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Reading Wrap-Up | April 2018

April was a great month of reading for me, and I’m reading at an insane pace once again. I finished my 50th book within the first few days of May, which means I could maybe hit 150 books read this year. However, before you get too excited about that number, please remember that I read a lot of romance novels. Probably 60% of what I read is romance, so that’s important to bear in mind. Thanks to the Bookly app, I’ll be able to deduce how long it takes me to read a romance versus a non-romance, and I’m interested in how the numbers compare! As one friend put it, even if I am reading a lot of romance, reading time is reading time and it all counts.

Anywho, here’s my reading wrap-up for the month of April:

April Reading List

In April, I read 10 books and abandoned one. Here were my favorites from this month:

  • Overall favorite: Dreamland Burning by Jennifer Latham (review)
  • Favorite romance: An Extraordinary Union by Alyssa Cole
  • Other 4 and 5-star reads:
    • Take the Lead by Alexis Daria (review)
    • Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah (review)
    • The Way Home by Cindy Gerard (review)
    • Make Me Want by Katee Robert (review)
    • Men We Reaped by Jesmyn Ward (review)
    • Remedial Rocket Science by Susannah Nix
  • Book I was lukewarm about: The Wife by Alafair Burke
  • Book I didn’t like: Everybody’s Son by Thrity Umrigar (review)
  • Book I abandoned: Astrophysics for People in a Hurry by Neil deGrasse Tyson

Other Book Stats

  • Number of pages read: 2,992
  • Breakdown of formats: e-books (6), physical copies (2), audiobooks (2)
  • Book that took me the longest time to read: Everybody’s Son (12 days)
  • Book that took me the shortest time to read: Remedial Rocket Science (1 day)
  • Breakdown of genres: romance (5), nonfiction (2), fiction (1), YA (1), thriller (1)
  • Number of diverse reads: 6 (60%)
  • Where I sourced my books: library/Overdrive (7), Audible (1), Thriftbooks (1), Amazon (1)
  • How much I spent this month: $3.86

Favorite Book Quotes

“We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most. Failure is an answer. Rejection is an answer. Regret is an eternal question you will never have the answer to.” – Born a Crime

“What I did not understand then was that the same pressures were weighing on us all. My entire community suffered from a lack of trust: we didn’t trust society to provide the basics of a good education, safety, access to good jobs, fairness in the justice system. And even as we distrusted the society around us, the culture that cornered us and told us were perpetually less, we distrusted each other. We did not trust our fathers to raise us, to provide for us. Because we trusted nothing, we endeavored to protect ourselves, boys becoming misogynistic and violent, girls turning duplicitous, all of us hopeless.” – Men We Reaped

“I understand now that history only moves forward in a straight line when we learn from it. Otherwise it loops past the same mistakes over and over again.” – Dreamland Burning

What was the best book you read in April?

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What I’m Reading (4.23.18)

Happy Monday, friends! It’s a great week for me because I only have to get through the next five days before I’m on my cruise! YAY! My mom and I booked this cruise such a long time ago, and I can’t believe we’re almost there.

This will likely be the last “What I’m Reading” post for a while. I’m not posting next week and when I come back, I want to do some monthly recaps and then trip recaps, so it’s looking like May 21st will be the grand return of “What I’m Reading.”

I finished three books last week (nearly finished four – I’ll finish the romance I’m reading today!) and they were all fantastic 4- or 5-star reads. Love weeks like that! Let’s dive in:

Books Finished

Title: Make Me Want
Author: Katee Robert
Format: e-book
Published: 2018
Rating: ★★★★☆

I breezed through this fun, light-hearted romance novel. The novel begins when high-powered lawyer Lucy asks her friend, headhunter Gideon, for a favor. She has learned that she has the potential to become a partner at her law firm, but that she’ll only be considered if she’s married. So, she wants Gideon to find her a husband. Oh, and she also wants Gideon to give her lessons on how to be better at sex. Yeah. It’s a fun premise and I think Robert does a great job at capturing both Lucy and Gideon’s internal motivations to bring about a compelling narrative. This novel is the first in her new series and I cannot wait to see where she takes it from here. (Add to Goodreads.)

Title: Dreamland Burning
Author: Jennifer Latham
Format: Library audiobook
Published: 2017
Rating: ★★★★★

Did you know that the Tulsa race riot, which happened in 1921, is considered one of the worst acts of racial violence in the US? It’s not surprising if you haven’t because it wasn’t until 1996 that a commission was formed to study this race riot, and not until 2001 that the commission published its final report. Meaning, this race riot was omitted from so much of our history, the victims silenced. It’s horrific, and I am so grateful for Jennifer Latham bringing this story to life. The story skips back and forth in time, between the present day and 1921. Present day finds us with 17-year-old Rowan, the summer before her senior year of college. On one of her first days of summer break, she discovers a skeleton on her property and decides she’ll play amateur sleuth along with her best friend to find out who this skeleton was and what happened to him or her. Meanwhile, in the past, 17-year-old Will is living in segregated Tulsa where he’s forced to work at his dad’s fancy Victrola shop and deal with a supremely racist neighbor. The storylines are woven together so intricately, and in a way that allows readers to see just how little race relations have changed in a near century. Sure, we’re not segregating people anymore, but we’re not living in some post-racial utopia. Not even a little bit. As the story progresses, it’s easy to recognize that it’s all going to culminate in a scary, horrifying way. I listened to this book on audio and it was fantastic. Almost movie-like in the production, so I highly recommend it on audio. (Add to Goodreads.)

Title: Men We Reaped
Author: Jesmyn Ward
Format: Library e-book
Published: 2013
Rating: ★★★★☆

After Jesmyn Ward lost five young men in her life in close succession, starting with her brother, she decided she needed to get to the bottom of why. So she wrote this memoir that explores the lives of these young men, as well as her own life, as a way to come to terms with what happened and why it happened. It’s a powerful story about the history of racism, the effects of economic struggle, and the impact that these deaths had on her and her entire community. It’s not a fun or easy read, but an incredibly important one. As much as I’d love to only read what makes me happy, I read to expand my own personal worldview and to hear stories that are so different from my own. This book is a great companion to Evicted by Matthew Desmond, and I highly encourage everyone to give it a try. (Add to Goodreads.)

Books Abandoned

Well, I was worried this would happen! I abandoned Astrophysics for People in a Hurry by Neil deGrasse Tyson because the content was a bit too deep for me. Since I am super interested in astronomy (I even took an astronomy class for “fun” in college, just to expand my knowledge), I thought I would be able to hold my own with this book, but it just wasn’t for me. I feel like Tyson does his best to break down the science and make it easy to digest for people like me, but even so, I found myself having to read sentences over and over and over again so I could understand what he was saying. And most of it still went over my head. And, you know, that’s totally okay. A part of me feels dumb for not being able to “get it,” but another part of me just accepts that concepts like these work better for me in a different format. I thought about trying the book on audio, but I think that would go even worse because my mind wanders a lot when listening to audiobooks (which is why most of the nonfiction I listen to is memoirs). Instead, I think I may take the “easy” way out and just start watching Cosmos, Tyson’s docuseries about space. I watched the first four episodes on Netflix but then stopped for reasons I don’t know. So, I think I’m going to restart and get my astronomy “fix” that way. Live and learn. 🙂

What I’m Reading This Week

  • An Extraordinary Union by Alyssa Cole – I am nearly finished with this historical romance, and it’s one I am having such a hard time putting down! It’s so well-written and the premise is so unique! It’s also the kind of romance I feel like I could recommend to readers who want to read something light-hearted, but that also has a lot of substance.
  • The Engagements by J. Courtney Sullivan – I’ve heard great things about this book and I really, really enjoy Sullivan’s writing style, so I’m excited to give this one a try. I’ve had a copy of the book sitting on my bookshelf for over two years, so it’s time to sit down and read it.
  • The Wife by Alafair Burke – This is my book club’s May pick that I’m going to read while I’m on my cruise. It’s a domestic thriller, which should make it perfect reading at a time when I don’t have to put down a page-turner if I don’t want to!

What are you reading this week?

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What I’m Reading (4.16.18)

Hi, friends! Happy Monday. I’m less than two weeks away from my next cruise, so it’s honestly all I can think about. Is it too early to start packing? 😉

I had a good reading week, finishing two books and starting a few others over the weekend. As you’ll see in my “What I’m Reading This Week” section, I am not the type of reader who can read one book at a time and I’m especially not doing that this week as I’m listening to an audiobook, reading two nonfiction books, and reading a romance. Whew! This week and weekend will be a busy one for me, so we’ll see how much I can accomplish.

For now, let’s dive into my reviews of what I finished last week and what I’m reading this week.

Books Finished

Title: Everybody’s Son
Author: Thrity Umrigar
Format: Paperback
Published: 2017
Rating: ★★★☆☆

I read this for my local book club, and I was really excited to read it since it came highly recommended. It started off strong, as we learn about our two main characters – Anton, a young black boy growing up in poverty, and David Coleman, a white man who has had all of the privileges in life (both in being a white man and being rich). David and his wife Delores become Anton’s foster parents while his mother is in prison, and then eventually adopt him using their privilege and power to do so. The rest of the story explores this intersection of race and privilege, as Anton grows up and becomes powerful in his own right. The premise sounds great, which is why I couldn’t wait to read it, but I just found that the writing took itself a little too seriously. It was more about exploring these big issues and less about creating a story with compelling characters. I thought the beginning was fantastic and I was convinced it was going to be an easy 5-star read, but then the plot unraveled in the middle and it never could seem to get itself together. I just didn’t see these characters as real people, and Anton in his later years especially seemed to be one-dimensional. I hate to say it like this, but it’s one of those books that I think might have been better written by somebody else. (Add to Goodreads.)

Title: The Way Home
Author: Cindy Gerard
Format: Library e-book
Published: 2013
Rating: ★★★★★

Cindy Gerard truly never lets me down when it comes to romantic suspense, but I was a little wary of this because it was a little different than her typical novels and I knew it was going to involve tough subject matter, re: the PTSD effects of a soldier being tortured for 3+ years. The heroine of this novel is Jess whose husband J.R. was killed-in-action four years ago. She’s been trying to move on with her life, and that includes falling in love with a guy named Ty. They are planning their wedding when Jess finds out that her husband is not dead, he is very much alive. And what kind of woman would she be if she abandoned her husband when he needed her the most? Ugh, talk about tugging at my heartstrings! Obviously, this is a romance novel, so I knew what was going to happen. I knew, against all odds, Jess and Ty would end up together and that even J.R. would find his own happy ending, but the process of getting there was fraught and I appreciated the push/pull dynamic that Gerard so deftly wrote. It’s a book that maybe wrapped up a little too neatly, but that’s how I like my romances, so it was A-OK to me. (Add to Goodreads.)

What I’m Reading This Week

  • Astrophysics for People in a Hurry by Neil DeGrasse Tyson – I’m reading one chapter a day in this slim volume because I think that’s all my brain can handle. But Tyson does his best to make a subject like astrophysics as accessible as he can, so I’m hanging in there so far.
  • Dreamland Burning by Jennifer Latham – This is my audiobook fiction pick for the month of April. I started it on Sunday and the audio is fantastic. It feels very movie-like in the production and it moves seamlessly through the two narrators and story lines. Excited to spend my week with this book!
  • Men We Reaped by Jesmyn Ward – I started this book over the weekend and I can already see why Jesmyn Ward is such a celebrated author. She writes so well and so vividly that I can feel her pain and heartbreak radiating through the pages. This book is going to be a tough one, but such an important one as well.
  • Make Me Want by Katee Robert – This is my romance pick for the week from one of my new favorite contemporary romance authors. This is the first book in her brand-new series and I can’t wait to dive in.

What are you reading this week?

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What I’m Reading (4.9.18)

Happy Monday, friends! Near the start of the weekend, I was worried that I might not have any books to talk about this week – at least books I’ve finished. It was a really busy week and weekend and I only grabbed reading time in snippets, like right before bed or on my lunch hour at work. But I did end up finishing two books this week even in the midst of my crazy schedule. One was a romance (and I was more apt to pick it up this week because my anxiety was all over the place and I just needed something light-hearted) and the other was an audiobook that I listened to on my commute.

Books Finished

Title: Take the Lead
Author: Alexis Daria
Format: e-book
Published: 2017
Rating: ★★★★☆

I’ve been hearing a ton of buzz in romancelandia about this novel, and since I’m trying to read more diverse and queer romance this year, I decided to pick it up as my diverse romance for April. I was nervous because I have really high standards when it comes to romances and a lot of the books that are frequently recommended in this genre just don’t do it for me. Thankfully, Take the Lead totally delivered. The novel is basically inspired by Dancing with the Stars and involves the love story of trained dancer Gina, who has just been told that she has to make it to the finals in The Dance Off or else she’s out of a job, and Stone, a reality TV star. His family has been part of the popular wilderness show Living Wild for a number of years, so he’s a macho outdoorsman who lives off-the-grid in Alaska and doesn’t know much about LA or dancing or any of that. And, of course, these two opposites attract as Gina helps Stone open up, both with his feelings and with his dancing. I was thoroughly impressed with this debut and wanted to spend all my time in their little world. (Add to Goodreads.)

Title: Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood
Author: Trevor Noah
Format: Audiobook
Published: 2016
Rating: ★★★★★

If you’ve never listened to an audiobook before and don’t understand the appeal, do yourself a favor and download Trevor Noah’s memoir. I promise you: it will be completely worth the listen! The audiobook isn’t too long (just under 9 hours) and he is a fantastic narrator. He uses voices perfectly and for me, he totally captured the spirit and heart of South Africa. I didn’t know much about Trevor Noah or his life before listening. All I really know about him is that I love him on the Daily Show and his recent comedy special was amazing. And I was blown away by this memoir. It only covered his life in South Africa (I was dying to know how he ended up in America and becoming the new host of the Daily Show, but alas, that wasn’t the reason for this book), but it was everything I expected: funny and sad and heartfelt and silly and maddening. All of the emotions! Trevor Noah truly endured a lot throughout his childhood and early adulthood, and it was astounding and heartbreaking. I highly, highly, highly recommend this book and I think it’s such an important read. (Add to Goodreads.)

What I’m Reading This Week

  • Everybody’s Son by Thrity Umrigar – I didn’t really have much time for reading this week due to my busy schedule and when I did have some free time, I just wanted to read my light-hearted romance novel. Still, I managed to read 150 pages of this novel and I’m sure I’ll finish it early this week since I don’t have much going on. It’s interesting, for sure, but also makes me angry, which is why I’m less and less inclined to pick it up. (Angry in a good way…? Like, it’s bringing up emotions in me that I know the author wanted.)
  • The Way Home by Cindy Gerard – My romance pick for this week! Cindy Gerard is my absolutely favorite when it comes to romantic suspense and I’m excited to dive in this week.
  • Astrophysics for People in a Hurry by Neil Degrasse Tyson – This is my nonfiction pick off my “immediate TBR” and I’m apprehensive about it. I’m just not sure it’s going to be accessible enough for me! My plan is to go slowwwww with it, maybe just a few pages a day, and really try to understand what he’s saying. That said, I’m also not averse to abandoning it if it’s not serving me. We’ll see!

What are you reading this week?

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Reading Wrap-Up | March 2018

I thought a lot about how I wanted to structure my monthly book report on my blog. Obviously, now that I’m writing a weekly What I’m Reading blog post, it’s almost as if I don’t even need this monthly roundup. But alas, here I am, writing a monthly reading roundup. What can I say? I love looking at my reading stats and talking about my favorite books. So here we are! This was actually really fun to pull together and I hope you enjoy it.

March Reading List

In March, I read 11 books and abandoned one. Here were my favorites from this month:

  • Overall favorite: Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman (review)
  • Favorite romance: Roomies by Christina Lauren (review)
  • Other favorites (all books I gave 4 or 5 stars to):
    • Holiday in the Hamptons by Sarah Morgan
    • Nobody But You by Jill Shalvis (review)
    • A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith (review)
    • Love Hacked by Penny Reid (review)
    • Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman by Lindy West (review)
    • Not That I Could Tell by Jessica Strawser (review)
    • Irresistibly Yours by Lauren Layne (review)
  • Book I was lukewarm about: I Found You by Lisa Jewell (review)
  • Book I didn’t like: The Wedding Date by Jasmine Guillory (review)
  • Book I abandoned: First Women: The Grace and Power of America’s Modern First Ladies by Kate Andersen Brower

I read Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine for my work book club and The Wedding Date for my local book club. A Tree Grows in Brooklyn was the book I read to fulfill my “read four classics” yearly goal. All other books I read because they were on my monstrously long TBR list!

Other Book Stats

  • Number of pages read: 3,750
  • Breakdown of formats: physical copies (5), e-books (5), audiobooks (1)
  • Book that took me the longest time to read: A Tree Grows in Brooklyn (15 days)
  • Book that took me the shortest time to read: Roomies (2 days)
  • Breakdown of genres: romance (6), thrillers (2), fiction (2), and nonfiction (1)
  • Number of diverse reads: 1 (8% <– yikes!)
  • Where I sourced my books: Overdrive/library (6), Book of the Month (2), Target (2), Amazon (1)
  • How much I spent this month: $56.53

Favorite Book Quotes

“‘Because,’ explained Mary Rommely simply, ‘the child must have a valuable thing which is called imagination. The child must have a secret world in which live things that never were. It is necessary that she believe. She must start out by believing in things not of this world. Then when the world becomes too ugly for living in, the child can reach back and live in her imagination.’” – A Tree Grows in Brooklyn

“However, it is easier to mock and deride individual fat people than to fix food deserts, school lunches, corn subsidies, inadequate or nonexistent public transportation, unsafe sidewalks and parks, healthcare, mental healthcare, the minimum wage, and your own insecurities.” – Shrill

“On your wedding day, you’re choosing to love that person forever, but that’s just the beginning. You have to continue to choose them, every day. It’s not like your other options are going away – it’s up to you to turn them away. Marriage isn’t what it once was to a lot of people. And if you really want it to work, you’re not making a one-time vow – you’re committing to a lifetime of remarrying that person every day.” – Not That I Could Tell

What was the best book you read last month?