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Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo a Day | February 14 – 20 (With FIGs!)

February 14, 2026 – Happy Valentine’s Day to meeee! I used to really hate Valentine’s Day as a perpetually single girl, but these days, I try to see it as a fun way to celebrate friendship and my relationship with myself.

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful that I have had a burst of inspiration for a novel! It’s been really fun to brainstorm about my idea and start imagining a whole new world and characters.

February 15, 2026 – A day where not much happened, so thankfully, I have a very adorable cat who doesn’t mind posing for photos. She’s so happy to have her hammock back by the window!

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful for a day to myself! I slept in, got some errands and chores done, and allowed myself some laziness, too. A perfect day!

February 16, 2026 – I bought this new lamp at Target, and I can’t even begin to describe how much I love it. It’s adorable, for one, and I love the way it casts my living room with the coziest light in the evening.

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful for simple joys like this lamp and that I was able to put together my new office chair pretty easily.

February 17, 2026 – Lila meow-deling the new office chair! I love it so much. It glides much more smoothly and is super comfortable.

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful for good books. Today, I finished an excellent romance and couldn’t stop thinking about the characters all day! A sign of a great story.

February 18, 2026 – It’s been a hot minute since I took a selfie, so here you go! A busy meeting day means I did my hair and makeup, and put on real clothes.

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful for Kim! She sent me the sweetest gift in the mail, and it really touched me. I’m so glad she’s part of my life!

February 19, 2026 – The girls were being nosy neighbors this morning! I tried to get Eloise to look at me, but she refused.

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful for feeling good! I went on a walk in the afternoon, and for the first time in a very long time, I felt this strong desire to turn my walk into a run. I did not do that because I know my joints are not ready for more strenuous exercise (even a light jog!), but what a difference a few weeks on steroids makes. From “It would be nice to be able to stand up without pain,” to “Should I turn this walk into a run?”

February 20, 2026 – Did you know that Eloise is solar-powered? Every morning, she lies in this specific spot on my desk to ensure she garners enough energy to make it through the day.

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful for my new coffee table! It was super easy to put together, and it makes me stupidly happy.

What’s something you’re grateful for today?

Categories: Recurring Series

Three Things Thursday (v. 16)

Three confessions

1) I’ve been off Instagram for a little over three weeks now, and I don’t miss it at all. I really thought this would be a short break, and I’d go back in a month, feeling refreshed. But I don’t know if I want to. I even have the app on my phone now (so I can post to our podcast Instagram), but I never open it up on my own. I only open it to schedule posts. There’s a freedom in being away, although I do miss watching some of my favorite funny Instagram accounts. Maybe I’ll just bookmark them and check on them once a week?

2) I haven’t started my new PsA medication because it was just filled yesterday. For some reason, the pharmacy couldn’t get a hold of my doctor to clarify a drug interaction (they thought I was still taking meloxicam, which I stopped when I started on prednisone), but luckily, I was able to sort it out myself. But I’m picking up the prescription today!

3) I’m finding my goal of texting two friends every day to be really difficult. There are some friends I text naturally throughout the week, but then there are friends whom I rarely reach out to unless it’s for a specific purpose. I need to be better at just texting them to check in, but it feels forced. I think I just need to get out of my own head.

Three of the lowest-rated books on my Goodreads TBR

1) My Best Friend’s Honeymoon by Meryl Wilsner (3.22 stars) – I’m not sure how this book made it onto my TBR, but this is an astonishingly low Goodreads rating for a romance! Apparently, there are a lot of sexytimes, but not enough emotional resonance. I’m probably going to delete this one.

2) The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern Irrationality by Amanda Montell (3.43 stars) – I’ve read two of Amanda Montell’s books and liked both of them well enough, but this one is getting resoundingly panned on Goodreads. It’s more memoir than social science, which the title or blurb doesn’t lead me to believe. Hmm.

3) Follow Me by Elizabeth Rose Quinn (3.46 stars) – I added this book to my TBR based on Kim’s recommendation. It’s definitely getting mixed reviews, but I’m going to try it on audio and see how I feel about it.

Three things I’m looking forward to

1) My solo reading retreat – I booked it! I’ll be spending April 16-19 at a sweet Airbnb in North Port, FL (about an hour and a half south of me) and I’m so excited!

2) A weekend trip to Boston with my mom – I went to Boston in 2019 with book club, and I loved the city so much! My mom expressed interest in visiting, so we’re planning a weekend trip in late March. Yay!

3) Resuming game nights with the fam – During football season, we pause our biweekly game nights since we spend the entirety of Sunday at my mom’s house watching the games. But now that football season is over, it’s time for game nights once again! Our first one of the year is next weekend.

Three things I said to my cats this week (presented without comment)

1) “You’re so cute, I want to eat your face off.”

2) “Do you love me as much as I love you?”

3) “Are you hanging out with me? You’re hanging out with your mommy? I love you!”

Three of my most-used apps yesterday

1) Happy Color (duh)

2) Car Jam (this incredibly silly phone game that I’m high-key obsessed with)

3) Overcast (podcasts)

Three snacks I had this week

1) Girl Scout cookies! I have five boxes in my apartment right now (three Thin Mints, two Samoas) and I am one happy girlie.

2) Peanut butter crackers

3) Built Puff protein bars (the mint chip flavor is to die for!)

Three things on my to-do list

1) Cancel my ASPCA donation – This has been on my to-do list for weeks. I have to call to cancel; it’s not something I can do online. Which is very annoying! While I appreciate the work that the ASPCA does, I would like to funnel my donation to a local animal shelter.

2) Deal with Eloise’s tag situation – I got a card in the mail a few months ago saying that Eloise’s tag is expired. It’s not. They just have her tag number inputted wrong in their system (I get these notifications regularly). I just need to send them the proper tag information, but it keeps falling off my to-do list, argh.

3) Buy more Mixtiles – My friend Amber gave me a Mixtiles gift card for my birthday, and I have yet to use it! I keep waiting for the perfect sale.

Three podcast episodes I listened to yesterday

1) American History Tellers

2) Currently Reading

3) The Friendship Paradox (yes, I listen to my own podcast)

Three recent purchases

1) A new lamp – It’s so cute, you guys. I’ll show it to you in this week’s Saturday photo roundup!

2) Kerasal ointment – My heels need some intense TLC. They are so cracked and rough! This ointment is pretty heavy-duty, so I’m hoping slathering it on my heels nightly will help.

3) Birthday cards – I bought a whole bunch of cute birthday cards at Home Goods this weekend. Yay!

Three things I’m doing this weekend

1) Book club – We have book club on Sunday morning. We’re planning on doing brunch and board games at a friend’s house.

2) A writing date – I’m spending one hour of each writing date working on blogging or podcasting stuff, and then the second hour working on my novel idea. It’s been so fun to brainstorm!

3) Napping – What’s a weekend if it doesn’t include a few naps?

What is something you’re looking forward to, a recent snack you’ve had, and something you’re doing this weekend?

Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo a Day | February 7 – 13 (with FIGs!)

Saturday, February 7, 2026 – Podcasting date! Bri and I planned to record three episodes, but we got tired after two, ha. The dogs were our sleepy producers.

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful to Bri’s husband who made a delicious dinner for the three of us, and watching Olympics coverage with them! A lovely, cozy night in.

Sunday, February 8, 2026 – I didn’t take a single photo at my Super Bowl party, oops. Thankfully, Eloise was a willing participant for today’s photo. God, she’s cute.

Today’s FIG: I’m thankful for a wonderful Super Bowl party and truly excellent halftime show. Bad Bunny was everything!

Monday, February 9, 2026 – I moved Lila’s favorite hammock to the living room and she couldn’t be happier! (I had it in the living room originally, but she wasn’t using it, even though she slept in it all the time at the old apartment. So I moved it into my office, but she still wouldn’t use it. I moved it back to the living room, thinking that maybe now that she’s more comfortable in our new home, she’ll be more apt to use it and I was right. She spends alllll her time napping in this hammock now!)

Today’s FIG: I’m grateful for a proactive and caring rheumatologist. She called in a different steroid since the prednisone wasn’t working as effectively as we hoped.

Tuesday, February 10, 2026 – This is a very pet-centric post this week! Here is my dearest Eloise Joy, who is the apple of my eye.

Today’s FIG: A walk in the sunshine. I was filled with this overwhelming sense of gratitude and contentment that I get to live in this beautiful place!

Wednesday, February 11, 2026 – I finished this book in three sittings. It was sensational!

Today’s FIG: Another fun trivia night with Mom. We did much worse this week, but we had a good time together!

Thursday, February 12, 2026 – Chipwich and The Traitors, an excellent Thursday night combination!

Today’s FIG: I’m glad I have a flexible job where my every moment isn’t monitored. It’s nice to be able to pop out for appointments and such without it being a huge deal!

Friday, February 13, 2026 – It’s Galentine’s Day! My mom, Bri, and I saw & Juliet at the Straz, and you guys, I am still not over how much I loved this show. It was beautifully queer and so campy! And the lead is straight out of high school, which is mind-boggling to me. Can you imagine being 18 or 19 and headlining a national tour?! WILD.

Today’s FIG: I am so grateful for my friendship with Bri. I’m glad she took a chance on this shy, introverted girl and forced her to be her friend! My life is so much better with her in it!

What is something you’re grateful for today?

Categories: Recurring Series

Five for Friday (v. 126)

1) A rheumatology update

Yesterday was my follow-up rheumatology appointment to go over my bloodwork and X-rays and talk about my treatment plan. When we last talked about all of this nonsense, I had just had my intake appointment, where the doctor confirmed I likely had psoriatic arthritis and wanted to do some blood tests to get a fuller picture of my health. She started me on a course of steroids (prednisone, starting at 24mg and tapering down to a daily dose of 10mg) to calm down all of my joint stiffness. While the original, higher dose of prednisone helped, eventually, my pain came back once I was on the 10mg for a few days (like, I felt like I did before taking prednisone), so now I’m on a different steroid (medrol, 8mg), which has relieved almost all my symptoms. (Still dealing with a flare in my left ring finger, but the pain/stiffness has decreased a lot.)

What the bloodwork showed is that my inflammation numbers were sky high, but I tested negative for rheumatoid arthritis and many of my other numbers (kidney function, white blood cell count, platelet count, etc.) were normal. I also had X-rays done to get a baseline assessment of my joints/bones, and both shoulders are showing signs of mild osteoarthritis (my right shoulder is a bit worse since that’s my dominant side). I’m still waiting on the results for the other X-rays (I got 12 done!).

My new treatment plan is to start a low dose of methotrexate and see how my body reacts. I’ll continue taking the Medrol for the time being, and we’ll discuss weaning off the steroid at my next follow-up in six weeks. Things are hap-hap-happening! It was a big appointment and my mind was spinning when I left the office, but mostly, I feel okay with everything. I’m glad I have a diagnosis after so many months of chronic pain and a solid treatment plan to get me on the road to wellness.

2) Other potential medical woes

A few other interesting things popped up in my bloodwork that I need to follow up with my PCP about. This was NOT THE DEAL, body! The deal was that I was going to accept having an autoimmune condition, get it under control with treatment, and then there would be NO MORE MEDICAL ISSUES.

Here’s what’s going on:

  • High thyroid antibodies – Normal thyroid peroxidase (TPO) antibodies are typically under 34 IU/mL, and mine were at 116 IU/mL. This could indicate another autoimmune condition like Hashimoto’s disease, but I need to get further testing to see what the deal is. My thyroid levels were normal years ago, so if anything is developing, it would be new.
  • High antiphospholipid antibodies – This would indicate some sort of clotting disorder, although I’ve never dealt with blood clots before. It’s possible that these antibodies were temporarily elevated due to the inflammation I was experiencing at the time of my blood test. I’ll get retested in a few months and hopefully they’ll be back to normal.
  • Mild cardiomegaly – Both shoulder X-rays came back with a finding of mild cardiomegaly, aka enlarged heart. My rheumatologist wants me to follow up with my PCP for extra testing just to be on the safe side. Greeeeeat.

Honestly, I’m way more overwhelmed about these three potential conditions, even though the likelihood of any of them turning into full diagnoses may be low, than I was by my psoriatic arthritis diagnosis. Can’t my body just behave for one goddamn month?

3) An update on the feeder situation

Let’s talk about something other than my failing body, shall we? The girls are now successfully using their new microchip feeders. It was quite a process to get them used to these feeders (it took a few weeks) and sometimes Lila still goes up to Eloise’s feeder and is quite confused why the lid isn’t opening, but for the most part, they understand how to use them. I bought these feeders because I wanted to track how much the girls were eating since I have one skinny cat (not underweight, but she could stand to gain a pound or two) and one fluffy cat (she could stand to lose a few pounds). I was pretty certain that Lila wasn’t bullying Eloise out of her food (Eloise is the alpha in this relationship), but it’s just weird that they get the same amount of food and one cat is almost twice the size of the other!

After a little over a month using the feeders successfully, the data I’ve collected is this:

  • Eloise is a bird eater who grazes throughout the day, eating a tiny bit every time, and doesn’t need to eat her full portion to be satisfied and energetic
  • Lila is also a grazer but she eats larger portions (she’s at the feeder for 2-3 minutes at a time while Eloise is at the feeder for less than a minute), but still is not eating her full portion

It’s a very weird situation to have cats who do not scream at me for food every morning. They don’t even eat all of their wet food at one time! They graze on it throughout the morning.

The good news is, Lila is not overeating so she’s either just naturally a fluffier gal or has some sort of medical condition that I refuse to think about. She goes to the vet next month and I’ll have them do some bloodwork to make sure there isn’t any underlying condition to be worried about.

4) Olympics!

It’s Winter Olympics time! I have been enjoying all of the coverage, especially figure skating and snowboarding. The downhill skiing is also fun but makes me really anxious to see how fast these skiiers are going. How do parents handle their kids being in sports like these?! I would be a wreck. I find myself getting teary at times when I watch the figure skaters and the sheer elation on their faces when they nail a routine. Imagine working so goddamn hard for so long and finally getting to the friggin Olympics and you have one of your best performances? That’s an emotion that needs to be bottled up.

5) Weekend plans

I have a three-day weekend, thanks to President’s Day! Woop! Tonight, my mom, Bri, and I are having a little Galentine’s date. We’re going to see & Juliet at the Straz, and I am very much looking forward to it! And then the rest of my weekend is pretty low-key, as my only plan is a writing date with Mikaela on Saturday morning. I would like to visit a thrift shop this weekend, and maybe do a Home Goods/TJ Maxx run. I’ve decided that I must have an end table in my living room or I will die, but I have very specific parameters of the type/size of end table I want. We’ll see if I can find something that works!

What are your weekend plans? Are you watching the Olympics?

Categories: Recurring Series

Snapshot of My Day: Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Time I woke up: 7:00 a.m. (my morning routine is so messed up now that I’m staying up late to watch Olympics coverage)

First thing I did upon waking: I fed the girls and then did an abbreviated morning routine

First app I opened this morning: Email (personal email, not work email!)

Today’s weather: BEAUTIFUL. The high is 73, and it was in the upper 40s when I woke up. Sunny with a slight breeze… this weather is what I live for!

Today’s mood: Mostly upbeat! My pain isn’t too bad, work wasn’t too crazy, and my cats were cute as always.

Something I spent money on today: A bagel and an iced coffee at Einstein’s – I had to run some errands in the morning, so I treated myself to breakfast.

An out-of-the-ordinary thing that happened today: I had to pick up a new prescription (a different steroid since I’m still having lots of joint pain/stiffness on the prednisone, even after increasing the dose), and since I wanted to start it that morning, I had to run that errand around 9am once the pharmacy opened. Traffic was terrible! Gah.

Something weird I said to my cats today: “I’m not trying to murder you! I’m trying to put on a collar.” <– Lila was very much a drama queen about getting a new collar on.

One minor annoyance from my day: Being on the second day of my period. Waking up at 3:30am with cramps is VERY annoying.

Last thing I read (not on the Internet): Heart the Lover by Lily King (I am tearing through this book!)

Last thing I read (on the Internet): Blogs! Specifically, Engie’s post about her FIGs of last week.

Last text I sent: “MY PEARLS” (sent to my mom when Eloise wouldn’t let me remove her new collar that has pearls!)

Last text I received: A picture from a friend to our book club group chat! She’s in NYC and texted us a picture of her dinner spot.

Last website I visited: ChatGPT.

Last show I watched: Olympics! Tonight has been downhill skiing and figure skating.

Last podcast I listened to: Corporate Gossip

Last thing I said: “Found it!” (I was searching for the remote to unmute the TV, so I had to let a snoozing Lila know all was okay.)

Last thing I ate: Chipwich!

New collars! (And an extra one for Lucy because she also loves her pearls.)

What I was doing an hour ago: I was chatting on FaceTime with my mom

What I will be doing an hour from now: Hopefully, I’ll be asleep! I need to wrap up this post and get my evening routine started.

What I need to do before bed: I have to scoop the litter boxes. And start the dishwasher. Ughhhh.

Current whereabouts of other members of my household: Currently, Lila is snoozing beside me on the couch and Eloise is… hold on, let me find her… aww! She’s holding court in my bedroom on top of some pillows.

What time did you wake up yesterday and what was the first app you opened on your phone?

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