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Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (12.19.22)

Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin

Print • Owned (Book of the Month) • Fiction • 2022

Oh, I had such high expectations for this book! I expected to love it because many of my most trusted sources loved this book. But it was just not for me. This novel is about Sadie and Sam, who meet as children and then fall out of touch, only to find each other many years later on a crowded subway platform. It’s through this chance encounter that they set on a course that will change their lives: to make a video game together which may be just as appealing as 비트코인 카지노. This video game catapults them to stardom and fame, and we follow the reverberations of this decision to collaborate through the rest of the novel. There were times when I thought this book was brilliant. The way Zevin played with literary tropes and used the nuances of video games to tell a story was genius. But mostly, I was bored by the novel. I don’t care about video games and there was just so much to slog through when it came to that. Yes, the book is about way more than video games, and I appreciated the exploration of characters and their relationships, but man, there was still a lot of video game talk and I was so bored by it. It also seemed like a lot of the issues that arose between the characters centered around miscommunication and not fully expressing what they needed, and it was so frustrating to witness scene after scene of these characters just not communicating. Tell people what you want! It’s just hard for me to really engage with characters who are being obtuse like that. All in all, not the book I was hoping it would be, but I’m glad this book is resonating with other people!

The Color of Law: A Forgotten History of How Our Government Segregated America by Richard Rothstein

Audiobook• Libby • Nonfiction • 2017

Every time I think I’ve dug to the bottom of the well that is the United States’ racist history, something else comes along to remind me that there is so much more I have to learn and so much that has been buried. In this book, Richard Rothstein outlines all of the ways that our government intervened to make sure housing was segregated. Ever wonder why it seems like there’s the “good” part of a city where all the white people live and the “ghetto” where the Black people live? It’s not because Black people can’t afford to live in the other part of the city. It’s not because that’s where they want to live. It’s because they have been systematically disenfranchised by our government. It is because our government enacted laws and ordinances to keep Black people segregated. I took a ton of notes as I listened to this audiobook. I was truly astonished by some of these facts (and not surprising; at the end of the book, Rothstein discusses how this part of our history was hidden in school textbooks):

  • If a white person had an address located in a majority-Black neighborhood, life insurance companies would refuse to sell them policies, forcing them to move to majority-white neighborhoods.
  • Some county laws would prohibit builders from building houses if they weren’t specifically stated to be for whites only. There were many builders who wanted to build integrated housing but they routinely found themselves unable to get the permits they needed and new laws would be enacted that prohibited them from building integrated housing.
  • Let’s talk about our interstate highway system for a minute! Did you know that these highways demolished homes in Black neighborhoods? Black people would find themselves without a home, and the government enacted no laws or programs to help people whose homes were destroyed so that highways could be built where they used to stand. And, of course, these highways largely benefitted white people, giving them an easier way to get to and from work.
  • When Black people moved into majority-white neighborhoods, they were harassed repeatedly by mobs and even police officers. They would graffiti their property, throw rocks through their windows, break into their homes, and much worse. This was happening as recently as the 1980s.
  • The GI bill was supposed to help men coming home from the war find jobs and find homes. Unfortunately, most Black men coming home didn’t benefit from the GI bill as anyone with a dishonorable discharge was excluded. Black people were given dishonorable discharges at twice the rate of white men.
  • From 1973-1980, Black people’s incomes decreased by 1% while home prices increased by 43%. Over the next decade, wages again fell by 1% while home prices again increased by 8%. And since Black people are routinely passed over for skilled, higher-paying jobs, their earning potential has been greatly limited when compared to white people.

I grew up poor. I grew up being evicted from apartment homes, mostly due to my father’s addiction issues and inability to contribute to the family’s finances. But one thing I never had to worry about: Being excluded from certain areas of town because of our skin color. We were able to find new apartments easily because we were white. That was our privilege.

Three Nights with a Scoundrel by Tessa Dare

E-Book • Libby • Historical Romance • 2010

This book was a satisfying conclusion to Dare’s Stud Club trilogy. Julian has been a bit of a villain in previous novels, but I loved the way Dare brought his character full circle in this novel. The heroine of this novel, Lily, is the sister of a former Stud Club member who was murdered at the beginning of the series, a murder that was intended for Julian. For Julian, even though he has feelings for Lily, it’s more important to keep her protected. But Lily, who also fell in love with Julian a long time ago, just wants him to come home to her. It’s a beautiful love story and was just one of those easy, fun romances that doesn’t require too much brainpower but makes me feel good while I’m reading it.

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Categories: Books

November Reading Wrap-Up

Books Read

1) I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jeannette McCurdy (★★★★★ – audiobook, Libby) – A super impactful memoir about a Disney star who sustained years of abuse at the hands of her mother.

2) The Smart One by Jennifer Close (★★☆☆☆ – print, owned, Thriftbooks) – A rather lackluster story about a family and the secrets they keep.

3) The Bodyguard by Katherine Center (★★★☆☆ – e-book, Libby) – A contemporary romance about a female bodyguard who is hired to protect a Hollywood movie star.

4) The 57 Bus by Dashka Slater (★★★★★ – audiobook, Libby) – A true story about two people on the margins of society and how their paths intersect to tragic results.

5) Tokyo Ever After by Emiko Jean (★★★★☆ – print, owned, Target) – A cute follow-up to Tokyo Dreaming that taught me a lot about Japanese culture.

6) The Box in the Woods by Maureen Johnson (★★★★☆ – audiobook, Libby) – The fourth book in a YA mystery series that was set at a summer camp and gave some really creepy vibes!

7) The Wife Before Me by Laura Elliot (★★★★☆ – print, library) – An enraging thriller that had a satisfying (if a little convoluted) ending.

8) Victoria by Daisy Goodwin (★★★★☆ – print, owned, Thriftbooks) – A historical fiction novel that retold the story of the first years of Queen Victoria’s reign, albeit with some creative liberties.

9) What If It’s Us? by Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera (★★★★☆ – e-book, Libby) – A fun queer YA love story with NYC as the backdrop.

10) Astrid Parker Doesn’t Fail by Ashley Herring Blake (★★★★☆ – e-book, owned, Amazon) – A queer romance involving a female carpenter and a female interior designer.

11) Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin (★★★☆☆ – print, owned, Book of the Month) – A buzzy book that fell short of my expectations. At times, it was brilliant but mostly, I was bored by it.

Book Challenges

1) Book Club: Our book for November was The People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry. I had already read this book (and wasn’t a fan). Our book club meeting for November is actually today (November was a crazy month for all of us and we couldn’t get our schedules to sync up!), and I’m interested to hear other people’s thoughts on the book. I know I’m an outlier in my displeasure with this book.

2) Unread Shelf Project: November’s prompt was “a title that starts with the first letter of your name,” so I chose The Smart One by Jennifer Close. I’ve had this book on my shelf for years, so it was nice to finally read it, even if I didn’t end up loving the book.

3) Goodreads Challenge: I only had two more books to read for this challenge and both of them ended up being DNFs! I started listening to Sing Unburied Sing by Jesmyn Ward on audio, but after two hours of listening, I was just so bored by the plot that I abandoned it. I also tried Small Great Things by Jodi Picoult, which gets rave reviews from people. It was giving me a lot of anxiety and that’s just not what I need from my reading life!

Book Stats

  • # of books read: 11
  • # of pages read: 4,028 pages
  • Genre breakdown: YA (4), Fiction (3), Romance (2), Nonfiction (1), and Mystery/Thriller (1)
  • Format breakdown: print (5), e-book (3), and audiobook (3)
  • Fastest read: Tokyo Ever After, Astrid Parker Doesn’t Fail, and Tomorrow x3 all took 5 days
  • Slowest read: The Smart One (11 days)
  • Star average: 3.8
  • % of books by or about BIPOC or the LGBT community: 37%
  • Goodreads goal check-in: I set a goal of 135 books this year and currently, I am 12 books behind schedule.

Superlatives of November

  • Favorite book of the month: The 57 Bus by Dashka Slater
  • Favorite romance of the month: Astrid Parker Doesn’t Fail by Ashley Herring Blake
  • Most disappointing read of the month: Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin
  • The book with the cringiest title: I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jeannette McCurdy
  • My least-favorite reading experience of the month: The Smart One by Jennifer Close

What’s the best book you read in November?

Categories: Books

What I’m Reading (12.5.22)

What If It’s Us? by Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera (★★★★☆)

In this queer romance, Arthur is a teenager who is only in NYC for the summer. He’s filled with hope, ambition, and a love for the way the Universe seems to make things happen. Ben has lived in NYC his whole life. He’s going through a breakup, in summer school, and basically at his wit’s end with life. When Arthur and Ben have a meet-cute in a post office but then Ben disappears before Arthur can get his number, is this the Universe’s way of saying they aren’t meant to be? It’s a really cute YA love story, almost sappy sweet at times, but I was here for all of it. Arthur was such a delightful character to root for, especially the way he reacts to being in NYC and being with Ben. Ben is his grumpy counterpart but who starts to relent in the face of Arthur’s unfailing positivity. It’s not a perfect romance, but it was a satisfying one filled with quirky characters and a really great ending.

Victoria by Daisy Goodwin (★★★★☆)

Victoria is a fictional retelling of Queen Victoria’s first few years of her reign. She inherited the throne at the age of 18 and had to grow up quickly, as she suddenly became the ruler of an entire nation overnight. She has a rocky relationship with her mother and probably a very inappropriate relationship with her prime minister (although lines were never crossed). Victoria could be a difficult character at times. She could be flighty and selfish and ridiculous, but I had to remind myself that she was 18 and had been an incredibly sheltered child. Most of us are flighty, selfish, and ridiculous at 18; we’re just not also responsible for ruling a country. All in all, this book was really engaging and I loved getting this slice of life into what it’s like to be royal. The ending felt a little abrupt and I would have liked a little more exploration into Victoria and the man she ends up eventually marrying. But it was still a propulsive read that gave me delightful The Crown, season 1, vibes.

Astrid Parker Doesn’t Fail by Ashley Herring Blake (★★★★☆)

In this f/f romance, Astrid Parker is an interior designer who has had a run of bad luck. She’s dealing with the aftermath of a broken engagement and her interior design business has been flailing for a while now. So when she earns the job to redesign the Everwood Inn, a historic landmark hotel in her town, which will also be featured on an HGTV-esque show, Innside America, she knows this could be the big break her business needs. What she’s not thrilled about is working with Jordan Everwood, the granddaughter of the inn’s founder and lead carpenter on the job. Jordan and Astrid had a horrifying meeting (the opposite of a meet-cute, really) outside a coffee shop where Jordan accidentally spilled coffee all over Astrid’s pristine white dress. Still, they have to learn how to work together for the project. There was so much to love about this romance. I just love the way this author writes female characters, and especially the way she writes women falling in love with women. So many other authors writing queer romances make it feel so lackluster, but Blake makes these romances feel big and exciting and perfect. I didn’t love this novel as much as her first one (Delilah Green Doesn’t Care)—there were just too many times I had to suspend my belief—but this story still had a whole lot of heart and such a sweet love story at its core. Ashley Herring Blake is a new autobuy author for me!

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What I’m Reading (11.25.22)

Tokyo Dreaming by Emiko Jean (★★★★☆)

Tokyo Dreaming is the second book in the Tokyo Ever After series. I read the first book in less than 24 hours and could not get enough of the adorable love story. This book didn’t have that same level of magic, but it was still a great read. In this book, Izumi (who discovered her father was the Crown Prince of Japan in the previous book) is settling into imperial life and dealing with the rigors that come with being a princess. She’s trying to live up to the elegance of her twin cousins (the press loves her cousins, not so much Izumi), touring universities in Japan, and figuring out her next steps when those steps are highly scrutinized. One of the things I really loved about this book was learning more about present-day imperial customs and Japanese culture. It was really interesting! All in all, a very cute YA book that won’t change anyone’s life but it will be an enjoyable, palate-cleansing read should you need that.

The Wife Before Me by Laura Elliott (★★★★☆)

Oof, this book was rough. It’s the kind of book I cannot really recommend, even though I gave it 4 stars, because there is so much violence against women. About 100 pages in, I wanted to abandon it but I decided to keep going because a) I didn’t have any other reading material on Sunday when I was at my mom’s and b) it has a high Goodreads rating for a thriller, so I want to keep going and see what all the buzz was about. The novel is about Elena who has just lost her mom when a suave and handsome man sweeps into her life. Nicholas is also going through his own grieving process—his wife has been missing and presumed dead for two years—so they connect over their grief. Early on in their relationship, Elena realizes all is not well with Nicholas, but she ignores red flag after red flag because she’s so in love with him. This story comes with all of the trigger warnings: domestic violence, grief, cancer, death, and violence against women. If you can get past all of that, I think the story was super engaging and page-turn-y. The ending is a bit wild (so wild, I had to read it a few times to make sure I didn’t miss anything!), but satisfying, too.

The Box in the Woods by Maureen Johnson (★★★★☆)

The fourth book in the Truly Devious series takes us away from the elite Vermont boarding school where amateur detective Stevie Bell and her friends spend most of their time and drops us into a summer camp where a quadruple homicide occurred over 40 years ago. The homicide has never been solved, and the camp’s owner wants Stevie to help him solve the case and make a podcast about it. I just absolutely loved this mystery. It was fast-paced and engaging, and I loved the setting of a summer camp. I also really liked the way this book explored the nature of true crime podcasts and how exploitative they can sometimes be on communities and families. I wish the author had explored that idea a bit more, but I did like the way she pitted Stevie against the camp owner, and showed the differences in their approaches to solving this crime. Stevie wanted the families to have some closure while the owner was simply looking to make the next Serial (or so it seemed). All in all, a very fun mystery and I’m excited that there’s a fifth book in this series coming out next month. Woohoo!

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What I’m Reading (11.16.22)

The Bodyguard by Katherine Center (★★★☆☆)

E-Book • Libby • Contemporary Romance • 2022

The Bodyguard is a contemporary romance about Hannah and Jack. Hannah is an Executive Protection Agent (aka, a bodyguard) whose next job is to keep wildly successful actor Jack Stapleton safe from a stalker while he visits with his mom who is sick. Hannah doesn’t seem like the typical bodyguard for a man like Jack, but that’s what makes her so good at her job. But in order to sell her presence in Jack’s life while he spends time with his mom at their family ranch, Jack and Hannah have to pretend to be dating. Ahhh… the fake-dating trope! It’s one of my faves, for sure. I really liked this book, but there was just something missing the mark for me. It was hard for me to understand the love story between Jack and Hannah—I could see them developing a close friendship after all of this, but I didn’t feel any chemistry between the characters nor see what made Jack fall in love with Hannah, or vice versa. I thought the ending was clever, although I could have done without the epilogue. All in all, a good romance but not one I’m rushing out to recommend.

The Smart One by Jennifer Close (★★☆☆☆)

Print • Owned (Thriftbooks) • Contemporary Fiction • 2013

The Smart One is a book about the Coffey family. There’s Weezy, the mother who might be a little overbearing at times. There’s Martha, the oldest daughter who is living at home and working in retail after burning out quickly in her career as a nurse. There’s Claire, the middle child who just broke up with her fiance and is in dire financial straits. And there’s Max, the youngest child who is away at college and just started dating Cleo. The story follows the perspectives of Weezy, Martha, Claire, and Cleo as they navigate life and family and careers and mental health struggles. It’s a character-driven novel, but the characters are just so awful and hard to root for. I wouldn’t say I need to like my characters to enjoy a novel, but when it’s a character-driven novel like this, I really want to be able to root for someone. Honestly, though, I don’t even know if I hated the characters as much as I disliked the writing. I wanted more for these characters, but the writing failed to live up to what they could be. They deserved better, I guess.

The 57 Bus: A True Story About Two Teenagers and the Crime That Changed Their Lives by Dashka Slater (★★★★★)

Audiobook • Libby • YA/Nonfiction • 2017

This book was… incredible. It’s part-fiction and part-nonfiction. The novel part, which is based on a true story, takes the story of a nonbinary teenager named Sasha who is involved in a horrific accident on the bus one day. A Black teenage boy named Richard thought it might be funny to take a lighter to the skirt Sasha is wearing. Sasha is sleeping on the bus at the time, but Richard thinks, surely, they will wake up before the skirt erupts in flames. Sasha does not wake up until they are engulfed, and some bus passengers have to help them put out the flames. Sasha then must undergo surgery and treatment for the burns while Richard is arrested for the crime. The novel flashes between Sasha and Richard’s stories, and between those chapters are nonfiction chapters. Information about the gender spectrum, about Black teenagers’ incarceration rates, about the justice system, about burn treatment, etc. It’s such an interesting way of telling a story, and I found myself truly awed by it.

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