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Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo a Day | January 10 – 16, 2026

January 10, 2026 – It was book club day! We met at a local breakfast place and then ventured over to play putt-putt golf. I did not golf because of all my joint pain (can’t really grip the putter and definitely can’t lean down to pick up my ball), so I was the designated scorekeeper! This was probably good for me, too, since I can get way too competitive about things like this. (Also, we were sweating halfway through, and that is unacceptable for January.)

January 11, 2026 – It’s strawberry season, yasssss! While watching playoff football at my mom’s house, she made me a bowl of strawberry shortcake and it was so, so good.

January 12, 2026 – You’re all probably going to tell me what a terrible mother I am, allowing my child to sit so close to the TV. And you’re right, but Eloise does what she wants.

January 13, 2026 – New year, new watch band. It’s Pride-themed, and I loved the material!

January 14, 2026 – Only two weeks into the new year, and I’m already dealing with some new ailment. I went to urgent care because I thought I had a UTI, but the test was negative. Then I learned that, sometimes, UTI symptoms can manifest in psoriatic arthritis. FUN! They sent out my sample for a culture, so I’m really hoping that comes back positive for a UTI because I am struggling and I really hope I can get some antibiotics to help. (Oh! The good news from this appointment: The nurse tested my blood sugar just to see if diabetes might be the cause of these symptoms. I was anxious about the results, but I was completely normal! Hooray!)

January 15, 2026 – Look at these sweet little bebes. I just got this rug, and I wanted it to be obnoxiously fluffy, which it definitely is, and Lila can’t get enough of it! This is supposed to be my little reading nook, but it’s mostly the girls’ napping spot.

January 16, 2026 – LOOK WHO IT IS! Jenny is in Tampa this week, and she was happy to drive over to Downtown St. Pete for an afternoon of bookish adventure. We went to The Book Lounge, Book + Bottle, and Tombolo Books, and while I did not adhere to my limit of one book per location (I came home with five books, so I wasn’t completely out of control), it was so much fun showing Jenny around my favorite places in my city. Downtown St. Pete is so beautiful, vibrant, and super liberal, and it always makes me happy to be there. Jenny was lovely company, as she always is, and we chatted about all sorts of subjects. I love our annual January adventure date!

What’s something fun you did this week?

Categories: Recurring Series

One Photo a Day | Jan 1 – 9, 2026

January 1, 2026 – Starting my last year of my One Line a Day journal! I can’t believe I’ve kept up this habit for so long!

January 2, 2026 – Bri came over in the afternoon to do vision boarding! We talked about our goals for 2026 and got some podcast recording dates on the schedule.

January 3, 2026 – Well, you guys know all the details around these microchip feeders! It’s been a long week. 

January 4, 2026 – Lazy football Sunday. I took a nap and the dogs cuddled with me, which made me very happy.

January 5, 2026 – This girl loves a hammock. And I love this girl!

January 6, 2026 – My January stack from Book of the Month!

January 7, 2026 – Look at my sweet babies! I gave them a new type of food this morning, and it was sardines. It looked terrible, but all of their wet food looks terrible so I didn’t think anything of it. But they were NOT fans and after an hour, when their food was still untouched, I caved and gave them a can of more appetizing food. They were very happy!

January 8, 2026 – I went a little wild at my hair appointment and chopped off a ton of inches. It’s so short now! But it feels good to get some length off and start the new year with a fresh ‘do.

January 9, 2026 – The Traitors is BACK. And my favorite Survivor player and favorite Big Brother player are on this season. Alan Cumming 4EVER.

What’s something you took a photo this week?

Categories: Recurring Series

Five for Friday (v. 124)

Life is heavy, you guys. I feel weird not acknowledging the cold-blooded murder of Renee Good or the completely enraging response by the White House. I feel helpless and sad and scared. I knew life under another Trump regime would be horrifying, but man did I underestimate how dark things would get.

And yet… there is also hope and joy and activism. Protests and fundraisers. And there are silly blog posts to write about my silly privileged life where I can put down my phone and forget about what’s happening. Not everyone gets the chance to do that, and my hope is that this silly blog post delivers a little bit of lightness to you. <3

1) My new morning routine

One of my big goals this year is to figure out my daily routines. I have long struggled with this aspect of full-time remote work, even though it feels like something I should have done to a science by now. This week I finally implemented a new morning routine and I am loving it. I set my alarm for 6 a.m., let it snooze once, and then get up, feed the cats, and make coffee. Then I sit down in my new reading chair in my office and read a book while drinking coffee. Once my cup is empty, I’ll take a shower, make breakfast, and then sit down at the table to eat breakfast and read blogs. Then, it’s time for my morning skincare routine (+ other tasks like emptying the dishwasher, taking my meds, making my bed, dealing with my CPAP machine, etc.). Lastly, I sit down with my planner to write out some to-dos before logging onto work. So far, I am enjoying this morning routine so much! It’s nice to get 20-30 minutes of reading time before my day even begins!

2) Worldle

I haven’t played Worldle (that name is so clunky, ugh) in many years, but I decided to start playing again this year with a very nerdy twist. Worldle is a game where you’re given the outline of a country and have to name what it is. You get six guesses and with every guess, you learn how far away the mystery country is to the country you guessed and its position. For example, yesterday’s answer was Lithuiana and when I guessed Australia (don’t judge me!), it told me the mystery country was 13,553km from Australia and to the west.

And listen, I am terrible at geography so I am terrible at Worldle. I barely ever get the country right unless it’s one of those obvious answers. But I love it because once I find out the country of the day, I open up ChatGPT to ask questions. I ask about the history of the country, the climate, the geography, the culture, what it’s like to live there today, etc. It’s fascinating! I also pull up Google Earth to see where the country is located geographically because my knowledge of where countries are situated is very poor. One of my friends said that Worldle repeats a lot of their answers, but that’s okay! It’ll show me if I’m learning anything from this nerdy project of mine.

3) Bookly

Last year, I used an app called Bookly to track my reading. I wanted to use it for a full year just for shits and giggles. Bookly is an app that tracks how long it takes you to finish books. You can manually enter time or you can use the timer, where you start the timer when you sit down to read and stop the timer when your reading session is over. At the end, you mark down what page you’re on, and then it tells you how long it will take you to finish a book. I also used it to track my audiobook listening hours, which was fascinating!

I wasn’t sure if I was going to keep using Bookly, but once 2026 rolled around, I decided to give it a rest. And OH MY GOD. I had no idea how stressful I had made my reading life! Do you know how satisfying it is to sit down to read and not have to worry about starting a timer? Or listen to an audiobook and not keep track of what time you started listening and what time you stopped? I feel so FREE. I can just read without opening up an app on my phone first! What a concept.

Am I glad I did a full year of book tracking? I guess so? I don’t know what I learned, other than the fact I never want to do it again.

4) Two weeks of feeding training

I spent a lot of time procrastinating about getting my cats’ new microchip feeders set up. I think I got the feeders in early December? And I didn’t set them up until a few days before New Year’s. Oops! My girls eat wet food in the morning (a 3-oz can split between two bowls) and then they free-feed on dry food throughout the rest of the day. And while they are still going to be able to free-feed, they will only be able to eat at the feeder linked to the microchip on their collars. There’s a lid that only opens up when the right cat is at the right feeder. Once the cat leaves, the lid closes.

For the first week, I kept the feeders unplugged and just let them free-feed as normal. I wanted them to get used to the feeders before we moved on to the scary part! Then, last Saturday, I put their collars on and closed the lids, but since Eloise kept taking her collar off, I decided to give her a break from the collar and keep the lids open. Monday morning, I tried again! I tightened up Eloise’s collar and put it on her, and she hasn’t taken it off since then. I closed the lids and they were curious about the opening and closing mechanism, but wouldn’t eat from their bowl. In the evening, I opened the lids and then kept them open for a few days to show them that the feeders were their friends!

(At this point, I also moved Eloise’s feeder so it’s on the opposite side of the hallway. They were only eating from the right feeder when the lid was open, and some Googling led me to believe the problem was the corner location.)

First location 

New location

Thursday, I closed the lids again and they were still a little wary, so I decided to serve them a little bit of Churu in bowls and place the bowls in front of their respective feeders. Eloise went first and as she started chowing down, her feeder lid opened and she was a little perturbed, but not enough to abandon her yum-yums. And then Lila did the same. I figured I’d just keep giving them treats in front of their feeders until they figured out that they didn’t have to be scared of them. But because my girls are geniuses, they figured it out quickly and both started eating from their feeders last night. I think we finally might be on the path to feeder independence. Fingers crossed!

5) Weekend plans

It’s the freakin’ weekend! It’s been a long week, especially getting back into the swing of things after such a long time off work. Tonight, I’m going over to my mom’s to watch the premiere episodes of The Traitors US. (YAYYYY!) Tomorrow, I have book club and then I’ll spend the rest of the day at my mom’s to watch playoff football. And Sunday is a writing date and then more playoff football!

Categories: Holidays, Recurring Series

Five for Friday | Holiday Favorites

1) Balsam fir candles

If I can’t have a real tree in my home, at least it can smell like I do! I love hoarding balsam fir candles, even though I only want to burn them in December. It’s my go-to December scent, and it makes my apartment smell so cozy and Christmassy! I have tried many different brands for these candles, but Bath & Body Works consistently has the strongest scent.

2) Pepperidge Farm Mini Gingerman Cookies

Until a few years ago, I didn’t think I liked gingerbread anything. And then I tried a gingerbread cookie and my mind was blown. Gingerbread is so tasty! I’m on a mission to eat gingerbread everything, so when I saw a package of these cookies on an endcap at my local Publix, I snapped it up and now I am fully obsessed. Right now, Publix is selling four packages of these cookies for $5, and I have bought way too many of them in the past few weeks. I am officially banned from buying any more!

3) Automatic lights

This one goes to Elisabeth, who introduced me to the concept of smart plugs, which has truly changed my life. I always thought I couldn’t have a “smart” house since I’m in an apartment, but yes, yes I can! With these smart plugs, I can turn my lights on and off with my voice or using an app. And even better, I can set my Christmas lights to turn on and off automatically. Do you know how many times I’ve left my Christmas lights off because I’m too lazy to plug them in every single night? Too many. Now, the lights turn on at 5 p.m. every night and it feels so magical. When they turn on, I announce to the cats, “Merry Christmas!” every evening, and I am sure they love that as much as I do.

4) Wrapping presents

I love wrapping presents. I like to think I’m good at it and I like the challenge of wrapping gifts that are more uniquely shaped. I don’t know if I’m good enough to wrap presents at one of those Christmas wrapping kiosks, but I can’t lie and say I haven’t thought about how much I would enjoy doing that for a few hours on a weekend. I always wish I had more presents to wrap every Christmas season, so yes, I will come to your house and wrap all your presents!

5) All things peppermint

I mean, what is more Christmas than peppermint? Peppermint mochas, peppermint hot chocolate, peppermint creamer, peppermint cookies, peppermint frosting, peppermint treats… give me all of the peppermint! Chocolate and peppermint is my all-time favorite combination, and I love that I have so many options during the holiday season!

What’s one of your holiday favorites this year?

Categories: Recurring Series

TGIF (v. 80)

The high of my week was receiving the sweetest Christmas present from Kim! It was such a thoughtful present. She got me an Anne of Green Gables book vase, which is my all-time favorite book (I’m collecting multiple editions of the book, so it’s going to have the perfect place on my shelf! AND – she not only bought me the cutest cat-themed bookmarks, but also painted a rock to correspond with each cat. !!! My heart just exploded. It was the sweetest, most thoughtful gift, and I am forever grateful to have a friend like Kim in my life.

The low of my week was more hip pain. Well, you guys, the steroid injections did not work. I am feeling pretty defeated about it because I am so tired of dealing with chronic pain. I’ve been spending a lot of time trying to figure out why the steroid injections didn’t work, and there’s not a clear answer. It could be that I don’t have bursitis but rather gluteal tendinopathy, but I don’t really have the risk factors for that condition and physical therapy (which I’ve been doing for two months!) is supposed to help. I also started a different prescription anti-inflammatory (meloxicam), so I’m waiting to see if that makes a difference. Anyway, I’m back to doing PT twice a week, and will probably schedule a follow-up with my ortho in the next week or so if I’m still having a lot of pain.

I’m currently reading three books. I have just an hour and a half left in the audiobook of The Correspondent by Virginia Evans. IT IS SO GOOD. The hype is real! I’m also working my way through 11/22/63 by Stephen King, which I’m buddy-reading with Lisa. If we read a chapter a day every day of December, we’ll finish it by the end of the year! I’m a few days behind in my reading, but planning on getting caught up this weekend. And I also started Every Last One by Anna Quindlen. I’m only 50 pages in, but the writing style is so soothing.

A Reel I loved was this adorable video from one of my favorite cat accounts, Mr. Milo the Chonk. This cat is my everything.

A show I watched this week was RuPaul’s Drag Race! For my birthday, one of my friends gifted me a ticket to A Drag Queen Christmas, which will showcase many different drag queens from RuPaul’s Drag Race. She recommended that I watch the latest season of Drag Race so I could get to know some of the queens. I might have a new obsession?! It’s so good!

The best money I spent this week was $80 on a premium subscription to Diabolical Lies. This is one of my new favorite podcasts, and I’ve been working my way through their backlist of episodes to get caught up. Each episode is about two hours long and is incredibly well-researched and interesting. Some of the most recent episodes include topics like biblical womanhood, the rise and fall of capitalism, reactionary feminism, and the male loneliness epidemic. Sometime last year, they launched a premium subscription, and I haven’t been able to listen to any of those episodes, even though every single one sounds so interesting to me. I told myself I would buy a premium subscription once I was all caught up with their free episodes, and that happened this week! It was time to pay up, so I bought an annual membership, and I couldn’t be happier. I feel good about supporting these creators, even more so knowing they give 33% of their subscription earnings to support causes that mean a lot to me.

My plans this weekend include dog-sitting duty! Bri needed someone to watch her sweet puppers this weekend, and I was the lucky winner. I’ll be hanging out at her place, snuggling her doggos and cozying up on her luxurious couch, for the weekend. But I also have some other fun plans, like a massage on Friday afternoon, Olive and Eleni’s dance recital, and football with the fam. It’ll be a nice weekend!

What was the high of your week?

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