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January Reflections

And just like that, we’re finished with the first month of 2015. I know these months are going to fly by and before we know it, we’ll be ringing in 2016. January had its ups and downs. The highs were high and the lows were low, but I’m not going to dwell on those lows. I am happy with where I am, happy that I’m learning to stand up for myself even when my opinion is unpopular, and happy that I know how to listen to my heart. And I feel really, really excited about what the future entails for me. Good things are happening, even when life seems a bit murky and unclear at times, and there is so much to look forward to.

So, all that said, let’s reflect on January and all the brilliant moments it brought.

In January, I…

Visited St. Augustine. I loved St. Augustine. I’ve wanted to visit it for a long time, and it completely lived up to my expectations. It is a beautiful city, so full of life and history and beauty. I’d go again in a heartbeat.
Started running again. I signed up for a 5k, which meant it was time to tackle one task on my yearly goals list – train to race a 5k. All I want to do is improve on my previous 5k times (which are not impressive at all!), train smart, and enjoy the race come race day.
Started working on a big freelance project. This freelance project has been a lot of fun! I get to stretch my creative muscles in an entirely different way, and the experience I’m gaining is wonderful.
Had two great nights out with girlfriends. I love my girlfriends. We met for dinner on a weeknight when an out-of-town friend was in town for a short time, and then we had book club another night where we had dinner and then visited a brewery to play games. I have the best time with them!
Booked a cruise with my mom. We leave in 103 days! I cannot wait!

I also want to take a moment to take a look back at the yearly goals I set and talk about the progress I am making towards some of them. I won’t recap all of them, just the ones I feel necessitate talking about.

Yearly goals progress…

Complete the Book Riot Read Harder Challenge and read 52 books. I read seven books in January, two of which were for the challenge. And I’m now certain I lowballed my book goal for the year… at this rate, I’ll probably read around 70+ books! Heh.
Put 20% of my income towards savings/debt each month. FAIL. Huge, huge fail. I think I wound up putting 3% of my income towards savings/debt in January. I have to step up my game for February.
Race a 5k. Training for this one! And it’s super hard. But I’m doing it. Sometimes.
Master the 80/20 rule of healthy eating. I’m doing better with eating healthy. There is so much I need to improve on, but I have a whole year to figure this out. I would say I’m eating healthy maybe 60% of the time.

How was your January? What did you do?

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Top Moments of My Weekend

Happy Monday!

I hope everyone had a fabulous weekend – I know I did! It was the perfect mix of being social, being productive, and having downtime to relax and regroup. Next weekend is going to be a billion times crazier, so I think I may hunker down this week to prepare for it. This is the Introvert MO. 🙂 Let’s recap this weekend by talking about my top moments, shall we?

1. Had dinner at The Burg Bar and Grille. We went here for book club and it was fantastic! For many of us, it was our first experience and I will definitely return. We had an awesome waitress, delicious food, and great conversation. We sat outside, too, which was GREAT. (Yay for sitting-outside-in-January weather. I love Florida.)

2. Visited 3 Daughters Brewery and played cutthroat games of Cards Against Humanity, foosball, and giant Jenga. After dinner, we all trekked over to 3 Daughters Brewery to have drinks and play games. We played Cards Against Humanity, which is always a good time. (I had to take a picture of one of my “favorite” card pairings. Ha! So horrible, right?!) Then, there was a very competitive game of foosball played between two friends, and later, an intense game of giant Jenga. All in all, a super fun night! I love book club. 🙂

3. Relaxed with a new book on a rainy Saturday morning. Saturday morning, I woke up a little before 8am to high winds and rain, so after taking Dutch on a super short walk, we snuggled on the couch and I started a new book. I am loving it so far and am finding it hard to put it down!

4. Took a walk in the park. Once the skies cleared up, my mom and I ventured to our favorite park to take a nice walk. It was super windy (23 MPH winds!) so we were definitely working with some resistance! But it was sunny and beautiful and it really lifted my spirits, being out in the fresh air.

5. Saw American Sniper. Saturday evening, Alex and I went to see American Sniper. Oh, heavens. So good. I knew it would be intense and sad and really emotional, and it was all that and more. Bradley Cooper did a phenomenal job and it was a brilliant movie. I would highly recommend seeing it!

6. Had a super productive Sunday. Whew, was Sunday a productive day for me! Let’s see, I… worked on my big freelance project for a few hours, wrote this blog post, did laundry, washed and vacuumed my car, grocery shopped, and meal prepped for the week. (Roasted potatoes, roasted broccoli, cooked a bunch of chicken to take for lunch, and boiled eggs to take as a snack.) Needless to say, I was pooped by the time I went to bed!

7. Started Gilmore Girls! And now I basically want to forget all responsibilities, snuggle on the couch, and watch this entire series from start to finish. I’ve only watched maybe one and a half seasons of Gilmore Girls (and it was about halfway through the series), so this is an all-new experience for me. I love Lorelei and Rory. So much. They remind me so much of my relationship with my own mom! I’m obviously not a good Netflix-er, though, because this means I am now watching Friday Night Lights, Friends, and Gilmore Girls all at one time. I think you’re just supposed to marathon one series at a time, right? Oops.

How was your weekend?

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Project 365: Some Thoughts

So I did it! I finished Project 365!

One year, 365 photos, and the complete satisfaction at finishing.

I won’t lie – Project 365 isn’t easy. It seems easy. All you have to do is take one picture a day! That’s it. That’s all. But it can be a grueling process. Some days were easier than others, especially when I had something special to document, but the other days? The boring days where all I did was wake up, go to work, come home, make dinner, watch TV, and go to bed? Those are the days when finding a special moment to document was much, much more difficult. That’s when I had to really look for the small moments of the day that made me feel good.

A funny expression on my dog’s face.

A sweet treat at work.

A brilliant sunset while taking a walk.

A message on a chocolate wrapper.

A special purchase.

Life is made up of little moments and big moments. And this is what I’ve most learned from taking one photo a day for a year. I lead a quiet life, but it’s a life I really like. My Project 365 album is made up of more little moments than big moments, and there is nothing wrong with that. The big moments are nice, but we truly live in those little moments. That’s where life happens. And, if you wind up trying this photo project for yourself, truly find those little moments in your everyday life. Not every day is going to be big and crazy and magnificent. Sometimes, our days are boring and mundane and filled with the same ole, same ole. But really? That’s okay. The mundane is okay. Of course, growth and change and those crazy fun experiences are important but don’t forget about those small, quiet days. And don’t write them off as days that shouldn’t be documented. Sure, it’s a bit harder to decide what to document on those days, but I love looking back on my Project 365 album and seeing all those little moments I photographed.

I had fun going through all my photos and seeing the breakdown of all the different types of photos I posted. I knew there would be a ton of Dutch because it was easy to take a quick photo of him at the end of the day if I either forgot to take a photo or nothing of terrible interest happened. (And also because he’s so damn cute and people love Dutch-grams!) And also plenty of photos of the food I ate because foooood. Mmmmm! Let’s see how my photos broke down, though, shall we?

Photos of Dutch (including selfies with Dutch, mhm!): 92
Photos of food: 65
Photos of nature (flowers, palm trees, sunrises, etc.): 37
Selfies: 21
Photos with friends (including 3 with bloggers!): 15
Photos of books: 13
Photos of my nephew: 11
Photos of coffee: 8
Photos of work-related stuff (like shots of my cubicle): 8
Screenshots (i.e., phoning it in on the photo-a-day challenge): 7
Photos on vacation: 7
Photos at the pool: 5
And a whole lotta other mish-mash that didn’t fit into solitary categories

I’m really happy and proud that I saw this photo project through to the end. It was really difficult on some days, but once I got through the first few months relatively unscathed, I knew I had to keep going. It’s not as if finding something to photograph every day is intensely difficult. I got into this mode of thinking about my day and planning out when I was going to take a photo. Have book club? Great! Photo opportunity. Going on a walk in a beautiful park? Awesome! Plenty of photo opportunities there. Nephew coming over? Oh, he’s definitely being photographed! Meeting a blogger for the first time? They already knew they would be corralled into being my photo for the day. (And we’re bloggers. We love photos and documentation!)

And then, cool stuff sometimes happened in my day. Like the morning I came into work and my entire cubicle was decorated to celebrate my birthday. Or the time a date brought me a flower. Or the times I’d get the most perfect message on my chocolate wrapper. Little, unexpected moments that make up a year. That’s what this whole project is about. Finding those pockets of happiness and documenting them.

So how did I feel when I woke up on January 1, 2015 and didn’t have to take a single picture of anything if I didn’t want to?

That about sums it up.

JOY. ELATION. HAPPINESS.

ZERO SADNESS.

ZERO.

I woke up and one of my most immediate thoughts was, “I don’t have to take a photo today if I don’t want to! I CAN JUST GO ABOUT MY DAY AND NOT PHOTOGRAPH A SINGLE DAMN THING. THIS IS FREEEEEDOM!”

Look. I understand I decided to take on this project, but Good Lord, I am happy it is over. I am happy I can take a photo when I want to, not because I have to.

If you’re thinking of tackling this insane photo challenge, I definitely encourage you to try it. I have one friend who is doing Project 365 for 2015 based on my doing it, and I hope she has a blast. It is fun and it’s a good way to document your life, especially if it’s something you don’t do often enough and want to get in the habit. It really makes you take a look at your life and celebrate both the big and little moments. They all matter, and I’m so happy I have this little album to look back on, to see what 2014 was like for me and what I found important to document.

Have you completed Project 365? Your thoughts? Or, would you ever consider attempting this photo project?

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The Tampa Bay Project: Dachshund’s Bar & Grill

One of my goals for my Tampa Bay Project is to visit 10 non-chain restaurants in the Tampa Bay area. I mentioned this in the original post, but for someone who has grown up in the area, I am embarrassingly unfamiliar with Tampa’s points of interest. And when it comes to restaurants, I tend to stick to my old favorites (which are usually chains). So, this is a way for me to step a bit outside my comfort zone, try some Tampa area staples, and maybe find a new favorite restaurant.

One such restaurant I visited was Dachshund’s Bar & Grill. My mom had mentioned this restaurant in passing a while back, and I thought it would be fun to go there but pushed it to the back of my mind. Then, as I was trying to find something fun to do this weekend, I saw Dachshund’s was running a Groupon – $12 for $20 worth of food! I was sold.

So we went and it was fabulous. Dachshund’s Bar & Grill is nestled in an unassuming shopping center in the Town n Country area of Tampa. It’s a brand-spankin’-new restaurant that just opened in August. There is a good amount of outdoor seating, which is nice for those who bring their pets. On the inside, dachshund prints line the walls and I could maybe live here. Yes. They are also incredibly dog-friendly, which makes sense with their namesake, but it was nice that Dutch wasn’t an annoyance, but that they loved him being there.

When my mom and I went on Saturday afternoon, we were told we could bring Dutch inside. So we did, but I could tell Dutch is a little too neurotic for that. He wanted to explore! Annnnd then he almost peed on a wall, so I hustled him outside to do his business. After that, we decided to sit outside. Luckily, it was a nice day (low 70s – don’t hate!)

My mom and I both ordered the same thing: the Chicago Shepard, a 1/4 pound Black Angus hot dog served on a poppyseed bun and topped with raw onions, relish, mustard, tomato slices, peppers, and a dash of celery salt. It was delicious! I am not a big fan of hot dogs (well, the animal version, yes. The food version, not so much.), but this place has sold me. I am already thinking about the next time I can go back!

Dutch was also a fan. He ate his fair share of french fries (even stole one off my plate!) and a tiny bite of the wiener. We’ll definitely be back!

Of course, Dachshund’s Bar & Grill isn’t the only Tampa Bay area restaurant I’ve visited since making my list. I’ve visited three other restaurants:

Harvey’s 4th Street Grill – A restaurant located in St. Pete, not too far from me. I went here with my mom a few months ago. It’s small, dark, and folksy. I went simple and ordered a burger and fries. They were good. Not life-changing, but good. I think breakfast would have been a better choice. Live and learn, right?
Datz – This is a Tampa staple, or so I am told. I went for Ladies’ Happy Hour with work friends, and I really, really want to go back! I ordered a sandwich, the Hansel & Gretel, which was ham, swiss cheese, and beer cheese fondue on a pretzel bun. It was good, but I’m not a huge fan of ham and, at the risk of tomatoes being thrown at me, too much cheese on my sandwich. (I would opt for no cheese, in most cases.) But, for those who like ham & cheese? You’d love it.
Nicki’s Omelette & Grill – I went here with some work friends last week. It’s a cute little diner in Tampa, and I was told they make the best breakfast anywhere. I ordered French toast, which was made on their homemade bread, and I will say it was very, very good. I want to try an omelet next time! I’m not very picky with breakfast, so I don’t know if it’s the best I’ve ever had (I’d venture to say I would rather go for Ciccio’s brunch, if I had to make a decision), but it was very good and I want to go back soon!

If I came to visit your city, what is a must-visit restaurant you would recommend and why?

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On August

Highlights of August: attending my first Miami Dolphins football game, supporting my friend as she taught her first-ever spin class (which reminded me how much I dearly love spin), celebrating my one-year “workaversary,” and going on a ghost tour with a bunch of girlfriends. August was good to me. It was fast and busy, but also slow and relaxing. I need a good mixture of busy and relaxing to feel satisfied, and that’s exactly what this month was.

I didn’t make my goal of working out 31 times in August. At the end of the month, I logged 25 workouts. And honestly? I don’t feel bad about that because that’s still very, very good! But I’ve decided not to try to log 30 workouts in September. As much as I loved taking on this challenge for the past two months, I’ve been noticing that my workouts don’t have intention behind them. I’m not working toward any specific goal, simply working out to cross off another day on my list. I want my workouts to be less about logging in the most workouts I can, and more about quality workouts that help me meet specific fitness goals. I’m not sure I’m explaining myself well, but basically, I’ve found myself going for a quick 20-minute walk or doing a simple 15-minute strength workout and calling it good. And while, yes, that is exercise and it does count… I need more intention and more focus with my workouts, and I think the only way to do that is to focus less on quantity and more on quality.

Work-wise, August has been delightfully insane. My workload increased dramatically, I was given two new clients (with more to come!), I celebrated my one-year anniversary and had my review (which went wonderfully!), I got a raise, and I’m now eligible to participate in my company’s work-from-home program. Currently, we’re only allowed to work from home two days a month, but I’m hoping more writers will try this out and it will expand! All in all, it’s been a full year of writing professionally and I’m still so darn happy. I’m very, very grateful.

Ready for some exciting news? I’m going to be an aunt again! My sister-in-law is pregnant and due in March with Baby #2. I honestly didn’t think she would have another baby because she seemed so satisfied as a mom of one, so this was such a pleasant surprise! I’m so excited to have another squishy newborn to hold and spoil and love.

I rejoined OK Cupid this month. I’m trying to be excited about the prospect of dating again – and in most respects, I am – but I’m still dealing with some residual feelings from my crush and I’m trying to psyche myself up for the world of OKC again. I’ve not yet gone on a date (I was chatting with a few guys, but nothing ever evolved), and I had a good friend look over my dating profile, and she, very nicely, told me that my profile gave off feelings of insecurity and being unimpressed with the whole process. (Accurate? Maybe.) I really need to shift my focus. I need to be excited about dating and the adventures that can ensue. More importantly, though, I need to have hope that love is possible for me.

There is this small part of me that has begun to regret waiting until the fall of 2015 to move into my own apartment. I’m getting the itch to be on my own and be fully independent. I mean, I’m turning 27 in a few months. I think it’s time, ya know?! But my mom and I will sign our lease this month and we’ll remain in this apartment for another year. When I do move out, I want to feel completely prepared and that mostly comes down to finances. My bank account will take a major hit from move-in costs alone, not to mention that I need to buy furniture, kitchenware, and other random necessities. I’ve already begun apartment hunting, just to see what’s out there and to get a feel for how much move-in costs will be ($1,500 for the community I looked at this past weekend. Whimper.), so I can start preparing and be ready for this big change come next fall.

September is the month of birthdays: my brother, my nephew, and my future stepdad all celebrate their birthdays this month! It’s also the kickoff to NFL football, which, of course, includes fantasy football and participation in a few “pick ’em” leagues. And it’s the month I’m going to finally meet one of my most beloved blogging friends, Nora. (SO darn excited about that!) My biggest priority for September is going to be getting on track with healthy eating. I’ve not gone off the rails, but I need to tighten things up and get back to drinking lots of water and eating less sugar.

What was the highlight of your month?