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What I’m Reading (10.22.25)

Hello, friends! I really want to be back to my normal blogging schedule but, oof, this moving process is keeping me busy! I’m still living at my old place and making trips a few times a week to drop off smaller items. And this week, I’m getting some fun things delivered, like a new nightstand, an area rug for my bedroom (the whole apartment is hardwood), and a new shower curtain and bathroom accessories. It’s all coming together!

Anyway, I owe you guys some book reviews, so here are the last three books I finished in September. 🙂

Hestia Strikes a Match by Christine Grillo (★★☆☆☆)

Audiobook • Hoopla • Fiction • 2023

Short synopsis: In a near-future America torn apart by a second civil war, 40-year-old Hestia Harris navigates heartbreak, family division, and the absurdity of dating during chaos.

The only reason I kept reading this book is that I was invested in the world that the author built. It felt fairly prescient, and it helped me get a glimpse of what life could be like if things take a turn here in the U.S. In this version of America (which is set in 2023), the country is split between the Union and the Confederate States, and everyday life feels like surviving a war zone—terrorist attacks are frequent, nightly curfews have been set, and getting certain goods is nearly impossible. I think the author did a great job of creating this world that didn’t feel all too dystopian, sadly.

Hestia’s husband has left her to fight for the Union, so she’s figuring out what’s next for her. Annnnnd that’s where the book lost me. It was so boring! It was mostly about Hestia going on dates with really bland dudes and getting into relationships that aren’t going to last. I just wanted her to enjoy being single for once! I found her hard to root for because I just wanted her to do something interesting, but alas, all she wanted to do with her time was date stupid men. (I mean, fair, but just not something I’d be wasting my time on.)

Any Trope But You by Victoria Lavine (★★☆☆☆ 1/2)

E-Book • Libby • Contemporary Romance • 2025

Short synopsis: A bestselling romance author flees to Alaska to reinvent herself and write her first murder mystery, but the rugged resort proprietor soon has her fearing she’s living in a rom-com plot instead.

This was a pleasant read, but I was left wanting more. It definitely read like a debut, and ugh, I just couldn’t stand Margot, the FMC. She came across as selfish, spoiled, and overly codependent on her sister. It really didn’t help that the author kept putting Margot in these really ridiculous situations—starting at the beginning when Margot arrives in Alaska and, on seeing a wild animal, jumps into the arms of the first man she sees and wraps her legs around his waist. I don’t know, that just would not be my first instinct?! It just gets even wilder from there.

The author tried to give Margot a redemption arc, but I just couldn’t buy it. What annoyed me the most was the book’s underlying message that happiness comes from being in love with the right person. Margot’s entire character arc seemed to hinge on falling in love again, which doesn’t feel like the most sustainable foundation for a new relationship. Who needs therapy when there’s a hot mountain man you can climb like a tree?! I know it’s a romance novel, so a happily ever after is part of the deal, but I just needed to see more personal growth from Margot. Instead, it seems like her codependency tactics continue on.

Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams by Matthew Walker (★★★★☆)

Print • Owned (Amazon) • Nonfiction • 2017

Short synopsis: Neuroscientist and sleep expert Matthew Walker provides a revolutionary exploration of sleep, examining how it affects every aspect of our physical and mental well-being. 

Wow, this book taught me so much! Mostly, it taught me that I really need to figure out my sleep hygiene habits because getting good sleep every night is the key to all of our other biological systems working as they should. The top things I learned were:

  • Everyone needs at least 7 hours of sleep per night (even people who think they can function just fine on 5-6 hours of sleep).
  • The best thing to do for sleep hygiene is to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. (<– I’m struggling with this since I like doing the 6am workout classes at the gym. I am not waking up at 5am on the weekends!)
  • It’s okay to take naps! But they should be less than an hour and before 3pm. (I’m really trying to curb my love of those 2-3 hour naps on the weekend!)
  • When you wake up, you shouldn’t feel tired during the first few hours of the day. If you are, you’re not getting enough sleep. (Uh-oh.)
  • Teenagers have a different circadian rhythm than younger children and adults. This is why they want to stay up later and sleep later—it’s biological!

While this book did make me very sleepy while I was reading it (this happens all the time when I’m reading a dense nonfiction book!), I learned a lot and will take these lessons with me as I really work on my sleep hygiene. If you don’t want to read a 350-page book about getting better sleep, then I’ll just point you to this blog that lists the 12 tips for good sleep.

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What I’m Reading (9.15.25)

Big Dumb Eyes: Stories from a Simpler Mind by Nate Bargatze (★★★☆☆ 1/2)

Audiobook • Spotify • Nonfiction • 2025

Short synopsis: One of the hottest stand-ups working today, Nate Bargatze brings his everyman comedy to the page in this hilarious collection of personal stories, opinions, and confessions.

I was so excited to listen to this book! Nate Bargatze is one of my favorite stand-up comedians right now (I traveled to New Orleans just to see him!), and I’ve rewatched some of his SNL sketches more times than I can count. But… it breaks my heart to say that this book made me like Nate a little less. Eeks! The thesis of this book is that Nate is just a “dumb country boy” who somehow stumbled into success… and he really leaned into that persona. But I don’t buy it. You don’t become one of the most popular stand-up comedians, selling out arenas, without being smart and skilled. I wanted more from Nate. I wanted to learn more about how he built his career from struggling comic to household name. I wanted to learn about his time on SNL and what it was like to host the show. I just wanted him to dig deeper, but instead, we got a lot of surface-level essays about his childhood and the early days of his comedy career. Don’t get me wrong: This book was funny and made me laugh out loud multiple times. I loved learning more about his childhood and siblings, and it was really sweet to get insight into his close relationship with his daughter. It just left me wanting more.

Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall (★★★☆☆)

Print • Owned (Book of the Month) • Historical Fiction • 2025

Short synopsis: When Beth’s brother-in-law kills a dog, the act brings Gabriel Wolfe—the man who once broke her heart—back into her life, stirring old grief, buried secrets, and village tensions. As past and present collide, Beth must choose between the life she’s built with her husband and the woman she once was.

Oh, this book. It started off so strong! I was immediately drawn into Beth’s world with the first two sentences: “The farmer is dead. He is dead, and all anyone wants to know is who killed him.” This story takes you back and forth between three timelines: 1955, when Beth first fell in love with Gabriel; 1968, when she’s married to Frank and living as a farmer’s wife; and 1969, during the trial for the farmer’s murder. Only you don’t know which farmer was killed or who is on trial. It all unfolds for you little by little, and I loved that plot device. It was so clever!

But oh my god, Beth was infuriating. I can’t remember the last time I hated a character this much. She made the stupidest decisions that made me want to throw the book across the room. And, look, it’s fine when characters make stupid decisions, but I need them to wrestle with the fallout and show some kind of growth. With Beth, I never saw that. And then there were a few twists thrown in at the end that made me roll my eyes. All I can say is… Birchie was right. (Recommendation source: Sarah’s Book Shelves Live)

Birding with Benefits by Sarah T. Dubb (★★★☆☆ 1/2)

Print • Owned (indie bookstore) • Contemporary Fiction • 2024

Short synopsis: Newly divorced Celeste agrees to pose as John’s fake girlfriend, only to discover he really just needs a partner for a high-stakes bird-watching contest. As their partnership in the Arizona wilderness turns into something more, they must decide if their fling will fly beyond the competition.

This book was fun and lighthearted. It was exactly what I needed! I loved that the protagonists in this romance were older (early 40s, with Celeste preparing to send her daughter off to college), which felt refreshing for a romance. Celeste’s journey of stepping out on her own after years of marriage to a man who didn’t appreciate her was empowering. However, at times, this book very much reads like a debut (which it is). From chapters that only featured interior monologues that didn’t move the plot along to a villainous ex-girlfriend who had no nuance to her (why did John stay with her for so long?!), there were times when I was taken out of the story. Still, the story wrapped up in a satisfying way. It’s a cute debut, nothing outstanding, but enjoyable enough that I’ll keep an eye out for what this author writes next.

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What I’m Reading (9.3.25)

Happy Wednesday, friends! I have some great book reviews for you guys today, including a highly anticipated romance that lived up to all of my expectations. Love when that happens!

Also – fun little announcement: You can also find me over on Elisabeth’s blog today, as one of her Gratitude Guests. She asked me to write all about my pets and also let me send her about a million pictures of my cats, so how could I say no? It was super fun to reflect on all the ways my pets bring me joy and gratitude in my life, and I’m immensely grateful to Elisabeth for letting me fawn over my four-legged lovebugs!

Now, onto the reviews!

Heartwood by Amity Gaige (★★★★☆)

Audiobook • Spotify • Mystery • 2025

Short synopsis: Heartwood takes you on a journey as a search and rescue team race against time when an experienced hiker mysteriously disappears on the Appalachian Trail in Maine.

I’ve been hearing a lot of great things about this book, so I decided to give it a try on audio. These types of books (literary mysteries) often work better for me in that format, and in this case, it was the right call! The audiobook was fantastic, with multiple narrators, and I really enjoyed the way they included things like transcripts and interviews into the narrative.

I really, really enjoyed this book. It follows three women: the hiker who disappeared, the game warden who is leading the search-and-rescue mission, and an old lady in a retirement community who is following the search. While I could have done without the last POV, I was fully immersed in the first two POVs and I was on the edge of my seat as the search-and-rescue team got closer and closer to the missing hiker. This was a fascinating story and so beautifully written. I can absolutely understand why it has gotten so many rave reviews. (Recommendation sources: Lisa, Birchie)

Say You’ll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez (★★★★★)

Print • Owned (Barnes & Noble) • Contemporary Romance • 2025

Short synopsis: Xavier and Samantha have one unforgettable date that changes everything. When family crisis pulls her away, they’re left to decide if a single perfect night is enough, or if it’s worth fighting for a love that lasts.

Oh my GOODNESS. This book! It gave me all of the happy feels. It was the kind of book I didn’t want to finish, so I tried to savor every chapter. The thing about Abby Jimenez is that she’s going to take you through the emotional wringer because her books are not just sappy love stories; they are also about grief and tragedy and the hard parts of life. In this case, Samantha’s mother is in her mid-fifties when she is diagnosed with early-onset dementia and needs round-the-clock care. The whole family (Samantha, her two siblings, her grandma, and her father) pitches in to help, but it also means that Samantha has to move to California to help take care of her mother, while Xavier lives in Minnesota. And since he’s just opened a veterinary clinic that’s not yet breaking even… their romance is not as simple as one may think.

What I loved most about this book is how real everything felt. Samantha’s family loved fiercely, but they also fought with each other and avoided each other and kept secrets from each other. It was messy and heartbreaking, but beautiful, too. I truly had no idea how Jimenez was going to bring Xavier and Samantha together. It all felt impossible! And yet… she did, and the resolution was immensely satisfying. When I finished this novel, I just wanted to flip back to the beginning and experience it all over again. It will be hard to find another romance that made me feel so swoony, so it’s an easy contender for my favorite romance (and maybe book!) of the year.

The Address by Fiona Davis (★★★★☆)

Print • Owned (Amazon) • Historical Fiction • 2017

Short synopsis: After rising to head housekeeper in a London hotel, Sara Smythe’s life changes when Theodore Camden offers her a chance to manage New York’s grand Dakota Apartments, a role full of opportunity—and complicated feelings—for a woman in 1884. One hundred years later, a down-on-her-luck aspiring designer is given the opportunity to bring the famous Dakota into the modern age. 

This is one of those historical novels that dips back and forth in time, which is a plot device that doesn’t always work for me. Thankfully, for this novel, I thought both plotlines were equally intriguing. Sara is a woman who is so easy to root for. I just wanted good things for her, even when she was making some really poor choices. Her story took some unexpected turns, and in doing so, it shone a light on some of the challenges facing women during this time period. And in the other storyline, you have Bailey, who is fresh from rehab and trying to rebuild her life after making her own poor choices. But Bailey has opportunities that weren’t afforded to Sara, creating a striking contrast between their stories. While these types of historical fiction novels typically don’t make my favorites list at the end of the year, they are the books that I think about fondly and wholeheartedly recommend for a satisfying, thought-provoking read.

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What I’m Reading (8.26.25)

The Road to Tender Hearts by Annie Hartnett (★★★★★)

Print • Library • Contemporary Fiction • 2025

Short synopsis: A darkly comic and warm-hearted novel about an old man on a cross-country mission to reunite with his high school crush—bringing together his adult daughter, two orphaned kids, and a cat who can predict death.

This novel was so much fun! I haven’t read anything by Annie Hartnett, but I’m a sucker for a road trip book and I kept hearing really good things about this one. I immediately fell in love with all of the characters in the novel, from the old man who is just trying his best to his adult daughter who needs her dad to be a better father to the precocious kids who are dealing with tragedy. Plus, there is PANCAKES. This cat is everything and I loved him so very much, even though I would never want to cross paths with him since he’s a predictor of death! The novel had so much heart and so much dark comedy. I loved the absurdity of it and the way everything came together in the end. It was one of my favorite reads this year! (Recommendation source: Sarah’s Book Shelves Live)

Bad City: Peril and Power in the City of Angels by Paul Pringle (★★★★★)

Audiobook • Hoopla • Nonfiction • 2022

Short synopsis: In 2016, investigative reporter Paul Pringle received a tip about a USC dean’s drug overdose, which led him to expose crimes, cover-ups, and corruption that reached all the way into his own newsroom.

This story was WILD! I don’t think I’ve ever said so many things out loud while listening to an audiobook. “That’s so fucked up!” “What the hell!” It was a very immersive experience. I love a great narrative nonfiction novel, and this one read almost like a crazy fiction novel. (It’s very similar to how I felt reading Bad Blood or Catch and Kill.) What shocked me most wasn’t just the corruption at a prestigious university, but also the corruption within Pringle’s own newsroom, where editors with USC ties tried to bury the story. I am constantly amazed at the lengths these investigative reporters go to uncover the truth, risking careers, safety, and sanity while tirelessly tracking down sources and evidence. This book pulled back the curtain on what it really takes to bring these stories to light, and I absolutely loved it. Highly recommend! (Recommendation source: Sarah’s Book Shelves Live)

The Bell in the Fog by Lev AC Rosen (★★★★☆)

Print • Library • Mystery/Historical • 2023

Short synopsis: In 1952 San Francisco, disgraced ex-cop turned private detective Andy Mills takes on a blackmail case from an old flame, pulling him back into the dangerous shadows of the Navy and the city’s queer underworld. 

The Bell in the Fog, the second book in the Evander Mills series, was such a great read! What I love most about these books is a peek into what life was like for queer people in the 1950s. It was a dangerous time to be gay, and while there were clubs that functioned as sanctuaries for gay life, those were also the clubs that were regularly being raided by police. The mystery at the heart of this novel wasn’t all that exciting, but it was everything happening around the mystery that I loved. I loved the queer characters, the club where Andy works, and the deeper insight into Andy’s life before he became a cop. It’s not the kind of book that will change your life, but it’s a fun escape with a lot of heart and rich history.

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What I’m Reading (8.18.25)

Today’s book reviews are brought to you by the letter D for Disappointment. These were three books I was looking forward to reading because one is by a trusted author (Great Big Beautiful Life), one was recommended by a trusted source (The Last One), and one is a very popular romance that I was certain was going to work for me (Every Summer After). Alas, it was a string of duds in a row but thankfully, my reading has definitely picked up since then! For now, enjoy some spicy opinions.

Great Big Beautiful Life by Emily Henry (★★☆☆☆)

Print • Owned (Tombolo Books) • Contemporary Romance • 2025

Short synopsis: An aspiring writer and a Pulitzer-winning journalist are pitted against each other to compete for the biography of a reclusive heiress, only to find themselves tangled in secrets, half-truths, and an unexpected attraction. 

When I finished this book, I said out loud to no one, “Thank God that’s over.” This is one of my least-favorite Emily Henry romances. (Worse than People You Meet on Vacation, and you really have to be bad to compete for that spot!) The romance between Alice and Hayden was so dull. They had no chemistry and I just didn’t believe in the romance. Emily Henry was trying to play with the “grumpy/sunshine” romance trope, but since neither of these characters felt real, the trope just annoyed me. The story within the story—going through the ups and downs of a heiress’s family/life—was pretty boring. She wasn’t exactly a compelling character, and her life story wasn’t all that exciting, quite frankly. I can’t help but compare this book to The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, and unfortunately, Great Big Beautiful Life was a pale imitation without the glamour, intrigue, or depth. This book might have worked better as contemporary fiction rather than a romance, but as it stands, it’s a skippable Henry novel.

The Last One by Will Dean (★☆☆☆☆)

Audiobook • Libby • Thriller • 2023

Short synopsis: Caz boards the luxurious RMS Atlantica for a dream vacation with her new love, but wakes to find Pete—and everyone else on the ship—gone.

It’s been quite a while since I gave a book 1 star. Typically, I wouldn’t even finish a book like this, but I kept listening because I needed to know what happened. And while that’s usually the mark of a good book, in this case, it wasn’t. This is the kind of book that starts off super intriguing, but quickly becomes absurd and unbelievable. It was also way too long (14 hours; 450 pages) and I was so ready to be done. (And speaking of the audiobook, the narrator wasn’t great. Her American accents were laughably bad.) But what tipped this book into 1-star territory was the ending. I should have seen it coming, but the last sentence had me rolling my eyes and saying, “REALLY?!” Ugh. What a waste of my listening hours! (Recommendation source: Meredith of Currently Reading.)

Every Summer After by Carley Fortune (★★★☆☆ 1/2)

E-Book • Libby • Contemporary Romance • 2022

Short synopsis: After spending six summers visiting a lakeside cottage as a teenager and falling in love with the boy next door, Persephone Fraser has returned after more than a decade away. 

I have such complicated feelings about this book! The more I sit with it and think about the story as a whole, the less I like it. While I was reading it, I couldn’t get enough of it, but things really fell apart in the last few chapters. It was a bit of a disappointment. At first, I wasn’t sure if I was in the mood for a dual-timeline book, especially if that timeline took place while Percy was a teenager. But those ended up being the most compelling chapters! Percy and Sam as adults were a snoozefest. They were so boring, and the insta-love that happened with them after a whole decade apart (and many secrets to be revealed) didn’t feel earned. We spent so much time in the past that the present-day chapters felt thin, and I wasn’t invested in them at all. Did I want them to fall back in love? I mean, my spicy opinion is that I think Percy should be with Sam’s brother, but that’s just me. It’s hard to rate this book because some of it was so freaking cute and everything I want in a romance, but it just didn’t come together in a satisfying way.

What are you reading?