I wake up at 3 a.m., grab my phone, and pull up CNN. Trump won. I can’t believe this is happening. What is wrong with our country?
It takes me a while to fall back to sleep, but eventually, I do and I wake up again around 6:45 and remember what happened. Today is going to be a bad day. The next four years will be a slew of bad days. I send the famous Michael Scott “please God no” GIF to my book club group chat because that’s just about how I feel right now.
Eventually, my bladder tells me I need to get up so I deal with that and feed the girls. Then I sit on the couch to play Duolingo, my NYT games, and Happy Color. I also read a few chapters of my book, which is my first time reading this week! (Very abnormal.)
Around 8, I force myself to make breakfast (scrambled eggs, toast, and sausage) and eat it while finishing up yesterday’s post. Once that’s published, I do an abbreviated morning routine (I skip the skincare—brush my teeth, get dressed, clean up the kitchen, deal with my CPAP machine, and take my meds) and then it’s time to work. I think??? Work feels impossible on a day like today.
But work I do. I clear out my email, edit content, do some posting, and handle some small to-dos that resulted from my leadership meeting yesterday. I was supposed to have a meeting with my team today but I’m not in the headspace for that so I move it to next week.
Around 10:45 my mom calls me to ask if I want to do a volunteer shift with her for Feeding America Tampa Bay. Well, this feels like something positive that I can do this month when things feel as depressing as they do today. We sign up to do a morning and afternoon shift next Wednesday. Then, we make plans for lunch.
I do a little more work when I hang up the phone with my mom and then drive over to our favorite local deli for lunch. I order my usual (turkey sammie on a croissant) and it hits the spot. My mom and I don’t talk much during lunch, which sometimes happens. We’re both thinking about a lot of things (we also got some distressing news about a family member earlier today, so it’s been a double whammy of terribleness) but we’re together and sometimes that’s what we need.
I get home from lunch a little after noon, work on this post, and then dive into a mindless work task. It’s exactly what I need.
I take a short nap when I finish my work task and it feels very nice to turn my brain off for a little while. Eloise spent the entire naptime with me, so when I wake up, I give her cuddles and she meows like crazy at me. Maybe she can sense I need a little extra love today? Before I get back to work, I scroll through my personal email and see that a package has arrived! It’s Sephora – I ordered some skincare products.
The rest of my workday goes pretty smoothly. I write some content that’s due this week but we haven’t been able to assign to writers. I post some content, answer emails, and handle some assignment issues that crop up. At some point, I pull out my snack pack to munch on and I also take a few breaks to read and comment on blogs.
Around 5:15, I wrap up my workday. I get ready for the gym, feed the girls, and then spend 10 minutes trying to find where I placed my Zevo replacement filters but they are nowhere to be found. WHY! I have no idea where they could be because I feel like I looked everywhere. But I’ll have to continue looking later because I need to leave.
My first stop this evening is Target to pick up a curbside order. Nothing exciting here – just household essentials like toilet paper, laundry pods, and distilled water. It’s a quick pit stop and then I’m on my way to the gym for HIIT class. Except I can never time these before-class errands correctly because I am a whole half-hour early. What I should do is go into the gym and do a short cardio workout. But what I do instead is sit in my car, playing games on my phone and reading blogs. I’ll get enough cardio during HIIT class.
A little before 6:30, I walk into the gym for HIIT class. And it’s a good one! I feel really strong during this workout – and I surprise myself by picking up the 20-lb weights for some of the stations. (At one point, I picked up one of the 20-lb weights and was like, “Oh, this isn’t as heavy as I thought!”) It feels good to see progress like that.
I leave the gym around 7:15, take a quick pit stop at Publix, and then drive home. It’s a struggle carrying all of my stuff up the stairs, but I get it done even though my heart is racing. I put away the food that needs to be refrigerated and then take a shower. Right as I’m finishing up my shower, it’s 8pm so I pull up my Paramount+ app to start streaming tonight’s episode of Survivor. I put on pajamas, brush out my hair, and then sit down on my couch to turn on Survivor on my TV. I eat my dinner while watching the show. Once the show is over, it’s time for The Summit. This new show on CBS isn’t my favorite (mostly because the contestants are very dumb), but it’s something mindless to watch on Wednesday evenings. While that show is on, I make cookies, work on this post, and respond to blog comments.
Once the show is over, I Facetime my mom and we talk about the show and other chit-chatty things. Then I pick up around my apartment, do an abbreviated nighttime routine, and finally go to bed around midnight.
wednesday in the life: 2023, 2022, 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014
Elisabeth
I woke up at 4 am AST, so we were both seeing the news at the same time. I wasn’t surprised Trump won, but I was very, very shocked by how much the popular vote swung in his favour?
On happier topics – you have the sweetest mug collection. The last two days I’ve thought they were perfection and had to chime in today when you have yet another adorable mug!!!
America may be _________ (fill in the blank), but you have a fabulous mug selection.
Stephany
It’s been fun to show off my mug collection during WITL! The one above is from my trip to New Orleans!
Ally Bean
I woke up at 6:00 a.m. and started to quietly walk out of our bedroom when I heard my husband, who was still in bed, say: “be prepared to be disappointed.” He’d stayed up most of the night watching the election results unfold. No answer to your question, but there is something seriously wrong with this country.
Sarah
I really like the Summit! The people are AWFUL tho. THESE ARE THE PPL WHO VOTE FOR TRUMP.
Stephany
WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE ON THE SHOW? I think the current theory is they applied for other CBS shows (like Survivor, Big Brother, etc) and got put on this show instead. They are making DUMB DECISIONS all the time. GAH!
Alexandra
Did everyone wake up in the wee small hours overnight into Wednesday? Me and mine did the same thing, even though we live in Canada, to check what was happening. It wasn’t good, and everyone here can’t stop talking about what happened.
I guess we have no choice but to live with it.
Tobia | craftaliciousme
I think you made the best of the day. And ended it with cookies.
Jenny
You got distressing news about a family member on top of everything else??? Ouch. And- I do think cats can sense when you’re sick or sad. It’s very sweet.
I also like how your day ended with cookies. : )
Grateful Kae
I am so impressed with the post work errands and HIIT session. I feel like as I get older I get worse and worse at doing anything “strenuous” after work. lol. I guess in reality I often do have places to go and things to do, but it’s just harder to get excited now that it’s dark at like 5, too!
Kyria @ Travel Spot
Cookies! Yay. So, it seems like you didn’t get much sleep! I am curious, what is your average per night and has it gone up or down since you started the CPAP? When I was working (and starting work at 5 am) I often got 6.5-7 hours of sleep. I think now I maybe get a little more some days, but I regularly wake up around 3:30 or 4 and don’t go back to sleep. I really do love the mornings though and would rather have that quiet time in the morning that the evening.
Stephany
I think my average per night is 7ish hours. I am sleeping around the same amount as before, but my QUALITY of sleep is a lot better. Before, I was only getting a few minutes of deep sleep (maybe 15 minutes the entire night!) and now I’m regularly getting about an hour of deep sleep.
I used to be an early-to-bed/early-to-rise gal, but now I like having the late hours to myself and waking up a little later.
J
I’m so sorry about the distressing family news on top of everything else. Take good care of yourself.
Having said that, it sounds like you DID take good care of yourself. You had time with your mom, you made a plan to improve your community, you ate nourishing food, you exercised, and you chilled out and cuddled your cat. + cookies FTW. And also worked (gotta pay those bills). Excellent job, not just coping, but doing really well. <3
Lisa’s Yarns
I spent wed morning moving my blog to WordPress. Which was obv a major project and a good distraction from the news. I also ordered holiday cards which is a big task since I have to go through addresses, etc. but it was good to he occupied for hours that morning.
I am sorry to hear you got distressing news about a family member!!
San
Ugh. Waking up to the news and realizing it was not just a dream. Devastating. And then on top of that, you’re worrying about a family member. I am so sorry. What a gloomy day.
P.S. Love your mug and seeing that you have a fun mug collection too. Mugs make me happy.
Anne
I hope you are okay, and I hope your family member is okay. <3
Hugs to you. I don't understand people who make hating others their primary goal in life. I just…why? Sigh. Wishing we were all together, or on a text support group. <3