August was a pretty interesting month on the spending front. I don’t feel as though I spent a lot of money, but I did put a significant amount toward our London vacation. My mom put the bulk of our purchases (flight, hotel, excursions, travel insurance, etc.) on her credit card and let me pay my portion (we always split the cost 50/50 on vacations) over time. Thankfully, in August, I was able to fully pay off my portion, so I am back in the green! This month, I also had to pay my yearly fee for my renters’ insurance, so it was just a lot of these bigger expenses that easily added up.
Here were my goals for August:
- Pay off London – Complete!
- Spend below my means – Not complete. Womp, womp. I was actually very surprised to learn that I was $1,000 over budget this month. I have no idea how that happened because I don’t feel as if I used my credit card all that much (although I did run up my balance more than expected, and I was able to pay it off at the beginning of September).
- Try to stay under $150 in Ubereats orders – I spent $157 this month, so I’m going to consider this a win. I almost broke even with my goal.
Here’s how things shook out this month. As a reminder, this is a spending report, which means I am only talking about the money I spent after it hits my bank account. You will not see anything related to my 401k, health insurance premiums, HSA contributions, etc.
Spending Breakdown
Categories That Increased
TRAVEL ($1,447 | ↑ $702)
Hoo boy! This was quite the total. I have fully paid off my mom for all of our London expenses and also paid for TSA Pre-Check, my UK travel visa, and British pounds that we bought at a currency exchange kiosk. We’re under 30 days away from our trip!
BILLS ($2,488 | ↑ $470)
Slight increase this month since I didn’t have my car payment included in July’s spending report. But my electric bill was slightly lower than July, so that’s exciting! It’s been steadily increasing every month.
MISCELLANEOUS ($313 | ↑ $313)
I had to pay my yearly fee for renters’ insurance. I bumped up some of my coverages this time around (personal property and loss of use) because last hurricane season was a scary one. Let’s hope I don’t have to worry about submitting any claims this year.
SPA ($271 | ↑ $162)
Lots of fun things in August! I got my hair cut and colored, got a facial, and got my underarms and brows waxed. I’ve been using my wellness reimbursement (we get $300 every year) to pay for my massage/facial treatments, so now that I’ve blown through that stipend, I’ll probably cancel my massage membership. It’s pricey at $80 a month, and that’s money I can put to use elsewhere.
FOOD ($913 | ↑ $80)
While my Ubereats spending came down by $110, my grocery spending went up by $168. And I spent a little more on meals out that weren’t online orders, accounting for the overage. I have a new plan for getting my online orders to a reasonable number (more below!), so we’ll see if that helps lower my food spending at all.
MEDICAL ($32 | ↑ $13)
I bought a big bottle of vitamin D supplements. Exciting stuff!
CAR ($231 | ↑ $4)
A very small increase for the car this month because I had to pay a toll invoice. Otherwise, everything was pretty similar to July!
CATEGORIES THAT DECREASED
SHOPPING ($161 | ↓ $285)
I wrote last month that “hopefully this category decreases a lot in August,” and it did! Hooray! I was paying so much money for travel expenses that I had to limit my shopping budget. Here’s what I bought last month:
- Clothing: $60 (a new pair of shoes)
- Home: $33 (a fall-scented candle and six hand sanitizers from Bath & Body Works)
- Miscellaneous: $19 (toothbrush cover, a set of two small jars, and my desktop vacuum)
- Beauty: $18 (tweezers (!!!) and nail polish top coat)
- Books: $16
- Hobbies: $15 (a box of markers)
GIFTS ($153 | ↓ $215)
July was a super expensive month for gift-giving, and things calmed down a bit in August. I bought toys for my fur-neice and -nephew for their birthdays, had my monthly ASPCA donation, and paid for afternoon tea for Mom and me.
SUPPLIES ($78 | ↓ $46)
This month, I didn’t bulk-buy a bunch of body wash to use in my bubble baths! That helped bring down the price, although I did have to replenish some household supplies that I only need to buy a few times a year, like laundry detergent, dishwasher pods, etc. (I always wait until Target is doing their “buy $50 of laundry detergent and get a $15 gift card!” deal, so I stock up.)
CATS ($181 | ↓ $29)
A pretty easy month for the cats. I bought them a boatload of different wet cat food (they’re like their mama – they like variety!), a new Halloween scratching pad, and treats. I also paid for Eloise’s vet wellness plan.
ENTERTAINMENT ($198 | ↓ $20)
The majority of this category comprises restaurant dates with friends and my mom. I also paid $15 for extra tokens for one of my iPhone games.
SUBSCRIPTIONS ($75 | ↓ $9)
A slight decrease. I didn’t use a Book of the Month credit (the past two months of book selections haven’t been great, wah), but I did join a new Patreon community so that was an extra $10.
CATEGORIES THAT STAYED THE SAME
SAVINGS ($175)
I’m still putting $75 a month away in a Christmas fund and $25 a week away in emergency savings. Things are going well in this department, although I could probably bump up the amount I’m putting into my emergency savings on a weekly basis.
Overall Thoughts
Overall, I’m pretty happy with my August spending. There weren’t a lot of frivolous purchases (for me, at least, lol, since I’m not the most frugal person!) and a majority of my money went toward travel and food, which is normal for me. One thing I have been thinking a lot about is how to lower my Ubereats budget. Originally, my goal was to spend less than $100 per month, but as the past few months have shown, that’s very hard for me to hit! I wish it weren’t, but that’s just the reality of my life right now. Instead, I think I’m going to challenge myself to only order Ubereats twice a week. I can order it once for dinner and once for lunch. And I’m going to gamify it (because gamifying things really works for me!). If I can go a week without either a dinner or lunch Ubereats order, then I can put $10 into a special savings fund. I don’t know how I’ll use this fund yet, but I want to use it for a fun, frivolous purchase. If I don’t have Ubereats at all one week, that’s $20 to my savings fund. We’ll see if that gets me excited to spend less money on online orders.
Anyway, here are my goals for September: get Eloise registered as an emotional support animal (which means I can waive any pet fees/pet rent on my future apartment; these fees can sometimes be $400-$500!), Ubereats twice a week, and spend below my means.
What was your last frivolous purchase?

The details that I see here are “paid mom for trip”, “paid off credit card” and “met savings goal”. Woo hoo!!! Congrats!!!
Thank you, friend! It feels good to have some of those monkeys off my back. 🙂
This is a timely post for me- I spent a lot of Labor Day weekend figuring out a new budget tracking system. It was one of my goals for 2025 and I am happy to say, I did it! I played around with both YNAB and Monarch Money and ended up going with Monarch. We hadn’t been REALLY tracking our expenses closely for a while and I know we’ve had some spending creep happening that I want to get a better handle on how much exactly (travel, for one, has increased for us this year, and also things like TEEN DRIVERS on our insurance, etc..). What do you use to track these expenses? Also, you said you went $1k over budget- so do you have to pull from your emergency fund then to cover? Want to know something funny? I have NEVER ordered a food delivery service a single time! Hahaha! Never had Door Dash, Uber Eats, or any of them! I think at this point I kind of feel like, um, I don’t really know how it works. lol! I think the big thing for me is that I actually don’t really like eating restaurant food at home. For me, eating restaurant food (even just fast food!) is in large part about the experience of going out and sitting and eating somewhere not at home. So I just never feel very motivated to have food delivered, I guess! We do get take out pizza and Chinese sometimes but usually my husband just runs to pick it up bc he doesn’t want to pay to have it delivered! I feel like we’re the anomaly in 2025 to have never used UberEats or the like!
Also, I’ve been thinking about you and your upcoming London trip!! You must be getting so excited! Can’t wait to hear more about your itinerary- it’s all so fresh in my mind yet, obviously 🙂
Same re Door Dash etc. I’ve never had food delivered to my house and I always thought it was because of the cost…but I’m realizing that like you, if I’m going to buy food I want NONE of the mess and I want to enjoy the ambiance of the restaurant.
The only exception to this is sushi, which we do buy pre-made quite regularly (usually from the grocery store, but there is also a take-out only sushi place that opened up locally and it is AMAZING) and then eat it at home!
I just use a regular spreadsheet and itemize my purchases myself. I try to go into my bank account every day to keep track, but sometimes I get behind. But it does help me to be mindful of where my money is going! I have tried budgeting systems but they just don’t work for me for some reason.
That makes sense about food delivery! I think it must be different for single people, maybe? Like, unless I have plans with friends or a date scheduled… I’m eating at home alone and sometimes I just don’t want to make a meal for one. Plus, while I do have a good amount of recipes for one-person meals, if I’m going to make a recipe, I’m usually eating leftovers for 4 or 5 days and I just cannot eat so many days of leftovers! I should be better about having easy meals to throw together, but ugh, it’s just so much easier to order food to be delivered and then I don’t have to worry about it!
Love the gamification! I wonder if you could allocate the amount of money the food would cost to your fun savings? Might end up being slightly more per week than the 10/20? London sounds SO FUN!
I’m hoping that by keeping it to $10 or $20, I will see the cost savings from NOT ordering online! That’s the whole goal – the extra savings is just a bonus. 🙂
I enjoyed your guest post on Elisabeth’s blog!
You paid off your London trip! Now all you have to do is go and enjoy it!
Yessss – we leave 3 weeks from today!
I am living on edge about my August expenses. I just haven’t had time to sit down and figure it all out, but I’m pretty sure it’s going to say that I solved all my problems with money, which is not sustainable, but…sometimes you just gotta do it, you know?
It’s not sustainable BUT you are going through a very grief-filled period and sometimes, you need to throw money at things when stuff like this happens. I was doing the same last month when I was depressed. <3
Congratulations on hitting so many of your goals! Especially paying off your London trip, that’s excellent. I’m so excited for your trip, I hope you have an amazing time!
Thank you! We leave 3 weeks from today – ahhh!
I think that’s a good goal re: Ubereats. The other one just didn’t seem sustainable for you! The great thing about goals is that you can alter them to better serve you.
I honestly can’t think of anything frivolous lately – but I’m sure there is something! Of course, what I think is a necessity others might think frivolous (i.e., body sugaring, pedicure!)
Too funny – I definitely consider my pedicures a frivolous purchase. I love them dearly but they’d be the first thing to go if I needed to cut down on my spending.
You came so close to your uber eats goal! Way to go! It makes sense that you spent more on groceries. And what a great feeling to pay your mom back for London!
I am trying to think of a frivolous purchase from August… I almost need to set a goal to make a frivolous purchase!!
I hereby declare you MUST make a frivolous purchase in the next few days and report back to me! Muahahaha.
Good thinking on how to be able to trick yourself on getting into habit. Hope the gamification for your ubereats orders work.
Always good to gamify things, especially for the way my brain works when it comes to money goals!