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Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (8.26.19)

Happy Monday, friends! Oh boy, I had the absolute best weekend. Busy weekends filled with lots of things to do and social time can give me lots of anticipatory anxiety, so I was a little overwhelmed leading up to this weekend. But, as always, everything went wonderfully and I had the most fantastic time. My weekend started with book club where we celebrated nine years (I’ll be celebrating seven years in October!) of books and friendship with a potluck-style dinner and lots of great desserts. Then, on Saturday, it was off to Orlando to see the Backstreet Boys concert! I don’t have words to describe how fun the concert was! Those boys have aged very, very well and my teenage love for Brian Littrell still runs strong. I returned home from Orlando on Sunday afternoon and proceeded to take a five-hour nap (oops). Busy weekends wear me out!

Okay, onto today’s post! I finished three books this week – a romance, an audiobook, and a novel I’ve been holding off reading. My reviews are below:

American Dreamer by Adriana Herrera (★★★☆☆)

This m/m romance centers on Nesto and Jude. Nesto has just moved to Ithaca from NYC to try to make his Afro-Caribbean food truck a success. He meets Jude on the first day of his truck being open and they hit it off immediately. However, both of them are a little wary of beginning a relationship when they both need to focus on their work: Nesto on his food truck and Jude on the mobile library he wants to bring into the community. It’s a sweet story and I’d give five stars on the plot alone. However, the writing left a lot to be desired, as did the chemistry between Nesto and Jude. But this is Herrera’s debut and I’m excited to see what she does from here.

Stay with Me by Ayobami Adebayo (★★★☆☆)

Yejide and Akin are committed to a monogamous marriage in Nigeria, which was not the norm for this culture in the 1980s. However, it’s been a few years since they got married and Yejide is struggling to get pregnant. So, Akin’s mom brings in a second wife in the hopes that she can bear the children Yejide cannot. Obviously, chaos and hurt and turmoil ensue. It’s a heartbreaking, harrowing story of love and family, but it’s not one I necessarily enjoyed. I found all of the characters unlikable and hard to root for, and the ending fell very flat for me. I listened to it on audiobook and had to really push myself to listen to it on my drives because it was just so heavy and depressing. I really appreciate this novel, though, and getting a glimpse into a culture I know very little about. (Content warnings abound, FYI.)

After You by Jojo Moyes (★★★★☆)

I waited a good long time to read the follow-up to Jojo Moyes’s best-selling book (and a personal favorite of mine), Me Before You. I loved that book so very much; it holds such a special place in my heart. I couldn’t imagine this book could even scratch the surface of how much Me Before You meant to me. And, obviously, it doesn’t come close to having the same impact, but I still really enjoyed this novel! Louisa is trying to move forward with her life after Will died, but she’s not doing a great job of it. She’s depressed, working at a bar in an airport, and basically just walking in circles. And then she falls off the roof of her apartment, propelling her into action as she recuperates at her parents’ home. It’s a beautiful story about love, loss, and the non-linear path that grief takes, and I truly enjoyed being back in Louisa’s world.

What I’m reading this week…

> At Last by Jill Shalvis. I’m a little less than halfway through this contemporary romance and it’s been a sweet ride so far. I love Jill Shalvis’s romances so much!

> Peace Like a River by Leif Enger. I’m starting this book today. The hosts of the No Thanks, We’re Booked podcast rave about this novel and when I saw a pristine copy at a used bookstore, I snatched it up. I hope I love it as much as they do!

> I Miss You When I Blink by Mary Laura Philpott, on audio. My hold for this audiobook came in a few weeks ago and I couldn’t get around to it until this week. Thankfully, it’s a short audiobook (around six hours) so I’ll be able to fly through it during my commute this week.

What are you reading?

Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (8.19.19)

Happy Monday, friends! I am coming to you after a fairly low-key weekend. It rained all day Friday and Saturday, so I took it easy and didn’t do too much. Saturday night, I did a fantasy football draft and Sunday was a writing date with my friend M. I’m trying to keep this week plan-free because next weekend is going to be packed: book club, the Backstreet Boys concert, and an overnight in Orlando.

I finished three books last week. Loved two of them, tolerated the other one. 🙂 My reviews are below.

Rules of Civility by Amor Towles (★★★★☆)

This novel was so lovely! It’s literary fiction, which isn’t a genre I gravitate to, so listening to it on audio was the way to go for me. The narrator was fantastic! It’s about a girl named Katie who meets a man named Tinker on New Year’s Eve of 1937. She’s celebrating the last day of the year with her friend Eve, and meeting Tinker takes the two of them on a whirlwind year of parties and new people and new jobs and new experiences. It’s a slow and meandering novel at times, not very plot-heavy, but the writing style and characters just completely worked for me.

You Had Me at Hello by Mhairi McFarlane (★★☆☆☆)

This novel was okay. It could have used a tighter edit (400+ pages for a romance novel is about 100 pages too long, IMO.) And it was literally 430 pages of “will they or won’t they” and then 5 pages for the conclusion.. It’s a “reunited lovers” romance about Ben and Rachel, who were best friends in college when a falling out caused them to lose contact. It’s been 10 years since then when they bump into each other again. Now, Rachel is newly single and Ben is married. No infidelity happened in the story, but it teetered a bit on the edge of it at times. It was a fine story, but not one I’m rushing out to recommend.

A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman (★★★★★)

Oh, I loved this novel so, so much. It was such a sweet story about a grumpy old man, Ove, who is trying to figure out what to do with himself after his beloved wife, Sonja, dies. A family of four moves into the house next door and basically upends his life. The chapters take us back and forth between Ove’s past and how he met Sonja to present day and what he’s doing now to move through his grief. Content warnings abound for this novel, especially for suicide, so take care if you decide to read this novel. I don’t generally have to be wary about content warnings, so I really, really loved this novel and all it entailed, but I can see how it would be very triggering for other people. For me, it’s easily making my list of favorite books of 2019 and I’m just a true fan of everything Backman writes.

What I’m reading this week…

> Stay with Me by Ayobami Adebayo, on audio. This was my pick for my local book club and thankfully, three of the girls who have read it have rated it 4 or 5 stars. (WHEW!) I started the audiobook yesterday and will need to speed through it before book club on Friday. Thankfully, it’s a short(ish) audiobook at 8 hours.

> After You by Jojo Moyes. Me Before You is one of my all-time favorite novels and I was hesitant to pick up the second novel in what became a trilogy. I wasn’t sure I needed a continuation of Louisa’s story. However, enough time has passed since I read Me Before You (and saw the movie), and I think I’m ready to dive back into Lou’s world.

> American Dreamer by Adriana Herrera. A bunch of trusted romance readers have read this novel and loved it, so I decided to pick it as my romance for the week. It’s a M/M romance and so far, it’s excellent.

What are you reading?

Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (8.12.19)

Happy Monday! I’m pleased to report that I was able to cross one of my August goals off my list this weekend: completing a no-spend weekend! I bought groceries on Friday afternoon but the rest of the weekend was spend-free, even though I contemplated a trip to Target to shop for some things “just because.” I’m glad I talked myself out of it because that probably saved me at least $75, if not more. I’m actually considering doing these no-spend weekends once a month because it is good practice for saying no to shopping and eating out. We’ll see!

I finished two books last week, so another solid reading week for me. My reviews:

A Prince on Paper by Alyssa Cole (★★★★☆)

Oh, how I loved this romance. There is a cast of diverse characters, including a bisexual character and a nonbinary character, and I loved the way the nonbinary character’s pronouns were seamlessly woven into the story once their preference was stated. This is the story of Nya, who made an appearance in the first book in Cole’s Reluctant Royals series but it’s been so long since I read that romance that it took some time to jog my memory of who she was. Nya has been through a lot in her life – her mother died when she was young and her father was recently convicted of poisoning her country’s princess – and she’s trying to heal from the trauma. And then there’s Johan, the “playboy prince” who is trying to prepare his half-brother to become king of their small country soon. Johan and Nya concoct a plan in which they will pretend to be engaged, which suits both of their needs. It will allow Nya to get away from a country that has caused her so much trauma and allow Johan to hopefully help his country vote positively on a referendum if they think he’s settling down. I loved the character arcs of both Nya and Johan and the way they came together at the end. Such a beautiful love story.

Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens (★★★★★)

This novel might be the buzziest book of 2019, and I was worried it wouldn’t live up to the hype. I also worried that all the descriptions about nature would make the book feel like a slog. However, park your preconceived notions at the door, friends. This book is worth all the hype. The story begins in 1969 when Chase Andrews, the town’s golden boy, is found dead in the marsh and all signs point to Kya (also known as the Marsh Girl) as the killer. From there, the story dips back and forth in time. We’re taken back to the early 1950s to learn about Kya, how she was abandoned by her family and learned to fend for herself. And we’re brought to the “present day” storyline of 1969 where the death of Chase Andrews is being investigated. Eventually, past and present storylines converge, and I found myself unable to put the book down until I knew how it all ended. Where the Crawdads Sing is a beautifully written story and I actually really enjoyed the descriptive writing. It helped to bring me into the marsh and feel like I was right there with Kya – in her shack, boating through the marsh, with her birds, etc. A book that was totally worth all the hype, in my opinion.

What I’m reading this week…

> Rules of Civility by Amor Towles, on audio. I have just under six hours left in this audiobook and I am loving it. The narrator is fantastic, which helps my enjoyment of the novel as it’s literary fiction, which isn’t always my jam. But this one is working for me!

> You Had Me at Hello by Mhiri McFarland. I just started this cute romance that takes place in Manchester, England, and involves the “reunited lovers” trope.

> A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman. I’m finally reading this novel! I’m only about 50 pages in, but already deeply love grumpy Ove.

What are you reading?

Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (8.5.19)

Making Up by Lucy Parker (★★★★☆)

I really enjoyed this romance by one of my new faves, Lucy Parker. It’s part enemies-to-lovers, part reunion trope. Trix is a circus performer who has just been given the starring role in a production after the previous girl falls during a performance and breaks her arm. Leo is a makeup and special effects artist who is going through a rough time career-wise and joins the production to start building his career back up. Trix and Leo were close friends in school but had a falling-out and are now sworn enemies. While I didn’t love this romance as much as her previous novels, it was still a fun read with such a unique setting!

Hooked On You by Kate Meader (★★★★☆)

I loved this hockey romance, which wraps up the Chicago Rebels series from Kate Meader. Bren and Violet have been dancing around each other for the past few books and it was nice to finally get their story. However, the book did make me emotional because of Bren’s relationship with his daughters. He’s a recovering alcoholic who went to rehab and is doing all he can to be a better father to his girls. It gave me a lot of feelings as my father also struggles with addiction but was never able to beat them for my brother and me. His addictions always came first. Bren works so hard every day to stay sober for his daughters and I loved watching their relationship with him blossom throughout the book. I think that was the strongest element in the novel, even though the chemistry between Bren and Violet was evident on the page and I loved how they broke down their walls to let love in.

Selfish, Shallow & Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers on The Decision Not to Have Kids, edited by Meghan Daum (★★★★☆)

Oh, do I have thoughts about this book. So many thoughts that I’m planning on writing a post about being childless (and maybe wanting to remain that way) this week. This is a book of 16 essays with writers from a wide range of backgrounds and experiences, talking about how they came to terms with being childless and what it means for them today. Some of the writers went to great lengths to get pregnant, while others never felt the compulsion. There were a lot of opinions in this book that I didn’t agree with but I came away with a lot of food for thought and I appreciate reading about such a wide range of experiences.

What I’m reading this week…

> Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens. I’m nearly halfway through this novel and only started reading it on Saturday! I was immediately drawn into the story and am finding it hard to put it down.

> A Prince on Paper by Alyssa Cole. Yay! My hold for this romance finally came in. I love Alyssa Cole’s contemporary romances and this one features two characters that were present in the other books, so I’m excited to finally read their story!

> Rules of Civility by Amor Towles, on audio. I abandoned the audiobook I was reading last week (The Last Romantics) because I just didn’t find the story compelling enough. Also, I didn’t love the narration. Anyway, this means I get to start Rules of Civility! Fingers crossed it works better for me than The Last Romantics.

What are you reading?

Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (7.29.19)

Happy Monday, friends! I had such a great weekend – the perfect mix of downtime and being social, which I haven’t gotten for a few weekends in a row. Lately, there have been plans on plans on plans so it was nice to take it easy this weekend.

I finished four books last week – woop! It was a very good reading week for me and – spoiler alert – all my reads were four or five stars! Let’s review

A Conspiracy in Belgravia by Sherry Thomas (★★★★☆)

I wish I had read a physical copy of this book rather than listening to the audiobook. I think it would have been a better experience for me. This is the second book in the Lady Sherlock series. Charlotte Holmes has earned a bit of notoriety in the papers (although everyone thinks a man named Sherlock is solving the mysteries) and attracts the attention of the wife of Charlotte’s would-be love interest. She comes to Sherlock’s home (where “he” conducts “his” business) to ask about finding an old lover that she thinks might be dead. What I loved most about this novel is how much I couldn’t guess how the plot would unfold! It concluded in a completely different way than I expected, but was so satisfying, too. And the last line of this book has me wanting to rush out and get the third novel ASAP.

The Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren (★★★★☆)

Christina Lauren is an all-time favorite for me, and they did not disappoint with this novel. Olive and Ethan, mortal enemies, are the only people at a wedding (Olive’s sister married Ethan’s brother) who didn’t get sick from the buffet. (Olive has food allergies that prevented her from eating the buffet and Ethan thinks buffets are gross, so they had separate meals.) Olive’s sister implores her to take the honeymoon she was supposed to go on – and Ethan’s brother does the same to him. So, they have to spend 10 days with each other and try not to kill one another in the process. And, as it turns out, they don’t actually hate each other. They actually really, really like each other! It’s a sweet romance that had me laughing out loud throughout the novel, and I was actually pleasantly surprised by how it all turned out in the end.

Anne of the Island by L.M. Montgomery (★★★★★)

Anne of the Island is the third book in the Anne of Green Gables series, following Anne as a young adult in college. She navigates education, her growing feelings for Gilbert Blythe, dating, and friendship throughout the novel. I know people have said that the Anne books aren’t worth reading past the first novel, but I vehemently disagree with that opinion. There’s something so human and relatable about these novels as Anne begins to grow up and recognize how different life is going to be as you say goodbye to childhood and enter adulthood. Friends grow up, get married, move away, become parents. I remember struggling so much with this passage of time when I started college. Anne struggles in the same ways and there was something so beautiful about how she came to terms with it.

White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo (★★★★★)

It’s hard to wrap my mind around this book to give a coherent review, but it’s a book that I think all white people need to read. We all must come to terms with our racist assumptions and behaviors because no matter how “good” you think you are or what an “ally” you think you are, white people grew up in a society that puts them ahead of people of color. All white people – rich and poor alike – have benefited from this system and it’s only by understanding our racial bias, listening to people of color when they try to educate us on our racism, and working hard to challenge our internalized beliefs that we can begin to build a society that helps rather than harms people of color.

What I’m reading this week…

> Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers on the Decision Not to Have Kids edited by Meghan Daum. I’m still on the fence about having kids myself (most days, I just don’t think I’d enjoy motherhood all that much), so this collection of essays has been really comforting to read.

> Making Up by Lucy Parker. My faaaaaaave! Lucy Parker books are the best, most especially because the settings are so unique! This book follows Trix, who is a circus performer, and Leo, who is a makeup artist, and I am thoroughly enjoying it.

> The Last Romantics by Tara Conklin, on audio. My hold just came through for the audiobook of this novel that’s getting some major buzz. I’ll start it on my commute this week.

What are you reading?

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