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Categories: Books

April Reads

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Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers — 5 stars. I have been told by countless people that I must read this book. The premise didn’t entice me, so I put it off for a long time. I finally grabbed a copy of the book towards the end of March and it was a book I could not put down. Angel has lived a heartbreaking life, being sold into prostitution at seven. She is cold and hard-hearted and doesn’t know how to find her way out. She meets Michael Hosea, a simple farmer, who feels a nudging in his spirit to marry her. Eventually, they do, although Angel has a hard time opening up to him and trusting him. She runs away a few times, but God is relentlessly pursuing her until one day, her defenses fall and she embraces the love she finds in Christ. Each character had something to give to the novel, although my heart was with Angel and Michael more than anyone. They each had their own demons to deal with and I couldn’t help rooting for their love story to make it. It’s a beautiful story about redemption and the relentless pursuit of God. This is a book worth reading. You would not regret it.

Skinny Bitch by Rory Freedman and Kim Barnouin — 2 stars. I don’t really know what I was expecting from this book. A no-nonsense approach? Someone to tell me like it is? What I didn’t expect was basically a lecture on why eating animals is the worst thing anyone in the world could ever do, along with some questionable information. (Contrary to what the book says, I don’t have to be a vegetarian to be skinny.) The first quarter of the book was pretty good. The information came fast but it all made sense and I enjoyed the approach the authors took. The rest of the book was all about going vegan. The book was fairly biased and offered no real solution, other than everyone needs to be vegan. Well, sorry. I don’t want to be vegan. While the authors gave some pretty horrifying facts, I don’t think the solution is for everyone to go vegan. I think there is a bigger problem at hand and no other solution was offered. The book was basically a scare tactic rather than a book on how to eat a healthier diet. Unless you are interested in becoming a vegan, I would not recommend this book to anyone.

Son of a Gun by Joanna Wayne — 2 stars. A Harlequin novel. A light, easy read. It wasn’t my favorite book and was heavy on the cheese. The last few chapters had me rolling my eyes, again and again, with the silliness of it all. The premise was enticing, but ultimately, the writing fell flat.

I’ve Got Your Number by Sophie Kinsella — 5 stars. Sophie Kinsella has been one of my favorite authors for a long time. I devoured her Shopaholic books, even though Becky was a flighty character and could annoy me to no end. And then I started reading her stand-alone books and utterly enjoyed them. Then came “Mini Shoapholic”. Ugh. Ugh, ugh, ugh, ugh, ugh. I couldn’t make it past Chapter Five. Kinsella made Becky into a terrible, selfish mother and it was the first Kinsella book I couldn’t finish. I have now forgiven her for that wretched book, because of I’ve Got Your Number. Quintessentially Kinsella, with a quirky yet adorable main character and a plot that made me giggle throughout the book. I was deeply entrenched in the world of Poppy and Sam, rooting for them the whole time. It was a sweet, cute story about a woman who loses her engagement ring and her phone gets stolen on the same day. She sees an abandoned cell phone in a bin in the lobby of the hotel where she lost the ring so she takes it to have a mode of communication if the hotel finds her ring. Only problem? The phone belongs to Sam’s assistant, who has apparently quit her job to become a model. In order to keep the phone, Poppy essentially becomes Sam’s assistant, forwarding emails and learning more and more about this stranger who is becoming a good friend with each new text they send. Chaos ensues as it always does in a Kinsella book, but you just can’t help but fall in love with Poppy. Fans of chick-lit: read this novel. It’s a good one.

Rejoice by Karen Kingsbury — 4 stars. I am slowly making my way through all of Karen Kingsbury’s books. Her books are not for the faint of heart, nor are they happy stories. So far, the Baxter family has dealt with: one of their daughter’s husband being murdered by his ex-lover’s ex-boyfriend, another daughter being diagnosed as HIV positive, their son’s girlfriend’s dad being killed in the 9/11 attacks… and now? Another daughter’s child drowned in a pool. She survives but experiences brain damage and blindness. SERIOUSLY, KAREN, WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO THIS FAMILY? I feel for the Baxters, I really do. They don’t have it easy! There are strong Christian themes presented and I have to say, I like Karen’s no-nonsense approach to writing about faith in a novel. It’s refreshing, but I can see how it would turn other people off. I’m up to the last book of this series and I’m just waiting for another tragedy. And even though I’m a happy-endings type of reader, I still thoroughly enjoy these novels and get so much out of them.

Body Language by Suzanne Brockmann — 3 stars. This book was a lot different than most of the books I’ve read by Suzanne Brockmann. It was a romance and I found out later it was written fourteen years ago. The book mainly showed me how much the author’s writing has improved and matured over the years because this book fell flat for me. The characters were one-dimensional and the plot was boring. It mainly involved two best friends who have feelings for each other but neither wants to make the first move, because they’re scared of ruining their friendship. It wasn’t an original storyline by any means, but it was cute enough to warrant three stars. It’s an easy read, but I can recommend a dozen other Brockmann books before this one.

Divergent by Veronica Roth — 5 stars. This was our #twookclub pick for April and we had a great turnout this month! I really enjoyed the book and yes, it was the first dystopian novel I’ve ever read. (I am one of those rare breeds of readers who hasn’t read The Hunger Games. Don’t shoot!) I’m not a huge dystopian genre fan and I wouldn’t say this novel sold me on the genre but I enjoyed it a lot more than I thought I would. I liked the romance between Four and Tris, even though some said it was silly and unnecessary. I thought the plot was fast-moving and interesting, but not enough that I felt like I had to read the next book in the series. Maybe I’ll read Insurgent, maybe not.

Cavanaugh’s Bodyguard by Marie Ferrarella — 2 stars. This was one of those Harlequin romance novels where I never fully grasped who the characters were. It had the potential to be a good story, but the writing fell flat. The meat of the story involved two police detectives who had been partners for a while now and discover they have feeling for each other. Cheesy? Oh, yes. I really can’t find redeeming qualities of the novel, other than it was a quick, light read.

It Had to Be You by Susan Elizabeth Phillips — 4 stars. This was a really cute romance novel, with a lot of depth. The two main characters, Phoebe and Dan, completely captured my heart. Phoebe is a girl who only ever wanted her father’s acceptance but because he refused to give it, she sought it in other things: at first in sleeping around and later with taking her clothes off for nude portraits. Her father, a respected businessman and owner of a football team, was disgusted by her. After his death, she finds out she is the sole owner of the football team — but only if her team wins the AFC Championship Game (highly unlikely). Dan is the head coach for the football team and is not happy this “bimbo” will be a part of the team. The blooming relationship between Dan and Phoebe was sweet and I couldn’t help but root for them. I will say that the ending was super corny and the epilogue was unnecessary. (Aren’t most epilogues, though?) For that reason, it dropped to a 4, but still a really great read.

Books read in 2012: 31
(I am killing my goal of reading 75 books this year. If I keep going at this rate, it’s possible to hit 90 books! What!)

I’m most especially curious to hear what people think of Skinny Bitch, if you’ve read it? What were your thoughts on the book? And, of course, I welcome any opinions on the other books mentioned above! I’d love to hear what you think of any of the books listed!

Categories: Books

March Reads

Happy Good Friday! My plans for Easter include an egg hunt and coloring Easter eggs with my nephew and a sunrise service down at The Pier on Easter Sunday. (And perhaps also devouring a hollow Easter bunny. And by perhaps, I mean definitely.)

Lawman Lover by Lisa Childs — 4 stars. Yes, this is a Harlequin romance novel. You can tell just by the title. (What is it about Harlequin and their silly titles?)  This was actually a pretty good novel, with lots of twists and turns. Of course, it was predictable and you could smell the ending a mile away, but sometimes, I like predictability. I felt Rowe and Macy’s relationship was real and authentic, and I could feel the growth of their relationship as the book progressed. For a Harlequin novel with a crazy premise, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer — 3.5 stars. This book felt very slow-moving and the stylistic approach is one I am not used to. The visuals, drawings, and one-line pages were distracting for me but Oskar’s story and search were the biggest redeeming quality. While some of it felt very contrived, ultimately, I fell in love with this little boy who was so smart and compassionate but also hurt so much inside. I know there was a reason for the secondary plot of his grandparent’s story but for me, that part fell short. In the end, gave it a 3.5 rating because of Oskar and how it picked up towards the end.

Illusion by Frank Peretti — 5 stars. An amazing, outstanding book. A book that gripped me from beginning to end. Full review here.

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? by Mindy Kaling — 5 stars. You have no idea how much I enjoyed this book. Mindy Kaling is one of my new favorite people. I already enjoyed her character on The Office, Kelly Kapoor, so immensely so I had a feeling I would love Mindy as well. And yes. Yes, I did. Was it the funniest book I’ve ever read? No, but I don’t think that was the point. My review on Goodreads is long enough, but it’s definitely a book I thoroughly recommend to anyone. Mindy has a way of writing that completely captured my heart.

Hot Stuff by Carly Phillips — 4 stars. I read this book a few years back and it’s a series that’s always stuck with me, so I’m rereading it. It follows a trio of sisters who run a sports PR agency that their uncle (and sole guardian) founded. The first book focuses on Annabelle, the first sister, as she helps former NFL quarterback, Brandon Vaughn market his newest venture: a lodge he’s building in his hometown. Their romance was the central storyline, but there were plenty of different ones thrown in to keep it from becoming too one-sided. Carly Phillips remains one of my favorite romance novelists.

Sweet Little Lies by Lauren Conrad — 3 stars. Look, this book had no waiting on my library’s Kindle page. I know I said I wasn’t going to read another book of Lauren Conrad’s but I did. Admittedly, the writing in the book was a smidge better than the first but the plot was still excruciatingly predictable that literally nothing shocked or surprised me. It was a quick, easy read and requires absolutely no brain power.

Books read in 2012: 22

Categories: Books

Book Review: Illusion by Frank Peretti

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Illusion
Author: Frank Peretti
Rating: 5 of 5 stars

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Goodreads Summary:

Dane and Mandy, a popular magic act for forty years, are tragically separated by a car wreck that claims Mandy’s life—or so everyone thinks. Even as Dane mourns and tries to rebuild his life without her, Mandy, supposedly dead, awakes in the present as the nineteen-year-old she was in 1970. Distraught and disoriented in what to her is the future, she is confined to a mental ward until she discovers a magical ability to pass invisibly through time and space to escape. Alone in a strange world, she uses her mysterious powers to eke out a living, performing magic on the streets and in a quaint coffee shop.

Hoping to discover an exciting new talent, Dane ventures into the coffee shop and is transfixed by the magic he sees, illusions that even he, a seasoned professional, cannot explain. But more than anything, he is emotionally devastated by this teenager who has never met him, doesn’t know him, is certainly not in love with him, but is in every respect identical to the young beauty he first met and married some forty years earlier.

They begin a furtive relationship as mentor and protégée, but even as Dane tries to sort out who she really is and she tries to understand why she is drawn to him, they are watched by secretive interests who not only possess the answers to Mandy’s powers and misplacement in time but also the roguish ability to decide what will become of her.

Frank Peretti has crafted a rich, rewarding story of love and life, loss and restoration, full of twists and mystery. Exceptionally well written, Illusion will soon prove another Peretti classic.

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My review:

For a book to be given a 5-star rating with me, it has to grip me from the beginning and never let me go. This book had over 500 pages and I was gripped from start to finish. From the very first page, I was immediately entrenched in Dane’s pain of losing his wife of forty years and then dropped into the mystery of how his wife ended up as a 19-year-old girl in 2010.

Throughout the novel, Peretti painted a picture (how’s that for alliteration?) of Mandy and how she manages to practice her magic. She doesn’t know how she does it but somehow she and Dane (who remains his 60-year-old self) end up in the same town and she begins practicing at a local coffee shop. He takes her on as an apprentice because as crazy as he knows he may seem, she is his Mandy. Their relationship blossoms as Mandy’s career takes off. She has major skills, but Dane knows something else must be at work.

This story had so many twists and turns that in every chapter, I was hesitating to see what would come next. I knew there had to be an explanation for why Mandy, who had died at age 59, was now in present-day as a 19-year-old (but swore she was born in 1959). I like stories that offer a crazy premise but then offer an even crazier explanation for it.

I don’t want to give any part of the story away but trust me when I say, this novel is a must-read. It kept my attention from the get-go and never wavered. Peretti’s writing style gets into your bones and grips you from beginning to end. While there are Christian themes in the book, it’s never overdone or the main premise. It’s written in a way where you know this is a Christian writer, but he doesn’t bang you over the head with it. This was the first Peretti novel I have read and now I’m on a mission to read them all.

All in all, this book affected me deeply. There is so much to take in, so much to discuss, and so much I most likely missed. It’s a book worth a reread, and I’m not one to say that for many books.

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The best part of all this is that I have a copy to giveaway to any of my readers! I’m so excited to be able to give this book away because it’s one I absolutely loved to my core and I think everyone should put it on their “to be read” list. To be entered in the giveaway, simply leave a comment on this post about the last book you gave a “5 star” rating to. The giveaway ends on Sunday, April 1st at 11:59PM EST and I will announce the winner on Monday, April 2nd. Good luck!

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Disclosure: I was given a copy of this book for free, as well as one to give away, in exchange for a fair review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

Categories: Books

February Reads

First of all, I completely stole this post idea from Erin. Full credit to her, but love the simple way but effective way of reviewing books one read throughout the month. And yes, I realize it’s mid-March already. Bear with me.

L.A. Candy by Lauren Conrad — 2 stars. I struggled a lot with the rating of this book. On the one hand, the writing was atrocious. The book needed at least ten more rounds of edits, in my (very) humble opinion. But on the other hand? The plot was so intriguing and such a page-turner. Some of it was super silly and the characters were pretty predictable, but at the same time, it was a book I couldn’t stop thinking about when I wasn’t reading it. But I just couldn’t let the terrible writing off the hook. If you can get past the bad writing, it’s an easy, fluffy chick-lit book.

The Admiral’s Bride by Suzanne Brockmann — 5 stars. I finished this book in one day, which is a feat I can rarely do nowadays. (My attention span isn’t to the point where I can sit down for hours and read a book in one sitting.) It was a military-driven romance with strong characters and a crazy plot. I’ve been a Suzanne Brockmann fan for a long time and she never fails to impress me with the way she writes.

Cinderella Ate My Daughter by Peggy Orenstein — 5 stars. A fabulous book that researched the history behind the girlie-girl movement (i.e., Barbies, Disney princesses, beauty pageants, sexism in children’s toys, etc.) and the effect it is having on our society. Being single with no children on the horizon, I still thoroughly enjoyed this book. Full review here.

Until There Was You by Kristan Higgins — 4 stars. I’ve been a Kristan Higgins fan for a while so I was excited to see this book on my library’s Kindle page. I really enjoyed the book, especially the small-town life and family. The main characters (Posey and Liam) were well-developed but I didn’t feel as if their love story was fully authentic for my tastes. What I do love about Higgins is how real she makes her characters. They are loveable, but also have irritating and complex issues that affect them.

There You’ll Find Me by Jenny B. Jones — 4 stars. This was a sweet, sweet YA novel about a girl, Finley, who moves to Ireland for her last year of high school. Two years ago, her brother Will was killed while overseas where he was reporting for a news station. She comes to Ireland to hopefully find her faith again and find closure to her brother’s death. While the book was slow-moving at first, it definitely picked up and became a book I couldn’t put down for anything! A predictable read, but predictable in a good way.

Sarah’s Key by Tatiana de Rosnay — 3 stars. This was our #twookclub pick for February and I was excited to read it, after reading tons of great reviews. For me, it felt very slow and I didn’t find Julia’s story very believable or authentic. I loved reading about Sarah’s part and I loved the history in this book, but there was something contrived about Julia that bugged me too much to love the book as others seemed to. (Missed the chat? Here is an edited transcript of it!)

The Duke and I by Julia Quinn — 4 stars. I’m a huge lover of historical romance novels and Julia Quinn has always been one of my favorites. I just started reading her Bridgerton series, which involves the stories of all eight Bridgerton children. The first one involves the fourth child (and first girl) Daphne. She is independent and feisty and sassy. I loved Daphne. She really doesn’t take crap from anybody, not even her husband Simon. She is also a woman who wants to be loved and cherished. I could relate to almost every character in the book. The story was simplistic in nature, but the problems that arose were complex and authentic. I’m excited to read about the other seven siblings!

Books read in 2012: 16

Categories: Books

Book Review: Cinderella Ate My Daughter by Peggy Orenstein

Cinderella Ate My Daughter
Author: Peggy Orenstein
5 of 5 stars

Goodreads Review:

The acclaimed author of the groundbreaking bestseller Schoolgirls reveals the dark side of pink and pretty: the rise of the girlie-girl, she warns, is not that innocent.

Pink and pretty or predatory and hardened, sexualized girlhood influences our daughters from infancy onward, telling them that how a girl looks matters more than who she is. Somewhere between the exhilarating rise of Girl Power in the 1990s and today, the pursuit of physical perfection has been recast as a source—the source—of female empowerment. And commercialization has spread the message faster and farther, reaching girls at ever-younger ages.

But, realistically, how many times can you say no when your daughter begs for a pint-size wedding gown or the latest Hannah Montana CD? And how dangerous is pink and pretty anyway—especially given girls’ successes in the classroom and on the playing field? Being a princess is just make-believe, after all; eventually they grow out of it. Or do they? Does playing Cinderella shield girls from early sexualization—or prime them for it? Could today’s little princess become tomorrow’s sexting teen? And what if she does? Would that make her in charge of her sexuality—or an unwitting captive to it?

Those questions hit home with Peggy Orenstein, so she went sleuthing. She visited Disneyland and the international toy fair, trolled American Girl Place and Pottery Barn Kids, and met beauty pageant parents with preschoolers tricked out like Vegas showgirls. She dissected the science, created an online avatar, and parsed the original fairy tales. The stakes turn out to be higher than she—or we—ever imagined: nothing less than the health, development, and futures of our girls. From premature sexualization to the risk of depression to rising rates of narcissism, the potential negative impact of this new girlie-girl culture is undeniable—yet armed with awareness and recognition, parents can effectively counterbalance its influence in their daughters’ lives.

Cinderella Ate My Daughter is a must-read for anyone who cares about girls, and for parents helping their daughters navigate the rocky road to adulthood.

My Review:

I should preface my review by saying I am not a mother and I am nowhere close to becoming a mother anytime soon. But I am a woman and I was quite interested in what this book was all about. I grew up in the ’90s and had a collection of Barbies (Veterinarian Barbie was my favorite!), as well as an entire suitcase filled with Barbie clothes, shoes, and accessories. I loved the Disney princesses but especially had a soft spot for Belle and Pocahontas. I never held Barbie (or any of the Disney princesses, for that matter) up to some ideal I needed to get to. They were just toys to play with. That’s it. That’s all. I am not a feminist and I squeal over little pink baby clothes and adorable tutus.

I don’t know what I expected to get out of this book but the subject matter was intriguing. Peggy Orenstein left no stone unturned in her quest to discover the history behind this girlie-girl culture and what effect it is really having on girls today. The chapters were vast and chock-full of information and Orenstein’s own personal stories. She tells of her own struggles trying to raise a daughter in a world consumed by Hannah Montana and princesses. She dissected the pageant scene, Disney stars (such as Miley Cyrus, Hilary Duff, and Christina Aguilera in an appropriately titled chapter “From Wholesome to Whoresome”), the rise of Barbie and Bratz Dolls, and the truth behind fairytales, just to name a few of the topics.

I thoroughly enjoyed Orenstein’s writing style and all the research she put into this book. (She went to a Miley Cyrus concert. That? Is dedication.) She was hard-hitting but backed up everything she said with honest and true facts. And she even let the reader into her own life, documenting problems that had arisen with her own daughter and how she handled them. (And she didn’t put herself on a pedestal as the way all mothers with daughters should solve problems. She had many tugs-of-war with her daughter and she freely admits she didn’t always act in the right way.) I’m not one to say a nonfiction book is a page-turner, but this one most certainly was. I couldn’t get enough of it!

What I learned most of all is that it’s not enough to keep girls away from this new rising culture, but it’s also not enough to give in to their every whim to be the “cool mom”. There is a balance that takes place and discussions that need to happen. Raising daughters in this day and age can be an exhausting task, with the way the online world has exploded (“35 million kids ages three to eighteen-80 percent of kindergarteners alone-are online”, pg. 160), the way Disney princesses have now morphed into beautiful girls filling TV screens (and radios and magazines), and the way marketers are now aiming their sights on kids younger and younger these days. This is a book I think every woman needs to read because I was appalled by some of the facts represented. Orenstein is not talking simply about the “inherent evil” in just Barbie dolls and Disney princesses, but that we need to be aware of what is out there. And it’s not pretty.

I’ll finish this (extremely long!) book review with some quotes:

“…so does the path that encourages them to equate identity with image, self-expression with appearance, femininity with performance, pleasure with pleasing, and sexuality with sexualization.” (p. 8)

“[Disney] princesses avoid female bonding. Their goals are to be saved by a prince, get married,…, and be taken care of for the rest of their lives. Their value derives largely from their appearance. They are rabid materialists.” (p. 23)

“…like pink products all along the age span that urge girls to “be yourself,” “celebrate you,” “express yourself,” they define individuality entirely through appearance and consumption.” (p. 50)

“In 2009, twelve thousand Botox injections were given to children between the ages of thirteen and nineteen. In 2008, forty-three thousand children under the age of eighteen surgically altered their appearance.” (p. 206)

What is your opinion of the “girlie-girl” phenomenon? Do you think it’s harming girls today? What was your experience with Barbie and Disney princesses?

I received this book for free from TLC Book Tours in exchange for an honest review. All words and opinions, unless otherwise stated, are my own.

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