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Week in the Life: Thursday, November 9th

MORNING | I’m up a little before my alarm, snuggling Lila, so when it goes off at 7 a.m., I turn it off. And then I proceed to go back to sleep until 7:45. Oops! Eventually, I get up, pee, brush my teeth, feed the girls, and then sit down at my computer to finish up yesterday’s post. Afterward, I read a few blogs and then get my morning routine started. I do my morning skincare routine, make my bed, take my meds, and make breakfast. I also start a load of laundry. Around 9:30, I sit down at my desk to start work. But I am so unfocused this morning! Instead, I work on my budget, read some blogs, and scroll through Amazon for a while to look at their armchair selection. I get a call from my leasing office that maintenance needs access to my apartment to check for a leak my downstairs neighbor called in about. You guys, I was not ready for the maintenance man who showed up. He is beautiful and smells amazing. I need to have my tub unclogged at some point, but there is no way I can let him do that for me. I would be so embarrassed to have such a good-looking guy pulling hair out of my drain. SIGH. (Oh, and the leak issue is nothing to worry about as far as I know.) After all of that excitement, I finally get into work and decide it’s a Pomodoro kinda day. I use this productivity method when I’m feeling really unfocused because it keeps me on task, and I’m able to zip through a ton of to-dos this morning: working through some content assignments and reassignments, doing QA tasks, and writing a quick website page using ChatGPT. (Side note: Eloise is being super clingy this morning! She usually naps in the bedroom during the day, but she wants to be parked on the desk with me. I love a clingy cat so I make sure to give her lots of pets and kisses throughout the morning.)

AFTERNOON | My tummy is rumbling so I stop working to heat up lunch (leftovers from Tuesday night) and scroll through the Survivor Reddit forum while I do so to get everyone’s thoughts on last night’s episode. I Facetime with my mom about our plans tonight and then get back to work. I follow up with people on a bunch of overdue tasks and then put together my slide for our department meeting tomorrow. And then I decide it’s time to get out and take a walk, although it’s HOT today, ugh. Upper 80s with 52% humidity. I am not a fan! I pick up my mail at the end of my walk and I’m thrilled to see my Sephora package arrived. I ordered two new serums to try out. (I love The Ordinary products because they are so affordable!) And then it’s back to work for me. I clear out my inbox as much as I can and work through some QA tasks. I call it a day at 4:45. It was not my most productive day, but oh well.

NIGHT | I have my monthly dietician appointment and there is a lot to talk about! I won’t share all of the insights since I plan on writing a follow-up “Notes From My Dietician” post later this month, but it was a very helpful appointment. We talk about how to beef up my breakfast, how to improve my snacks so they are more satisfying, and lots more. Afterward, I read some blogs and tidy up the apartment a bit, and then it’s off to my mom’s house for the night! I get to her place around 7 p.m. and spend a lot of time letting the dogs kiss me. I love how excited they get to see me! My mom and I order Domino’s for dinner, which I haven’t had in a hot second, and it was really good! We watch the last 10 minutes of Jeopardy, and then it’s time for the real reason I came over: the Big Brother finale! We love this show and get obsessive about it while it’s on, and it was fun to watch it with her. I leave around 10 and start working on this post, reading blogs, and tidying up around the apartment. I also fold my laundry, but I’m too tired to put it away, so it’s a chore for tomorrow. I go to bed around 11:45 and watch ASMR videos until I’m falling asleep.

thursday in the life: 2022, 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014

What’s your favorite protein-packed snack? I need ideas!

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Wednesday, November 8th

MORNING | My alarm wakes me up at 7 a.m. and I have cats snuggled in on either side of me! I spend a lot of time snuggling with them as I slowly wake up. I finally get out of bed, pee, brush my teeth, feed the girls, and then sit on the couch for about 20 minutes reading my book and playing games on my phone. It’s such a calm way to start the day! At 8, I take a shower and then put on comfy clothes and brush out my hair. (No meetings today, which means I don’t have to worry about looking presentable! I do not do my hair every day; only on days I have a lot of meetings and/or have evening plans.) I do my morning skincare routine, take my meds, make my bed, and put away the dishes from last night. I make coffee and breakfast and then sit down to work right around 9. I go through my emails and send a Slack message to my boss, which prompts a 10-minute huddle between the two of us. Then, I put together a handful of content strategy plans and by the time I’m done with that, I just want a break, so I wash my breakfast dishes, check in on the girls, and play a few games on my phone.

AFTERNOON | I make lunch, which is leftovers from last night, so it’s a super easy meal to put together. I do today’s Duolingo lessons while everything is cooking up. I eat lunch and scroll through Reddit forums, like always. And then it’s back to work. I answer emails and then work through some QA tasks, which are very easy and allow me to listen to a podcast while I’m doing it. I love that! And then the afternoon slump hits me hard. But I don’t work in an office! I work from home and have a flexible job, so I take a siesta and Eloise curls up next to me, which is lovely. When I wake up, she wants to do somersaults all over the bed next to me, so we laze around a bit. And then it’s back to work: answering emails, more QA tasks, and another content strategy plan. I take some breaks to clean my bathroom and go for a walk right before it gets dark. When I get back from my walk, I finish up my workday by taking care of some client edits to a content plan and continuing my QA tasks. I wrap up for the day around 6:30.

NIGHT | I lose all motivation to do anything once I’m done with work, so I park myself on the couch for a good hour to read my book and play games on my phone. I should have started dinner, but instead, I opt to lump on the couch. Around 7:45, I finally get up and start dinner. It’s homemade nachos night! Yay! And it’s time for this week’s episode of Survivor. I eat dinner while watching Survivor and then sit on the couch to color for the rest of the show. Once Survivor is over, it’s time for this week’s episode of The Amazing Race so I continue to sit and color, although I do get up during the commercial breaks to clean the kitchen, scoop the litter boxes, and tidy the apartment. After the shows are done, I call my mom so we can debrief about the shows. It’s 11:30 when I hang up with her and I am too tired to do my skincare routine, so I skip it in favor of going right to bed.

wednesday in the life: 2022, 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014

Did you watch any TV shows yesterday?

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Tuesday, November 7th

MORNING | My alarm wakes me up at 7 a.m. and the girls are being very cuddly with me, so I laze around in bed for a bit. I get up 20 minutes later and feed the girls. Then, I brush my teeth, pull my hair into a half-down/half-up style, and put on yoga pants with a nice shirt (the ultimate work-from-home uniform!). I sit on the couch to read my book and play some games on my phone. Around 8, I make myself get off the couch, do my morning skincare routine, take my meds, and make my breakfast. (I don’t make my bed today since Eloise has found herself a cozy spot on the bed and I don’t have the heart to make her move.) I’m sitting down to work right around 8:30. I spend the first part of my day answering emails, working on meeting notes, and editing a batch of content. And then I have a one-on-one meeting with my boss, which is very productive. Afterward, I exchange some messages with one of my colleagues and then decide I’m tired and want a nap. I take a 30-minute siesta on the couch and wake up to Ellie poking me with one of her claws because she needs to be petted.

AFTERNOON | After my nap, I make lunch and eat it while scrolling Reddit forums. And then it’s time to log into my weekly meeting with the other content managers. I always enjoy this meeting; it’s fun to chit-chat with the other managers (we’re all women, which helps!) and brainstorm solutions to some of the issues we all come across. I jump from that meeting to another one, this time with my fave coworker. Sometimes, we use this time to do work and sometimes, we need a venting session. Today, she needed to vent so that’s what we do. I’m able to get some work done during our call, like putting together a content strategy plan and answering some emails. Afterward, I take a break to put some chicken in the Crock-Pot (not sure if this will be dinner tonight or lunch tomorrow… we’ll see!) and take a short 15-minute walk outside. I was able to wear my hair down for the walk and didn’t feel like dying! We’re making progress with our weather. I get back to work after my walk and answer some Slack messages, go through my emails, and then start working on creating content briefs for a client. We’re trying to figure out the word count for this specific project so we can accurately resource plan with our content team. I also call into a town hall, but since I only have to listen, I’m able to continue my work. A few hours later, I am finished with the content briefs. Yay! I clear out my inbox before shutting down for the night.

NIGHT | I feed the girls and then get my own dinner ready! Thankfully, my chicken is all done even though I threw it in the Crock-Pot later than I intended. I shred the chicken (salsa chicken – easiest recipe: just throw in chicken and salsa into the Crock-Pot and let it cook for a few hours) and then make corn and rice. I throw it all in a bowl together and eat it while reading blogs. It’s a tasty meal for sure, and I’ll have leftovers for lunch for the next few days. Once I’m finished with dinner, I take a bubble bath and then sit on the couch to read for a bit. Lila comes up to me for pets so I multitask! Eventually, I get up from the couch so I can do my nighttime routine, work on this post, and read some blogs. (I’m trying my best to keep up!) I also clean up the kitchen, which is a bit of a wreck from the day. By the time all is said and done, it’s 11pm and I am very tired. I read just a chapter of my novel before turning on an ASMR video to lull me to sleep.

tuesday in the life: 2022, 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015, and 2014

What’s one of your fave easy meals?

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Monday, November 6th

MORNING | My alarm goes off at 7 a.m. and I lounge in bed for another 30 minutes. I have really been enjoying lazy, relaxing mornings on the weekdays. Eventually, I get up and feed the girls. I take a shower and then sit on the couch for 20 minutes reading my book. Bliss. Then, I do my morning skincare routine, blow-dry and straighten my hair, make my bed, take my meds, and make breakfast. My current holy grail is raw batana oil. I also try to do some tidying around my apartment in between all of my morning tasks. (I left it a bit messy last night, oops.) I finally sit down in front of my work computer to start my workday at 9:30. I spend the first hour of my workday embroiled in answering emails. I try to keep a very clean email inbox throughout the day because one filled with emails I need to answer just stresses me out. Once my inbox is in order, I tackle one of my to-do’s for the day: putting together a few content strategy plans for some of our clients. Typically, this isn’t part of my job but we’re understaffed and I offered to jump in and help out our strategy team. It’s a pretty easy task for me, so I don’t mind it!

AFTERNOON | I thought I had a meeting at 11:30, but it’s actually at 12:30, and I know I’ll need to eat lunch beforehand so I’m not starving during the meeting. So I stop working around noon and make lunch. I eat while scrolling through a Reddit forum and then it’s time to log into my meeting! Our organization is currently moving away from our current project management system (Monday) and into Salesforce, which will be wonderful when it’s all done, but right now, there are a lot of moving parts and process questions. Since I handle all of the content assignments, it’s going to be a major shift in the way I do things. This meeting is with the team managing this transition to talk through some of the questions we have about process issues that may arise. It’s a productive meeting and afterward, my boss calls me to debrief. Then, I decide it’s time for some sunshine so I lace up my shoes and take a walk. The rest of my day was rather uneventful! I manage our contractor program, so I spend the afternoon working through tasks associated with them: editing content, doing QA of posted content, answering emails, etc. I finish up my last task of the day a little after 5pm. I’m not usually finishing up that early (since I get started later in the morning), but I have plans tonight!

NIGHT | My goal was to be out the door by 5:15 but that is not going to happen. I feed the girls, get dressed in real people clothes, and grab my book. And then I make the drive over to Tampa to attend this month’s Silent Book Club event. I order a drink (guava cider – so good!) and dinner (a flatbread pepperoni pizza) and then chat with the women who are seated at my table. Small talk is not my favorite, but thankfully, I can always bring the convo back to books and that’s an easy subject for me to chat about. Eventually, it’s time for an hour of silent reading. I read 75 pages of my book. Yay! Afterward, there is more chatting before I head out. I get home a little after 8:30 and I Facetime with my mom for a bit. And then I do my nighttime routine, work on this post, and realize that I haven’t put together the Instagram graphic for our podcast episode that’s releasing tomorrow. Chaos! Eventually, I get it all done and it’s so very late when I’m finally ready for bed. (11:30, ugh) It’s going to be one of those nights where I cue up an ASMR video on YouTube and go right to sleep!

monday in the life: 2022, 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015. and 2014

How do you feel about small talk? What’s a subject that will get you talking no matter what?
Categories: Recurring Series

Five for Friday (v. 99)

1) I’m getting LASIK today! My appointment time is 1:00. I expected the procedure to happen in the morning, but apparently today is a busy day for LASIK procedures. (Probably because they had to cancel a few weeks of procedures due to the ophthalmologist being out on medical leave.) But this means I can have a low-key morning at least! My mom and I are planning to have lunch beforehand and then we’ll go to the surgery center together. I’m going to spend the night at her place since I have to have my post-op eye check early Saturday morning. Hopefully, I’ll get the all-clear to drive then! I’m both super excited to finally get this done and nervous that I’ll be one of those few people who have post-op complications. It will all be okay! I know that.

2) I did something this week that I’m a little apprehensive about owning up to, but I will: I marked all of my unread blog posts as “read” on Feedly. I was getting so behind on my feed and the unread number kept creeping higher and higher every day, and it was really stressing me out. Which is silly because blogging is meant to be fun. It’s a hobby, not a job. So I decided to start over with a fresh feed and the goal to try to “clear out” my Feedly daily. Will that be possible? I don’t know, especially once NaBloPoMo hits, but I’m going to try out this new system and see if it helps me feel less overwhelmed by Feedly.

3) I’m currently enjoying a six-day staycation. I knew I wanted to take some time off for my LASIK procedure and I haven’t taken any time off since July, so my soul was ready for a long(ish) break from work. Yesterday was a really lovely, slow day for me. I went to a coffee shop and read 100 pages of my book, was able to help out my cousin who needed me to pick up my uncle from an appointment at the hospital (he’s getting weekly fluids/medication), and ran a few errands before coming home and taking a nice, long afternoon nap. The nap involved a VERY disturbing dream where I was on a cruise ship and we had to stop the ship because a dolphin had gotten trapped in the… rudders? IDK. It was a horrifying dream!

4) One of my errands yesterday was a quick stop at Bath & Body Works. I needed a new scent for my Wallflower air freshener and a new scent for my car. I thought this would be a quick visit—just grab a yummy fall scent for both purposes and that’s it. Alas, Bath & Body Works already has their holiday scents out and their three-wick candles were $10 off. I was SUNK. I wanted to smell all of the candles! And I definitely did. And then it took me forever to find the perfect scents to go home with. I ended up leaving with two Wallflower scents, three car scents, and a candle. I almost bought two candles, but I decided to temper myself. It’s not even November. I don’t need to stock up on all of the holiday scents just yet! I was a little disappointed that Bath & Body Works didn’t have many fall scents, though. I guess it’s time for my apartment to start smelling like a Christmas tree already. There are worse problems.

5) I weighed Ellie the other day and was pleased to discover that she’s gained half a pound since her vet appointment! Yay! I had a feeling her weight loss wasn’t from anything serious, but rather just not eating enough. She’s not a cat that’s very food-motivated (she’ll turn down treats if she’s not interested) so I figured if I gave her food that was a little more exciting, she’d be all about it. And she has been!

I also feel like Lila has lost some weight since she doesn’t have access to food 24/7. Her waistline looks more defined. She will not let me pick her up to weigh her, of course. But she looks like she has lost weight, so that works for me.

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