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What I’m Reading (7.19.21)

Happy Monday, friends! My weekend was really lovely. I got to go to afternoon tea with two friends and while I’m not much of a tea drinker, I really enjoyed myself. The tea was surprisingly good and the food was delicious. And it was just so fun to get all dressed up! I also had game night with the fam and spent some time strolling around Barnes & Noble.

I finished three books last week and liked them all! Here are my reviews:

The Breakdown Lane by Jacquelyn Mitchard (★★★☆☆)

This is my book club’s pick for July and it was quite an interesting read. It was published in 2006 and I was curious if the writing would hold up. For the most part, it did, although there was definitely some troubling language like the r-word being thrown out by the teenage character too many times to count. The novel is ostensibly about Julieanne, an advice columnist and mother of three whose world is rocked when her husband suddenly announces that he wants to take a “sabbatical” from their life and go “find himself” alone. Right as this happens, Julieanne is diagnosed with a serious illness that causes her to rely on her friends and husband’s parents more than ever. The novel is told from the perspective of Julieanne and through journal entries of her son, Gabe, who is 15. It was a good novel, but there were times I wanted a bit more nuance from Julieanne’s husband who was just a really bad dude with nothing redemptive about him. (Which made it hard to feel anything for Julieanne when she was so upset with him leaving.) I listened to this book on audio and kinda hated the narrator so that also tempered my enjoyment of the novel. (It really needed a male voice to narrate Gabe’s part; the female narrator switching to a super deep male voice—which always made me think Gabe was much older than he was—was rather silly.) All in all, a good novel but not one that had any sort of impact on me.

A Lady by Midnight by Tessa Dare (★★★★☆)

This is another winner from Tessa Dare! This novel, the third in her Spindle Cove series, tells of the love story between Kate and Thorne. Kate has been at Spindle Cove (a little sanctuary for the “misfits” of the world) for a while after breaking free from a boarding school that was no good for her. She’s searching for family and love and acceptance. Thorne arrives in Spindle Cove with his militia and is quickly drawn to Kate for reasons to be revealed later. This novel involves a precocious family filled with their own brand of “misfits,” a fake engagement, and a really crazy ending involving a duel and medieval weaponry. I loved every minute I spent with Thorne and Kate, especially watching Thorne’s walls come down as he learned how to love Kate well.

Untamed by Glennon Doyle (★★★★☆)

I went into this book with low expectations, only because so many people had rated it so highly, and when that happens, I can convince myself there’s no way it can live up to the hype. Especially for self-help-type books. While not a 5-star read for me, Untamed was definitely a book that I would wholly recommend. In this book, Glennon discusses the time in her life when she decided to make some serious changes, namely divorcing her husband and marrying a woman. It’s a book about wrestling with faith, motherhood, her queer identity, and this new family she was developing between her, her ex-husband, her new wife, and their three children. It was a book that I read at a time when I’m also wrestling with a lot of things and I found so much comfort in Glennon’s words. She made me feel seen and loved, made me hopeful, made me recognize that living in my truth is the most important thing. While there were certain aspects of the novel that made me scratch my head (basically any interaction with her kids because, quite honestly, the conversations seemed fabricated to fit into the mold of the point she was trying to make), overall, I really liked the book and I think it’s definitely one to read if you’ve ever wrestled with your faith or your identity.

What I’m Reading This Week

I started How to Find a Princess by Alyssa Cole last night, so I don’t have too much to say about it right now. I have very low expectations, though, as the book has a 3.59 rating on Goodreads, which is very low. This is the second book in her Runaway Royals series and I didn’t love the first novel, so I’m hoping the second one is better.

Also on my list this week, I’m starting The Stationery Shop by Marjan Kamali on audio and will be dipping into Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race by Reni Eddo-Lodge.

What are you reading?

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What I’m Reading (7.12.21)

Happy Monday, friends! This weekend was an especially great one because Olive finished her last chemo infusion on Friday and got to ring the bell to commemorate being done with cancer treatment. Here’s a sweet video of that moment! In other good news, my car only needed a $200 repair so she’s back up and running and I’m keeping my fingers crossed she remains so for many more months to come.

Last week, I finished two books. Here are my reviews:

My Favorite Half-Night Stand by Christina Lauren (★★★☆☆)

Man, do I have mixed feelings about this book. The novel is about Millie and Reid, best friends who work together as professors at a university. Their friend group (all of whom work for the university) decides they all need to have dates to a big event in a few months, so they join an online dating app called IRL. Millie decides to go incognito on the app, using a photo that doesn’t really show her face and a fake name. Then, she matches with Reid and starts messaging with him… all the while falling for him in real life. Honestly, this is super messed-up of Millie and it was hard to root for her and Reid to make it when she’s being so deceitful. It’s not ok! Plus, I thought the dating app representation was just abysmal. I have yet to find an author who can write about dating apps in a way that is true to life. Nobody is writing 3-page-long messages or telling a woman about the other dates he’s going on/people he’s sleeping with. That doesn’t happen! Ugh. So much potential, but this one wasn’t my favorite.

Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir (★★★★☆)

I am an Andy Weir stan by now, as I’ve read every book he’s written (although I have yet to watch the movie adaptation of The Martian). In this novel, Dr. Ryland Grace wakes up on a spaceship with no idea who he is or why he got there. All he knows is that he’s on a state-of-the-art spaceship deep in the solar system and his two crewmates are dead. As his memory slowly comes back to him, he learns not only of the critical mission he’s on but of the immense sacrifice he made. There is so much about this novel I want to talk about, but I don’t want to give anything away because I went into this book completely blind (the synopsis on Goodreads gives too much away!) and I think that’s the best way to read it. This is a 4.5-star book for me; it won’t displace The Martian as my favorite, but it came very, very close. I loved so much about the novel, even the science-y parts that went over my head, and it was such a fun reading experience. I’m so excited about what Andy Weir will write next!

What I’m Reading This Week

  • The Breakdown Lane by Jacqueline Mitchard (audio) – I’m still working my way through this novel. I’m over halfway through and I’m enjoying it more now than I did in the beginning. It feels like a 3-star read for me. But maybe my thoughts and feelings will change by the time I finish it!
  • A Lady by Midnight by Tessa Dare (e-book) – I started this historical romance over the weekend, and I am loving it so much already (I’m about 30% in). Let’s hope it doesn’t disappoint!
  • Untamed by Glennon Doyle Melton (print) – I’m picking up this book to fulfill July’s challenge for the Unread Shelf Project (a book bought for the cover – it has such a fun, bright cover!) A few friends have loved this book, a few friends have loathed it. We’ll see what camp I fall into!

What are you reading?

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What I’m Reading (7.5.21)

Happy Monday, friends! I am grateful to have the day off work and there’s nothing quite like an extended weekend, am I right? Originally, I wasn’t planning on going anywhere to see the fireworks, but plans worked out that I did indeed go downtown for the fireworks show and it was a grand time. I’m glad I muscled through the social anxiety I was feeling about crowds and parking! My feelings toward the US and being an American are complicated, to put it lightly, but in a sense, this felt like a celebration of all we’ve been through (and still are going through).

Now, let’s change topics completely and talk about books! I finished three books over the past two weeks and here are my reviews:

Glass Houses by Louise Penny (★★★★★)

Louise Penny does it again! This was a five-star novel for me, mostly because I loved the unique way it was written. The story weaves back and forth in time: in the present day, Armand Gamache is a witness in a murder trial, a murder that happened while he was at home in Three Pines, the tiny Quebec community where most books in this series are centered. Throughout his testimony, we’re taken back in time to the days leading up to and following the murder to see how everything really went down. The ending was seriously heart-pounding! I also found the focus of the novel—which was about the opioid epidemic and drug running—to be so timely. It was fascinating to take a look at a drug epidemic like this from the eyes of police and investigators who are trying to stop it. All in all, a sensational read that’s always a good time on audio.

Heavy: A Memoir by Kiese Laymon (★★★☆☆)

The title of this book does it justice because it was certainly heavy, emotionally at least. Kiese Laymon grew up in the South, overweight and with a mom who didn’t give him the love and attention he needed. He writes this memoir as a letter to her, often writing “you” to refer to her. It’s a brutally honest portrayal of his life, his weight issues, and his career as a professor. For me, it wasn’t a standout in the genre of BIPOC memoirs and there were times that I felt he was trying too hard to be super literary and it lessened the impact of his message. But still, I’d recommend picking this one up.

People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry (★★☆☆☆)

Oh man, this book was a slog for me. I loved Emily Henry’s previous romance, Beach Read, but this one didn’t have the same charm. This romance is about Poppy and Alex who met in freshman year of college and bonded after taking a road trip home together. It’s been a decade since that road trip and, in that time, they’ve taken a summer trip together every year. Well, aside from the past two years after something happened during their Croatia trip that caused an irrevocable rift in their relationship. Now, they send each other texts now and then, but their best friendship has been effectively tarnished. Until Poppy reaches out to Alex to ask him to go on a summer trip in the hopes of getting her best friend back. Throughout the novel, we go back in time to all of the other summer trips that Poppy and Alex went on, which were fun to read about. I think my main problem with the novel was the characters. I just didn’t like Poppy at all; she was immature and selfish and even a bit manipulative at times. Alex was a bit of a doormat and I just wanted him to take some ownership of their relationship. Plus, the whole thrust of the novel centered on miscommunication, and that’s just infuriating for me to read about. Just tell her how you feel! Be honest! Open up! It was really annoying.

What I’m Reading This Week

  • The Breakdown Lane by Jacquelyn Mitchard (audio) – This is our July book club pick, and it’s a bit of an older novel, published in 2006! (While I’m listening to the audio via Libby, it was originally produced on CDs so there are stopping points every hour or so to put in the next CD, lol.) I’m only a few hours in and not very captivated yet, but we’ll see how it goes.
  • Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir (print) – It’s not surprising in the least that I am loving this novel and never want to put it down. I don’t know how everything is going to turn out and I’m so intrigued!
  • My Favorite Half-Night Stand by Christina Lauren (print) – There’s nothing like a Christina Lauren novel to put me in a good mood, and this romance is doing exactly that.

What are you reading?

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What I’m Reading (6.21.21)

Good morning, friends! I had a pretty good weekend, filled with equal parts downtime and social time. I got a pedicure with my mom, had a reading date with a friend, spent some time snuggling and playing with Lucy (Chip was too busy barking at the ducks outside), and went bowling for the first time in many, many months. And I finished two books! A good weekend, indeed.

Here are my book reviews:

The Intimacy Experiment by Rosie Danan (★★★★☆)

One-sentence synopsis: When Naomi, a former sex worker/current CEO of a sex-positive startup is approached by Rabbi Ethan Cohen to start a modern intimacy series for his congregation, she reluctantly accepts—and is surprised when she finds herself not only reconnecting with her Jewish heritage but also falling for Ethan.

I really enjoyed the contemporary romance, especially learning more about Ethan’s work as a rabbi and Jewish culture as a whole. There aren’t too many books that explore the push/pull of being Jewish today. While the ending left a lot to be desired (the “grand gesture” trope is so overdone and never believable), I enjoyed getting to know Ethan and Naomi, especially watching Naomi’s walls come down with him. Even though her chosen career path is vastly different from mine, we have some of the same fears and hangups about being in a relationship. Reading this book actually helped me explore my own fears of relationships and what’s holding me back from romantic love, and that’s something I didn’t expect from this novel! All in all, a great read!

Malibu Rising by Taylor Jenkins Reid (★★★★☆)

One-sentence synopsis: It’s the night of Nina Riva’s annual end-of-year party that she throws with her three siblings, but by midnight, everything will be out of control and by morning, Nina’s home will have gone up in flames.

TJR doesn’t know how to write a bad novel and, while this one doesn’t quite live up to Daisy Jones & the Six or The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, it’s still a beautifully written novel with complex characters and a fast-moving plot. The story is told in dual timelines: the present (the hours leading up to the party and the party itself) and the past (how Nina’s parents met and fell in love and their tumultuous marriage). There were so many decisions made by the characters (the Riva parents, specifically) that were hard to wrap my head around. I was also a bit turned off by all of the drug use (waiters with serving trays full of cocaine, anyone?!) Blech. However, the setting of 1980s Malibu was outstanding, I was completely enamored by all of the Riva kids and their close bond, and the ending was very satisfying. Definitely a novel I’d recommend!

What I’m Reading This Week

What are you reading?

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What I’m Reading (6.14.21)

Happy Monday, friends! I had a very lovely weekend: I got to visit a friend’s new house and help her put together a small shelving unit, and there was game night with the fam. I also got in a few long naps, a great workout, and did some rearranging of the bookshelves in my apartment.

I have five book reviews for you guys today. It wasn’t the best two weeks of reading (lots of blah reads here!) but there were two standouts that just might make my favorites list at the end of the year. (We’ll see!)

A Night Divided by Jennifer A. Nielsen (★★★★★)

Short synopsis: In the space of a single night, a wall is constructed in Berlin, effectively separating 12-year-old Gerta, her mom, and her older brother from her father and her other brother (they were in West Berlin to look for work). East Berlin is now controlled by the Soviets and she feels like a prisoner in her own beloved city. What’s a girl to do, but find a way to tunnel into West Berlin with her family.

I loved this book. I learned a lot about Germany after WWII and the effects of Soviet occupation. I loved Gerta so much; she was tenacious and brave without being a character who continuously made silly decisions. The ending was heart-pounding and exciting, too! It’s a middle-grade novel so it might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but I loved learning more about German history through this novel.

Would Like to Meet by Rachel Winters (★★★☆☆)

Short synopsis: Evie is a screenwriting agent’s assistant who is tasked with ensuring his #1 client turns in his script on time. He’s been tasked to write a rom-com, and as someone who doesn’t believe in romance and those silly “meet-cutes” common in rom-coms, he’s refusing to hold up his end of the bargain. So Evie makes a deal with him: She will intentionally craft meet-cute opportunities until she falls in love (to prove to him that it can be done) and he must write part of the script for each attempt.

This was definitely a case of reading a book at the wrong time, as one of the main thrusts of this novel is Evie’s workaholic tendencies, which I read just as I was dealing with my own work/life balance issues. So I was annoyed by Evie and all the ways she let the people in her life down because she was so attached to her job. (Answering work emails while doing a bridesmaid dress fitting for her best friend’s wedding?! Come on!) There were things I liked about this novel: the sweet love story, a precocious 7-year-old girl, and all of the different meet-cutes Evie has. It’s a fun romance and I probably would have liked it more if I read it during a different time in my life.

Before She Knew Him by Peter Swanson (★★★☆☆)

One-sentence synopsis: Hen and Lloyd become friends with their neighbors, Matthew and Mira, and during dinner one night, while on a tour of Matthew and Mira’s home, Hen spots a trophy in Matthew’s office—the same trophy that went missing from the home of a college-aged student who was killed.

This was a pretty good thriller, but it was very graphic, which is why I gave it 3 stars. However, there was an excellent twist at the end that I definitely didn’t see coming—love when that happens! I really enjoyed the two main characters of this novel (it switches back and forth between Hen and Matthew’s points of view). Some thriller authors seem to take delight in creating super unlikable, unreliable characters, but Swanson created two likable, if very flawed characters. All in all, a pretty solid thriller but sensitive readers should take caution with this one.

Internment by Samira Ahmed (★★☆☆☆)

One-sentence synopsis: When Layla and her parents are sent to an internment camp for Muslim Americans, she finds her voice as the leader of a rebellion.

This book had so much potential, but it failed in its execution. It was the kind of YA novel that felt very YA, as Layla is quite honestly an annoying teenager who constantly makes brash decisions. I found myself more curious about her parents and what they were going through, than what Layla and the friends she made in the internment camp were doing. I also don’t buy that the only people in an internment camp willing to make a stand were the teenagers. None of the adults were doing anything? Really?! It all came down to a tiny group of teenagers? Something didn’t add up to me. I think there’s an important message in this book, but it gets lost in the bad writing, illogical plot, and almost cartoonish ending.

White Rage: The Unspoken Truth of Our Racial Divide by Carol Anderson (★★★★☆)

One-sentence synopsis: In this book, Carol Anderson describes how social progress for Blacks was continually countered by a white opposition.

This book was such a difficult read. It’s infuriating to read about all the ways white people and those in power deliberately and continually stopped the progress of Black people. From not giving Black children the resources they needed to get an education on par with white children to voter suppression laws and intimidation tactics, there’s something truly sinister about all the ways Black people’s progress was halted—all because white people couldn’t stand the thought of Black people being in the same social standing as them. It’s truly despicable. This is the history we’re not taught about, and it’s one we need to be talking about more. At the end of the book (in a new afterword written after the 2016 election), Anderson writes this:

Imagine if Reconstruction had actually honored the citizenship of four million freed people—provided the education, political autonomy, and economic wherewithal warranted by their and their ancestors’ hundreds of years of free labor. If, instead of continually refighting the Civil War, we had actually moved on to rebuilding a strong, viable South, a South where poor white, too—for they had been left out as well—could gain access to proper education. (p. 176)

What I’m Reading This Week

I’m currently almost halfway through The Intimacy Experiment by Rosie Danan. I read her debut novel, The Roommate, earlier this year and loved it and I’m enjoying this one a lot, too! I also started Taylor Jenkins Reid’s newest release, Malibu Rising. I’m only 50 pages in, but it’s fantastic so far and I can’t wait to spend more time with it! I’m also planning on starting a new audiobook this week: Glass Houses, which is the 13th book in the Chief Inspector Armand Gamache series by Louise Penny.

What are you reading?