, and then twist it from side to side. Within seconds, you have perfectly shredded chicken. LIFE CHANGING.
Most regrettable purchase of April:
Portable charger ($20) – This charger is fine, but it just doesn’t charge very fast and that’s annoying. It also takes forever for it to recharge itself once the battery is depleted. I’m going to keep it because something is better than nothing, but it’s not a charger I would recommend, unfortunately.
Number of books purchased in April: 4 (*bows*)
- Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall (Book of the Month)
- Six Days in Bombay by Alka Joshi (Book of the Month)
- Murder Your Employer by Rupert Holmes (Tombolo Books)
- Great Big Beautiful Life by Emily Henry (Tombolo Books)
Best recommendation:
Book stand ($28) – I love this book stand! Now I can eat lunch and read my book rather than scrolling Reddit forums. It’s a little annoying to turn the pages since you have to slide the page from beneath the right-side clip and then tuck it into the left-side clip, but it’s a small price to pay to be able to read my book at the table without having to physically hold it open. An impulse purchase that I don’t regret for a second!
JOURNAL
- April 1 – Mom and I bought flights to London! We leave 9/30. 🙂
- April 3 – Robert and I had a very spirited debate about Trump. I’m really proud of how I handled myself!
- April 5 – Mom and I did the Fight for Air climb! It was so damn hard. I wanted to quit so many times.
- April 9 – Checked into the VRBO to start my reading retreat. It’s such a cute space.
- April 12 – My first pedicure in probably 8 months. My feet look so pretty!
- April 13 – We had Lynn on our podcast to talk about losing her home to Hurricane Helene. She was fantastic!
- April 15 – Long day. We had an offsite meeting and it went really well! Better than I anticipated. But it was a 13-hour day – oof.
- April 18 – God this new HIIT format for Friday mornings is awful! I thought I was going to die by the end of it.
- April 24 – Bri came over for a girls’ night. We had pizza, chatted, and played Yahtzee. So fun!
- April 30 – Follow-up lab work this morning. I can only hope I did enough to lower my blood sugars.
Previous years:
- April 30, 2022: We recorded the first episode of our podcast. It was so much fun!
- April 13, 2023: TAYLOR SWIFT!!!!!! What an amazing night. I can’t believe I got to experience it.
- April 24, 2024: My doctor’s office called me: I have severe obstructive sleep apnea. Yikes. This is a lot to process.
OVERVIEW
What went well
- The Fight for Air Climb – My mom and I successfully completed the Fight for Air Climb in early April. It was the hardest physical challenge I’ve ever done, but I am so glad I pushed through (thanks to my mom!) and got it done. And I am 90% sure I’ll never do it again. (I mean, never say never, but I’m very close to saying never ever.)
- A cheesy photoshoot – Our book club experience in April was a cheesy JC Penney photoshoot! We had the best time, and you can see all of the great pictures we got throughout this post. Our photographer had fun with us, too, and even had some pose ideas for us! I don’t know what we’ll do with all of these photos—maybe a hilarious coffee table book?!
- A reading retreat – I spent a few days at a nearby Airbnb while my tub was being refinished, and my sole goal was to read as much as possible. While I didn’t read as much as I had hoped (10 hours over 2.5 days), that was mostly because I was stressed out about my cats, who accompanied me on this staycation. Lila especially was not having a good time, so I cut the trip a bit short so she could be back home in her comfortable environment.
- GOOD BLOOD WORK!! – As I mentioned above, I got bloodwork done and the news is GOOD. My A1C has reduced enough that I don’t think my doctor will want to put me on medication. In other great news, my fasting glucose dropped 30 points and is now in a normal range. And my total cholesterol dropped 30 points and is now normal. And while some of my other cholesterol numbers are still high, all of the numbers reduced significantly. My triglycerides were down 15 points, my LDL was down 30 points, and my non-HDL was down 35 points. !!! The changes I made to my diet are working, and it is such a relief to see those numbers trend in a much better direction from January. My doctor also had me submit a urine sample to make sure I wasn’t experiencing any kidney issues from my elevated blood sugars (one of the earliest signs of diabetes, but also a silent one for the most part). And everything for that test came back normal! I think this will further prove to my doctor that I don’t need to be on medication. This was the news I really, really needed, and while I know it wouldn’t have meant I failed if my A1C didn’t decrease from these changes, it feels good knowing I won’t have to add yet another diagnosis to my repertoire.
What was challenging
- Medical bills – It was a spendy month for medical bills. Between bills for my CPAP equipment and an insurance adjustment for therapy after learning they were under-charging me for the appointments, I spent $500 just on medical bills. That kinda makes me want to throw up. The good news is, I’ve met my deductible, so now I can go to therapy for free. Take that, greedy insurance companies!
- Work challenges – There has been some leadership upheaval at my organization over the past year and with that comes a level of uncertainty for me, where I wonder if I fit into the new leaders’ vision of the organization and if I will have the support/guidance I need. I was feeling a lot of that uncertainty recently, especially with some shifts and changes. Thankfully, the off-site meeting helped solidify my identity within our organization. I was especially gratified when my boss reached out to me to say that our senior VP had reached out to her to say I really stood out at the meeting, and he thinks I am a real asset to our department. That was what I needed to hear!
- Digestive woes – I’m not going to get into the nitty-gritty here, but suffice it to say that my digestive tract has been unhappy over the past few weeks and I’ve started to feel like one of those people in a commercial for IBS, where I have to be near a bathroom at all times. I’m not sure what is causing this nonsense, but thank god I have an appointment with my doctor next week!
What was the best book you read in April? What was the most delightful purchase you made?
YES YES YES BLOODWORK RESULTS!!!! That’s fantastic!
Happy podcastiversary!
April was such a great month for you!
Those photos are amazing. I love the perfect mix of fun and…”cheese”. Memories to last a lifetime and such a great idea.
Hooray on the bloodwork results. You must be so happy (and so proud). Your hard work – and it IS hard – is showing up with concrete changes. That’s amazing.
Best book in April was Go As A River. I know you read and liked this one, too!
Best purchase. Hmmmm. *Jeopardy music playing while I think* I’m coming up empty with ideas! What did I buy in April? I mean, lots of stuff…but
Maybe my tea/coffee at a local coffee shop the three times I went? Stamps so I can actually send some things in the mail again? I should have an answer to this and I don’t and it’s bugging me!
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG THE JC PENNEY PHOTOS! They are everything I could have hoped for and more.
Your bloodwork! Your bloodwork! I’m so happy for you! Your hard work is paying off, and I am thrilled to hear it! But oh, sorry to hear about the digestive issues. Hopefully it’s something that can be addressed quickly, that’s no fun!
Between the photos and the good bloodwork results, I am LOVING this post! I am also still so impressed you did the stair climb, Stephany. What a challenge! Hooray for the work news, too — situations with shifting personnel can be so stressful.
Those photos!!! I’m dying. Perfect.
Best book I read was The Three Lives of Cate Kay. I just enjoyed it so much more than I thought I would.
I bought some new sandals and two new dresses last month and I am so excited for the IDEA of summer. I’m just pretending I’m already there.
Hooray for good test results! I am thrilled to hear that the changes you are making is making a different! All the gold stars for you!
And OMG, the JC Penney photos are amazing!!!! I would definitely develop some and maybe make a chat book of them or something like that? I have 2 friend pics from my wedding hanging in our bedroom and they always make me smile!
My best book was How to Read a Book. I’m trying to think of a fun/delightful purchase… it was kind of a lackluster month for good purchases. Speaking of portable chargers, I had a great one that I forgot in a hotel room in DC. I’ll be staying in that hotel again this month so am going to see if they happen to have it in lost and found (pretty unlikely but worth a shot). What I liked about it is that it had cords attached for charging my iPhone and kindle.
Stephany, that is GREAT NEWS! I know you said the dietary changes you made came from a book you read- at some point could you share more details about that? Anyway, congrats- it’s nice to work hard at something and have it pay off.
Those photos are amazing. And- plane tickets to London! How exciting. That’s something big to look forward to.
WOW congrats!! What an amazing feeling I bet for diet changes to actually work!! It would be so annoying to make sacrifices/ changes and then not see results!! YAY!!!!!!!! I would also love to hear more about what specifically you’ve changed! My husband’s side of the family has a lot of pre-diabetes /diabetes in some of his younger (like our age) family members.
I absolutely love your JCPenney photos! It looks like you all had so much fun! I’m glad you had so many good things during April.
My most delightful purchase was a Kitchen Aid Artisan mini mixer. I haven’t had a stand mixer for probably 25 years. I have more time for baking now, and the mixer is so awesome!
STEPHANY!!! I read this post in my email while at the hair salon this morning, and I will admit I got a little choked up with JOY for your numbers! I KNOW HOW HARD it is to get these numbers to budge, and YOU DID IT. Yes, please share the book you used for your dietary changes, my husband has been trying really hard to get his numbers down and they just don’t want to budge (he’s 60 though, which is definitely a factor that adds difficulty to it). I’m guessing it’s a combination of your dietary changes and the work you’ve been putting in at the gym. CONGRATULATIONS.
I love those pictures, what fun! I think putting them in a little coffee table book sounds PERFECT.
Did I make any fun purchases in April? Hmmm. Oh, I bought tickets to a concert in Los Angeles for later this month for my husband and myself! YAY! And I’m so excited about your trip to London! Did you see Melissa’s post about London recently? I’ve never been to the Tower of London, but she made me want to go (I have only been once, in 1993, so it’s been quite a while.)