• Home
  • About Me
    • Privacy Policy
  • Categories
    • About Me
    • Books
    • Goals
    • Life
    • Recurring Series
  • The Friendship Paradox
  • Travel
    • Asheville, NC
    • Cruising
    • San Juan, Puerto Rico
    • Savannah, GA
    • Ireland
    • Boston, MA
    • Chicago, IL
    • Niagara Falls
    • Email
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • RSS

Stephany Writes

Categories: Books

Book Review: Because You Have To by Joan Frank

Because You Have To: A Writing Life
Author: Joan Frank
Rating: 2 of 5 stars

Goodreads Summary:

Part memoir, part handbook, part survey of the contemporary literary scene, Joan Frank’s Because You Have To: A Writing Life is a collection of essays that, taken together, provide a walking tour of the writing life. Frank’s aim is to form a coherent vision, one that may provide some communion about realities of the writer’s vocation that have struck her as rarely revealed.

Frank offers what she has learned as a writer not only to other writers, but to those to whom good writing matters. Her insights about “thinking on paper” are never dogmatic or pontifical; rather, they are cordial and intellectually welcoming.

Original, witty, and practical, Frank ably steers us through the journey of her own life as a writer, as well as through the careers and work of other writers. Her subjects range widely, from the “boot camp” conditioning of marketing work to squaring off with rejection and envy; from sustaining belief in art’s necessity to the baffling subjectivity of literary perception and the magical books that nourish writers. Frank’s personal journey is wonderfully told, so that what in these essays is particular becomes useful and universal.

My Review:

This book started off really great for me. I loved the premise of the book as an aspiring writer and felt like it would give me some great insight into the life of a writer. The first handful of essays were about Frank and her journey to becoming a writer. I was captivated by these essays, hungrily reading through them and nodding my head in agreement. I was so interested to read about her life and her journey and there were so many quotes I loved that I was sticking Post-It notes all over the book.

I don’t know when it happened but it suddenly started reading like a textbook to me. I would find myself reading through a page and realizing I hadn’t actually comprehended a single word and would have to go back and read it again. It’s not that the subject matter was confusing or difficult to read, I was just bored. I felt like I was reading a required text for a literature class. There were many essays in this book that I found to be a bit dry and dull to me. I think this is PURELY a personal preference and I hate to be so critical of a novel about the process of writing but there it is. There were many sections I lightly skimmed because the subject matter didn’t exactly interest me.

Although there were some essays I greatly enjoyed, I found myself struggling through the majority of the novel and just wanting to finish it. Honestly, I don’t think the book is terrible (and it’s very well-written!) but a lot of it just didn’t appeal to me at this moment in my life.

I will leave you all with some quotes that spoke to me because, as I said, there were certain essays I just adored and felt a kindred tugging with the author:

“I learned to look people in the eye and make delightful noises at them while the essence of my mind operated lightyears elsewhere.” (p. 7)

I totally do this. All the time. In meetings, especially. I form entire stories in my head while nodding my head and making coherent conversations. Oops?

“In short, rejection reminds us over and over again of the relativity of authority and the subjectivity of taste. Opinions from different quarters may clash amusingly – an odd form of entertainment that becomes a side product of rejection. I have had one editor write, ‘You do your piece a disservice with its last line,’ and another write, ‘Your last line takes my breath away.'” (p. 82)

“Rejection, then, is like the wake of a boat: proof of motion. No action from the writer means no reaction from the world. To risk rejection is to risk reaction and, as such, a courageous step.” (p. 85)

Have you ever picked up a book that you thought you would thoroughly enjoy…and ended up not enjoying it as much as you thought you would?

I received this book for free from TLC Book Tours in exchange for an honest review. All words and opinions, unless otherwise stated, are my own.

Categories: Books

Book Review: Charlotte Street by Danny Wallace

Charlotte Street
Danny Wallace
3 of 5 stars

Goodreads Summary:

Jason Priestley (not that one) has just seen her. They shared an incredible, brief, fleeting moment of deep possibility, somewhere halfway down Charlotte Street.

And then, just like that, she was gone – accidentally leaving him holding her old-fashioned, disposable camera, chock full of undeveloped photos…

And now Jason – ex-teacher, ex-boyfriend, part-time writer and reluctant hero – faces a dilemma. Should he try and track The Girl down? What if she’s The One? But that would mean using the only clues he has, which lie untouched in this tatty disposable…

It’s funny how things can develop…

My Review:

This was a very interesting read and I mean that in a good way. It was slow in the beginning and I had to adjust to the author’s writing style, plus reading from a male point of view. I wouldn’t say I ever really liked the main character, but the secondary characters – mainly Dev, Abbey, and Matt – stole the show. They felt more real and alive to me than Jason ever did. Jason had this self-pitying air about him that annoyed me. He spent the majority of the novel mooning over his ex-girlfriend who is now engaged and pregnant and I just wanted to shake him! I will say I liked how the author didn’t try to make Jason super likable  As much as he annoyed me, I think that was the point and I think he was authentic in his misery.

The concept of this novel was an intriguing one, especially the theory of how people save the best images of the best moments of their lives for a disposable camera. Unlike digital cameras or phone cameras, you have a select number of shots you can take so you want to make them last and want to make them special. I really loved this desire to piece together the pictures of The Girl’s life and the mystery behind who she is. I think this was very well-written and it piqued my interest because I wanted to know more about who The Girl is and what these pictures meant to her.

The ending was a bit too perfect for me. Too wrapped up and I felt a little let-down at the cheesiness of everything tying together neatly. I just felt the book might have felt more authentic with an ending that left readers guessing and coming up with their own conclusions. But then again, who doesn’t love a happy ending?

I would end up recommending this book, if only because the writing was great and the plot was intriguing and moved at a pretty good pace.

When is the last time you used a disposable camera? I used one during my May cruise to be able to use it in the water in Grand Cayman. It’s very true that you try to save only the best images for your camera, as I found myself being very careful with how many pictures I took and making sure they were as perfect as they could be.

You can learn more about Danny Wallace and his books on his website. You can also become a fan on Facebook and follow him on Twitter. In addition, you can watch this video where the author talks more about the book and the inspiration behind it.

I received this book for free from TLC Book Tours in exchange for an honest review. All words and opinions, unless otherwise stated, are my own.

Categories: Books

Book Review: Sad Desk Salad by Jessica Grose

Sad Desk Salad
Author: Jessica Grose
4 of 5 stars 

Goodreads Summary:

Alex Lyons gets paid to be a bitch. As writer for Chick Habit, a website for women and one of the most popular blogs on the Internet, she’s fulfilling her dream of being a professional writer. Maybe she’s not quite championing the women’s rights issues she used to write about in college-but Alex churns out several posts a day, beginning with hard news at 8 am (a meth-addicted former beauty queen, perfect); morning and evening gossip roundups; and especially juicy posts for blog primetime , when women in their offices all over both coasts eat their sad desk salads.

So what if it means burrowing into the couch while her boyfriend is at work, compulsively scouring the Web from 6 am until 6 pm to find the next big celebrity scandal, and only moving for five minutes to grab a sad couch salad of her own…but the last time she left her computer for more than 10 minutes, Farrah Fawcett died, and she missed the scoop. It’s a chick-eat-chick world; and since Chick Habit’s parent company has been cracking down about page views, Alex knows her job is at risk.

So when an anonymous tipster sends Alex the juiciest scoop of the year-a politico’s squeaky-clean Ivy League daughter caught in the act of some very R-rated activity-it’s a no-brainer. As she prepares to ignite the next Internet feeding frenzy, she hesitates: is she ready to ruin the girl’s life? What Alex doesn’t anticipate is how the big scoop will send her own life spiraling out of control.

My Review:

I read this book within 1 day. To be fair, I had just moved into a new apartment and didn’t yet have cable or Internet hooked up so there wasn’t much else I could do, but I’m not the type to voraciously read books like I did this one so it’s definitely a book that sucks you in easily!

There was a lot happening in this book but it all centered around Alex and her trying to make a living as a writer. She has talent and the passion for it, but life hasn’t panned out like she thought and now she writes for a gossip blog where she is terrified of leaving her computer for fear she’ll miss out on a big story. Add in a hate blog, a coworker trying to steal her thunder, and a boyfriend that is getting tired of her job and the way it consumes her life and you have one overwhelmed blogger.

She gets a chance at the biggest scoop of the year and, knowing this may very well make her the apple of her boss’s eye, she publishes it and the media has a field day. Chick lit doesn’t often delve into important social justice issues like this one did. How far is too far in Internet privacy? Is getting the big scoop more important than heeding your moral compass? The book also delved into the world of blog commenting and the way people lash out at writers and/or other commenters. Anyone who has read through comments on a popular blog or news website knows that the comments can make one ill and lose faith in humanity so it was interesting to get a take (albeit a fictional one, although I’m sure the author’s experience with this played a part) on how the writer deals with comments on the posts they write. They are only doing their job, after all.

All in all, a fantastic book that was an easy read but also dealt with interesting issues that would make for a great book club discussion. Fans of chick lit, check this one out!

What would you have done if you were Alex? Posted the story to keep your job and your boss’s favor, or decided not to because of your own moral compass and possibly lose your job? 

I received this book for free from TLC Book Tours in exchange for an honest review. All words and opinions, unless otherwise stated, are my own.

Categories: Books

Book Review: Lord of Temptation by Lorraine Heath

Lord of Temptation
Author: Lorraine Heath
5 of 5 stars

Goodreads Summary:

“Three young heirs, imprisoned by an unscrupulous uncle, escaped–to the sea, to the streets, to faraway battle–awaiting the day when they would return to reclaim their birthright.”

Once upon a time, he was Lord Tristan Easton–now he is Crimson Jack, a notorious privateer beholden to none, whose only mistress is the sea. But all that will change when exquisite Lady Anne Hayworth hires his protection on a trip into danger and seduction. . .

Desperation brought Anne to the bronzed, blue-eyed buccaneer. But after the Captain demands a kiss as his payment, desire will keep her at his side. She has never known temptation like this–but to protect her heart, she knows she must leave him behind. Yet Tristan cannot easily forget the beauty–and when they meet again in a London ballroom, he vows he won’t lose her a second time, as fiery passion reignited takes them into uncharted waters that could lead the second lost lord home.

My review:

Oh, my heavens.

You know when you read a book that you just can’t wait to finish, yet you don’t want to because you’ll miss having the characters as part of your daily life? This book is one of those kinds of books. Tristan and Anne are two completely different characters who have had two completely different lives but when their lives converge for this mysterious trip, you feel the chemistry between them oozing off the page. The romance was so well-built and felt completely honest and real. I am very critical of female characters sometimes because authors tend to overwrite them (especially in historical novels) but I felt like Anne was written so perfectly. She was someone I could immediately relate to and while she had her moments of wild abandon, she also knew how to act like a proper lady and what her place in life was.

It’s quite interesting to read books that are in the middle of a series. Sometimes, the story intrigues you enough and the writing is written well enough that you feel the need to read more of the series and get to know the secondary characters in their stories. And sometimes, the writing is just okay. The story is meh. And you feel no need to obtain any other books in the series and read up on the secondary characters. This book is the former. I fully intend on reading the other books in this series because I am so intrigued and so in love with the way this writer pens a story.

I have read many a historical romance novel and this book had everything I want to see in a book like this and then some. It’s an almost 400-page book that I read in 2 days because the story pulled me in that much.

You can find more about Lorraine Heath on her website. She also has a Facebook fan page and is on Twitter.

I received this book for free from TLC Book Tours in exchange for an honest review. All words and opinions, unless otherwise stated, are my own.

Categories: Books

Book Confessions

When Amy did a post on her book confessions last week, I knew immediately that I had to do this on my own. This may be the most fun I’ve ever had with a post.

1. My earliest reading memory is of me reading “Are You My Mother?” to one of my uncles.

2. I can’t remember a time when I was without a library card.

3. I currently have my library card number memorized, which makes for easy online requesting.

4. One of our libraries in town has a drive-thru, which means I could request books online and then go through the drive-thru to drop off books and pick up my requests – all without having to leave my car!

5. Like most 90’s girls, I was obsessed with The Baby-Sitters Club, the Sweet Valley series (I read everything from Kids to High), The Boxcar Children, and Nancy Drew.

6. In third grade, I once wrote a spelling test using all the different handwriting of The Baby-Sitter’s Club members. My teacher wasn’t very happy, but I thought it was clever.

7. When I was in late elementary and middle school, I would always check out 12 books from the Children’s section (the max you were allowed) and read them all within a week.

8. Growing up, Saturday mornings were for the library. One of my most favorite places.

9. In middle school, I created an inventory for all my books after seeing a reading teacher do so with her classroom books. I organized them all alphabetically and then created a Word document with each book title and author listed in the correct order.

10. My favorite Christian kid’s fiction series were the Christy Miller series and the Mandie series.

11. I took my time buying into the e-book fever. It wasn’t something I didn’t like because I treasured the feel and smell of books, but it was just something I didn’t think much about until they grew in popularity. In April 2011, I bought my first Kindle and haven’t looked back since! I absolutely love reading on my e-reader and honestly, do not miss regular books anymore. It makes reading so much more convenient and easier!

12. Being a regular blogger for TLC Book Tours is one of my favorite opportunities this blog has brought me. I love reviewing books and have yet to read a book I absolutely hate.

13. I used to have a different book for everyday reading, bathroom reading, and in-the-car reading.

14. I still read in all three places mentioned above. Thankfully, reading in the car has never made me dizzy or nauseous. (I would never survive long road trips without reading!)

15. I have never listened to a book on audiobook.

16. Whenever I finish a book, I almost always have another one lined up to read.

17. My favorite genre is romance, followed by chick lit. While the books can be predictable and all of them seem to follow a formula, I still love the escapism I can get from them.

18. My least favorite genre is anything fantasy or sci-fi. Not my thing!

19. I read the Harry Potter books during the summer of 2011 and while I enjoyed them immensely, I don’t see myself reading the books ever again.

20. I rarely read books more than once. There are very few exceptions to this, but generally, one time is enough for me!

21. I used to secretly read my mom’s smutty novels when I was younger. Shh!

22. When I was younger, and reading 12 books a week, after my Saturday trip to the library, I would sit in the recliner and read the first chapter of every book. Then I would organize the books in alphabetical order and read them that way.

23. In July, I donated nearly all of my books to the library (part of my minimalizing efforts). I now own about 3-4 actual books that I’ll probably end up donating as well. My Kindle and the library are enough for me!

24. I hid my love of reading growing up, so I never participated in any reading challenges or summer reading contests. I wish I had embraced my love for reading more as a kid, but it is what it is.

25. As avid a reader I am, I still don’t consider myself very well-read because I’m not a huge fan of the classics or popular literature.

26. I love smutty novels and a part of me is scared to read 50 Shades of Gray because I think I might enjoy it and everyone would think less of me. (BIGGEST CONFESSION TO DATE!)

27. I prefer libraries to bookstores.

28. I honestly do not understand people who don’t love to read. I never have, and I don’t think I ever will.

29. My favorite authors include Sarah Dessen, Suzanne Brockmann, and Sophie Kinsella.

30. My biggest life dream is to be a successful, published novelist. It’s the one dream that is still alive and kicking in me and I have no doubt, as long as I put in the time and effort, I will accomplish this.

Any book confessions you’d like to make?

  • « Previous Page
  • 1
  • …
  • 95
  • 96
  • 97
  • 98
  • 99
  • …
  • 103
  • Next Page »

Welcome!

Welcome!

Hi, I'm Stephany! (She/her) I'm a 30-something single lady, living in Florida. I am a bookworm, cat mom, podcaster, and reality TV junkie. I identify as an Enneagram 9, an introvert, and a Highly Sensitive Person. On this blog, you will find stories about my life, book reviews, travel experiences, and more. Welcome!

About me

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Recent Posts

  • One Photo Per Day: June 13 – 19
  • Currently in June
  • What I’m Reading (6.15.26)
  • One Photo Per Day: June 6 – 12
  • Five for Friday (v. 133)

Search This Blog

Archives

Privacy & Cookies: This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this website, you agree to their use.

To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: Cookie Policy

Copyright © 2026 · Theme by Blog Pixie

Copyright © 2026 · Sasha Rose Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in