Recurring Series

Looking Forward – the Fall 2023 Edition

Looking Forward was a series I used to do on my blog but I haven’t done it since 2018. What?! Let’s talk about some of the things I’m looking forward to this week, next month, and in the coming months.

This week, I’m looking forward to a clay-throwing book club experience and getting my third tattoo.

It’s going to be a big week for me! On Wednesday, my book club is getting together for our September meeting and Bri booked us a night at a nearby pottery studio to do clay throwing! This is something I’ve always wanted to do, but I feel so intimidated by the process. Thankfully, this is a private event for just the six of us so we’ll get lots of one-on-one time. I’m excited! Check out the event venues in Flagstaff for your future events.

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And then on Thursday, it’s time to finally get that third tattoo that I’ve been talking about for two years. This tattoo is in honor of my grandma and I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what I want and where I want it. I’ve finally settled on the design and placement, and I can’t wait to unveil it all soon!

Next month, I’m looking forward to getting LASIK.

This is happening next Friday! It feels so soon, but also so far away. Every time I tell someone I’m getting the procedure, they tell me how much my life is about to change in the best way possible. And I keep thinking about how nice it will be to be able to see from MY OWN EYEBALLS without having corrective lenses. I’ll be able to see my face when I’m doing my makeup! I won’t have to switch between my prescription sunglasses and regular glasses when I’m out and about! I won’t see little starbursts around lights when I’m driving at night! I am so ready for this.

This year, I’m looking forward to the holidays and a family vacation in the mountains.

The holiday season is always my favorite time of year, and it’s going to be more special this year as my mom, my stepdad, the dogs, and I will be spending the week after Christmas in a Tennessee cabin near the Smoky Mountains. We planned this trip early in the year and it’s finally time for me to put my planning hat on and put together our itinerary. I am looking into moderate hikes we can do (both with the dogs and without) as well as some nearby attractions. We have Ober Gatlinburg on our list where we’ll be able to do some snow tubing and other fun winter-y things. I really hope we get some snow while we’re there (my cousin goes every year to this area during the last week of the year, and it’s never snowed for her, so I’m not holding my breath). I haven’t seen snow since I was TWELVE, if you can believe it, so I’m desperate.

Next year, I’m looking forward to visiting California with my mom in the spring.

On a whim, my mom booked us a 4-day cruise that leaves from Los Angeles. So, naturally, I thought: Let’s make this an extended vacation! Neither of us has ever been to California so it’s going to be a fun time for the two of us. I’m already looking at studio tours to do and other touristy things, and I can’t wait to sit down and actually plan this vacation for us!

What is something you’re looking forward to?

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A Picture Per Hour: Saturday, September 16th

Ready to come along on a typical Saturday in my life? That’s right, friends! It’s “A Picture Per Hour” day!

7:20 a.m.: We’re up for the day! I feed the girls their breakfast (today is “ocean fish and salmon” and if you think I don’t announce the flavor of the day to the cats, you don’t know me). I’m on Day 3 of training them to eat on a schedule and the first two days were rough. They barely ate because they hadn’t realized the food wouldn’t be available all day. Today, it seems like they’re catching on and ate about 75% of their breakfast, which is a vast improvement.

8:26 a.m.: Time for my morning med routine! The yellow gummies are my multivitamin, the purple gummies are my probiotic, the black-and-yellow pill is an antibiotic I’m taking for a UTI, the small white pills are a vitamin D supplement and Lexapro (I’m on 30 mg of Lexapro so I take 1.5 pills every day), and then the big oblong white pills are magnesium glycinate. I’m taking the probiotic and magnesium glycinate based on a recommendation from my psychiatrist. And I am always deficient in vitamin D so I take one pill per day (should maybe take more, but that’s where we’re at for right now).

9:43 a.m.: I spent the majority of this week’s writing date working on a post for our podcast Instagram. I wanted to do a fun infographic revealing Bri and my scores for the Big 5 personality framework, which was the focus of our episode this week. (This score, in particular, tickles me as Bri scored 100% as an extrovert and I scored 6%!) Thankfully, Canva has some very cool graph options that I was able to plug and play, so this came out even better than I imagined.

10:55 a.m.: At the end of each writing date, Mikaela reads the latest chapter she’s written to me. So at this time, I’m sitting in my seat, laptop closed, focusing on her voice and her words. I’m continuously amazed and impressed by her writing skills and her ability to dig deep and think about this dark time in her life. It’s a great chapter!

11:29 a.m.: I’m back home and I get settled on the couch to read a chapter of Think Again by Adam Grant. A friend raved about this book and I’m reading it slowly one chapter per day. It’s… okay? I don’t think I’m learning anything terribly new, honestly.

12:17 p.m.: I’m all cozy in my bed with Eloise loafing nearby. It’s time for my Saturday afternoon nap! Yesss.

3:07 p.m.: I wake up from my nap to find Eloise has parked herself right on my stomach. I spend a lot of time petting her and giving her head scritches as I try to wake up.

4:30 p.m.: I’m not one to sit down and read for long periods of time, but I wanted to get to page 100 on my latest book (Last Girl Ghosted by Lisa Unger) and I did! It’s a very propulsive thriller so far, so it was easy to keep turning the pages.

5:50 p.m.: I took some time to get myself together since I’m having dinner with my mom and stepdad tonight. I tried this new hairstyle (that you can’t see very well from the picture) where I sectioned off the front part of my hair and tied the rest of it back in a ponytail. Then I braided the left and right side, tied off the braids with clear elastics, and tucked the ends into my ponytail. It was fun and different!

6:30 p.m.: I’m at my mom’s! The dogs let me know how much they missed me and how excited they were to see me. I snapped this picture as they stared at my mom when she came into the living room. Equal parts adoration and “why are you leaving us????”

7:00 p.m.: Early this week, I told my mom I needed us to plan dinner at Outback because I was craving one of their baked potatoes (I think they make the best baked potatoes ever). So we made it happen tonight! We always sit at the bar and get great service. My meal hit the spot!

8:45 p.m.: I’m back home and sinking into a nice, warm bubble bath to wrap up the day.

9:10 p.m.: It’s time for my weekly polish change! This week, I’m going to be rocking this sparkly dark pink shade that just makes me so, so happy when I wear it. (Nail polish tips welcome. I can never make my polish last longer than a few days without chipping, and it drives me crazy!)

10:40 p.m.: A Lila sighting! She’s been snoozing in one of the cat beds, so I take her picture as I start turning off the lights around the apartment.

11:17 p.m.: All snuggled in bed, reading with a cat curled up next to me. Bliss!

What would have been your first picture of the day for Saturday?

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Five for Friday (v. 97)

1) I’ve been in a very low place this week. I woke up on Monday morning and just felt exhausted about the thought of going through my day. I was both sad and irritable. Sometimes, life just feels very hard, you know? There is so much we have to do on a daily basis: work out, go for our mental health walks, put in an eight-hour workday, make food for ourselves, maintain our relationships with texts and calls and Instagram messages and in-person meetups, keep our homes clean, take care of our pets. And if you have kids? Add in school drop-offs and pick-ups, extracurriculars, managing the emotions of small humans, and a whole lot of other things I’m missing. Usually, all of the stuff that comes with living doesn’t bother me much. But every now and then, it makes me want to crawl under the covers and hibernate for at least a week. Things started feeling easier as the week has gone on, and I have a therapy appointment this afternoon which will help me sort out all these feelings, but it wasn’t a fun way to start the week.

2) I received such great advice about what to do about my feeding situation with the cats. Thank you! It was really helpful to read through your own routines and figure out what might work with my girls. What I’ve decided to do is train them to eat on a schedule. I was nervous to do that because the whole point is to get Eloise to eat more and if she doesn’t have free access to food 24/7, doesn’t that defeat the purpose? But maybe it will actually have the opposite effect: She’ll eat more since she needs the structure! We’ll see. The plan is to give them a can of wet food in the morning and take it away after an hour, and then give them 1/2 cup (portioned into two bowls) of dry food in the evening.

Someone pointed out that I may be overfeeding them, but I checked with the calorie counts and it’s right in line of what they should be eating (1/2 can of wet food is 90 calories, 1/4 cup of dry food is 107 calories). They also get treats throughout the day, which I need to be better about limiting. They’re just so cute with their big green eyes and sweet meows! They probably have about 30 calories per day of treats (15% of their diet) and I want to get that down to 15-20.

So that’s the news on the cats! For now.

3) How is this for exciting news? I scheduled my LASIK surgery! I will be getting my eyeballs lasered on Friday, October 6th and I couldn’t be more thrilled about it! I will have to finance the majority of the surgery, so I opened up a Care Credit account for it. It was really scary to do that and know that I am taking on additional debt to afford this procedure, but I also plan on paying it off in full in 18 months (or less) and won’t incur any interest during that time. It makes sense to me to get it done now rather than waiting, as I’m already in my mid-thirties and want to be able to enjoy many years of glasses-free living! I will for sure tell you all about the details of the procedure and my recovery.

4) I am still struggling with my nighttime routine and getting to bed at a reasonable time. I was talking about this with Kim, and she brought up the concept of “revenge bedtime procrastination,” which I had heard about before but the more I looked into it, the more I realized this was exactly what I’ve been doing. (And, of course, the Instagram algorithm served up this Reel about the phenomenon.) I don’t really have time throughout the day to enjoy my leisure pursuits because work takes priority, and then when I’m done for the day, I need to be away from any laptops/computers, so I scroll through my phone or watch TV while eating dinner. And then, suddenly, around 8pm, I get the urge to sit down at my laptop, read blogs, respond to emails, write blog posts, etc. And 8pm is when I should be starting my nighttime routine. Argh! I think the solution is to put myself on a strict schedule and try to build in some break times throughout the day when I can get away from my desk and do something fun like read/comment on blogs for 30 minutes.

5) I’m saving the best tidbit for last: Today is my brother’s birthday! He turns 37. My brother and I have always been very close, but that closeness came with a lot of fighting when we were kids. We still tend to get into one nasty fight every few years (our last one was two years ago and we didn’t talk to each other for weeks!), but we always make up. Family can be really complicated for so many people, and it’s complicated for me at times, but one thing I know for sure is that my brother has my back and I can count on him for anything.

Today would also have been my grandparents’ 64th wedding anniversary, which I trust they are celebrating together in heaven. (And yes, my mom gave her parents a really nice anniversary present in 1986! Hard for any of her brothers to live up to that one.)

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Five for Friday (v. 96)

1) It was so nice to read all of your lovely comments on my blog post from Tuesday. It feels good to know that I was missed during my blogging break and that everyone was happy to see my blog posts back in their feeds again! Words of affirmation is my love language after all, and you guys most definitely affirmed my place in this blogging world. <3 I’m glad to be back and it feels so good to have this regular writing routine back in my life.

2) This past weekend, my family got terrible news. My uncle, who had been declared cancer-free earlier this year after many rounds of chemo and radiation, learned that his cancer had returned. It has spread to his brain and, while he is undergoing radiation currently, his condition is now considered terminal. It is a shocking, devastating blow to our family, and all we can do is wrap him in love and hope that he outperforms his prognosis.

3) On September 1st, I decided I had waited long enough: It was time to decorate my apartment for fall. I can’t wait to decorate until it feels like fall because I live in Florida; fall doesn’t happen. But putting out all my pumpkins and fall signs definitely made me happier. Last year was the first time I decorated for fall, and I had quite the fun time last weekend finding even more decorations to add to my collection, like ghost succulents and new signs. It’s looking festive in here, and it makes me so happy!

4) At Eloise’s annual appointment in July, I discovered that she had lost a pound over the past year, putting her at a very svelte 7.8 lbs (compared to Lila’s 13.6!). My vet voiced concerns about her weight loss, but it was difficult for me to pinpoint what could be causing it. Add to the fact that Lila gained a pound this year, and I’m at a loss. Aren’t they eating the same amount? Maybe? They’ve been free feeders since I adopted them over four years ago. I give them a full cup of food, spread out between two bowls, and those bowls are never empty at the end of the day. So it’s not like Lila is overeating but Eloise could definitely be undereating.

So, I’ve added wet food to their food rotation. I didn’t want to do this because wet food is very expensive compared to dry food (especially the wet food the girls like; I tried giving them a cheaper type and they turned their noses up to it!), but I want Eloise to be well-fed! I give them one 5.5-ounce can spread between two bowls and they eat probably half of it daily (I leave it out for 2 hours in the morning, cover it and put it in the fridge, and then leave it out for a few hours in the evening). I also give them about a half-cup of dry food in the evening and they never eat all of it.

So, cat people: Is this normal? Do your cats chow down on all of their food at once? Is there something wrong with my cats that they DON’T? Should I be more worried than I am? Should I be feeding my cats other types of food (both their wet/dry foods are Blue Buffalo brand.) Heeeeelp.

5) This weekend should be a good one! I have a hair appointment this afternoon and I think I’m going to ask my stylist to take my color one shade darker. (I’m not going to do anything drastic with the cut, just a trim.) I have a writing date Saturday morning with Mikaela. And on Sunday, it’s the start of Football Sundays! I’ll be at my mom’s all day, watching the games with my mom, my brother, and my older nephew. I’m really looking forward to a full day of snuggling the dogs and watching football with the fam.

What are your weekend plans? Tell me all about the eating habits of your cat(s)!

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TGIF (v. 55)

The high of my week was seeing the Barbie movie! I was so, so excited about this movie and it did not disappoint. It was funny and silly, but also heartfelt and emotional. America Ferrera is not getting nearly enough accolades as she should because she was sensational. The movie is super feminist and not for male fragility, that’s for sure, and we need more movies like it.

The low of my week was my blog being down for 36 hours! I am very grateful for two blog friends who reached out to me to let me know my blog was showing a weird “suspended” error. I contacted my hosting company and learned that my site had been infected by malware and they had taken the site down for security reasons. They informed me that I needed to remove the malware to get my site back. At first, I thought this was something I could do myself but I had to go through a third-party company. They were able to remove the malware fairly quickly, but then my hosting company needed time to scan the site and make sure it was fine before putting it back up. But she’s back and I missed her so much, and I will never take her beautiful little face for granted ever again. I have to figure out what I need to do to make sure that doesn’t happen again (other than changing my password, which I did the minute my blog was back online). I thought my blog was getting scanned frequently for stuff like this (I use SiteLock, which came with my hosting package), but maybe I need something more robust. Hackers are getting smarter and smarter!

One nagging task I marked off my to-do list was scheduling an initial consultation with a dietician. I am meeting with her in two weeks and I’m hoping it goes well. She seemed to say all the right things in her bio so I hope we can work well together. I will definitely keep everyone posted on my journey!

An article I enjoyed was ‘Sounds Like a Cult’ Podcast Host Sues Former Co-Host. The way I gasped when I saw this news! I am still listening to SLAC, even though I don’t really love it. I wish it were more research-based and factual. But they are still releasing episodes like everything is normal so I had no idea things had gotten so messy! I really hope the podcast can continue with Amanda and a new co-host because I think the weaknesses definitely lay with the other co-host, but we’ll see. Some juicy gossip for sure!

I’m currently reading three books. I am nearly finished with two of them—An Unwanted Guest by Shari Lapena and Something Wild & Wonderful by Anita Kelly—both of which will probably get 4 stars from me. And I just started (ironically) Cultish: The Language of Fanatacism by Amanda Montell (the same Amanda as referenced above!) on audio.

A podcast episode I enjoyed was A Look Back on Season 5 on the Currently Reading podcast. This was a fun romp through memory lane as the ladies wrapped up their most recent season. I always enjoy getting some behind-the-scenes tidbits about podcasting and how people produce their shows, and this one was really interesting to me.

The best money I spent this week was on some ergonomic accessories for my desk. My carpal tunnel pain has been terrible lately so I went and ordered a new mousepad with wrist rest, a funky-looking ergonomic mouse, and a wrist brace to wear at night. Here’s hoping it makes things feel better!

My plans this weekend include not much! It should be fairly low-key, which I am looking forward to. My mom and I may go see the Barbie movie together because a) she needs to see it and b) I need to rewatch it. Ha!

What was the highlight of your week?