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Categories: Recurring Series

Three Things Thursday (v. 9)

Three confessions

1) I really enjoyed doing my Week in the Life series this year and I’m happy that the rest of you guys liked reading about my mundane little life. It’s really fun to read back on my posts from other years because my life has changed so much!

2) When it comes to dating apps, my toxic trait is connecting with someone, sending a message, getting a message back, and then completely forgetting to respond for days and days. Something I need to explore in therapy, probably.

3) I bought a standing desk so I could have the opportunity to stand throughout my day. Sitting all day isn’t good for anyone! Do you know how many times I use the standing part of my desk? Barely ever. Maybe I need to set myself a schedule? Like, I must use the standing portion every day at 9AM, 1PM, and 4PM for however long I want to. I dunno.

Three apps I recently downloaded

1) Mixtiles – Mixtiles is a company that makes 8×8 canvas prints of your photos that can be easily stuck (and unstuck!) on your walls. I have a whole photo wall in my living room with Mixtiles and I have some empty spaces that need to be filled out. I re-downloaded the app over the weekend so I could find out what sorts of sales they’re running now (they often have amazing sales – like buy 12 prints, get 12 free.)

2) Cooking Fever – Cooking Fever is an app game that I was obsessed with earlier this year. But then I found myself spending too much money on in-app purchases (since it seems to be the only way to move forward through the levels, ugh), so I deleted the app. But I missed playing the game, so I redownloaded the app and have set myself a budget for in-app purchases.

3) Etsy – I haven’t used my Etsy app since I got my new phone a few months ago, so I had to re-download it in order to start doing some Christmas shopping. If you’re seeking a seamless app experience, collaborating with an ios app developer could be a wise consideration.

Three of the lowest-rated books on my Goodreads TBR

1) Imposter Syndrome by Kathy Wang (3.29 stars)

2) A Lady’s Guide to Mischief and Mayhem by Manda Collins (3.44 stars)

3) The Verifiers by Jane Pek (3.51 stars)

Three things I’m looking forward to on my cruise

1) Stepping on the ship for the very first time – Is there anything more exciting than those first few moments on the ship? I think not! It’s a little overwhelming, for sure, but all I need is a fruity cocktail in my hand and I’m good.

2) Not having to make any decisions about where to eat for a whole week – I know so many people love this part of a vacation: deciding what restaurants to hit up each day. For me, as someone who is a picky eater and not much of a foodie, it’s just stressful and not fun. That’s what I love about cruises: I don’t have to make these decisions! I just show up at the dining room and choose my meal from a pared-down list.

3) Spending my birthday in another country – I always have high expectations of my birthday, and spending it on Royal Caribbean’s private island doing a hot air balloon ride? That’s going to exceed all my expectations! (Hopefully.)

Three goals for 2023

1) Move to a two-bedroom apartment – It’s tiiiime for me to have a bigger place where I can have a separate room to use as an office. I’m so excited to make this goal happen in 2023!

2) Have $3,000 saved in an emergency fund – The general consensus is that you should have a six-month emergency fund saved up at all times. For me, that would be about $12,000 on the low end. And while I have an emergency fund, it is sure as shit not at $12,000. But it’s time to work on that, so that’s going to be one of my goals for 2023.

3) Buy a new mattress and bedframe – I have over $1,000 saved for a new mattress, but a good mattress typically runs over $1,500. So I have a little more I need to save up and then I also want to replace my bedframe because my current one is a little worn down.

Three things I’m doing this weekend

1) Getting a pedicure – It’s time for my pre-cruise pedicure! Gotta get those toes lookin’ pretty for the ship. 🙂

2) Recording a few episodes of the podcast – We released our final episode of season 2 this week and will be taking the holidays off. But we’re going to start working on season 3 over the next month and a half so we’re ready to release our third season in early January!

3) Shopping for Thanksgiving – We’re not doing a big family Thanksgiving this year for a variety of reasons, so instead, Mom and Robert will be hosting me and my brother and his family at her house. I’ll be helping with the meal and will accompany Mom on her trip to Publix this weekend to buy what she needs.

Three TV shows I recommend

1) Brooklyn 99 – I think Brooklyn 99 might be my favorite comedy series of all-time. I mean, I love The Office but my latest rewatch of the series has shown me how poorly that show has aged. And maybe I will find that Brooklyn 99 ages poorly in another decade or so, but it’s my go-to comedy recommendation.

2) The Baby-Sitter’s Club – Oh, you guys. I am so sad that Netflix canceled this delightful series. It was everything I wanted. The actresses were perfectly cast, the episodes were heartfelt, and I just wish we could have more seasons.

3) Revenge – If you’re looking for a soap opera-like thriller TV show, Revenge has everything you need. There are rich people behaving badly, a girl-next-door with a crazy secret, and lots and lots of hooking up. I would love to rewatch this show someday.

Three things in my Amazon cart

1) A new mouse pad ($9) – My current mouse pad has served me well, but is getting a little dingy. It’s time for an upgrade and this flowery one looks perfect.

2) A new insulated water bottle ($25) – I love Camelbak’s insulated stainless steel water bottles, but I only have one. It can keep my water cold for more than a day, which is quite a feat in my opinion. But why do I only have one? If I had a second one that I could keep at my desk, I think it would improve how much water I drink exponentially.

3) A pack of headbands ($17) – This feels very pricey for a set of headbands, but there are eight headbands in the pack and this brand comes highly rated. Plus, free returns if I hate the way the headbands look on me.

Three things not on my bucket list

1) Getting married – I’m not saying I never want to get married. I’m open to it happening. But it’s not something I’m striving for anymore. There are way more interesting goals to reach than that! If you’re planning to get married, you should consider meeting with attorneys like Fedor Kozlov to help you draft a pre-nuptial agreement.

2) Writing a novel – I always thought I’d be a world-famous novelist when I grew up. But it’s one of those goals that I’m not longer working towards. Maybe one day, well into the future, but it’s not a goal that affects my day-to-day life anymore.

3) Retiring early – It’s just not in the cards for me! And that’s okay.

Three things that made me happy this week

1) Getting tickets to Taylor Swift (!!!) – Bri was the kind soul who braved the Ticketmaster site to get a group of us tickets to see Taylor when she comes to Tampa in April. I am so glad I didn’t have to wade through the mess. It was nerve-wracking at first because she kept getting kicked off and her code stopped working at one point, but she got back in and got us tickets. I am so pumped!

2) Lila snuggles in the morning – Tuesday morning, I laid in bed for probably 20 minutes after my alarm went off, snuggling Lila and petting her soft fluffy fur. It’s the only time she’ll snuggle with me, and I take full advantage.

3) Cooler weather – We’re getting a “cold front” this week. (In Florida-speak, that means we’ll get lows in the 50s for a few days.) I am so looking forward to enjoying some cooler temps because it’s still godawful hot outside and I am over it.

What’s a TV show you recommend? What’s something that made you happy this week?

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Sunday, November 13, 2022

10:30 a.m.: I wake up with a cat snoozing on my belly. It’s one of my favorite ways to wake up! I snuggle with Ellie for a bit and then get myself up and at ’em. I take a quick pee, brush my hair and pull it into a pony, and get dressed.

11:00 a.m.: I make a quick breakfast of waffles and then finish up yesterday’s post while eating.

11:30 a.m.: I head outside for my daily walk! (Mom and I decided all of the walking we did at the Running of the Wieners race counted as our daily walk yesterday.) It’s dreary outside and I’m worried it might start raining, but the rain holds off for me.

11:50 a.m.: Back home and I start working on today’s post.

12:05 p.m.: I leave my apartment and head to Publix to pick up some subs for the day. (I will die on the hill that Publix makes the best subs ever.) When I’m back at my car, a woman in the parking lot squeals at me, “I love your cat sticker!” I have an adorable cat sticker on the back of my car and her delight in it made me so happy.

12:30 p.m.: I’m at my mom’s! I give the dogs lots of love and snuggle on the couch with them. Eventually, my brother and older nephew show up. Yay – it’s a party! Something you should know about these football Sundays is that we’re equal-opportunity football watchers. Of course, we have our favorite teams (me: Dolphins, my brother: 49ers, my nephew: Chiefs), but we watch whatever’s on TV on Sunday, even if it’s not our favorite teams. Also, we don’t have any cool NFL package where we can watch whatever game we want. We just watch whatever is on the local CBS/FOX channel. Today, for the 1:00 game, we watch the Chiefs/Jaguars game. I have to keep track of the Dolphins game through the ESPN app. I wish it was on TV because it would have been such a fun game to watch! The Dolphins played so well today.

I eat my sub when the 1:00 game starts and then I settle into a comfy armchair with my phone and my book to watch the game. I think this is what I love the most about these Sundays: I get to be with my family but also be super cozy and lazy, reading my book in between watching the game. Also: dog snuggles.

3:00 p.m.: I reluctantly get up from my cozy spot to make cookies. Thankfully, it’s an easy job because, last week, I froze half of the oatmeal chocolate chip cookie dough I made. I just have to scoop and bake!

Once the Chiefs game is over, we get to watch the end of the Bills/Vikings game, which is an exciting finish in overtime! Sorry to any Bills fan, but I was super excited to see them lose because it means the Dolphins are back at the top of our division! WOOHOO!

4:30 p.m.: We turn on the late afternoon game! This time, it’s Cowboys/Packers. I don’t really care who wins this game. I mostly read my book during this game.

I’ve also started noticing some wrist pain that’s been growing worse and worse as the day goes on. I think it’s from yesterday and carrying the dogs for so much of the day. (I always have some sort of pain after Running of the Wieners because my arms are not used to carrying 10-lb dogs for so long, but it’s typically my inner elbow.) I ice my wrist for a bit and it seems to help. (This wrist pain makes me realize how much we depend on our wrists! Using my phone is painful, and it’s also affecting my grip and how I can open and close things like my mouthwash bottle.)

The Cowboys/Packers game also goes into overtime, so we stay to watch it. It’s a great finish!

8:00 p.m.: I leave my mom’s and head back home. It’s so good to see my little ladies again! I unpack my things and then sit on the couch for a little bit. I turn on my Peacock app to stream the Sunday Night Football game. Tonight, my brother’s team, the 49ers, is playing so I’m very invested in the game! I eat a late dinner and hang with the kitties.

9:30 p.m.: I turn on my computer to start working on this post while going through my nighttime routine. I put on my jammies, brush my teeth, and do my skincare routine. I also tidy up my apartment and put out some more Christmas decorations. It’s looking very merry in here!

11:00 p.m.: I settle in to watch the end of the SNF game, which is very nerve-wracking! I had the game on in the background while I was doing my nighttime routine, but I wasn’t following along too closely. But when I saw how close it was with just a few minutes left to play, I sat on the couch to watch the end. And it was a brilliant ending for my brother’s team! YAY!

11:20 p.m.: It’s time to finally crawl into bed. I’m planning on just listening to ASMR videos to lull me to sleep. No reading for me tonight!

11:40 p.m.: Lights out!

And that’s a wrap on this year’s Week in the Life! Thanks for following along this week. 🙂

sunday in the life: 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Saturday, November 12, 2022

9:30 a.m.: I wake up naturally… but with a pounding headache. I don’t know why I always seem to wake up on the weekends with such a bad headache! Grinding my teeth, maybe? In any event, I take some Advil and then crawl back into bed. I snuggle the cats, read a bit of The Smart One, and play fun888 เข้าระบบ games on my phone.

10:30 a.m.: I finally get out of bed and take a shower. Then I sit on the couch with the goal of finishing The Smart One. When I’m nearly finished with the book, I order Ubereats for lunch because I don’t really have anything here to eat.

11:45 p.m.: I finally finish The Smart One (2 stars – meh). I quickly blow dry my hair and a few minutes after I’m finished with that, lunch arrives! I eat it while finishing up yesterday’s post and reading blogs.

12:45 p.m.: I straighten my hair and put on makeup. I also tidy up the apartment, make my bed, and feed the girls. (Side note: Are my cats Enneagram 9s? They never bother me about their food. They graze on food throughout the day, so I just try to refill it every morning, but even if their bowls are empty, they don’t say a word about it.)

1:30 p.m.: I leave to run a few errands (Publix to pick up a prescription, the library to pick up a book that was on hold) and then head to my mom’s house.

2:00 p.m.: Mom and I leave her house with the dogs in tow. It’s Running of the Wieners race day! This is one of my favorite annual events. We started attending in 2012 with Dutch, and now I get to enjoy the spectacle of this race with Chip and Lucy. Running of the Wieners is exactly what you think it is: a race solely for dachshunds. Because what’s more fun than watching a bunch of short-legged wiener dogs race each other? The event happens in a cordoned-off rectangular space (maybe it’s 30 feet? I’m not good with measurements like this!) On one side are “Wiener Handlers” who hold the dachshunds and the owners stand on the other side of the rectangle cheering like crazy to get their dachshunds to run to them. The first dachshund to cross the finish line wins their race! They separate the dogs into age divisions (starting with “Baby Brats,” which are all dachshunds under a year old, and ending with “Senior Sausages,” which are dachshunds aged 10+). This year, Chip is in the “Feisty Frank” division (ages 3-4) and Lucy will be in the “Little Links” division (ages 1-2).

2:40 p.m.: We make it to the event (Running of the Wieners is a part of Dogtoberfest, which is a pet event that raises money for the Suncoast Animal League, a nonprofit, no-kill animal welfare agency), and register the dogs for the race. And then we meander around for a while. Mom gets a hot dog to eat and I sip a Sprite. We check out some of the booths at the event, and I have to steer clear of the cat adoption tent. NO, STEPHANY, NO. Mikaela and her family join us, too, and it’s fun to see them! Eventually, it’s time to wander over to the race site so we can snag a great spot. I wanted to be right by the finish line on the outside of the fenced-in race site so I can take video of Chip and Lucy, and we got the ideal spot. Woohoo!

4:00 p.m.: The race starts! They begin oldest to youngest, so we have to wait a while for Chip and Lucy to race. But soon, it’s Chip’s turn! AND HE WINS HIS HEAT. Y’all, we have been coming to this event for a DECADE now (with a year off for the pandemic, of course, and we may not have gone during Dutch’s last year of life) and no dog of ours has ever won a race. We’re just happy if they can find the finish line! I was so proud of him! He had to face off against another dog in his age division to see which dog would be going to the final and… CHIP WON THAT RACE, TOO. Homeboy was going to the FINALS! We were ecstatic.

Lucy raced after Chip and I had high hopes for her because she is so fast when she’s racing Chip outside, but she came in third. It was a photo finish, though, and she was just a second behind first place. But she found the finish line and we were proud of her for doing that!

After all of the dogs had raced, we had our winners who would be entering the finals, one dog from each division. I was so nervous for Chip! On the one hand, even making it to the finals was amazing. No dog of ours has ever done that. On the other hand, I wanted him to win! I’m competitive, ya know?!

Okay, drumroll….

Chip came in second place!!! OMG, I was so excited! I truly didn’t expect him to place, but he was so focused and wanted to come home with a trophy. (Orrrrr maybe he was just having fun running with other dachsunds?!) It was a photo finish, too, and they had to consult MULTIPLE people’s phones who video-d the race. (I tried to video but I got so excited that I didn’t capture the end at all.)

How fun is that!? Chip came home with a big trophy, a winner’s ribbon, and a $50 gift card to PetSmart (my mom is adamant that the gift card is to be spent on stuff Chip would want, not food or something boring like that). We were on cloud nine!

4:50 p.m.: We leave the event, tired but very, very happy. After getting back to my mom’s house, we just lounge around for a while. The dogs are tired and sleeping on me, which I love. I play around on my phone and have an awful time with today’s Wordle. Sheesh! It took me way longer than it should have to figure it out.

7:00 p.m.: We leave for dinner (Mom, Robert, and me). First, we take a pit stop at Home Depot to buy a part they need for their pool but it’s an online-only item, so we leave empty-handed. Then, we head over to BJ’s for dinner! I order a yummy bacon-guacamole burger and, of course, Mom and I share a pizookie for dessert. Our second pizookie of the week!

8:50 p.m.: We get back to mom’s house and I cuddle with the dogs for a minute before leaving and going home. I haven’t seen the girls all day. I miss them! I give them love and treats, and then immediately start a bubble bath. I’m feeling so grimy from today (and it was so hot outside, ughhh).

9:45 p.m.: I sit down at my computer to work on this post and read a few blogs.

10:30 p.m.: I start my nighttime routine. Today, I need to scoop out the litter boxes, tidy up the apartment, and do my skincare routine. I also decide to do a 15-minute clay mask tonight. I try to do a mask once a week, but I’ve been slacking. I also take some breaks to respond to blog comments, read a few email subscriptions, and fill out my line-a-day journal.

12:10 a.m.: Nighttime routine is finally finished! I crawl into bed with a new book (Tokyo Ever After by Emiko Jean). I can only keep my eyes open for one chapter of the book, so I put it down and turn on ASMR videos to lull me to sleep.

12:30 a.m.: Lights out!

saturday in the life: 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Friday, November 11, 2022

6:50 a.m.: My gentle Sleep Cycle alarm begins waking me up. Lila is snuggling with me on the bed, so I pet her and she decides she wants to bite my fingers. It hurts when she does this!

7:00 a.m.: I get up, pee, brush my hair into a pony, and then put on clothes (yoga pants and a t-shirt). Then, I drive to Starbucks so I can get my first peppermint mocha of the season! Yum, yum.

7:40 a.m.: Back home. I finish up yesterday’s post while sipping my mocha and eating a breakfast sandwich. Then, I start working on this post.

8:00 a.m.: It’s time to get the workday started. I answer a few emails and Slack messages that came through overnight, and make my task list for the day. My morning is pretty uneventful! I complete a bunch of tasks, have a quick huddle with my director to talk through an idea that was brought up in one of her meetings, and answer emails as they come in.

11:15 a.m.: I was planning on running some errands today, but it’s raining outside and I’m feeling lazy so I decide to order Ubereats for lunch. While I wait for it to arrive, I knock out another task on my to-do list.

12:00 p.m.: I lay on the couch, reading my book (The Smart One) while I wait for lunch to arrive. When it does, I chow down while reading the Survivor Reddit thread.

12:30 p.m.: I’m back to work. While we don’t “officially” have half-day Fridays anymore, it’s generally accepted that you can log off early on Fridays if you want. I try to stay logged in until 1 or 2, just to catch any straggling messages that may pop in before the weekend. I finish up a task, clear out my inbox, and then tidy up my desk before shutting down.

1:30 p.m.: Mikaela sends me a text, asking to give her all the details about Running of the Wieners. She’s thinking of coming to cheer on Chip and Lucy! We have the same sort of anxiety brain when it comes to logistics, so I send her a 10-minute video on Marco Polo giving her allllll the details.

1:45 p.m.: I get comfy (i.e., remove my pants and bra) and crawl into bed. This is my favorite time of the week: When I can crawl into a cool bed in the middle of the day and know I can take a long nap. I read for a bit (I’ve switched over to The Bodyguard) and then set an alarm. If I don’t set an alarm, I will take a 4-5 hour nap, no lie. Then it’s off to dreamland for me!

5:30 p.m.: My alarm wakes me up. (Told you!) I’m a little groggy so I let myself slowly wake up. Mom texts me to say she did her walk today, and I know I need to try to get mine in before the sun goes down.

5:40 p.m.: I finally get out of bed. The girls are snuggled together on the couch AGAIN. (I wish I could get a photo of this, but the minute I move toward them, they get up. Argh!) I get dressed and go out for a walk. The sky is showing off tonight!

6:15 p.m.: Back home and I Facetime with Mom for a bit.

6:40 p.m.: After chatting with Mom, I’m feeling lazy so I sit on the couch, read my book, and play games on my phone.

7:00 p.m.: I force myself to get up and make dinner. It’s breakfast-for-dinner tonight! Yay! I make scrambled eggs, sausage, and waffles. I turn on an episode of Love is Blind to watch while I eat.

8:30 p.m.: I sit on the couch for a while, reading and playing games on my phone, and eventually get up to take a bubble bath. Only the bath isn’t as hot as I like it and I didn’t put enough bubbles in, so it’s a little disappointing. After my bath, I sit on the couch to read more of my book (I’m back to The Smart One).

9:30 p.m.: I putter around the house for a bit, tidying up and poking through one of my Christmas bins to see what I want to put up. I take down some of my “everyday” decorations and place them in the bin to make room for Christmas decorations.

10:00 p.m.: I sit down at my computer so I can start working on this post and read some blogs. I am incredibly behind on Nablopomo reading! I get up a few times to tidy up the kitchen and brush my teeth, but that’s about all I feel like doing of my nighttime routine. I should wash my face, but I’m feeling very lazy tonight.

11:30 p.m.: I crawl into bed with my book with the intent of finishing The Bodyguard, which I do. It was an enjoyable read, maybe 3.5 stars? More to come in my next reading recap, of course. After finishing it and rating it on Goodreads, I read a chapter of The Smart One and then listen to some ASMR videos on Youtube to fall asleep.

12:30 a.m.: Lights out!

Do you like taking naps?

friday in the life: 2020, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014

Categories: Recurring Series

Week in the Life: Thursday, November 10, 2022

6:50 a.m.: My gentle Sleep Cycle alarm starts waking me up, and I realize it’s going to be an interesting day here in the Tampa Bay area! It’s rainy and super windy (30 mph winds). I may have to do my daily walk on the spin bike!

7:05 a.m.: I finally get out of bed, pee, and then take a shower. Afterward, I make myself a simple breakfast (cereal) and finish up yesterday’s blog post. I blow dry and straighten my hair, make myself an iced coffee, and then settle down at my computer to work.

8:30 a.m.: I get started on my day. I answer Slack messages and emails that came through overnight and then settle in for my first task, which is reviewing website content (I’m doing a lot of this task this week, but it’s not something I do too frequently). At 9:30, I have a meeting with a few people to discuss one of our clients who has been unhappy with some of our communication. My role isn’t client-facing but as part of the content team, I need to understand how our department can best support this client. Afterward, I continue to review website content and come across a major issue: this client’s August content may never have been posted to their site. Eeks, chaos! This account has been assigned to one of our contractors for a long time, so I shoot her an email to see if she can fill me in.

11:00 a.m.: I’m hungry so I make popcorn. I had planned to use my lunch break to run errands and pick up a few things from the grocery store, but the storm is keeping me hunkered down at home. Thankfully, I have a spare pizza in the freezer (this will be my third time eating pizza this week, ha!) and have a few snacks I can munch on throughout the day. It’s been steadily downpouring all morning long and it’s still very windy, so it’s best to stay off the road today!

11:30 a.m.: I chat with my director about an SOP she just put together and give her a few revisions I would make, and then I finish up the task I had started earlier, and I feel good about marking it off my list.

12:30 p.m.: I’m sleepy and it’s been rainy and dreary all day, so I decide to take a nap. It’s the perfect weather for it!

1:30 p.m.: I wake up after a lovely little nap, answer some Slack messages that had come in over the last hour, and then jump on a huddle with one of our content strategists to help her with a Monday.com issue she was struggling with. It always feels good to impart some knowledge! Then, I work through a few sets of content that needs to be posted to our clients’ websites. I take a break at 3 to attend an editing workshop that one of our senior writers is hosting. It’s very informative and hopefully, it’s helpful for our writers, too. Afterward, I answer some emails and send out a few content plans to our clients for approval.

4:00 p.m.: I need a break, so I read a chapter of The Bodyguard and then do a quick tidying of the apartment. I also select a few more Christmas decorations to put out. It’s feeling Christmassy in here! In the midst of this break, a package arrives! I ordered a new purse, wallet, and some holiday pillows, so I’m really excited about this package. 🙂

4:30 p.m.: Back to work! I’ve finished up my most pressing to-do’s, so I’m able to get back to work on my large project that I talked about on Monday. It truly is one of those projects that I just do when I have time, and I’m glad I have some extra time this evening to work on it!

(At some point this afternoon, Ellie was sleeping on the couch and woke up meowing. It honestly sounds like she’s saying “MAMA? MAMA?” when she meows, and it melts my heart. I answered her with, “What’s wrong, Ellie-Bellie? Did you have a cat-mare?”)

6:00 p.m.: I shut down for the day and I’m excited to find out that the rain has stopped, so I can still go for my daily walk (albeit in the dark)! The walk is a good one, although it started sprinkling about halfway through and I was worried I was about to get stuck in a torrential downpour. But nope – just a light sprinkle for a few minutes. Whew!

6:20 p.m.: I come home and Facetime with my mom. We chit-chat about our days and other things that come up. She told me she finished listening to this week’s episode of The Friendship Paradox, and that I sound very confident in these episodes. I like that compliment a lot!

6:50 p.m.: After getting off the phone with my mom, I preheat the oven and then work on this post while my pizza cooks. (I’ve had pizza three times this week. Oops.) I also read some blogs and respond to blog comments.

7:30 p.m.: My pizza is finished baking, so I sit down with last night’s episode of Survivor and then Facetime Mom to discuss the episode (we both watch it and always discuss it afterward!). Then, while I should start my nighttime routine, I decide to put on an episode of Love is Blind and eat a bowl of ice cream instead. I’m starting to see why I get to bed so late now, lol.

9:40 p.m.: I start my nighttime routine way later than I should! I clean out the litter boxes, brush my teeth, do my nighttime skincare routine, and tidy up my apartment. Halfway through my nighttime routine, my mom Facetimes me again and we chit-chat about random things. I told you we talk to each other a lot throughout the day!

11:10 p.m.: I crawl into bed with my book (tonight, it’s The Bodyguard) and play a few rounds of Candy Crush in between chapters. I also realize I never completed today’s Wordle so I do that with 7 minutes to spare. Whew. (Got it in 4.) I lull myself to sleep with a few ASMR videos.

12:00 a.m.: Lights out!

How much TV do you watch on a typical weeknight? I try to keep it to one show (or two if it’s a 30-minute show), but today I did not adhere to that!

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