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Categories: Life

A Recap of July

In July, I…

  • Had some very complicated feelings about the Fourth of July. I’ll be honest: it was really hard to feel patriotic this year. I was sick during the holiday, so I spent the majority of the day in bed watching Friends and stayed off social media as much as I could. It’s just hard to feel proud to be an American right now. The leader of our country is someone who doesn’t abide by morals or ethics. The party in power is filled with money-hungry, spineless idiots. Asylum seekers are having their children ripped away from them. The president is shaking hands with dictators and putting our global partners on blast. It’s just really hard to be a proud American right now. I’m proud of the resistance. I’m proud of the people who get up and fight against this administration every day. But I’m not proud of our leaders and I just want this nightmare to be over already.
  • Celebrated my mom’s birthday. My mom’s birthday was early in July, and we had a low-key celebration for her. My brother and I went to her apartment to have a game night where we ordered pizza and I made a cake for her. Then, on Sunday, I brought her mini-doughnuts and took her out to lunch. I always love celebrating my mom!
  • Spent a weekend at Anna Maria Island with my friends. I talked all about this weekend previously, but suffice it to say, it was such a lovely weekend and it’s one I’m going to remember so fondly. I love this tribe of girlfriends I have in my life, and I can’t wait for even more adventures with them.
  • Had all of the doctor’s appointments. For some reason, July was the month of all of the doctor’s appointments. The majority of them were just regular annual checkups, like a dentist appointment, gyn exam, and seeing the eye doctor. I also saw my regular doctor to discuss adjusting my anxiety meds and getting my thyroid levels checked.
  • Attended a Friends trivia night at a pub. Oh, this was so much fun! A few friends got together when we heard a local pub was hosting a Friends trivia night. I thought I might be able to help since I’m currently rewatching the series, but it’s amazing how many questions I couldn’t answer. Ha. Still, we had a ton of fun and the restaurant was packed. It’s amazing to see how this show has impacted so many of us, decades after the show ended.

In August, I will…

  • See Crazy Rich Asians with some work friends. I’m really looking forward to this movie! I didn’t love the book as much as most people did (it was a 3-star read for me), but the movie looks fantastic.
  • Celebrate five years at my job. It’s blowing my mind that August marks five years! It’s been a really fun five years. This past year has been a tough one with most of my close work friends moving on to new companies and opportunities, but I’m still really enjoying what I do and I don’t take that for granted at all.
  • Take my mom on a dolphin tour. For Christmas, my brother and I purchased tickets to go on a dolphin tour with my mom, and we’re finally going to go in August. It should be a super fun afternoon and I hope we see some dolphins!

Tell me something good that happened in your life in July!

Categories: Life

My Favorite Podcasts (Round 5)

It’s that time of the year – time to talk about my current favorite podcasts! Once a year, I like to compile a list of my recent favorites to help anyone who’s looking for something new to add to their feed. I’ve been a religious podcast user since 2014. I have one constantly playing while I’m driving, cleaning, going for walks, getting ready for work, winding down for bed, and even sometimes while I’m working. Me and podcasts go together like peanut butter and jelly. 😉

This year, I decided to break this post into specific categories and talk about my favorites in those categories. This post is looooong (it’s possible I listen to too many podcasts), so settle in, friends. Let’s get to it!

Bookish Podcasts

All the Books! – Learn all about new releases from this podcast, hosted by Liberty Hardy and a rotating mix of co-hosts. I love that they don’t only talk about the buzzy books, but ones that may fall under the radar. I find myself fast-forwarding through a lot of this, especially if they’re talking about a book that’s already on my TBR list or in a genre I don’t read (I’ve given up on books of short stories, just not my thing!). But it’s fun and short and Liberty always makes me laugh.

Annotated – This podcast uses a storytelling format to discuss interesting topics in the world of books and reading. Every episode is short, around 20 minutes, and I find that it’s the perfect length for a simple news-y bookish story. I wish the audio was a bit better because I can’t really listen to this podcast in my car (I don’t have Bluetooth; I just turn the volume up to the max to listen when I’m driving), but I would still consider it a well-produced show.

The Baby-Sitters Club Club – By far, my favorite podcast! Jack and Tanner, two men in their thirties, discuss The Baby-Sitter’s Club series from beginning to end. They are funny, self-deprecating, and never fail to have really interesting takeaways from these books. They have segments like “Burn of the Week,” “Claudia’s Closet,” and “Tearful Moment,” and I still love the idea that Jackie Rodowsky, walking disaster, is actually a time traveler. If you’re going to listen to this podcast, you must start at the beginning. The inside jokes will make no sense otherwise. But believe me, it’s well worth it.

Book Riot – The Podcast – A long-time favorite of mine, this podcast has been on this list from the beginning. Jeff and Rebecca, who run the Book Riot website, talk about everything that’s happening in the publishing world today and have really great conversations about diversity, inclusion, and sexism. It’s really my go-to recommendation for anyone who loves books because being a book lover is about more than reading – it’s also about the publishing industry and how it can so easily marginalize the voices we need to hear the most.

What Should I Read Next? – Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs. Darcy fame hosts this bookish podcast, where guests are given book recommendations after they tell Anne three books they loved, one book they hated, and what they’ve been reading lately. The episodes are longer now than they were in the beginning because Anne delves deep into the guest’s reading life before diving into the recommendation segment and that’s always fun. I love learning about how other people live and experience their own bookish lives.

Interview-Style Podcasts

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard – Dax Shepard has a podcast! And it’s fantastic! Dax is a phenomenal interviewer, mostly because he’s not afraid to ask tough questions and get super vulnerable with his guests. He mostly interviews celebrities but has started to interview actual experts lately (like a child psychologist). Every episode is so fascinating and it’s fun to learn about these celebrities in an entirely different way. Every episode ends with fact check segment, where Dax’s producer sits down and tells him everything he got factually wrong during the interview.

Real Talk Radio with Nicole Antoinette – I’ve been listening to Nicole’s podcast from the beginning and I’m even a subscriber to her Patreon because I wanted to show my support in a tangible way. Real Talk Radio is broken down into seasons, with eight episodes per season, and I’ve been really impressed with the diversity of guests she has been inviting on her show lately. It’s so important to listen and engage in alternate viewpoints, and I feel like I really get a chance to do that with this show.

Feminist Podcasts

Call Your Girlfriend – Hosted by two best friends who live on opposite sides of the country, this podcast is one of those that I go through periods of loving and loathing, ha. (One of the hosts can be a bit grating at times, I’ll be honest.) Right now, though, I’m loving it and taking comfort in their rants about the state of politics today. The episodes range from interview-style where they talk to authors, activists, political leaders, and other women doing cool things to just regular chit-chat where they discuss what’s going on in pop culture and politics today.

Unladylike – If this isn’t in your podcast feed, why the hell not? It’s fantastic and covers so many important topics affecting feminists today. It’s hosted by Cristen and Caroline, who used to be the hosts of Stuff Mom Never Told You, and they have put together a seriously engaging podcast. Each episode features short interviews with women, as well as facts-based research to back up their claims. They’ve talked about the true cost of abortion, surviving menopause when you’re going through it wayyy earlier than you ever expected, and what it’s like to be a “weedpreneur.”

Culture Podcasts

Death, Sex & Money – Host Anna Sale interviews celebrities and regular people to talk about those taboo subjects we like to keep quiet: death, sex, and money. Recent episodes have included people talking about their student loan debt, their thoughts on manhood today, and what it’s like to date in today’s online world. The episodes are short, usually less than 30 minutes in length. I also really love Anna’s interviewing style and the way she digs into the real heart of the matter.

Good Christian Fun – Did you grow up with Christian pop cultures in the 90s and early aughts? If so, please do yourself a favor and listen to this podcast. It’s hosted by two Christians, but both of them have been through their own journey of faith over the past few years. Every week, they discuss something in Christian pop culture, as well as hunt for the “Worst Christian song of all time.” Each episode includes a guest who may or may not be a Christian, and it’s always super eye-opening when they talk about their own journey of faith. This podcast has been a defining part of my world over the past year, helping me come to terms with my own crisis of faith.

Keep It! – A Crooked Media podcast that talks about pop culture through the lens of politics. It’s hosted by culture critic Ira Madison III, writer Kara Brown, and writer Louis Virtel, and it definitely makes me think about my white, cis-gender privilege. Kara is not afraid to tell it like it is and that can make her seem unlikable to some, but she really challenges my viewpoints and beliefs. I’m not really that involved with what’s going on in pop culture (I probably couldn’t name one Drake song off the top of my head, honestly), but there’s something about the way that these three discuss pop culture that has me hooked every week. Give it a listen!

Smartest Person in the Room – This podcast is broken down into seasons, each with a specific focus, and the latest season was easily the best and one that everyone needs to listen to. Host Laura Tremaine dubbed it the “bias” series, but it’s really about race and what it’s like to be black in America today. Other series have included religion, mind/body, and Hollywood. I love Laura’s interviewing style and anticipate every new season.

Political Podcasts

Lovett or Leave It – This game show-style podcast is my favorite way to consume politics today. It’s hosted by former Obama speechwriter, Jon Lovett, and each week, there are three new guests on the panel to discuss what’s happening in politics lately and play some fun games. No matter how depressing the news is, Lovett and his guests find a way to keep things light-hearted (within reason – sometimes, it’s just not possible) and get people laughing.

Pod Save America – Is any podcast list complete without Pod Save America? This political podcast is hosted by four former Obama staffers who go through the news in a serious yet also light-hearted manner. They don’t hold back their emotions, so you hear their anger, their discouragement, their shock, and sometimes their humor (because sometimes, the only way to get through this is to laugh at the absurdity.) I’ll be honest and say that I have to take breaks from this podcast every now and then when the news is just too depressing. But, generally, it’s one of my favorites to listen to because it’s just so damn informative. As someone who didn’t follow politics closely at all until the recent election, I find that I learn something new with every episode.

Football Podcasts

Fantasy Focus Football – Oh yes, I am that much of a football nerd that I listen to actual football podcasts. They basically take up my feed during football season! This one is hosted by two fantasy football experts and an injury analyst, and they basically just break down what you should be doing with your fantasy team every week. I don’t listen to every episode (during football season, it’s on five times a week), but it’s informative, funny, and easy listening.

Nickel Package – This podcast is a bit different from what’s out there in the podcasting space, as it has five episodes a week, each with a different set of hosts. These hosts bring to the table different types of football knowledge, so they share updates related to that knowledge. I only listen to Thursday episodes when Mina Kimes and Domonique Foxworth host (or, as they call it, “minority Thursdays”) because their rapport is so perfect. They bicker as a brother and sister would, and it’s everything to me. I feel like this is what hosting a podcast with my brother would be like, ha. Also, both of them have so much football knowledge that it blows my mind.

Miscellaneous

This American Life – Easily one of the best podcasts around, solely due to its honest storytelling format. One of my coworkers listens to TAL religiously, and we often have long conversations about the episodes because they truly blow my mind. TAL is weird in the fact that I never get super excited when one of the episodes downloads to my feed, but once I start one, it draws me in immediately and I’m hooked. The power of Ira Glass, I guess.

The Girl Next Door – I’m still not fully caught up with this podcast, and I kinda think it’s weird how much I love it since it’s so focused on motherhood, but there’s just something about Kelsey and Erica that appeals to me! In this podcast, two friends have an hour-long chat about a certain topic. They talk about cleaning routines, habits, marriage after motherhood, money, creative projects, and soooo much more. It’s just one of those podcasts that is light-hearted, fun, hilarious, and always puts me in a better mood.

Stuff You Should Know – One of my oldest favorites! Josh and Chuck are basically my honorary uncles by now, and I adore them so much. Every episode delves into a new topic about… well… anything! Somehow, after a decade of releasing two episodes a week, they have not run out of topics to talk about. THERE IS SO MUCH WE NEED TO KNOW. Recent episodes have included gerrymandering, the Stanford Prison Experiment, diabetes, anarchism, Genghis Khan, and birth control.

Do you listen to podcasts? If so, I’d love to know some of your favorites that weren’t included in this list! Gimme!

Categories: Life

A Recap of June

In June, I…

  • Blew another tire on the highway. This would mark the second time in seven months that I’ve experienced a tire blowout on my way to work. I have to drive across a very busy highway to get to work, and something like this is never an expected thing. Thankfully, I was able to get the spare put on and then drove straight to a tire shop to get a new tire. Ever since this happened, though, I have anxiety as I merge onto the highway, worried that another tire is going to blow.
  • Puppy-sat for my fur-brother. My mom and stepdad took a pre-anniversary trip in early June, which meant I got to spend a whole week with Chip. It was a ton of fun, even though he is a lot of work because he’s only three months old and busy, busy, busy! But it was nice to have a dog to come home to every day and spend time with. He makes my heart so happy!
  • Had a fancy dinner date at Bern’s Steakhouse. Our dinner was definitely an experience and one I’m so glad I did not miss! We had a delicious dinner and the steak I had was to die for. After dinner, we took a tour of the kitchen and wine cellar. Then, we went to their dessert room for dessert! I got an iced coffee that was so perfectly made and then a salted caramel brownie. I left feeling very full, and definitely like I got my money’s worth.
  • Successfully organized a group event. My team leader put me in charge of organizing a group outing for our team, and even though I was not sure I was the right person for the job, I pulled it off somehow. I had to gather ideas, decide on what event to do based on those ideas, come up with a time and place, etc. It was a lot! But it all worked out beautifully and all but one team member made it out. We ended up going to a local escape room, which was a total blast. It’s my third time doing an escape room and I can’t recommend them enough. My team (all women, yasss) escaped with five minutes to spare, so we were pretty thrilled!
  • Made it through a rough depressive episode. It’s not the first time I’ve had a depressive episode, but it’s the first time I actually sat with myself and said, “You’re depressed right now. That’s what this is.” I’ve never actually named it. But the intense sadness, the feeling of overwhelm by doing the simplest tasks, the need to be alone all the time, losing interest in some of my favorite activities… it was depression through and through. There were moments when I didn’t know if I was going to make it out because I was so suffocated by my depression, but I did.
  • Got my underarms waxed for the first time. My mom has been telling me for years to get my underarms waxed, ever since she started getting it done. I didn’t see the point in paying someone to do something I could do myself, but lately, I haven’t felt like I’ve been able to get a close-enough shave on my own (and also, I’m very lazy and hate shaving) so I bit the bullet and got it done. It hurt more than I was expecting, but I’m also a straight-up baby when it comes to pain. But I’m really happy with the results!
  • Saw two movies. I am not a movie-goer by nature, but I ended up in the theater twice this month. I saw Book Club and then Ocean’s 8 with my friends, and we went to a new-to-me theater called Studio Movie Grill where you order dinner to eat while watching the movie! I’ve been to Cinebistro in Tampa which has a similar concept, but it’s so much more expensive. A ticket alone can be as much as $18! And then the food is overpriced as well. Studio Movie Grill has normal-priced movie tickets and a much better menu for my taste. I’m a fan!

In July, I will…

  • Celebrate my mom’s birthday. I’m hoping to take her to Painting with a Twist one day this month for her birthday present. She’s been wanting to do one of these events for a while, and I think it would make the perfect mom/daughter date night!
  • Spend a weekend at Anna Maria Island. I mentioned on Friday that my girlfriends and I are planning to spend a weekend here, renting out a beach house. I’m really looking forward to it!
  • Pay off my car. YASSSS. Finally, finally, finally. I cannot wait to finally have my car fully paid off so that I can allocate that money to my other debts. Even though I wish I could have a fancy new car with all the bells and whistles they come with nowadays (I dream of Bluetooth), I am hoping my little toaster on wheels can keep on truckin’ for another few years at least.

What’s something good that happened in your life in June?

Categories: Life

A Recap of May

In May, I…

  • Took my tenth cruise. I had such a great time on this cruise and loved getting to spend some quality one-on-one time with my mom. She’s truly my favorite person to travel with because we just travel well together. Our cruise was all about adventure when we were in port and relaxation when we weren’t. I came home refreshed and satisfied, no post-vacation blues for me.
  • Welcomed a new pup into my family. My mom adopted Chip, a stinkin’-cute red miniature dachshund who is 3 lbs of sass and silliness. He’s everything I need right now and has been a healing part of my grief journey since losing Dutch. I’m trying to visit him as much as I can right now, and my mom brought him over to spend the day with me on my last two work-from-home days, which I loved. He’s busy and playful and crazy, but damn if I don’t love every second of it.
  • Got sick, twice. Oh man, May was not a good month for my health. I got sick the day after coming home from my cruise (my mom was sick, so I’m pretty sure I picked it up from her) and it was a standard head cold – congestion, sneezing, headache, scratchy throat. I took a lot of Dayquil and recovered within a few days. And then, probably a week later, I got sick again. Wah! This time it was a sinus infection and I had to go to my doctor to get an antibiotic. I spent way too much money on medicine and comfort food this month, that’s for damn sure.
  • Played real golf. In mid-May, my work closed the office early and we all convened at a golf course in Brandon for an afternoon of golfing. I tried to hit a few balls, but it was pretty obvious from early on that real golf is not my forte, so I was happy to ride along in the golf cart and watch the “pros” do it. 🙂 Even still, it was nice to get out of the office and hang out with coworkers I wouldn’t normally be around.
  • Saw my circle of work besties shrink. I am so happy for my friends who are moving on to different companies and growing their careers, but it’s hard to see my circle of work besties shrink. At one point, there were eight of us and now I’m down to two besties! As someone who is ridiculously shy, I have a very hard time making friends and it was so nice to have this big group of girls to make work days better. It’s put me in a funk because what we had was so special and I’m not sure I’m ever going to get something like that again.

In June, I will…

  • Babysit my fur-brother! My mom and stepdad are taking an early anniversary trip in June and I was more than happy to offer my puppy-sitting services while they’re away. They’re going to be gone 8-9 days, so I’ll get oodles and oodles of Chip time. (Prepare your Instagrams, friends.)
  • Have my first Bern’s Steakhouse experience. Can you believe I’ve lived in Tampa Bay my entire life and have never visited this iconic restaurant? It’s been the focus of so many “best of” lists and it’s a place here that everyone talks about. I cannot wait to have a fancy dinner date with all of my best girls!
  • See Ocean’s 8. Yes, yes, yessss. I am not a huge moviegoer in general, but I am definitely planning to see this one. Hopefully, I can get together a group of friends to see it together, but if not, maybe it’ll be my first solo movie experience!

How was your May?

Categories: Life

All the Jobs I’ve Had

A few weeks ago, Kate wrote this super interesting blog post detailing some of the jobs she’s had in her life. I loved it so much that I decided to steal her idea. This blog post is long, but hopefully it’s an interesting look at all of the different jobs I’ve had over the course of my life. Enjoy!

Baby-Sitter

The summer after fifth grade, my grandma decided to hire me as a babysitter for my twin cousins who were four and her next-door neighbor’s granddaughter, who was a few years younger than me. It wasn’t babysitting in the real sense of the word because my grandma was always there, but she just wanted me to hang out with them and keep them out of trouble and she’d pay me. Fine by me!

Unfortunately, this arrangement didn’t last very long because, well, I kinda just wanted to be alone. I didn’t want to hang out with three kids with tons of energy every day during the summer. I wanted to read! And write silly stories! So I just stopped hanging out with them and thus, the baby-sitting money dried up.

Daycare Cleaner

When I was twelve, my brother and I helped out at the daycare where my mom worked, cleaning toys and chairs. I suspect it was my mom’s way of keeping us from spending the entire summer inside, but we got paid and it was a fun little gig! I can’t remember how long we did it, but it definitely wasn’t very long. We started washing all of the toys in the center and then moved on to washing all of the chairs with bleach. An odd little job, for sure, but I remember having the time of my life working side-by-side with my brother.

Associate at Panera Bread

I was in 10th grade when I applied for a job at Panera Bread, and I was thrilled to be hired! My brother had started working at 15 and I was feeling a little self-conscious about not having a high school job. I attended a training in Tampa and I came home bursting with all sorts of facts about Panera that I’m sure my mom was oh-so-interested to hear.

And then I started working. And it did not live up to my expectations. For one thing, I was only scheduled to work on Saturday and Sunday evenings for a couple of hours. For another, I was basically a glorified dishwasher. I simply spent my time at work cleaning off tables, washing the dishes, and making sure the coffee was always fresh. I also had to sweep and mop the entire dining room on those nights, which was not an enjoyable job in the least. Every now and then, they’d schedule me to work at the register, but I was really not good at it because I couldn’t understand their menu system. This all sounds very whiny, I know, but I was sixteen and it was essentially my first job. I am allowed to be a little whiny, ya know?

Anyway, this job didn’t last very long. Maybe only a few months, until they told me that they no longer needed me anymore. I can’t say I was upset. Nope – I was super relieved and walked out of there with a spring in my step.

Associate at Aeropostale

I worked at this short-lived job the summer after 10th grade. How short-lived? One freaking day. This was such a weird situation because the store went through all this trouble to hire and train summer workers (there were around five of us in the training), but then decided they didn’t need any of us. I felt completely out of place at this job, though, so I wasn’t too mad about it.

Concessions Associate at a Movie Theater

I worked at my local movie theater the summer before I went off to college, and I loved it. I worked with a great group of young people (high schoolers and college kids) and we always had a blast, especially on Friday and Saturday nights when the movie theater was packed.

For the majority of my time at the movie theater, I worked in the concessions, which involved a lot of scooping popcorn, pouring drinks, and dealing with customers who were trying their best to earn that free movie ticket if I didn’t ask them if they wanted to try a combo. (True story.) Every now and then, I’d get to work in the box office, which was honestly my favorite because if I worked there on a slow weekday afternoon, it meant I could kick back and read a book – and get paid for it. Sounds like the perfect deal to me!

I stopped working at this job right before I left home to attend college. I thought about transferring to the movie theater near my college, but since I didn’t have a car, transportation would have been tricky. Oh, well. It was fun while it lasted!

Book Hustler at the Campus Bookstore

During my freshman year of college, I spent a few months working in the campus bookstore, in the textbooks. This was a time in my life when I was depressed and I needed something to do that wasn’t going to class or being alone in my dorm room, so I got a job working at the bookstore during their busy season (the end of fall semester/the beginning of spring semester). My first job was working in the buyback program, scanning the textbooks that students brought in and telling them how little they were going to get back. (Not the most fun job, that’s for sure.) Then, during the beginning of the spring semester, I helped students find the books they needed for their classes when they came into the bookstore, as well as packaged up books for students who placed online orders.

I really, really enjoyed this job and had a blast during the few weeks I got to work here. It got me out of my dorm room, too, which is exactly what I needed at this time. I wish it could have lasted longer, though. (I was really hoping I would be hired to work in the actual bookstore, but it wasn’t to be.)

Infant Teacher at a Daycare

The summer after my freshman year of college, I strolled into a daycare center, intent on applying to become an aftercare teacher for elementary-aged kids. At this point in my life, I was studying to become an elementary school teacher, and a lot of my peers in my classes worked in these types of aftercare programs. Unfortunately, this daycare center did not have such a program, but they did have an opening for an infant teacher. I decided to apply because hey, I needed a job. I was hired.

I spent this summer working full-time with infants and it was the best birth control I could have possibly asked for. Ha. But I loved those babies so much, and still remember each of their birthdays. As an infant teacher, my days involved changing diapers, feeding them, playing with them, taking them on short strolls around the yard, and rocking them to sleep. It wasn’t a bad job, but it was also pretty boring, and I didn’t always love the teachers they placed in my room.

Once the summer was up, I needed more flexibility with my school schedule, especially once I started interning at elementary schools for my teaching degree. My boss tried to work with me, but it just became too difficult to accommodate my crazy schedule, so I had to let the job go.

Office Assistant at a Printing Company

My mom was friends with the wife of the owner of this printing company, so she got me the job as a glorified office assistant for the summer after my sophomore year of college. My main job was to answer the phones, sign for packages, and do the invoices, all of which took approximately 5% of my workday. Every now and then, they would let me run a printing job, which was always fun. I wish I got to do more of that!

The printing company was tiny, as the only employees were the two owners, an older gentleman who ran the printing presses, and me. For the majority of the time, I was alone in the office. There was a TV right next to my desk, and I was told I could watch whatever I wanted, so I just tuned it so I could watch The Price is Right and sitcoms like Reba and George Lopez. They also didn’t care if I fooled around online, so honestly, I got paid to watch TV and fill out surveys on Xanga. Tough life.

“Floating” Teacher at a Daycare

Another daycare! What am I even thinking? Well, I’m thinking that I have experience in a daycare setting and I like that working in a daycare keeps my weekends free. I started this job at the beginning of 2009, which would technically be my junior year of college, but since I changed degrees, I wouldn’t end up graduating college until 2011. But anyway, I started this job and I was basically deemed a “floater,” which meant I would be placed in whatever room needed a teacher.

So, one week I might be in the infant class, the next week the two-year-old class, and the following week working with the pre-k kids. Daycare centers have a pretty crazy turnover rate with teachers (it’s a tough job!) and each class always has to maintain the proper ratio of children to teachers, so I basically just jumped into a room whenever they needed an extra pair of hands to maintain that ratio. I’d also help out with making breakfast and lunch and distributing it around to the different classrooms, and giving bathroom breaks to the teachers. (Man, once I started a “normal” job and realized I could go the bathroom whenever I wanted… my life changed.)

I worked this job all the way until I graduated college, and near the end of my schooling, I had to drop down to just working a few hours in the morning and I am so grateful that my boss was able to accommodate my schedule.

Marketing Assistant

My first post-grad job was working as a marketing assistant for a direct marketing company, a job I worked at for two years from 2011 to 2013. I was so excited to get hired so quickly out of college that I didn’t even balk at the starting salary (brace yourselves… $25,000 before taxes).

My boss managed the intense marketing campaigns for the different promotions we ran throughout the year, and she was so overwhelmed with work that she needed an assistant to help with the more mundane administrative tasks. So my job involved stuff like filing, creating promo codes for the different ads we ran, and editing ads. Gradually, I was given more and more responsibility as I grew in my position and truly became more of a marketing data analyst than a marketing assistant. A good chunk of my workload involved data analysis.

I started looking for a new job just a year after being with this company because I wasn’t happy. One of the biggest reasons for my unhappiness was that I never really had enough work to keep me busy, so I was bored a lot. Another reason for my unhappiness was the fact that my salary wasn’t proportional to the tasks I was doing, and I knew I’d never get the raise I deserved. But I think the biggest reason I started looking for a new job so soon after starting this one was the fact that I didn’t want to do data analysis as a full-time job. It wasn’t a passion of mine.

SEO Content Writer

And now we’ve come to the end (nearly 2,000 words later, eeks!). I started working as an SEO content writer for an Internet marketing agency in 2013 and I have loved it since day one. I spend my days writing, editing, and doing online marketing strategy. It’s everything I could want in a job, honestly. I get a few work-from-home days during the month and my weekends start at 11:30 a.m. on Fridays. I get paid a decent wage and I feel acknowledged and accepted at this company.

When I started working here, my job was simple: write SEO content. But over the past four years, the job has changed dramatically that I can barely remember a time when all I did was write all day. It’s changed because my company has developed different growth opportunities for writers and also because SEO is an ever-evolving field and we’ve had to change our practices to grow with this industry. I honestly feel that no day is ever the same, and even if the writing can sometimes be mundane, there’s something comforting about that. I welcome those mundane days because they balance out the crazy ones.

Whew! So there you have it! All of the jobs I’ve had in my life. It’s crazy to see this evolution and was really fun to put this blog post together.

Tell me some of the interesting jobs you’ve had!

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