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What I’m Reading (12.15.25)

The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth by Beth Allison Barr (★★★★★)

Audiobook • Hoopla • Nonfiction • 2021

Short synopsis: Biblical womanhood is the belief that God designed women to be submissive wives, virtuous mothers, and joyful homemakers. Using church history and her own experience in evangelical spaces, Beth Allison Barr argues that biblical womanhood is not divinely ordained, but a product of historically constructed power systems.

I loved this book! I don’t read many books published by Christian presses anymore because much of U.S. Christianity does not align with my values. But this kind of book is right up my alley. In this book, Beth Allison Barr investigates what biblical womanhood really is and how the Bible has been twisted to fit modern social narratives about what it means to be a Christian woman. I love looking at Christianity and the Bible itself from a historical context, and in that sense, this book totally delivered for me. One of the most fascinating takeaways was realizing how different Bible translations can emphasize or downplay certain words and phrases. Even small changes can completely alter how a verse is written, interpreted, and taught.

Barr also discusses how we often fail to place the Bible in its historical context. If churches are using scripture to justify their rules and structures (such as not allowing women to preach), how do they reconcile that with other biblical practices that are no longer followed, like men having multiple wives? She also draws an intriguing distinction around the possibility of women apostles, arguing that because the Bible has been translated by generations of scholars (read: men), language about these women has often been erased or softened. This book was incredibly eye-opening for me and is exactly the kind of nonfiction I love to read. Highly recommend!

Battle of the Bookstores by Ali Brady (★★☆☆☆)

Print • Owned (Target) • Contemporary Romance • 2025

Short synopsis: When rival bookstore managers Josie Klein and Ryan Lawson are forced to compete for one job after their stores merge, their real-life animosity and anonymous online friendship collide, revealing that love may be the only thing they don’t have to compete for.

Oh, this is a book I should have abandoned. It just wasn’t the right book for me. It took me over two weeks to read, which should have been my sign that I wasn’t enjoying it. About halfway through, I realized that I might have liked it a whole lot more if it were a queer romance. On their own, Ryan and Josie could have been interesting characters. Ryan is the lovable owner of a romance bookstore. In contrast, Josie owns a bookstore specializing in literary fiction and is far more serious and Type A. Together, though, Ryan and Josie have no chemistry, and I never quite understood how their connection worked. Had Ryan been non-binary or a woman who helped Josie discover her own sexuality… *chef’s kiss*. You’ve got a book! I don’t think the author had a firm grasp on who these characters were or what motivated them. She clearly wanted to write a contemporary version of You’ve Got Mail, and honestly, for me, it was a flop. Meh.

The Correspondent by Virginia Evans (★★★★★)

Audiobook • Spotify • Contemporary Fiction • 2025

Short synopsis: Sybil Van Antwerp has lived a full life, and she spends her days now penning handwritten letters to friends, family, and authors she admires. And then one day, a letter arrives that forces her to confront her past.

Oh, this book! I’m always worried when I start a highly recommended book that it won’t live up to my expectations. I needn’t have worried because this book was perfection from beginning to end. I listened to the audiobook, which has a full cast and was a phenomenal listening experience. It’s a must-listen if you’re into fiction audiobooks. Sybil is such a fully realized character, someone who is easy to root for, even if she did have her own flaws. What I really appreciated about this book is how the author trusted readers to follow the story without beating us over the head with exposition. So often in epistolary novels, letters are written in ways that don’t feel true to life, giving too much information that the letter receiver would already know. It’s a way for the author to give the reader details, and it’s a lazy way of writing. I love that Evans did not fall for this trap! She is a brilliant writer, and I just adored every single moment I spent with this book. A must-read!

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What I’m Reading (12.3.25)

Generations: The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents―and What They Mean for America’s Future by Jean M. Twenge (★★★☆☆)

Audiobook • Libby • Nonfiction • 2023

Short synopsis: A groundbreaking, revelatory portrait of the six generations that currently live in the United States and how they connect, conflict, and compete with one another.

I am fascinated by the topic of generations, so this book seemed to be right up my alley! To put it in perspective, my grandparents were part of the silent generation, my stepdad is a baby boomer, my mom juuuust makes the cut for Gen X, my brother and I are millennials, many of my cousins and my older nephew are Gen Z, and my younger nephew is Gen Alpha.

I enjoyed getting a glimpse into the generations before me, since there is a lot I didn’t know about what was happening at this time and how those events shaped their overall characteristics. So, I was in a great mood as I started the millennial chapter. I was excited about what she had to say about my generation! And… oof.

Maybe I’m being overly sensitive as a millennial, but I could just feel the disdain she had for my generation. It got to a point where I had to look up reviews of this book to make sure I wasn’t alone in my thoughts, and a lot of other people agree that she seemed to cherry-pick research and statistics that would suit her narrative about millennials and Gen Z. I just found so many gaps in her research and writing.

She harped on the fact that starting with Gen X, people started waiting to get married to have kids. Hmm… wonder why that could be. Perhaps because women couldn’t even open a bank account in their own name until 1974? This was literally never brought up in the chapter about Gen X and how women finally having more rights as independent people led to a lot of change in the culture. She badgered millennials and Gen Z about declining birth rates and our inability to buy houses, even though she doesn’t think affordability is an issue. She buys into the lazy narrative that all millennials want participation trophies and spend too much time on our phones. And I found the Gen Z chapter really confusing. It feels like this author has never even talked to Gen Z people, conducted any sort of focus group, or discussed what’s really important to this generation.

I’m sticking with a 3-star rating because I did find parts of the book fascinating, but I was hoping for something a lot more inclusive and expansive than I received. But hey, maybe that’s the millennial in me who was hoping for a sweet participation trophy while reading about her generation! (Recommendation source: Sarah of Sarah’s Bookshelves Live)

Finlay Donovan Digs Her Own Grave by Elle Cosimano (★★★★☆)

Audiobook • Libby • Mystery • 2025

Short synopsis: When a body turns up in their nosy neighbor Mrs. Haggerty’s yard and the investigation begins to target Finlay’s ex-husband, Finlay and Vero are reluctantly pulled into helping her—and into uncovering dangerous secrets before their own come to light.

This is the fifth book in the Finlay Donovan series, and I still love this series so dang much. Is it great literature? No. Is it realistic? Absolutely not. Do I care? Not one whit. I love Finlay and all of the craziness she gets herself into. (Actually, maybe I like her nanny, Vero, better. I would absolutely date Vero if I could.) In this book, Finlay attempts to clear her ex-husband’s name while discovering some intriguing hobbies her nosy neighbor has taken up. It’s fun, frothy, and propulsive, and I could barely put it down!

Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brené Brown (★★★☆☆ 1/2)

Print • Library • Nonfiction • 2021

Short synopsis: In Atlas of the Heart, Brown takes us on a journey through eighty-seven of the emotions and experiences that define what it means to be human.

I’m someone who’s very in tune with my emotions and is always trying to better understand why I feel the way I feel. This book is organized into sections based on different emotional experiences (aka, places we go when we’re hurting or places we go when things don’t go as planned). Brown walks you through 87 emotions, from the uplifting to the devastating (I cried while reading about anguish).

While the book is easy to read and engaging, I’m not sure it’s something I’d rush to recommend. Brown repurposes a lot of her own previous writing, along with a fair amount of other people’s work (all properly credited, of course). I don’t know… I just didn’t love it. It didn’t feel fresh or new. But maybe that wouldn’t bother other readers, and I’m just being a Critical Cathy.

I’ve read several of Brené Brown’s books, and I always walk away feeling like I should be getting more out of them than I do. Maybe she’s just not the behavioral expert for me.

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What I’m Reading (11.17.25)

The Last Flight by Julie Clark (★★★★★)

Print • Library • Thriller • 2020

Short synopsis: A woman escaping her abusive, high-profile husband trades plane tickets with a stranger, only to assume the stranger’s dangerous identity after the other woman’s flight crashes.

This thriller was so propulsive! I loved the setup and how these women’s stories intertwined. The book takes us through everything that led Claire to plan her escape from her husband—and how carefully she crafted her exit. After the swap, the book moves back and forth in time, as we follow Claire in the present as she steps into Eva’s life while learning what drove Eva to trade places, too. I found this book to be utterly unputdownable! It was smart, well-written, and had two protagonists who were worth rooting for. The ending was exceptional, too. Highly recommend!

The Silence That Binds Us by Joanna Ho (★★★★☆ 1/2)

Audiobook • Hoopla • YA • 2022

Short synopsis: After her brother dies by suicide and her parents are blamed for it (due to their “high standards”), a Chinese Taiwanese American teen uses her writing to fight harmful stereotypes and reclaim her family’s narrative.

This book was so heavy. The author did an excellent job weaving together so many different topics—suicide, racism, the model minority myth, grief, etc. Without getting too spoiler-y, when May’s brother dies by suicide, it rocks everyone who knew him to their core. Because he didn’t seem depressed and certainly not suicidal. He was caring, sweet, and kind. He was popular at school and a stellar athlete. The kind of teenager who had everything going for him. It was so hard to understand why he would die by suicide, but I think that’s the (scary) point. Sometimes it’s the star athletes, the ones who seem to have it all together, who are struggling so much with their mental health.

Since I have a close relationship with my brother, as May did with hers, I felt especially tender toward May. Her grief was so palpable and raw. There’s a scene where she’s listening to a song her brother left for her, and she’s crying and listening to it over and over again, and it was so brutally sad. I cried while listening to that scene. It was such a beautiful, heartwrenching depiction of grief.

Most of the novel is about the response to May’s brother’s suicide. Shortly after it happened, one of the (white) fathers in their school basically implied that the reason he died was because of the high standards Asian parents place on their kids at this school. It’s wild to think that a) someone would say that when his parents are in the same room and b) I could absolutely see that happening in today’s fractured society. May decides to pen a response that is published in a community paper, and then he responds back in the same paper, and it devolves from there.

This is a story about family and grief and loss. And it’s about racism and standing up for yourself even when it’s uncomfortable. It’s also a beautiful story about being Asian and being proud of who you are. Another one I highly recommend (for very different reasons).

It’s a Love Story by Annabel Monaghan (★★★★☆)

Print • Owned (Target) • Contemporary Romance • 2025

Short synopsis: When a former child star turned studio exec lies about securing a hit popstar for her project, she’s forced to team up with a smug old crush to fix the mess—only to confront her past and discover something real along the way.

I went on such a journey with this romance. The beginning drops you right into Jane’s world, and I initially struggled to understand what her job was or why she was so mad with this random guy named Dan. A smoother transition into the early chapters would have helped because I spent the first 25% feeling confused and unsure why I should care about the conflicts unfolding. However, as the book progressed and I settled into these characters and the tension at the heart of the novel, I liked it a whole lot more. Jane was incredibly relatable to me, especially as she navigates her own daddy issues. There’s a scene where she talks about how she realized she was never compelling enough for her dad to stay (he left when she was 5), and how that belief has reverberated in her romantic relationships, of thinking she is not interesting or compelling enough for someone to stick around. And oof, it hit me right in the feels because this is something I have spent many hours in therapy trying to work through. I’m still working through it because it is a deeply ingrained part of my psyche. There was something genuinely healing in the way the book portrays Jane’s avoidant attachment style. I feel like a lot of people won’t get it, but ugh, I do. So much. This book touched me in a way I was not expecting. <3

What’s the last book that made you cry?

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What I’m Reading (11.14.25)

The Only One Left by Riley Sager (★★★★☆ 1/2)

Print • Owned (Book of the Month) • Thriller • 2023

Short synopsis: Kit becomes a home-health aide for the infamous Lenora Hope, who is believed to have killed her entire family (but with no evidence, she was never convicted). As Kit tends to her new patient in her crumbling mansion, she begins uncovering dark secrets about the infamous 1929 family massacre—and realizes Lenora’s version of the truth may be deadlier than it seems.

This was such a creepy thriller, and I loved every minute of it. Not only do you have a possible murderess (who had her own little poem, just like Lizzie Borden), but there’s also the setting of the mansion that is slowly crumbling into the sea. There are cracks in the wall and a top floor that tilts ever so slightly, it can make you feel a little seasick. The story of what really happened on the night of the murders is slowly revealed through typewritten words from Lenora, who is mute and fairly immobile, but has a sharp mind and an ability to type. There are so many twists and turns, red herrings everywhere, and a main character whom I quickly grew to love. The ending was wholly satisfying, too, even if I rolled my eyes a bit at one of the reveals at the end. (I think the author tried to be a bit too clever, and it didn’t work for me.)

Blue Sisters by Coco Mellors (★★★★☆ 1/2)

Audiobook • Hoopla • Literary Fiction • 2024

Short synopsis: One year after their sister’s death, three estranged siblings return to their family home in New York in this unforgettable story of grief, identity, and the complexities of family.

I had a wild experience reading this book. At first, I found it an unbelievable slog with the most unlikable characters I’ve ever met. It was our October book club book, and one of my friends asked me if it was worth reading when I was about 40% through. I said no, it wasn’t very interesting. And then I kept reading because I wanted to trust Lisa’s opinion on the book. She gave it 5 stars, and our tastes usually align, so there must have been some reason she loved it so much, right? And boy, am I glad I kept reading. The second half of the book made everything that happened in the first half suddenly make so much sense. The characters became dynamic and heartbreaking, people I just wanted to wrap in a big hug. Yes, they are unlikable, but they are also humans who are dealing with the very real grief of losing an essential part of their world—one of their siblings.

This is a book about complex family dynamics, and it was something I could wholly relate to. It was about addiction and the people behind the headlines. It’s about sobriety and recovery and the non-linear journey it takes. And it’s about grief, all-encompassing grief. At the end of the book, one of the characters says about grief, “I miss her and I miss her and I miss her … And I wait for the feeling to end because every other feeling has ended, no matter how intense, no matter how hard – but this won’t. There’s no end to the missing.” Ooh. That really hit me deeply. It cut to the core of all of my anxieties about death and grief. It’s the never-ending missing.

This is a book that I thought would be 3 stars at best, but might end up as my favorite book of the year. What a wild turn of events.

Unromance by Erin Connor (★★★★☆)

Print • Owned (indie bookstore) • Contemporary Romance • 2025

Short synopsis: Bestselling romance author Sawyer Greene, reeling from heartbreak and dealing with a severe case of writer’s block, plans for a one-night fling—until fate keeps throwing these strangers together in a holiday rom-com setting.

This is the second book I’ve read recently that plays with romance tropes—and features a best-selling romance author as the FMC. I’m just hoping this isn’t going to be the new trope—romances about romance tropes! In any event, this book was a much more positive reading experience than the other book I read with a similar plot. While I had a hard time connecting with the FMC, I was totally sold by the chemistry between the two main characters and loved the way romance tropes were explored in this novel. Plus, the novel took place around Christmas, which just lent a very cozy and sweet vibe to the whole novel. Is it a novel that will knock your socks off? Probably not, but it was a pleasant way to spend a few hours.

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What I’m Reading (11.8.25)

The It Girl by Ruth Ware (★★★★☆)

Audiobook • Hoopla • Thriller • 2022

Short synopsis: Ten years after her college roommate April was murdered, Hannah discovers new evidence that forces her to question whether the killer—and her friends—were ever who she thought they were.

I’ve read a few Ruth Ware thrillers and enjoyed most of them. I picked this one up when it was recommended by a guest on Sarah’s Bookshelves Live, and overall, I like this book a lot! The only thing I didn’t love about this book was the length. At 400+ pages, it needed a good editor to come in and trim some of the unnecessary chapters. It made the first half feel slow and meandering, which is not what you want from a thriller! I also wasn’t a huge fan of Hannah. She was kinda bland and not that interesting to root for. However, I was able to overlook those flaws because of the ending! It was so good, such a surprise, and wrapped up the book in a satisfying way. (And Hannah definitely got a bit more interesting in the second half when all of the action started to happen.) All in all, a solid thriller that leans a bit more literary.

Under the Whispering Door by TJ Klune (★★★★☆ 1/2)

Print • Owned (Barnes & Noble) • Fantasy • 2021

Short synopsis: After dying and meeting a reaper at his own funeral, Wallace is given one week at a magical tea shop to discover what it truly means to live before he must cross over.

Here’s what I know about TJ Klune’s books: They always take me a bit to get into, and I usually spend the first 50-75 pages wondering if I should abandon them. But if I keep going, I will be rewarded with a beautiful reading experience. This happened with The House in the Cerulean Sea, and happened again with this book. At first, I wasn’t sure what to make of Under the Whispering Door. I didn’t like Wallace at all and didn’t quite understand this magical tea shop and what it meant for Wallace’s journey. But as I kept reading and getting to know these characters, they burrowed under my skin and I found myself rooting for them so hard! There’s also a scene in this book that had me nearly crying from laughter, which is not something I ever do while reading. It was hysterical, though, and I want to see it in visual form more than anything! This is a book about death and grief and what it means to live a good life. It’s about being a good human and caring for the people around you. It’s about how brutal life can be, how it can take people from your life before you’re ready, and that’s something I worry about on a daily basis. But there was something healing about this book. Death doesn’t have to be scary. It can actually be a beautiful crossing over from one life to the next.

Beg, Borrow, or Steal by Sarah Adams (★★★★☆)

E-book • Libby • Contemporary Romance • 2025

Short synopsis: When Emily’s longtime rival Jack moves back to town as both her colleague and neighbor, their petty, prank-filled rivalry reignites—until their clashes start to blur the line between annoyance and attraction.

Sarah Adams is such a hit-or-miss author for me! I adored the first book in this series, hated the second, and really liked the third (which is the one I’m reviewing today). The writing in the second book was so bad, but she really brought everything together in the third book. Enemies-to-lovers is a great trope, although I could have done without all of the pranking (I feel like authors think this is a great plot point, but it always reads as super immature and unrealistic to me). I thought Emily was being pretty unfair to Jack with her pranks, especially trying to get the other people in her town to be unfriendly to him. And then she went way too far when Jack’s contractor had a sudden emergency and couldn’t complete the remodel for his fixer-upper (that was barely livable, hence the need for a contractor). It just didn’t make me that sympathetic to Emily.

However, she definitely turned things around and I could wholly relate to her vulnerabilities and fears. She’s been the glue holding her family together, but now they don’t really need her, and she feels like everyone is moving on and leaving her behind. It’s how I feel when a formerly single friend gets into a serious relationship or a friend announces a pregnancy—there’s always that fear that you’re going to be left behind because you’re now in totally different phases of life. I wanted to give Emily a great big hug for all she’s dealing with!

And once Jack and Emily got over their prank wars, I found their love story to be so fun and sweet. They were the perfect partners for each other, and I loved seeing the way they both broke down their walls and started caring for each other in deeply vulnerable ways. It was a wonderful romance, and I’m glad I gave it a chance!

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